Ben Wa Balls

[Toad82]

I am wondering if anyone on the site has used Ben Wa Balls or tried Fire Cupping in the past and what they thought of the experience(s). I am wanting to put together a care package for someone and am looking at different kinds of toys to include, but have not been able to find any reviews for either.

Thanks for any help!

RJ:lokai:

[Realist]

Ben Wa balls are not for everyone. I dated a Korean girl for some time, who loved them. She used to insert them and do house work. She liked feeling the fullness inside her vagina. They'd "click" together and gave her a nice little jolt and she said they helped her keep her Keigle muscles in shape. I can attest to her ability to squeeze with her vagina!

my ex wife had a pair, and she got a kick out of them when they were new, but after the initial interest, she never used them again.

That's been my limited experience with them...for what it's worth.

[Atopalonelystar]

Toad- I do romance parties for a living and have used Ben Wa Balls often- I've found an even better substitute for them- Luna Balls, because they vibrate with every movement the body makes. GREAT to go out DANCING with!!

Both the Luna and Ben Wa Balls were made with the concept of exercising the vaginal muscles- By holding these weighted balls INside, the user is continually tightening the vagina muscles. Think of it as weight lifting for the vagina!! And by the way, either doing the kegel exercises or using the Ben Wa or Luna Balls over time will strengthen those muscles which are also VERY important for bladder control. Having a regularly exercised vagina will also increase sexual arousal and sensation- Orgasms are also achieved easier with a strong vagina!!

If you're looking to put together a care package- I would be more than happy to help you with that!!

[_Joe_]

These things just read of total sexiness.... there's just no male equivalent ><

[Delilah]

Toad- I do romance parties for a living and have used Ben Wa Balls often- I've found an even better substitute for them- Luna Balls, because they vibrate with every movement the body makes. GREAT to go out DANCING with!!

Both the Luna and Ben Wa Balls were made with the concept of exercising the vaginal muscles- By holding these weighted balls INside, the user is continually tightening the vagina muscles. Think of it as weight lifting for the vagina!! And by the way, either doing the kegel exercises or using the Ben Wa or Luna Balls over time will strengthen those muscles which are also VERY important for bladder control. Having a regularly exercised vagina will also increase sexual arousal and sensation- Orgasms are also achieved easier with a strong vagina!!

If you're looking to put together a care package- I would be more than happy to help you with that!!

I have been interested in Romance parties. Would you be able to tell me more about it? Is this like Lingerie Parties?

[Atopalonelystar]

I have been interested in Romance parties. Would you be able to tell me more about it? Is this like Lingerie Parties?

Yes- Delilah! I have tons of information for you!! First tell me if you're interested in having a party or joining my team as a Romance Consultant?

If you're interested in hosting a party- if you are some distance from me you are more than able to host a catalog show. Basically, you host a regular party and show off your catalog to everyone who attends so they may place an order.

If you're reasonably close to me we can certainly book a party!

If you're interested in joining my team distance is not an issue! I have personally sponsored people all over the world!

Here's a link to my site: www.ForYourPleasure.net/PartiesByCarrie
You may also email me at SpicingWithCarrie@msn.com

Email me with any questions you may have- If you would prefer to talk in person include your phone number and when you are available to be contacted.

Hope that helps!!

[Toad82]

Thanks for the responses.

Atopalonelystar: I looked up luna balls and I think your right they seem much beter than Be Wa balls. If we lived closer to one another I might of took you up on helping me with the care package. Luckily I live in an area with a lot of super porn stores.


RJ:lokai:

[Toad82]

Has no one tried fire cupping? I thought the people of this site were into new and different kinds of things.



RJ:lokai:

[Atopalonelystar]

Toad- I'm not up on the latest alternative health. I actually had to google fire cupping to figure out what it was you were referring to. To be honest, I had never heard of it even after learning what it is. Sorry- can't help you on this one.

[Apleasureseeker]

I've bought ben wa balls for every women I've ever dated, some love them, some don't but they always remember me. There are two kinds: Solid and "juggly.' The solid ones are gold plated brass. A girl holds them in the muscular canal of her vag, and by rocking and contracting, they click together, and each time they click they vibrate a little. It starts as hands-free stimulation, but as the orgasmic contractions start to come, it becomes automatic. One girl I knew loved them but was scared of them, once she put them in she often couldn't stop herself. The solid ones take a little practice to get the knack to work em right. The other kind are hollow balls with a weight inside, and as a girl moves, the weight bounces against the sides of the balls. Probably the ones that are best for dancing with. They also tend to be a little bigger. The solid balls can drop out when the vagina relaxes, and that can be embarrassing.

Fire cupping as an old fashioned massage technique to pull circulation up to the skin from deeper down. You use a small glass jar (a babyfood jar works well), and use an alcohol lamp to heat the air inside the jar (it only takes a second--the jar shold stay cool), then immediately place the mouth of the jar against the skin. The air inside cools in a few seconds and creates a powerful suction. You have to be very careful with these--the suction is very powerful, and if you do it wrong, you get painful blisters. Not sexy, even for sadomasochists! You also have to avoid burns and broken glass. In the mest of times, cups are usually too strong for nipples and genitals.

A better, safer and easier option for sex play is a snakebite kit from a sporting goods store. I't a little rubber capsule that breaks down into three suction cups of different sizes (coincidentally, just right for two nipples and a clit), that are for sucking out snake poison. You can control the amount of suction more easily and safely. If you really like suction play, there are vacuum cupping sets for massage therapists, that have about a dozen cups that use a suction pump, so again, you can control the suction better.

Play safe!

[Toad82]

I've bought ben wa balls for every women I've ever dated, some love them, some don't but they always remember me. There are two kinds: Solid and "juggly.' The solid ones are gold plated brass. A girl holds them in the muscular canal of her vag, and by rocking and contracting, they click together, and each time they click they vibrate a little. It starts as hands-free stimulation, but as the orgasmic contractions start to come, it becomes automatic. One girl I knew loved them but was scared of them, once she put them in she often couldn't stop herself. The solid ones take a little practice to get the knack to work em right. The other kind are hollow balls with a weight inside, and as a girl moves, the weight bounces against the sides of the balls. Probably the ones that are best for dancing with. They also tend to be a little bigger. The solid balls can drop out when the vagina relaxes, and that can be embarrassing.

Fire cupping as an old fashioned massage technique to pull circulation up to the skin from deeper down. You use a small glass jar (a babyfood jar works well), and use an alcohol lamp to heat the air inside the jar (it only takes a second--the jar shold stay cool), then immediately place the mouth of the jar against the skin. The air inside cools in a few seconds and creates a powerful suction. You have to be very careful with these--the suction is very powerful, and if you do it wrong, you get painful blisters. Not sexy, even for sadomasochists! You also have to avoid burns and broken glass. In the mest of times, cups are usually too strong for nipples and genitals.

A better, safer and easier option for sex play is a snakebite kit from a sporting goods store. I't a little rubber capsule that breaks down into three suction cups of different sizes (coincidentally, just right for two nipples and a clit), that are for sucking out snake poison. You can control the amount of suction more easily and safely. If you really like suction play, there are vacuum cupping sets for massage therapists, that have about a dozen cups that use a suction pump, so again, you can control the suction better.

Play safe!



I am into sensory play, that is why I was thinking about including a fire cupping kit. Done right it is a whole lot more that what you posted. Sex is after all just “playing” with someone’s senses until they orgasm which to me is fun. Sex without the fucking, is something more people should experience. To be able to make someone orgasm just by simple touch & words to a “pure” psychological BDSM session can be beyond orgasmic, it can be life changing. I highly recommend it to anyone with a trusted partner.



RJ:lokai:

[Apleasureseeker]

I am into sensory play, that is why I was thinking about including a fire cupping kit. Done right it is a whole lot more that what you posted. Sex is after all just “playing” with someone’s senses until they orgasm which to me is fun. Sex without the fucking, is something more people should experience. To be able to make someone orgasm just by simple touch & words to a “pure” psychological BDSM session can be beyond orgasmic, it can be life changing. I highly recommend it to anyone with a trusted partner.
RJ:lokai:

Well, that was everything I know about cupping.
I absolutely understand what you're saying about BDSM/Non-sexual sex. That can be amazing!