darkeyes
Oct 30, 2008, 10:03 AM
Yesterday mornin Kate ran me 2 school... wosn much outa er way so it wosn a prob.. outsida the gates we chatted jus for a min bout stuff as ya do..'er shoppin list for me on way 'ome for starters..an as we always do we had lil kissie an a huggle an she drove off...
Hadn sed owt 2 ne 1 at school bout me partner cept the bare bones an a lil bout the kids.. hadn sed me partner wos a woman cos it has neva been summat me has shuvved down peeps throats.. they ask thats ok.. but its not a secret an am not ashamed of 'er or wot me is..
Well..3 days in an by the time me had got 2 classroom every kid in the place seemed 2 kno.. an at break time the famed "awkward" silence greeted me as me sauntered inta the staff room for a nice refreshin cuppa afta a sumwot stressful an riotous period.. the kinda silence ya get wen ya knos peeps hav been talkin boutcha.. by the time the break had finished all seemed sweetness an lite..no 1 seem 2 botha cept a cuppla the olda staff who shuffled decidedly unhappily wen they asked 2 get past me 2 the door.. an 1 nasty sod who jus pushed by me as if me wosn ther.. but mos acted zif me wos jus a normal human bein no diff from ne 1 else.. an so ta 2 them...
The kids suprised me tho.. its a school in an area fulla urban deprivation..hasn got the gr8est reputation.. an wer no gay person wud wander bout alone if they hav ne sense. Hardly is top rank.. got lotsa giggles, furtive looks.. an the lil huddles wen they so obviously rabbittin 2 each otha boutcha.. but it wosn till afta lunch wen sum lil cow asked me the question str8 up... "Yes Mary I am" said I.."now can we get on an do what we are here for??" She shrugged, the class broke inta childish giggles an a few gasps.. she made a face an the floodgates wer open.. questions abounded an ther wos for a few mins absolute chaos as we (the propa teacher an me) struggled 2 get control a the lil so n so's.. fended off the inevitable questions an curiosity, genuine 1s or no an did manage 2 calm the lil buggas down.. the lesson for wich me had meticulously planned an spent so long on proceeded..not wivout incident.. but no more or less than ya wud expect wer me a heterosexual woman livin wiv a bf wiv 2 kids...
Did get told off by the Head for admittin 2 owt bout me pvt life 2 kids this early.. evidently the seemly thing 2 do wos say "we are here for u 2 learn not to talk about me".. God.. an wot wud that hav achieved?? Still wos dun an still think it wos rite thing 2 do..
Its a day an a bit now..still early days.. an me has always worried bout kids reactions 2 me sexuality cosa me choice a career.. neva bout staff.. can handle them ok.. but kids me cares bout an its ther lives me tryin 2 help...an so the last thing me wonted wos bein hamstrung by summat wich reely is me own an no 1 elses affair.. but so far.. fingies x'd.. its been ok... its still hell..an kids r testin me as they wud ne new fully qualified teacher far less a defenceless lil student who don kno 'er arse from 'er elbow wen it cums 2 teachin.. an won reely eva kno me don think till me has spent time fully qualified an gets experience a doin the job on me own.. disruption abounds an its fukkin chaos in so many ways... but am not gettin stress from the lil sods cos me is gay..yeaa lil sure, cos ther r sum nasty lil buggas who hav been less than pleasant bout it..thats the waya the world am afraid...but mostly am gettin it cos me is looked on as the oppositionan the person in authority..in much the same way as me looked on teachers wen me wos at school.. an that me lufflies..makes me rite proud a those kids an gives me hope for em an for us..
Wotch this space... mite still all go rat arsed..but for 2 day..mosta me worst fears hav gone regardin at least 1 aspect of me chosen career.. an am much more optimistic that in the end..it will all b ok... bout wetha me ne gud at the job is ne 1's guess.. now thats outa the way tho..me can concentrate on findin that out an learnin 2 do wot me sposed 2..
Hadn sed owt 2 ne 1 at school bout me partner cept the bare bones an a lil bout the kids.. hadn sed me partner wos a woman cos it has neva been summat me has shuvved down peeps throats.. they ask thats ok.. but its not a secret an am not ashamed of 'er or wot me is..
Well..3 days in an by the time me had got 2 classroom every kid in the place seemed 2 kno.. an at break time the famed "awkward" silence greeted me as me sauntered inta the staff room for a nice refreshin cuppa afta a sumwot stressful an riotous period.. the kinda silence ya get wen ya knos peeps hav been talkin boutcha.. by the time the break had finished all seemed sweetness an lite..no 1 seem 2 botha cept a cuppla the olda staff who shuffled decidedly unhappily wen they asked 2 get past me 2 the door.. an 1 nasty sod who jus pushed by me as if me wosn ther.. but mos acted zif me wos jus a normal human bein no diff from ne 1 else.. an so ta 2 them...
The kids suprised me tho.. its a school in an area fulla urban deprivation..hasn got the gr8est reputation.. an wer no gay person wud wander bout alone if they hav ne sense. Hardly is top rank.. got lotsa giggles, furtive looks.. an the lil huddles wen they so obviously rabbittin 2 each otha boutcha.. but it wosn till afta lunch wen sum lil cow asked me the question str8 up... "Yes Mary I am" said I.."now can we get on an do what we are here for??" She shrugged, the class broke inta childish giggles an a few gasps.. she made a face an the floodgates wer open.. questions abounded an ther wos for a few mins absolute chaos as we (the propa teacher an me) struggled 2 get control a the lil so n so's.. fended off the inevitable questions an curiosity, genuine 1s or no an did manage 2 calm the lil buggas down.. the lesson for wich me had meticulously planned an spent so long on proceeded..not wivout incident.. but no more or less than ya wud expect wer me a heterosexual woman livin wiv a bf wiv 2 kids...
Did get told off by the Head for admittin 2 owt bout me pvt life 2 kids this early.. evidently the seemly thing 2 do wos say "we are here for u 2 learn not to talk about me".. God.. an wot wud that hav achieved?? Still wos dun an still think it wos rite thing 2 do..
Its a day an a bit now..still early days.. an me has always worried bout kids reactions 2 me sexuality cosa me choice a career.. neva bout staff.. can handle them ok.. but kids me cares bout an its ther lives me tryin 2 help...an so the last thing me wonted wos bein hamstrung by summat wich reely is me own an no 1 elses affair.. but so far.. fingies x'd.. its been ok... its still hell..an kids r testin me as they wud ne new fully qualified teacher far less a defenceless lil student who don kno 'er arse from 'er elbow wen it cums 2 teachin.. an won reely eva kno me don think till me has spent time fully qualified an gets experience a doin the job on me own.. disruption abounds an its fukkin chaos in so many ways... but am not gettin stress from the lil sods cos me is gay..yeaa lil sure, cos ther r sum nasty lil buggas who hav been less than pleasant bout it..thats the waya the world am afraid...but mostly am gettin it cos me is looked on as the oppositionan the person in authority..in much the same way as me looked on teachers wen me wos at school.. an that me lufflies..makes me rite proud a those kids an gives me hope for em an for us..
Wotch this space... mite still all go rat arsed..but for 2 day..mosta me worst fears hav gone regardin at least 1 aspect of me chosen career.. an am much more optimistic that in the end..it will all b ok... bout wetha me ne gud at the job is ne 1's guess.. now thats outa the way tho..me can concentrate on findin that out an learnin 2 do wot me sposed 2..