Time to say to hell with it!

[PhysicalFriend33]

Well Its the same thing again this time around..meet someone hit it off set a couple dates he dont show or flat out "forgets" there was a date. This has been a pattern of mine for a long time.I can keep re-evaluating what I think I did wrong and try to do different each time but to no avail.

Many times i waited in restraunts only to have that humiliating solo meal at a table for two because the date never showed or waiting at Starbucks and nothing....This can happen so many times before a person can let it get to them. Well it got to me.I denied it happened. I got mad. I got depressed .I negotiated the problem in my head . Finally I just accepted the fact I am not meant to date or be happy.

I have been lied to toyed with and basically humiliated but now I decided no more. I am taking control and saying I aint doing this anymore. I am a generous human being who has been screwed over too many times to even care anymore. I am to the point I can trust no one. Basically after what happened AGAIN tonight my soul pretty much died.I feel emotionally dead now,I have nothing left to give. My only option now is live life alone which may very well be what I was destined for anyhow.

I just dont care anymore. I am done with trying to find someone.

[Realist]

I know you're depressed and disappointed, but relax and try to be patient. If you're like me, when you least expect it, someone will show up. I haven't had a lot of experience, but several of my lovers, both males and female, have fallen out of the blue. Hell, I recently met one of the nicest guys at Wal-Mart! WE haven't connected, yet, but we're in contact often and it seems to be heading that way. At least you've got friends, here!

[TaurusBeresford]

believe me, I completely understand where you're coming from on this subject. I myself am tired of guys running away for this or that other thing, and then not having the balls to tell me why or even discuss how they feel. I get quite a few guys telling me that I'm hot or sexy, but it's hard to believe them when they don't back it up with any action. I don't mean sex either, just keeping in contact and going out to do things together, getting to know each other more, and working towards making some kind of real relationship development is all that I want. I want to feel like the guy is going to be around for much longer than the one time piece of tail that most of them only seem to want, and at that, they want it pretty easily too, like quickly let's do this and be parting ways as fast as we can.

[pecker]

Excuse me if I'm wrong but..........Didn't you go to these places to at least get fucked?........Seams to to me that you haven't a lot to bitch about........JUST kidding I had to put this on here .....Don't quit.....Good luck