Fetishes

[Realist]

Everyone seems to have different interests, regarding relationships and especially sexual issues. I assume we are all drawn, at first, to superficial things, like faces, figures and smiles, but most of us stay, or leave a relationship because of mutual interests, or lack of them. I've long been interested by things that get folks' "motors" running.

I know I have definite likes and dislikes, which motivates me one way, or the other.

Last night, I was chatting on the phone with a long-time female friend, who has been in a relationship with another lady for many years.

She was telling me that her lover is very turned-on my other women's breasts and one thing she cannot resist is a woman who is lactating. They have a mutual friend who is married and has a newborn. The mother has large breasts and provides more milk that her baby can handle, so she calls my friend's lover to finish her off.....which my friend's lover will drop anything to do. (I have no idea how this thing started)

The mother is supposedly NOT interested in the sexual aspects of their contact, but seems to enjoy providing the milk. Actually, I am titillated by the thought, myself....now.

In my experience, women are usually much more cerebral, than visual, in their relationships with other females. This woman however, is very motivated visually. My friend has told me before, that the very sight of an erect nipple in a blouse, will get her lover's juices flowing. Seeing a mother nurse drives her up the wall!

I've known a few bisexual females before, but don't remember one being so aroused by another's breasts...or especially lactation.

I'd be interested to hear anyone else's take on this subject.

[MissyMissy]

when i am able to lactate it gives me many feelings. sorta a comfort. but with adult men it excites me as well.
as for women lactating mmm. i feel comforted by nursing and get veryt excited.
wanna drive a lactator crazy get some audio of babies crying lol.
missy missy

[Realist]

I wondered if you meant you wanted to feed them to keep them quiet? Never having had children, I missed that pleasure in life.

I checked your profile and photos, Missy. From the looks of things, your husband is a very lucky man, indeed!

[the sacred night]

I am freaking obsessed with other women's breasts. That's what I beat off to most of the time. Lactation not quite so much, but playing with breasts is a huge turn on for me.

[MissyMissy]

the sound of babies crying sometimes makes women like me get the "motherly" instinct. crying babies help ya uhhh get your body going to lactate more when nursing a child. it tends to be leftover from my days of nursing my son. i cannot control it completly i do get letdown and leak slightly and my breasts ache. i dont wanna shut em up or feed em. it's a natural reaction. i can lactate well if i was helped again but its not the time or the place right now to restart that.

[innaminka]

I'm not really a boob girl. Sure they're nice to touch and lick, and having it done to you is also great, but not, for me, overwhelming.
Far more interested in backsides and brains.

Yes, I've been witha lactating woman a few times, but not really a turn on. Its just milk!

[Hephaestion]

My missus breast fed the bairns. Whenever they cried, the bed got wet. It tasted sweet on my arms. So one day I took one single solitary suck (with her permission of course). No resistance, just a mouthfull of milk as opposed to sucking on non-active breasts and what a beautiful taste. Marvellous things women. Just need a larger penis (usually).

Feeding aside. Breast fetish? The smaller the better.

3 babies in their prams outside the supermarket and the first one said (baby talk of course) 'sick to death of this. all I get is formula morning, noon, and night' The second one said 'Me too, all I get is that bland baby rusk advertised on TV'. The third one with a smug beam on his face chips in 'I'm alright. I get a nice bit of titty in the morning, nice bit of titty midday and a nice bit of titty at night - on tap any time in fact. Only problem is that I have to share with some bugger who smokes Old Holburn'

Boom Boom.

[darkeyes]

Tall elegant women wiv long shapely legs an luffly bums... tho not sure wetha its a fetish (tho think so)...:bigrin: or a bloody gr8 dollop a short arse envy tinged wiv green shovelled on in spades...:eek:

[FantasyQuest]

i guess my favorite fetishes would be female feet and nice big cocks. both at the same time would be awesome!!!

[mave5150]

I guess for me it would be long nails on a woman, dark colors are more erotic. The lips are the same way, again dark colors. Eyes are also another major turn-on!! I guess when you get right down to it nail, lips, and eyes are the parts on a person that will bring your senses out, and the excitement of thinking that really makes it hit home. Just my two cents.

[seeknay]

mine is dressing in a mini skirt, black thigh highs, and heels...

[Realist]

My first wife was very visually oriented. I think this may be more of a male trait, though. However, she would have loved "Dog the Bounty Hunter's" wife! She was very attracted to pretty, large, voluptuous women and was always pointing out the ones she enjoyed looking at. Braless women with erect nipples got her attention, as did ample cleavage and low-cut blouses. I tended to agree with most of her physical interests. I, too, have always been (initially) drawn to "exaggerated" body types, like Sophia Loren, Camryn Manheim, Aretha Franklin and the Barbi Twins. Really Big boobs and a big ass overshadow a whole lot of other aspects for us both! Strange, one of the best female lovers I ever had was as flat-chested as a boy!

A bi female friend likes "butchie" girls, like K.D. Lang. She is not very visually attracted to women, at all..........but likes the attitude, flamboyancy and macho aspects, in her lovers. An aggressive woman can make her putty in her hands!

Personally, I am attracted to women superficially, at first, but it takes more than looks to keep my interest. I am very drawn to intellectual, easy-going, laid back and very open-minded, but not overly compliant women. Bisexual women had been some of the most interesting and desirable of any I've had relationships with.

One, who I was initially attracted to, but lost interest in, was Anna Nicole Smith. I loved her body and being blond didn't hurt either. But the first time I heard her speak, every attraction I originally had about her, vanished! I'm sorry if this is in bad taste, but she must have been one of the most selfish, self-serving and ignorant women on this earth!

The men I've been with seem to be different, except for a few common traits. I've known each one for some time, before a sexual relationship began. I liked, trusted and at least cared for them/loved them before sex occurred. Their body types varied, as did their characteristics and interests. But I had an intellectual and cerebral connection with them all.

Strange, I've been attracted to guys with varied body-types, from fat to slim, but the lovers I've enjoyed most seemed to all be ones with small, even VERY small, penises. There has been one exception, but smaller ones seem to have won out.

'Nuff said...........

[FantasyQuest]

mine is dressing in a mini skirt, black thigh highs, and heels...

That would be cool! I'd love to be no my knees sucking your cock with you dressed like that. A fantasy of mine....

[nc_wsbi101]

My first wife was very visually oriented. I think this may be more of a male trait, though. However, she would have loved "Dog the Bounty Hunter's" wife! She was very attracted to pretty, large, voluptuous women and was always pointing out the ones she enjoyed looking at. Braless women with erect nipples got her attention, as did ample cleavage and low-cut blouses. I tended to agree with most of her physical interests. I, too, have always been (initially) drawn to "exaggerated" body types, like Sophia Loren, Camryn Manheim, Aretha Franklin and the Barbi Twins. Really Big boobs and a big ass overshadow a whole lot of other aspects for us both! Strange, one of the best female lovers I ever had was as flat-chested as a boy!

A bi female friend likes "butchie" girls, like K.D. Lang. She is not very visually attracted to women, at all..........but likes the attitude, flamboyancy and macho aspects, in her lovers. An aggressive woman can make her putty in her hands!

Personally, I am attracted to women superficially, at first, but it takes more than looks to keep my interest. I am very drawn to intellectual, easy-going, laid back and very open-minded, but not overly compliant women. Bisexual women had been some of the most interesting and desirable of any I've had relationships with.

One, who I was initially attracted to, but lost interest in, was Anna Nicole Smith. I loved her body and being blond didn't hurt either. But the first time I heard her speak, every attraction I originally had about her, vanished! I'm sorry if this is in bad taste, but she must have been one of the most selfish, self-serving and ignorant women on this earth!

The men I've been with seem to be different, except for a few common traits. I've known each one for some time, before a sexual relationship began. I liked, trusted and at least cared for them/loved them before sex occurred. Their body types varied, as did their characteristics and interests. But I had an intellectual and cerebral connection with them all.

Strange, I've been attracted to guys with varied body-types, from fat to slim, but the lovers I've enjoyed most seemed to all be ones with small, even VERY small, penises. There has been one exception, but smaller ones seem to have won out.

'Nuff said...........


Realist,

I'm the straight wife if a bi man...haven't been around here long. I find your postings to be some of the most interesting. You have a lot of wisdom and I, for one, am so glad you share. I wish I knew you in real life.

[MaybeSayMaybe]

One, who I was initially attracted to, but lost interest in, was Anna Nicole Smith. I loved her body and being blond didn't hurt either. But the first time I heard her speak, every attraction I originally had about her, vanished! I'm sorry if this is in bad taste, but she must have been one of the most selfish, self-serving and ignorant women on this earth!

Anna Nicole was a an imitator. Barbara Payton was the real thing. She was the gold standard of riches-to-rags Hollywood. She is on the Internet.

Hollywood is like a haunted house. The stars check in but they never check out. They just haunt the place forever. Anna Nicole is just one of the latest ones.

[AdamKadmon43]

I think that I have gotten into the wrong thread...... again.

[BrotherJack]

I think you're on the wrong site, also.

[_Joe_]

When a guy is really fit, and wearing shorts and no shirt, you see this concave part of the body that...gosh pictures normally work wonders here.

that concave part of the body between the leg and abdomen sticking out just a littlebit. Freaking Hawt. It's my little inspiration to keep working out on the bike at night, I want that.

[69luvr]

I am freaking obsessed with other women's breasts. That's what I beat off to most of the time. Lactation not quite so much, but playing with breasts is a huge turn on for me.

I enjoy exactly the same thing as you. I love watching breasts at a mall or wherever. Playing with breats is a very big turn on for me. I can do it all day or night!

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Tit-alated are ya? lol Actually, I am titillated by the thought, myself....now.

[mikey3000]

Um, I love to wear my BF's underwear that I swiped on my last visit, and his sox too.:bigrin: Funny thing is he swiped some of mine too!!!

[Realist]

1. I realize that fetish was not the proper term for one's attraction to breasts, or any sexual appendage, but it's a pretty common miss-use of the word. I'm no English professor, but maybe I should be more correct in the use my native tongue. Hey, I was born in Florida, a product of southern parents, so It's a wonder that I can communicate in writing, at all!

2. I discussed our initial impressions of others with my GF: Although she appreciates a certain figure type, a pair of intelligent, mischievous eyes, a smile with nice teeth, and maybe a cerebral spark, gets her interested in another lady, quicker than her figure. That's not to say she does not appreciate figures, because she is very visually stimulated, but those characteristics above are her most compelling draw.

[69luvr]

I am freaking obsessed with other women's breasts. That's what I beat off to most of the time. Lactation not quite so much, but playing with breasts is a huge turn on for me.

I am too. boobs get me every time. I go to malls and feast my eyes at all the boobs. Then I get very horny!:bipride: