Sorry for the weird question

[lucysky]

but how old were you when you lost your virginity???
With opposite or same sex.

I was just curious to know.

[bythewaydoitall]

13 I was molesteed but liked it.

[Patrick43]

With a woman... I was about 25 or so.

With a male... that is a matter of opinion. We were "playing" before anybody could climax. I don't think that quite counts.

Would it count (about 14) when I shot my first load with another boy?
Maybe later when another boy shot his load??

-Pat

[evilpanda]

I lost my straight virginity at 16, just a couple weeks shy of my 17th birthday.

My gay cherry, however... three days before Prop 8 got passed. Irony.
:bipride:

[DiamondDog]

I was very young when I did something sexual with a guy who was a peer and we were friends at the time.

No it wasn't rape, molestation, and nobody was forced at all and I knew exactly just why I wanted to do this, and what we were doing.

[wefco2315]

with a woman...23...and knowing what I know now...I would be an absolute slut in high school if I could do it all over..

With a man...still looking

[45&424u]

I was 14 when i lost my virginity with a woman.. she was actually a woman and not a girl.. she was 31.. my best friends neighbor.

I was 45 when i lost my virginity with a man, last weekend.

[sdnaustin]

straight: 18 (not for a lack of trying from 14 on)

gay: depends on what you count...was 12 when a friend and I ould get naked and showoff, touch the other some, but mostly just looking...no cum...I was 22 before I gave my first blow job and tried anal

[alegrias]

I was about 19 (that was almost 30 yrs ago), with opposite sex. I'm still looking forward to my first female.

[curious44]

With a woman, it was a prostitute. I was 17 or 18. I rode with an older neighbor guy to Braidwood IL (near Joliet). She sucked me until I was ready to cum, then I fucked her. The whole experience probably didn't last longer than a few minutes.
With guys it was kind of an evolution. I had a couple JO and suck buddies in 7th or 8th grade. We didn't cum in each others mouths. At 15 I had an "affair" of sorts that lasted for several weeks during the summer with an older (40s?).man. Most of the time he sucked me off to completion. I sucked him but he never came in my mouth. We tried anal once but I just wasn't ready. I guess you could say I was "molested" but I kept going back for more and remember it fondly.
I can't remember exactly when I started seeking out male partners, but by the time I was in my late 20s I had a few. My most active years were in my mid 30s/mid 50s.

[Realist]

At 14...I was seduced by an older male neighbor. He discussed it with me for some time before he asked me if he could teach me about sexuality. I thought I was ready and loved every minute I spent with him. I know that today it probably would have never happen........and probably shouldn't have.

I was too young and immature to understand the ramifications of having so much pleasure thrust upon me. It was some time before I understood that responsibilities come with knowledge like that.

Even more remarkable, when I was 15, his 40 year old married daughter was my first female. As far as I know, neither ever knew I'd been with the other; I certainly never told.

[trubipoly]

11 years old with girls and 14 with boys.

[Doggiestyle]

My first time with the oppsite sex was when about 14 - 15 maybe? I really can't remember for shure, but it was about then. I was in Junior High (now middle school) & this new girl moved to town & was in one of my class-es. I did not pay much attention to her then, but she looked good to me...:love:... But later I saw her at a convience store close to my house. We talked a bit & the next thing you know she was takin off my clothes...:love87:... We did screw quite a bit & while I did not realize this, she was screwing everbody. I don't think that girl could git enough. Rumors got around & the next thing you know she was Miss Red Bank Jr High. Then she got in a fight with a girl for steallin her b-frnd & when she got to the office, in order to git outta trouble, well you just could not guess what she suggested to the principal !!! Ah yes she was a nice one & I really did like her. She disappeared bout as fast as she showed up. Her dad in prison & her mom busted for prostitution, she got sent to a home. I can remember vividly the when & where of all our git togethers. Ya know I wouldin't mind doin it again........DAMM........WOW.......Hey I gotta have a B R B.:rotate:

Ahhhhh yessssss I'me back, sorry bout the interruption. Uhhhhhh where were we? Oh yes about your first time...:bigrin:

My first time with the same sex was when I was about 16. There was a funeral home close to home that sponsored a 24 hour ambulance service. during the day was business as usual. But at nite the ambulance guys would party down. They were all bisexual & or gay, drank a lot & were crazy as hell. (Especially when they got in the ambulance on a emergency call). I would see them occasionally, got to know them, & the next thing you know I was a regular there. For me first it was them givin me drinks, them blowjobs, then the next thing you know I was into the orgys with the rest of them. That summer I became a regular part time employee & ridding on emergency calls. We were'nt trained E M T's & we barely knew about basic first aide. And what we really were was a delivery service. This was in the late 60's before the time of real ambulances & real, trained EMT's Now I really feel sorry about some of the patents we took to the hospital. We were really just a bunch of drunken queers driveing a delivery wagon..:yikes2:.. I can even remember of a few times of wakin up after passin out in a casket there. I can remember vividly that adventure, the times, places, even the wild rides on the meat wagon... :wacko: ...that I I I I gotta, need-ta, gonna, just Jizzzzzzzzzzzzzeeeeeeeeeeeeddddddddddd in my pantys..:tong:...

Damm this has been quite a adventure for me whewwwww To much been said allready, gotta go, I'me tired, think I'll go to sleep for a while.


So BI BI Everbody, see ya all in the funny papers.


Your friend.......Doggie.........:doggie:........:flag3 :

[Isaac Steel]

I was 16 with a girl and 23 with a guy.:bibounce:

[wolfcamp]

I was molested by an old next door neighbor guy when I was about five. He felt me up and sucked me. A few years later when I was 7 or 8 a kid from across the block and who was a year older than me talked me into a game of show me yours and I'll show you mine. We felt each other up and sucked each other. It was many years later that I realized that the old molester probably nailed my friend too. It probably started us down the same path. I had another friend who hung out in that neighborhood. We also had some play sessions later in grade school. I wonder how many of my friends that old guy got to, and I wonder how many might be bi now because of it.

I was 18 and in college when I had sex with my first girl, across the front seat of my 69 Mustang. I was kind of shy in high school.

[lucysky]

WOW!
Thanks for all your responses.
I was molested at 7, that's probably why I still never had real sex.

[Falke]

With a girl: 17
With a guy: N/A

[gurlydon]

I was nine with a boy, but you could hardly call it sex. We could not penetrate one another's little bottoms. I was eleven with two girls and we did get into one another's tops and bottoms. And I was thirteen when I learned even more about sex with an older woman who was forty. All my experiences were absolutely wonderful. I wish I could re-experience them now.

G

[Apleasureseeker]

Good question, actually! You know, most of what Freud said is outdated or just plain wrong, but he did observe that children go through a homosexual phase befire they hit puberty/heterosexuality. Nearly every boy I know went through a period of boy on boy exploration, even if they were driven towards girls, since for most of us, girls were just unapproachable. I don't think it has any bearing on later life. Otherwise, every man in the world would be gay.

I remember always being powerfully sexual from an early age, and always powerfully attracted to girls, but until they girls were ready, the sex-energy occasionally clicked with another boy and led to a little exploration. Oddly, I was much less interested in bisex than most of the other boys, and yet I'm the one on the bisexual chatlist. From puberty on, I was totally consumed (whenever possible!) by girls. Only after I hit my late 30s, still powerfully in search of sexual adventures that i started to consider what several of my girl friends had been begging for--my considering exploring cock. It's been more of a conscious reprogramming of myself than a natural desire, but I'm really enjoying what little I've expereinced.

[darkeyes]

..its in forums sumwer else..but wos 14 2 me then bf..'e had 2 hav 2 goes fore 'e cud manage.. an then it wos so amazin an wondaful.. 'e didn get a 3rd an became an x bf...

[Dano111]

A friend and I would masturbate together though never tried anything. I know wish I would had. I did make his cousin and date her for 5 years. I was nearly 17.

At 21 I had a guy knock on my motel door. doing repairs. Long story though he asked if he could stay and watch TV for a while. He climbed into bed than began stroking me, I didn't rufuse. Then I went down on him. I did not have another experience for 20 years.

Now I love sex, male and female. I love the fact you know when a male has a good time. So to speak. Women sometime fake. I love the thought of a guy filling my mouth not only with a hard cock, though the pressure of cum against my tounge is to me a real turn on. Oh well, theese are my thoughts today

[lovedoctor]

16 with a girlfriend
25 with a guy (only 2 of them so far)

[jamieknyc]

20 with the opposite sex.

With the same sex, I had a teenage fooling-around experience with a guy (16 maybe) and one in adulthood.

[drawingboard3]

17 with the opposite sex...

[innaminka]

With a guy - 18
with a woman - 29.

I'm now 47

[darkrose287]

I lost my straight virginity at 15, and my gay one at 16

[Sebastian1977]

When I was about 13 a friend's parents went on vacation so he invited a few friends over to the house to raid the liquor cabinet. We got totally drunk and I slept in the same bed with another guy. We felt each other up and I gave him a blow job but there was no cum. I don't think he remembered the incident the next day. At least we never spoke of it.

At 16 yrs old I traded blow jobs in a bus with a guy I met on a greyhound bus from NYC to Boston. At 18 yrs old was the first time I was penetrated by another man...that first time was very unpleasant.

I still haven't been with a woman but I am looking forward to that first experience.

[eods29]

I know its kinda crazy now that I think about it, but I had to be about 14 when I started trying things out with my friends that were boys. I was 16 or so when I was with a girl. The boys were fun. We'd play truth or dare or something similar to get each other off. THAT was alot of fun.

[coyotedude]

My first time with a guy (same gender) was 12.

My first time with a lady (opposite gender) was 17.

Irony: I didn't actually consider myself "bisexual" until I was 23, even though I'd had more experience with guys than with women by that point. Go figure....

Peace

[bimarried40m]

My first time with a girl was when I was 18, with a guy it was at 35.

[BiBear4U]

Same Sex - with a guy : Sucked my first Dick at 11 Older Kid - loved it immediately. First Boyfriend at 14 and were buddies through high school. First time I bottomed and received anal was in college -- spring break in Daytona Beach. Got nailed more than a few times that weeked and loved it!

Opposite Sex: Oral Sex- giving and receiving at 16 with my girlfriend, doing it by 18.

First MMF thresome at 46 with my wife and a buddy of ours... It just keeps gettin better and better!!!! :BiBounce:

[verycuriousmale]

My first with a woman was when I was 15. I had a friend that was 21 and he was dating a 26 year old. They asked me to join them and we had a three some together.

Still waiting on that first taste of cock in my mouth. I am longing for it though. My wife has used a strap-on on me and I can't wait for a real cock in there either.

[jem_is_bi]

I was 20 the first time I had sex with an 18 yr old woman.
I was very much younger the first time I had sex with another boy. I was the instigator of that activity. Afterward, realizing that, I would be severely disciplined if caught (understatement of the physical punishment I would have endured), I did not continue. Through, teens, 20's, 30's and 40's, the biological urge to have children kept women sexually interesting to me even though I have always been more interested in sex with men. While not fantastic, sex, with women was definitely fun and women are so beautiful to look at and more sensual than men. The first time I had sex with a man was not until I was 58 yrs old.

[reno_cleve]

:2cents:by female: 21
by male: 12 and I was molested as well and turned out to like it as well
to bad I am still closeted

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

12. And in not a fun way. With the opposit sex? 16, in a Fun way..lol
Cat

[DubTak]

Girl: Oral at 14? 15? Full Coitus at 17

Guy: Fooling around pre-puberty.
Also, everything but full on sex, about....4-5 months ago

I be 22

-DubTak

[courtahhknee319]

hmm lets see. my best friend (girl) and i were kissing and stuff when we were like 4 and it escalated till we stopped haning out around like 8 or 9. then i started messing around with my aunts boyfriends daughter from a previous marriage till i was maybe 13, that got REALLY wierd when my aunt married her dad. but again we werent REALLY related and i knew her before the even dated.

lost my virginity to a girl when i was 14 and then lost my virginity to a guy (opposite sex) when i was 15. that wasnt pleastent mainly because i was doing it to piss of the guy i wanted to give it up to but he dumped me.

ironically that guy that i "pissed off" is now my fiance =] and sex with him is amazing! lol

[jfra18]

13 with another guy
and 16 with a woman in a mfm threesome

[Bi-Zarro]

With a guy: 18. With a gal: 20.

[donnydarko]

whoa its nice to hear from other people's expriences... that way we don't feel alone. well to be honest i always knew i liked guys and girls since i was little but i didnt know wat that was called 0_o so yea i was probably much confused a long time. im a 20 yr old bisexual guy.

umm i did it the first time with a guy (my first bf) at age 16, just once and then at 17 i was forced on by an older guy and that ended up being my second and my last sexual experince ever. i did date 2 other guys but had no sexual stuff with them. i felt too weird and distrusting of men, and i started to feel ashmed to be bisexual and to be a man. i didnt want anything to do with men.

i still havent had sex with women and a part of me wants to and a part of me doesn't. most likely im scared because of my bad experiences with men. i dated one girl but i didnt feel anything for her, i had strong sexual thoughts for her but i didnt love her. after we broke up i decided to be celibate until i actually do find someone i fall with and i guess here i am just waiting and i dont care how long i got to wait.

[cogregg]

my first time with a guy was just shy of 16.
my first time with a girl was about 2 weeks later.

[frikidiki]

My first intercourse was at age 18 with a transsexual friend--biologically male, socially female, as I used to say. It would've likely happened with this same person two or three years prior, and she saw our sex as unfinished business. I have to admit that the sex was pretty good, but having lost my virginity to a transsexual instead of a natural-born woman really bothered me for a long time.

My first intercourse with a woman was at age 20, and with a man at age 27. Both of these were pretty bad, and I don't count them as any significant sexual awakening otherwise.

These were not my first sexual experiences, though. I actuall started very early. The first was when I was just 7 years old, and almost resulted in a loss of virginity. Over the next year or so, I asked my girlfriend at that time to have sex with me (of course, she didn't), and I hit puberty!

From age 11 to about 15, I had an on-off girlfriend that I made out with a lot and was the first woman I ever put fingers to; she also would've been my first except for circumstances. Then there was the first non-het experience at age 16 with the same transsexual person who would ultimately claim my virginity a couple of years later.

I've had lots of other firsts, myself, but I've already gone on long enough. All of my firsts taken together mean more to me than simply counting my loss(es) of virginity. Quite frankly, I'd rather think about having my future firsts and next times. :-D

[SJ37AndSteph]

i was 18 with a male when i lost my virginity and i was fourteen when i did my first oral with a female

[hudson9]

OK -- definition of terms: "first time" meaning mutually induced orgasms.

w/ female -- about 2 weeks before my 21st birthday
w/ male -- at age 44

What can I say -- I'm a late bloomer.