Honored or insulted ?

[guycurious]

Ladies,

If your husband wanted to share you with another male would you feel:

1) Honored
2) Insulted

and why ?

[alegrias]

Honored, but only if we share a lady as well (at the same time). We have a couple in mind, actually. Just waiting for the opportunity to get together.:bigrin:

[grayhound]

I personally think the POLL should have been worded differantly.

Why be onesided?

Should it not have been worded partner instead of husband, and shared with other people instead of just another man?

IMHO it is a two way street

[onewhocares]

I agree with Grayhound....wording the poll as if your partner wanted to share you...would you be honored or insulted.

For me, I have always felt special when I have been asked to join with my partner and another. It has not happened in a long while as our shared lover has other obligations that do not allow us to be together, but when it did happen I found it very empowering and a boost to myself esteem. It was in fact the other man that gave me much of the confidence I have today. From he an my Jester I have have gain much knowledge about myself.

Belle

[rissababynta]

i would not be insulted but i don't know if i would go so far as feeling honored. i only piked honred cause there was no in between

[TrustUs]

Honored, what's better than 2 men at the same time??!! Jen :tong:

[guycurious]

I personally think the POLL should have been worded differantly.

Why be onesided?

Should it not have been worded partner instead of husband, and shared with other people instead of just another man?

IMHO it is a two way street

I'll add a twist to this in a couple of days......

[DiamondDog]

There are too many variables to answer this question properly.

Such as it would depend on who I'm in a relationship with, what our relationship is like, how long we've been together, what if anything we were going to do with the other person, how we both felt about the relationship, and other things.

Not to mention that I'm not the only one who thinks that it's pointless that you asked women only. :2cents:

[innaminka]

Soerry, I know that the survey is simplistic, but I would be completely insulted.
he knows my views on the group sex thing (NOT!!) and for him to suggest a sharing would indicate he cares nothing for my wishes.

I am certainly no angel - nor is he, but we have long, agreed on "rules" and a successful marriage because of them.

[Metzli]

Id be neither honored nor insulted aslong as hes happy im happy :)

[ghytifrdnr]

The question is directed to wives, but it looks like a lot of guys are voting.

[vittoria]

LOL!

I picked "insulted"... for very Perry Mason/Sherlock Holmes reasons!

Some dOOds like to set their women up for BS! ( and vice verse!) Next thing you know it would probably be about "ooo i saw the way you looked at him/her " blah blah blah... "you never moaned like that for me" blah blah blah... then there would possibly be a thread on here about how some dOOd ( or chick) wanted a threesome with all involved and the partner got jealous of the act in some way or another. IMHO and :2cents:

[Realist]

My reaction to the question, exactly, Vittoria!

Since I'm a male and wasn't asked the question, I didn't reply. But it's the "Ol' grass on the other side of the fence" issue. It ain't always as green and luscious as it seems!

If my loved one needs to check out the other side, it will have to be her idea; she may come and go as she wishes.

My job is only to love her.

I'm not one to "pimp her out", so to speak. She is a free agent and allowed to make her own decisions and does as her needs dictate.

'Nuff said.............................

[Ava Bonderov]

Personally, I would be happy to share him, and for him to share me with a female.

[Randy from Pa]

I'm only guessing at this, as being a guy, but it could start off as honored ,BUT turn insulting quickly,and the moment turns ugly. And as said before, wife/g/f would have to iniciate it. Just my 2:2cents:

[lbsummer]

We would both be thrilled to share the other one with guy or girl or multiples. The problem would be hidden agenda's for one(s) coming in. We literally just experienced this and it sucked/hurt. We love each other deeply, trust each other completely and love for the other to be pleasured and pleased. Why do whack jobs want to screw with people? Love and pleasure! Right?!:disgust::disgust::disgust:

[the sacred night]

I would be insulted if he worded it like that and said he wanted to "share me" like I'm a fucking pizza, but if he said it in a nice way and asked me to have a threesome, I'd be cool with that. I don't know about honored, I guess it depends on how big a deal it is for him to come up with the courage to ask me.

[Lisa (va)]

Don't think I would be insulted nor honored, probably have a heart attack.

[fairbankswingers]

Honored: seeings how we are swingers we share each other with other lovers all the time and totally enjoy the experiences.

[mindfinding]

Very interesting responses. Funny how the mind interprets questions, intents, and thoughts of other people. A very good gradient of thought here.

[trubipoly]

i think the key word is share. i would be honored that he thought I was worth sharing. I am a man married to a woman and would be honored if she though i was worth sharing with a man or a woman or both ahh what the hell all aboard?

[curious44]

In our swinging days I always got excited by others (men & women) who wanted my wife. It was a turn-on for me because it helped me feel like she was special. "You can have sex with this exciting sexy woman tonight but I get to have her any time I want to." We had no rules when we partied and some times I didn't see her for hours. But on the way home I wanted to hear every detail about everything she did. By the time I got home I was so horny for her because I knew all these people found my wife desirable. We always finished the evening with the best sex of the evening-each other!

[daveski]

I put myself in a hypothetical relationship with another man in order to awnser this question, and I would feel not left out in that circumstance, certainly not insulted.;)

[newbie40]

I think like Trubipoly, if my wife of 28 yrs wanted to share me with anyone, I would be honoured. I love her more than anything, and I know she loves me. If she wanted to do this, it would be out of love, and that would honour me... and her.