M4m sites?

[TaurusBeresford]

Just curious if anyone has found any sites that are specifically for meeting guys who want long term with other guys. Most M4m sites seem to be geared mainly for just hookups. I cannot understand this, with so much at stake, that guys would be looking to get with as many guys as possible. Course I've heard about the bug chasers out there, and all I got to say about that is "YIKES!" Crazy thing to do to oneself. I know it's difficult to find other guys, but dang, that's going way too far to be reason to be with someone.

[curious44]

Taurus,
You're right. It would be great to have a friend that was also a sex buddy. Someone that you really cared about as a friend, could go to lunch with, talk about a myriad of similar interests and lived close enough so that travel distance was not a problem. I've only been lucky enough to have one of those situations. My wife and I made friends with another couple we met at a nudist resort back in the early 80s. They lived 10 minutes away, were also swingers and we played with them on numerous occasions. (I'll call him T) T and I became good friends, had lunch together about once a week, helped each other out with home repairs, that sort of thing. We both ran our own businesses so we could adjust our schedules. We would go back to my office after everyone went home or go to his house during the day when everyone was gone and have really hot sex. We still had our wives for our romantic interest but loved having sex together. I might add that T has a really nice cock and I loved playing with it. As time went on his wife became uncomfortable with swinging and our encounters became less frequent and finally ended all together. We are still friends, still go to lunch occasionally and still do each other favors. That being said, if T ever wanted to have sex again, he wouldn't have to ask twice. That went on for about 5 or 6 years and it sure was fun while it lasted.

[eddy10]

I can recommend silverdaddies.com

Not just us old farts there.

[TaurusBeresford]

*chuckles* I've been there, not sure if I removed my account or not, been a long time since I was last there and forgot which email address I used to sign up with, lol. For the sake of clarity I've also been to Bearfront, adam4adam, and am currently on Dudesnude, Lifeout, Justguys, Yahoo personals, and manhunt. Needless to say I got an abundance of one time offers when I first signed up and for some time after. I've only gotten 2 responses in more than a year from any of those sites that was not after the sex only. One I was not compatable with, and the other is way too busy to have much time for socializing. I think that there should be some way for only those looking for long term to be able to make contact of some sort to set up a date or something.