Kissing.

[evilpanda]

okay, it's five in the morning, i've been awake all night and i'm high as hell. here's my random thought. :tong:

when i see two women kiss, i'm turned on because THEY are turned on. but, also, because it makes me imagine myself kissing a guy and how much that turns ME on. Lately, watching straight people kiss has seemed... uninteresting. :cool:

while googling images of hot guys kissing (and, discovering that Pete Doherty looks really good kissing a dude), i realized something that seems kind of unfair. two girls kissing is hot to guys, no matter what (as long as it's real and not porno kissing), but i don't think as many girls would react the same way to seeing two hot guys make out. I have a lot of female friends and not once have i ever heard them say gay snogging is sexy. :eek:

of course, maybe i'm wrong. i hope so because i'm kind of an exhibitionist at heart and i get off on having an audience. i'd be kind of bummed if the ladies didn't enjoy the show, because, let me tell you, i am a damned good kisser. we're talking vampire-good. ;)

[Dano111]

This has come up before. I really don't enjoy kissing a guy on the mouth, however I will kiss him other places. My GF wants to watch me blow a guy, though would not like kisses. I really don't understand all the issues, kissing to me seems so intimate and is meant for that special person.

Watch the movie Pretty Woman. However a kiss today for me would go a long way.

[eddy10]

I think you were addressing your question to the women. But, I guess I'll give my answer anyway. A good sensual kiss is a good sensual kiss, no matter whether it is F-F, M-M, or M-F. I enjoy them all. Especially if I am one of the participants.

[networktech]

I have been the type of person in the past not to kiss another man, would do everything else though, but not kiss. Now that I'm older now, kissing really doesn't seem so bad. Haven't yet though, but could I let it happen?

[PearlGirl]

I know lots of lesbians and bi women who LOVE or prefer gay male porn over other genres and who get turned on watching two guys kiss. There seem to be many lesbians in my area who watch gay male porn almost exclusively. My :2cents: on he issue. *Grin*

[alegrias]

I haven't seen a LOT of porn, but from what I've seen, it appears that it's more common to see 2 women kissing than 2 men. (Maybe that's because my hubby bought most of what I've seen. See below.) Even in mainstream culture, it seems more acceptable for 2 women to kiss, etc. So we're getting used to seeing 2 women together. 2 men kissing still seems a little unnatural to most people, I think.

I'm a happily married bi female. My husband totally satisfies my desire to be with a man. Therefore, I rarely fantacize about or even look at other men. I don't care if they're kissing a man or a woman. Why have a fantasy about something that I can have whenever I want it? I am more interested in seeing 2 women together, because that hasn't happened to me yet.

I guess you could say my hubby is bi-curious, but mostly straight. He is totally turned on by watching 2 women together doing a variety of things, including kissing. On the other hand, the image of 2 guys kissing turns him off. He doesn't want to kiss or caress a man either. However, he does want to suck another man's cock, and I'd love to watch . . .

[Bi-Zarro]

I know lots of lesbians and bi women who LOVE or prefer gay male porn over other genres and who get turned on watching two guys kiss. There seem to be many lesbians in my area who watch gay male porn almost exclusively. My :2cents: on he issue. *Grin*

I've heard about this. It isn't true for my (few) lesbian friends, who don't even watch porn, really. So part of me wants to find these lesbians who love watching man-fucking and ask: ladies...please explain?

[MikeC]

Here's what happened in my case: I never in my life thought I would ever kiss another guy. But my male lover wanted to try it and I thought, "If I can have his cock in my mouth, why not his tongue?" So I tried it, and after that it was a regular part of our lovemaking. In fact, we always started with kissing. The sensation is the same as kissing a woman...only stronger.
My wife, who's ok with my bisexuality, was aware of everything he and I did together, except the kissing. I never told her, and I'm not sure why. But if she were ever present to watch me and a male lover, I wouldn't hold back. I'm sure she would find it ok...just like every other aspect of mm sex.

[BiKissingBandit]

Two of any gender kissing is hot if done sensually .... two guys kissing can be totally hot when both start off gentle and then allow the male dominant trait take over ..... lips slamming together ...... smoking HOT !!

[jamieknyc]

I have only kissed a guy once. But I enjoyed it a great deal. What impressed me the most about it was how natural it felt doing it.

If you had asked me beforehand if I could have kissed a guy, I would have said no way. But when it happened, it turned out that I pushed the guy down onto the bed and thrust my tongue deep in his mouth, while my hands felt his naked body.

[darkeyes]

I know lots of lesbians and bi women who LOVE or prefer gay male porn over other genres and who get turned on watching two guys kiss. There seem to be many lesbians in my area who watch gay male porn almost exclusively. My :2cents: on he issue. *Grin*
Ya dus?? mus b sum rite strange dykes ova the pond... ova 'ere we nev wotch owt likely 2 giv us nitemares or land us in hosp seriously sik...:tong: Bi wimmen mayb.. but not lesbians.. think this anotha piece a man propaganda that all we need is a nice bitta willie an all will b well...:eek:;)

[PearlGirl]

I've heard about this. It isn't true for my (few) lesbian friends, who don't even watch porn, really. So part of me wants to find these lesbians who love watching man-fucking and ask: ladies...please explain?

Maybe it's more of West Coast/Bay Area thing Bi-Zarro. No "man propaganda" that I know of Dark Eyes just different strokes for different folks as far as I can tell. Most of these folks are dyed-in-the-wool lesbians...just like the intensity of the gay male porn for some reason.

[pasht]

This is an issue that has been bugging me for quite some time... I hate those double standards!!


Last week my male lover and I had a threesome with another guy, and though it was pretty hot, the guy didn't want to kiss my lover (but he did kiss me). Pitty: Watching two men kiss - and more... - is a huge turn-on for me! So I guess we had fun but could have had much more fun if the energy could flow equally in all directions!


I'm a big fan of queer porn (preferably independent "real" porn like no fauxx), and MM-porn turns me on more than FF porn usually. I prefer FF in real life I guess ;) I have some lesbian or bi-friends that feel the same about MM-porn, so I think it's not completely untrue that lesbians can be into MM gay porn.



I think it's the "same-sex-attraction" that does it for me. It's... something special, something extra hot because it's not so common, there is something "forbidden" about it that makes it a turn-on for me.

And another thing is that I don't always feel very female. Although many ppl see me as a "feminine" type of woman, I sometimes feel ... male energies? I can make love to my lover (who is mostly into other men) feeling like a man - sometimes even use a strap-on :bigrin: I don't feel we are having "straight" sex then, it feels queer (and fantastic :) )!

My lovers gender is "fluid" too: he can feel very feminine sometimes. Those times, we can make love as if we were FF! When I close my eyes, touching him feels like touching a woman, and it brings a whole new "drive" in our sexuality.


That's one of the MANY reasons why I prefer bi/ queer men over straight men for sex/ relationships...: the versatility!

[evilpanda]

And another thing is that I don't always feel very female. Although many ppl see me as a "feminine" type of woman, I sometimes feel ... male energies? I can make love to my lover (who is mostly into other men) feeling like a man - sometimes even use a strap-on :bigrin: I don't feel we are having "straight" sex then, it feels queer (and fantastic :) )!

My lovers gender is "fluid" too: he can feel very feminine sometimes. Those times, we can make love as if we were FF! When I close my eyes, touching him feels like touching a woman, and it brings a whole new "drive" in our sexuality.


That's one of the MANY reasons why I prefer bi/ queer men over straight men for sex/ relationships...: the versatility!

That's exactly how I feel. You hit the nail right on the noggin there.

I'm not extremely effeminate or girly, but I don't feel male all the time. I have that female energy a lot of the time that makes me feel sexy. When kissing a guy, that energy is so strong and overwhelming. It's the only time I can really be sexy and feel completely confident, at least recently.

You ladies have some sort of sexual chi or Allspark or something that gives you this energy. With my first, and to date, only male lover, I felt that this-is-so-forbidden-but-i-am-in-control-and-i-like-it! feeling.

[the sacred night]

I definitely beat off to vids of two men kissing on a regular basis... and I know plenty of other females that are turned on by it, whether or not they follow through like I do!

[jem_is_bi]

My male partner does not like kissing me or me kissing him on the lips. But he definitely does not complain when I kiss just about every other part of his body, nibble on his ear and drive him wild with pleasure with my mouth and tongue on his tits. So, I am happy. Further, rather than kisses on the lips, that is my preference with women too.