rainbowmonk
Dec 19, 2008, 10:40 PM
Hey my friends,
I apologize for my need to once again vent. I feel the need though at this time to talk about something that has been on my mind for quite some time. I call it a domino effect of the social order of our society as we know it. now I may be mistaken but this is what I see.
It starts out with the post war baby boom, in this era men did not open up to their harts or mind to women because they felt they did not have to. This caused women to first numb their pain with ignorance or thing like what they called mamas little helper ( anti-depressants) .
The era after this was the rebellion of the 60's and 70' where the women of our society stood up and said that is enough and rightfully so. Men had to take a step back from their so called perfect world. It was a good thing; women and men were on the same field. The only problem now was there were no rules.
The 80's and 90's went by with flurry as we all tried to numb the pain with every designer drug to human kind.
Which brings us to the present men go to the local pick up spot doing what they know how to do...hunt or so to speak. Women go with the need to find their perfect man. This is all well and good except for the fact that when women go there advertising themselves as an easy mark and then get mad when the men they don't want hit on them. I guess that I need to explain myself in that aspect ... if a woman goes to the bar dressed scantily and then cries foul when the geek comes after them is not right in my terms.
In the same aspect men going to the bar looking shabby and expecting any girl they want to fall all over them is wrong too.
Where do we draw the line? When do follow some sort of decorum?
Why do men and women now compete on the social level thinking of only one thing?....What's in it for me?.... will anyone truly find the love of their life when they cant get past their jealous needs?
This is very irritating to me because usually I'm the one that hears the complaining but is cursed to sit on the side line even though I'm the nice guy. I just want to yell wake up world!!!!.
Thanks for listening and I know this will bring lots of rebuke but I'm ready for it..
Monk
I apologize for my need to once again vent. I feel the need though at this time to talk about something that has been on my mind for quite some time. I call it a domino effect of the social order of our society as we know it. now I may be mistaken but this is what I see.
It starts out with the post war baby boom, in this era men did not open up to their harts or mind to women because they felt they did not have to. This caused women to first numb their pain with ignorance or thing like what they called mamas little helper ( anti-depressants) .
The era after this was the rebellion of the 60's and 70' where the women of our society stood up and said that is enough and rightfully so. Men had to take a step back from their so called perfect world. It was a good thing; women and men were on the same field. The only problem now was there were no rules.
The 80's and 90's went by with flurry as we all tried to numb the pain with every designer drug to human kind.
Which brings us to the present men go to the local pick up spot doing what they know how to do...hunt or so to speak. Women go with the need to find their perfect man. This is all well and good except for the fact that when women go there advertising themselves as an easy mark and then get mad when the men they don't want hit on them. I guess that I need to explain myself in that aspect ... if a woman goes to the bar dressed scantily and then cries foul when the geek comes after them is not right in my terms.
In the same aspect men going to the bar looking shabby and expecting any girl they want to fall all over them is wrong too.
Where do we draw the line? When do follow some sort of decorum?
Why do men and women now compete on the social level thinking of only one thing?....What's in it for me?.... will anyone truly find the love of their life when they cant get past their jealous needs?
This is very irritating to me because usually I'm the one that hears the complaining but is cursed to sit on the side line even though I'm the nice guy. I just want to yell wake up world!!!!.
Thanks for listening and I know this will bring lots of rebuke but I'm ready for it..
Monk