Guys or gals, ever bring a female to tears after mindblowing sex?

[nc_wsbi101]

I thought if I asked this question here, i should get a range of answers. After all, I have no place else to go and get an honest answer.
If you have, does it make you feel a little uncomfortable or like maybe you want to run to the next county? LMAO

I have been brought to tears after passionate lovemaking..but i am very emotional to start with. I don't cry because I sad, it's just an emotional release, I suppose. Seems like it makes my partner uncomfortable.

How does it make you guys feel when you can give her such intense, desirable, pleasure, that she crys? Just wondering....damn....should I try to hide it or hold it back? or just let er rip? ROTF :confused::female:

dorie

[DiamondDog]

Just wondering do you find someone crying to be sexy or erotic?

[trubipoly]

I dated a Girl that always cried after sex. she said the same thing , that it was am emotional release and not a sad thing. Don't know if it was that she was in love with me or because of the multiple orgasms from giving her oral
(she was a black woman that had nver recieved oral saying most black men dont eat pussy) I have found out that is not true though .

[nc_wsbi101]

DD, I'm a straight female, so I've never had a man cry afterwards, but I think if it ever happened, I would hold him close to me and comfort him....not run away. Erotic....probably not,... sexy....maybe so. I might be flattered that I touched him so deeply.



trubipoly, when she cried did you feel like running or did you hold her and comfort her?

[fairbankswingers]

Him: nope, but if a woman (or man) would I would be emotional as well and would hold her and prob start crying with her as to be that emotionally close to someone is special...very special
Her: never have, never seen...would be some awesome sex though to do that to me or for me to provide that to another woman or man :tong:

[_Joe_]

Only if I used mace.

[trubipoly]

NC I held her and shared the blissful feeling. whether it were tears of join or pain I would hold her/him

[PearlGirl]

For some people crying after sex can be about finally realizing that they deserve to have so much love and pleasure from another human being. Other times it could be a release of an old childhood emotion that was unexpressed and stayed stored in the body until it was released. Both are very healing and that kind of intimacy is rare.

Those are some great reasons to cry after sex that are bound to increase the intimacy between you both. If your partner is crying for other reasons it may be time to sit down and really communicate about what your partner is feeling and make sure that you both have healthy boundaries in place and feel safe expressing yourselves.

[alegrias]

No. But I've been brought to tears. The orgasms were so intense and beautiful, I laughed and cried all at once. (I would have screamed too, but our neighbors live too close & I didn't want them to call 911.) I think it's totally appropriate to shed tears during and after such a moving experience. Fortunately, my lover (my husband) understands.

My wish is for everyone on the planet to feel what my lover has helped me to feel.

[alegrias]

No. But I've been brought to tears. The orgasms were so intense and beautiful, I laughed and cried all at once. (I would have screamed too, but our neighbors live too close & I didn't want them to call 911.) I think it's totally appropriate to shed tears during and after such a moving experience. Fortunately, my lover (my husband) understands.

My wish is for everyone on the planet to feel what my lover has helped me to feel. Then world peace would become a reality.

[jem_is_bi]

No tears after sex for me. But I do get very loudly vocal with joy when my partner brings me to orgasmic climax and very much into hugs and hold him afterward. He is not so vocal, so I do the screaming for both of us.

[mannysg]

Only if I used mace.

ROFLMAO

[DiamondDog]

If I were doing B&D to someone or doing SM and they cried that's one thing.

However, if we were having vanilla sex and they cried after they came I'd be comforting to them; but a bit freaked out and I wouldn't want to have sex with them if they were like that all the time after we had sex.

[nc_wsbi101]

For some people crying after sex can be about finally realizing that they deserve to have so much love and pleasure from another human being. Other times it could be a release of an old childhood emotion that was unexpressed and stayed stored in the body until it was released. Both are very healing and that kind of intimacy is rare.

The orgasms were so intense and beautiful
I think it's totally appropriate to shed tears during and after such a moving experience.




Thank you everyone, who shared their opinion.
These two, I think, explains it very well. If it happens again, I go with the flow.

dorie

[rassilon953]

Not sure if i'm replying to the question or the conversation that has resulted from it.

If the original question then the fact that I haven't makes me question whether or not the sex that I thought was mindblowing actually was.

If the conversation arising, then no, but one of my absolute favourite sexual experiences ever involved us coming simultaneously and hugging each other in fits of laughter as a result, which is the flipside of the same thing - sex is emotional, end of.

[wikskul]

i have only brought one to tears.. and she was my wife. she also brought me to tears as well, and it was intence i have to say, cause it wasnt sad, angry or hateful tears. that was what means more to me then anything now that she is gone from this earth. I feel if u put enough love, passion, and try to become one ( corney i know) while making love, and u bring ur lover to tears, that memory can sustain u through ur life.
Just remember that it if she (or u) feel touched, loved, cared for, and protray that to ur lover, and she starts crying for the intence feelings she gets from u, then u are doing it right, dont run from it, just love her more for it. it can be the best feeling of ur life.

[guycurious]

I've brought women to tears after having sex with them. It happens when I tell them I don't have any money to pay them for their services !!!!

[donnydarko]

i would be uncomfortable with that and it would turn me off. y? because it would confuse me, and i get very weird watching ppl cryc cause it makes me sad and sex shouldnt be a sad thing lol

[boca.openminded]

different women orgasm differently.... some cry and some laugh and some even faint...

the first time a women laughed I was very young and did not understand what was going on. I thought I wasn't good but she told me it was the total opposite and she'd just had an orgasm.

I do not understand why some women are so uptight or holding back during sex. I'm saying this because every girl I had intercourse with (9 or 10) had some sort of mind blowing orgasm when she wanted to.

By no means am I saying I'm a stud or anything like that. Its just that I spend alot of time learning what she likes (every women likes it differently) and I have a curve to "it". The combination of the 2 makes for an intense orgasm but only when they let themselves go.

[frikidiki]

Nobody I've been with has cried, and neither have I, but minds and hearts have been pleasantly and intensely blown to the point of inspiration! A good orgasm shared with another, even if it's phone sex, will sometimes get me to giggling.

It seems to me that good sex is essential to our health in so many ways. Not to spark a religious debate, but I truly believe that's how God made us.

[Apleasureseeker]

I have a somewhat dominant streak with women, and I do get off on working a girl to transcend her own limitations. I'm usually not ven very concerned with my own orgasms. If I can give a woman a fully cathartic experience, emotionally, as well as physically, I'm a happy man. For some women, if the sex is intense, or if they have other personal issues & stresses tied up in their minds, giving them the chance to release it all in a secure environment with someone they trust is the gentlemanly thing to do. You can usually tell if, after sex, they're still emotionally charged. A simple, supporting caresswith the suggestion "you can cry now, if you want to," (or for naturally submissive girls: "Cry for me") is all the permission they need.

[writes at night]

I have never BROUGHT someone to tears during such a moment, but I will HAPPILY confess that I have had a lover who has envoked such pleasure that I have welled up at the memory of our time together.

I am not able to separate the physical and the emotional components of sex. Perhaps that is my feminine nature, but to have a time when you connected so deeply with a partner can't be anything BUT emotional.