biplayfulcouple
Dec 5, 2008, 10:48 AM
we have been married for a long time and have been in "the lifestyle", for about 6 years. we are both pushing 50 but look 10 years younger and are in fairly good shape. since we came into the lifestyle, my wife has always been bi. she enjoys playing with guys as well as gals, but she is very picky and that limits, some of our play.
recently, in the last few years i have started to play bi as well. it began at the suggestion/dare of a couple, that we were playing with. it was in the heat of the moment and his wife dared me. my wife then grabbed his dick and challenged me; "go for it". seeing how turned on our wives, we ended up both playing manually and orally bi with each other. of course the girls played together and we all played with each other etc. my wife and i always play together; never separately. (we would never consider meeting a single male, bi or otherwise). i had no idea, how much, this would turn our wives on! and since it turns the gals on, it only makes it more exciting for the guys! whew!
since that first bi-male experience, we have subsequently found out, that some of our other play partners, enjoy bi-male play and we have played that way, with them too. we still play with them and it is "hush hush". it is SO not acceptable, to be "OUT" as a bi-playful guy, in the lifestyle! although as someone commented; you are seeing a little more of it, on some of the swinger social networking sites. im glad that some couples are seeing it for what it is; "just sex".
we run in a big circle of lifestyle pals. it is absolutely amazing to me and exciting for us, as man and wife; that i am engaging in this (mostly) secret behavior! we have been conditioned for so long, that this is wrong, taboo, etc. so my wife and it have never even considered it, or fantasized about it; heretofore (and we talk about EVERYTHING). ten, twenty years ago, i would have considered this behavior totally disgusting. now it is just part of "play" with our "couple-friends". it has added another dimension to our sex and fantasy life. its fun to talk about in the sack and it really gets our motors running. especially bi-anal sex, fantasies, with other couples. (we have never done that). in addition to conventional sexual behavior, we have always been anally oriented, in our marriage. dont come down on me, i know that anal is now (and always has been) extremely prevalent. it was just not talked about and not considered mainstream, by many.
like many of you gentlemen here on the board, i did engage in childhood "play" with other guys, (4th 5th grade); but never oral and never beyond that age. that would have surely meant, that we were "queer"! i was so nieve; that a childhood friend, actually had to teach me, how to jack off! LOL. i do remember it being extremely pleasureable and exciting, but that may have been the "rush", from the potential of being "caught". and as i matured, i put all of that experience in the rearview mirror and attributed it to raging hormones and "childhood". fortunately; unlike some of the posters on this board, i was never conflicted about my sexuality. i always knew that i was straight and that i loved women and was always attracted to them. the only problem that i had, as a child, was terrible "guilt"..........but that was with all "sex activities", male and female. with childhood and current "guy" play partners, there is no "attraction thing" whatsoever. its "just sex" and its in the context of our marriage and with other couples.
i'd really like to hear from other men and women and their experiences. and especially from lifestyle couples.
recently, in the last few years i have started to play bi as well. it began at the suggestion/dare of a couple, that we were playing with. it was in the heat of the moment and his wife dared me. my wife then grabbed his dick and challenged me; "go for it". seeing how turned on our wives, we ended up both playing manually and orally bi with each other. of course the girls played together and we all played with each other etc. my wife and i always play together; never separately. (we would never consider meeting a single male, bi or otherwise). i had no idea, how much, this would turn our wives on! and since it turns the gals on, it only makes it more exciting for the guys! whew!
since that first bi-male experience, we have subsequently found out, that some of our other play partners, enjoy bi-male play and we have played that way, with them too. we still play with them and it is "hush hush". it is SO not acceptable, to be "OUT" as a bi-playful guy, in the lifestyle! although as someone commented; you are seeing a little more of it, on some of the swinger social networking sites. im glad that some couples are seeing it for what it is; "just sex".
we run in a big circle of lifestyle pals. it is absolutely amazing to me and exciting for us, as man and wife; that i am engaging in this (mostly) secret behavior! we have been conditioned for so long, that this is wrong, taboo, etc. so my wife and it have never even considered it, or fantasized about it; heretofore (and we talk about EVERYTHING). ten, twenty years ago, i would have considered this behavior totally disgusting. now it is just part of "play" with our "couple-friends". it has added another dimension to our sex and fantasy life. its fun to talk about in the sack and it really gets our motors running. especially bi-anal sex, fantasies, with other couples. (we have never done that). in addition to conventional sexual behavior, we have always been anally oriented, in our marriage. dont come down on me, i know that anal is now (and always has been) extremely prevalent. it was just not talked about and not considered mainstream, by many.
like many of you gentlemen here on the board, i did engage in childhood "play" with other guys, (4th 5th grade); but never oral and never beyond that age. that would have surely meant, that we were "queer"! i was so nieve; that a childhood friend, actually had to teach me, how to jack off! LOL. i do remember it being extremely pleasureable and exciting, but that may have been the "rush", from the potential of being "caught". and as i matured, i put all of that experience in the rearview mirror and attributed it to raging hormones and "childhood". fortunately; unlike some of the posters on this board, i was never conflicted about my sexuality. i always knew that i was straight and that i loved women and was always attracted to them. the only problem that i had, as a child, was terrible "guilt"..........but that was with all "sex activities", male and female. with childhood and current "guy" play partners, there is no "attraction thing" whatsoever. its "just sex" and its in the context of our marriage and with other couples.
i'd really like to hear from other men and women and their experiences. and especially from lifestyle couples.