Geez What's up with Guys Anymore ?

[Bi Boi Indiana]

Hey All,

Well as it started out to be a VERY Promising weekend, it's ending in disaster! ..... Last night i was supposed to go meet up with a guy that the wife and i had, had over to our house last weekend, for Conversation, and quite possibly More! I Told him Thursday night, that the wife and i had to go to our nephews birthday party saturday night, and i would call when we got home, So we get home about 7:15, i got cleaned up did all the usual Male cleaning up before Male/Male sexual activity .. Then i called him, He was like, i thought you were comming over at 6! I was like no i said i would call when we got home, he was like, well my house is a mess now, lemme clean it up real quick and i'll call you back! ..... the whole time im thnking something just dont seem quite right ... So 15 mins pass i call him back and say, ok let's just do this next weekend, He says HANG ON! And i hear him talking to someone else ..... Then he's right back to the phone! I didnt ask, didnt wanna know! .... Will there be a next weekend, I THINK NOT! I know it could have simply been a friend Nothing more, but damn he could have said so, instead of just letting my mind wonder! ..... So a couple hours pass and the wife and both come upstairs to our computers, and visit another Male Hook up site, Found another bi guy pretty close to us, Emailed him, Bout an hour later he Replies with, does the offer still stand ...... So i shot another email to him with yeah, here is our number call and i'll give you the address! We sat and waited for about 40 mins, with no phone call ...

So yeah, it's now sunday evening, and im still VERY Frustrated and Wanna get laid REALLY Bad! But cant find a willing participant! .... All these guys say i'll be over, but then their balls shrink to the size of pea's and they dont show up! ... Makes me so flipping mad! anyway like in an earlier reply i made to a post today, i think i got lucky and get EVERY Female Emotion possible! So yeah i was quite upset last night, but oh well ..... ONE Day I'll find Mr. Right, And quite possibly Mr. Right NOW!

<~ Thinks he needs to change his user name to Bi Guy Indiana or something, cause im 38, so that dont quite qualify for Boi material Huh?

Have a good week everyone,
~BILL~ :bipride:

[FalconAngel]

You will run into a lot of that. We have.

We set up to meet guys a bunch of times, but almost every time they flake on us or they are nothing like they said they were.

Pretty soon, you will get into the habit of just meeting somewhere neutral, that way if he doesn't show, at least the two of you get out of the house for a while.

[Realist]

Wait until you're 68, it really gets flaky, then!

I haven't been with a guy in years, so I got on a local site and met a few folks who responded and sounded interesting. I chatted with a couple of single guys and a very nice couple, but they decided we didn't match, or I was a little too old for them. They all were up-front and straight with me; I can deal with that. Then, a fellow and his wife, who were interested...they said. We met at the mall and seemed to have the same interests and needs, as well as had no trouble communicating.

Great! We set a date, his wife kisses me, squeezes my butt, he hugs me and that's the last time I see, or hear from them!

Oh well, I can't let stuff like that bug me too much, I've probably already had my quota of fun like that!

Better luck next time.

[still_shy]

That is one thing I've learned the last few months, NEVER ever get your hopes up. No matter how wonderful someone may seem, how eager to meet you-- they can and probably will flake out at the last minute. I've learned that the hard way. It's tough for me because I actually talk to people as if I'll meet them someday but what I've discovered is that most people don't want to meet. They want to act out their fantasies by talking about it (which I think is a little odd but hey! to each their own) but when it comes down to it, they have no intention of meeting for whatever reason. You are better off to stay detached from the situation untill you actually are on the verge of getting laid! Then you can get excited LOL