Straight guys?

[Lateralus]

So there was a topic in another forum that asked "Can a straight guy be seduced by another guy?" My answer was that if said "straight" guy is being seduced by another guy, then he's obviously not straight, assuming the definition is solely heterosexual. So what do you guys and gals think? If a guy gets sexual with another guy, then would you consider him to be straight? Also, what is your definition of straight?

[Rudy75]

This is the great thing about being Bi. We are open enough to enjoy both sexes, and not be restricted to any one.

In my opinion "straight" people (and gays) are limiting themselves. And sometimes they are simply affraid.

[wolfcamp]

I have heard it said that everyone has same sex desires to some degree. A guy might think of himself as straight, but then has a moment where he lets his inhibitions down. Maybe he appears straight but is secretly waiting for the right moment to come along. Straight is a relative term.

[mrtz1014]

So there was a topic in another forum that asked "Can a straight guy be seduced by another guy?" My answer was that if said "straight" guy is being seduced by another guy, then he's obviously not straight, assuming the definition is solely heterosexual. So what do you guys and gals think? If a guy gets sexual with another guy, then would you consider him to be straight? Also, what is your definition of straight?

Nope, if he is being seduced by another guy then he is obviously not straight. But i do wounder does "straight" really exist...if a straight guy is super super horny , what wud he be cable of .HMMM the thought alone stimulates. LOL

[hudson9]

Nope, if he is being seduced by another guy then he is obviously not straight. But i do wounder does "straight" really exist...if a straight guy is super super horny , what wud he be cable of .HMMM the thought alone stimulates. LOL

Face it, we guys are dogs. If we get horny enough, we'll screw ANYTHING. How else do you explain all those "straight" guys in prison? Bi guys just admit it!
:tong:

[darkeyes]

.. oops Fran outa kilter wiv world gain it seems.. kno quite few girls that r str8..hav tried lesbian sex..an sevral guys who r str8 an tried gay sex.. sum liked it..but decided it wosn for them an they prefered sex wiv the opposite gender...but sum..h8ed it an wud no more dream a repeatin the experience than they wud screw a sheep (yea me knos sum odd bods do that an all..don they Chookie?? (no... wosn accusin u me ole luffly upside down 'ead...)).. used 2 believe we wer all born bisexual but recently hav begun 2 realise we r all born summat..sum gay, sum bi an yea sum even horror a horrors even str8.. tho this latta lot fewer than society an various studies make out... lots of us experiment wen we r kids..an sum wen we get olda an make our way through life...human beins r a rite curious lot an try all sortsa things.. sum they like...an will always go bak for more..an sum they don an neva repeat the experience... sum it will b cos ther conditionin makes em that way an feel shame..wich they shudn as we all kno..we r who we r..an we r wot we r... but sum...an jus wudn dream a hazardin a guess as 2 how many r simply wot they claim 2 b.. str8...

So jus as a gay guy who tells bi's they r gay an a buncha chancers an sittin on the fence..an the str8 gal who thinks they r jus a bunch perverted gays an lessies who r jus confused.. an the myriad a otha claims peeps make bout wots in our minds an hearts... we hav no rite 2 tell str8 peeps wots in thers...

peeps that hav tried gay sex can b sed 2 hav tried gay sex..it don make em gay or bi or ne thin else...

[topcat0204]

I always considered myself to be a straight guy right up till the time I wanted to expieriment with another guy, if your going to kiss or give oral to another guy you better accept the fact your bi, if your just thinking about it your bi-curious. either way I like it.

[chook]

.. oops Fran outa kilter wiv world gain it seems.. kno quite few girls that r str8..hav tried lesbian sex..an sevral guys who r str8 an tried gay sex.. sum liked it..but decided it wosn for them an they prefered sex wiv the opposite gender...but sum..h8ed it an wud no more dream a repeatin the experience than they wud screw a sheep (yea me knos sum odd bods do that an all..don they Chookie?? (no... wosn accusin u me ole luffly upside down 'ead...)).. used 2 believe we wer all born bisexual but recently hav begun 2 realise we r all born summat..sum gay, sum bi an yea sum even horror a horrors even str8.. tho this latta lot fewer than society an various studies make out... lots of us experiment wen we r kids..an sum wen we get olda an make our way through life...human beins r a rite curious lot an try all sortsa things.. sum they like...an will always go bak for more..an sum they don an neva repeat the experience... sum it will b cos ther conditionin makes em that way an feel shame..wich they shudn as we all kno..we r who we r..an we r wot we r... but sum...an jus wudn dream a hazardin a guess as 2 how many r simply wot they claim 2 b.. str8...

So jus as a gay guy who tells bi's they r gay an a buncha chancers an sittin on the fence..an the str8 gal who thinks they r jus a bunch perverted gays an lessies who r jus confused.. an the myriad a otha claims peeps make bout wots in our minds an hearts... we hav no rite 2 tell str8 peeps wots in thers...

peeps that hav tried gay sex can b sed 2 hav tried gay sex..it don make em gay or bi or ne thin else...




Fucking New Zealanders.......we get blamed for all their disgusting habits :angel:

[softfruit]

I think there's a difference between the straight guy who 'tries it' once or twice while drunk or horny, and the 'straight' guy who keeps on trying it.

[frikidiki]

An invitation to get technical? How can I refuse?

I distinguish "straight" from "heterosexual." The common usage of these terms doesn't, but I think it should.

Consider sexual orientation--potential, experiential, or actual--versus lifestyle, in the sense of partnering or teaming up with others for achievement of romantic or familial goals. Thus we have hetero-, homo-, and bi-sexual orientations, and lifestyles we call straight, gay, polyamorous or open, celibate, and what I call unpartnered, which includes ethical sluts and players, sex workers, and such. These are meant to be lists of examples, and may not be complete.

Lifestyle and orientation do not necessarily line up. So, we could have a gay relationship between two bisexual men or women; or a straight relationship between one bi and one het or two bi people; or a celibate homo man in an apparently straight relationship with a het woman who is allowed to see other men so long as their kids aren't scandalized and he gets to watch from the closet.

By my definitions, your hypothetical "straight" guy, trying or being seduced into what some would call gay sex, could still be straight--except now he's experientially bi. He may decide that sex with guys is not his thing--then he's not actually bi.

"Um...words...words...words..."
--Butthead

[csrakate]

I have straight male friends and they're not homophobic at all but I have asked them if they'd ever have sex with another guy even if they're drunk and honry. They've all said no and how they'd rather have sex with the fattest and ugliest woman possible than have sex with a man, and some just said how they've never had the desire or wanted to.

It is also possible that they are just saying that for fear of admitting something to you or to themselves...not saying that they are..but it's always a possibility. Many men prefer to keep a straight front instead of admitting who and what turns them on.

Strange...funny how you had to insert the "fattest and ugliest woman possible" comment in order to prove their orientation, as well as your reference to "closet cases" in another thread, not to mention how you insulted a poster's "hotness" in yet another thread....seems to remind me very much of a certain "visitor" that drops by ohhh so often....Gee I hope I'm wrong...but something tells me I'm not.

[TaylorMade]

It is also possible that they are just saying that for fear of admitting something to you or to themselves...not saying that they are..but it's always a possibility. Many men prefer to keep a straight front instead of admitting who and what turns them on.

Strange...funny how you had to insert the "fattest and ugliest woman possible" comment in order to prove their orientation, as well as your reference to "closet cases" in another thread, not to mention how you insulted a poster's "hotness" in yet another thread....seems to remind me very much of a certain "visitor" that drops by ohhh so often....Gee I hope I'm wrong...but something tells me I'm not.

I know among some cultures, as long as you are the penetrative partner, you are still considered straight. . .so it's entirely possible one could be using that logic and consider themselves straight.

But- -could be wrong.

*Taylor*

[csrakate]

Actually, I don't think it really matters in the grand scheme of things what anyone considers themselves to be...nor should their opinions on this forum be judged or chastised for declaring themselves "mostly straight".

To be honest, no one really knows what is going on in the minds of others and to make assumptions or draw conclusions based on personal beliefs isn't fair. It's tough enough for folks to come out of the closet as it is...no point in making a "closet case" category to further the difficulty or inhibit one's choice to accept themselves in their own time.

Live and let live....

[Lateralus]

Check out this CL ad I just came across.


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im straight so i dont want anything but that, u gotta send your face pic and tell me your stats, if you have a disease don't email me

LMAO! Do you, bud...

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Kudo's Drew for Troll Trapping! lol
They dont learn do they? *Shaking head*
Laughing Cat

[_Joe_]

I think I also replied to this, and I dont see my post...

But what I said was...


One thing I never understood was a guy saying he was straight, but he doens't mind giving or receiving a blowjob to/for another guy. That part confuses me.

How can you consider yourself straight if you are willing to take another guy in your mouth, or let another guy suck your dick ? Can you be straight and just have an oral fixation? Can't you just be Bisexual and not like ass action?

Anyone got a more logical explanation to make me understand it a bit ?

[Lienda]

If he got seduced by another male, then part of him is gay, obviously. I don't think just sleeping with someone else makes them anything particular. _Joe_ also said something I have been thinking lately.

[jem_is_bi]

Why try to seduce a straight man?
I find it to be great fun with bi/homosexual men.
I have absolutely no sexual interest in straight men.

[DiamondDog]

I think I also replied to this, and I dont see my post...

But what I said was...


One thing I never understood was a guy saying he was straight, but he doens't mind giving or receiving a blowjob to/for another guy. That part confuses me.

How can you consider yourself straight if you are willing to take another guy in your mouth, or let another guy suck your dick ? Can you be straight and just have an oral fixation? Can't you just be Bisexual and not like ass action?

Anyone got a more logical explanation to make me understand it a bit ?

It's called being closeted and in denial.

[elastisexual]

I think that a guy who recieves oral from another guy may not be gay.I
have sucked a lot of guys who i would consider straight ,they dont want to
touch another man at all in that way and they dont consider other guys sexy.
It seems to me that guys just like to get sucked as a basic trait. When a guy
gets off on how (and who) the other sucks him then yea hes gay; but if hes just getting off cuz his penis is getting sucked then i dont think that it has to make him gay.If he makes it personal then probably hes gay but if hes just getting off then maybe not.Also there is the factor if a guy hasnt gotten sucked in a really really long time,well he dont much care who sucks him.
I have to admit i like to suck straight guys,there is something sexciting about it but i do find that the afterward situation is usually akward.Maybe that should be a new thread."sucking the straight guy situations".I have a feeling that many of us bisexuals have a few to tell.But after all i have said i agree most that the labeling of straight and gay and bi is mostly a matter of semantics.
We may be more semantisexuals then anything else sometimes cant we.
Dont we all sometimes get kinda caught up in the labels. after all

the map is not the territory

[elian]

It's called being closeted and in denial.

Hehe - closeted bi. :)

However, I also agree with last post - I suspect that there are SOME guys who just want a blow job - they aren't particularly concerned with who, where, when or why - just that it feels good.

[Bi Boi Indiana]

Like someone said WAY Up there , We Men are Dogs .... And well screw ANYTHING ..... (ANYTHING WITHIN REASON, and ONLY HAVING TWO LEGS) I Do Believe that, and i also Believe ANY "Straight" ( LOL ) Man will Let ANYONE Suck his dick ... I Believe we were ALL Born BI Sexual ... Some of us just chose to walk ONE Certain path in life, While the Smarter
( OH god thinks, should i say Smarter? ) One's of us, Walk both Paths, And i must add, Those Paths are SO YUMMY Too! .... Ha Ha Ha :bipride:

[DiamondDog]

Like someone said WAY Up there , We Men are Dogs .... And well screw ANYTHING ..... (ANYTHING WITHIN REASON, and ONLY HAVING TWO LEGS) I Do Believe that, and i also Believe ANY "Straight" ( LOL ) Man will Let ANYONE Suck his dick ... I Believe we were ALL Born BI Sexual ... Some of us just chose to walk ONE Certain path in life, While the Smarter
( OH god thinks, should i say Smarter? ) One's of us, Walk both Paths, And i must add, Those Paths are SO YUMMY Too! .... Ha Ha Ha :bipride:

Sorry I'm going to have to disagree with you there.

I know men who are homosexual in that they've never ever had even the slightest sexual attraction towards a woman, never have wanted to have sex with a woman, and when they get drunk or just really horny they don't secretly want sex with women or seek it out. They weren't born bisexual and never have been bisexual.

Also if a guy is straight he's not going to want even oral sex from another guy, the same goes for hetero women and having sex with women, and straight men and women aren't bisexual.

If a guy is having sex with men or wants sex with men and calls himself straight he's just a closet case.

Being bisexual is no more better or worse than being gay or heterosexual is.

[parkerbi]

There is no straight guys. Any guy is likely seduced by other guy if the situation is ok.

[Bi Boi Indiana]

Sorry I'm going to have to disagree with you there.

I know men who are homosexual in that they've never ever had even the slightest sexual attraction towards a woman, never have wanted to have sex with a woman, and when they get drunk or just really horny they don't secretly want sex with women or seek it out. They weren't born bisexual and never have been bisexual.

Also if a guy is straight he's not going to want even oral sex from another guy, the same goes for hetero women and having sex with women, and straight men and women aren't bisexual.

If a guy is having sex with men or wants sex with men and calls himself straight he's just a closet case.

Being bisexual is no more better or worse than being gay or heterosexual is.

Uhm What part are you disagreing with ? Because i never said that a homosexual male would Screw a female .... You took what i said Completely outta context ......

Easy there Mate, We are ALL Free to express our opinions, that's what makes this big ol world Go Round! ...... I Simply stated mine, Dont bust my balls for it geez!

[DiamondDog]

Uhm What part are you disagreing with ? Because i never said that a homosexual male would Screw a female .... You took what i said Completely outta context ......

Easy there Mate, We are ALL Free to express our opinions, that's what makes this big ol world Go Round! ...... I Simply stated mine, Dont bust my balls for it geez!

I'm not "busting your balls" if I were doing that I wouldn't be casting pearls and writing something that's contrary to your wrong opinion. Don't take it all so personal.

You said that everyone is bisexual. I wrote the example of homosexual men because they're not bisexual at all and they don't fit into your theory and neither do heterosexuals.

Don't be so homophobic and heterophobic and say that heterosexuals and gay people don't exist because it's just as bad and as hypocritical as saying that bisexuality doesn't exist.

I get tired of and annoyed at Bi/gay men who have to project their sexuality onto all other men, especially onto straight/hetero men, and feel that all men secretly want sex with other men but just don't know it or won't admit it.

It's a fantasy and one that's in lots of gay fiction/porn but that's all it is along with wishful thinking.

This doesn't help how GLBT people are viewed by heterosexuals and it makes straight/hetero males think that all bi/gay men want them or want to "convert" them which is impossible.

This is just as bad as how het men say that "all women are bisexual yet they just don't know it". :rolleyes:

<sarcasm > If you really do actually believe that there's no such thing as a heterosexual/straight male try going up to a random guy in a hetero bar and ask him if he wants his dick sucked.

You'll either get called a complete idiot, you'll be told no and maybe be told to get the fuck away from him, or you'll be punched in the face by him. </sarcasm >

To those who are out there to explore every man's level of homosexuality, I say STOP RIGHT NOW!

You're NOT helping the world's perception of the queer environment by making men uncomfortable to talk to you. They perceive that you have and will always have an agenda regarding them an no friendship can grow in that shadow, nor can perceptions of queer men change from that.

[Lateralus]

I'm not "busting your balls" if I were doing that I wouldn't be casting pearls and writing something that's contrary to your wrong opinion. Don't take it all so personal.

You said that everyone is bisexual. I wrote the example of homosexual men because they're not bisexual at all and they don't fit into your theory and neither do heterosexuals.

Don't be so homophobic and heterophobic and say that heterosexuals and gay people don't exist because it's just as bad and as hypocritical as saying that bisexuality doesn't exist.

I get tired of and annoyed at Bi/gay men who have to project their sexuality onto all other men, especially onto straight/hetero men, and feel that all men secretly want sex with other men but just don't know it or won't admit it.

It's a fantasy and one that's in lots of gay fiction/porn but that's all it is along with wishful thinking.

This doesn't help how GLBT people are viewed by heterosexuals and it makes straight/hetero males think that all bi/gay men want them or want to "convert" them which is impossible.

This is just as bad as how het men say that "all women are bisexual yet they just don't know it". :rolleyes:

<sarcasm > If you really do actually believe that there's no such thing as a heterosexual/straight male try going up to a random guy in a hetero bar and ask him if he wants his dick sucked.

You'll either get called a complete idiot, you'll be told no and maybe be told to get the fuck away from him, or you'll be punched in the face by him. </sarcasm >

To those who are out there to explore every man's level of homosexuality, I say STOP RIGHT NOW!

You're NOT helping the world's perception of the queer environment by making men uncomfortable to talk to you. They perceive that you have and will always have an agenda regarding them an no friendship can grow in that shadow, nor can perceptions of queer men change from that.

Co-sign:)

[crazy owl]

FROM CRAZY OWL age 80 and still horny.
Many years ago when I was calling myself a Psychologist ( I have a PhD in the subject ) I found the book BODY LANGUAGE by Julius Fast and read chapter 7 on the body language of sex. It was fascinating to me......After reading it I tried flirting with men using body language but NO WORDS - only body language.
I would do the body language flirting with almost every man I met - mostly 'straight'. Gay men know the body language well, and use most of it to find sex-partners. 'straight' men do not know it or maybe only use it with women. I cant gaurantee what they do with women because I don't pay attention to them doing it. However I will defer to Julius Fast and assume that body language is Universal = NO WORDS but nevertheless a part of our "talking with each other"
For about 3 years I flirted in body language with a lot of men. Most men would flirt back in body language on the spot - right now. A few did not flirt back immediately. These I would flirt with the next time I saw them. All but one flirted back the second time. The one man who didnt flirt back the second time was fucking my female room=mate at the time. But the next time I saw him he had broken off with my room=mate and threw me a strong dose of sex-body-language. This was after about 100 men with NO men who NEVER flirted back.
I gave up the search for a man who would not flirt back with me. As a result I believe that every man will flirt with another man in BODY LANGUAGE regardless of what words come out of his mouth! ! ! !
The need to be 'straight' is an intense part of American Culture. It dominates our movies, our Advertising, our Christmass stories, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera. A lot of young men who I have met have had sex with women at an early age but stop after becoming 'adult' and become exclusively homo in spite of Church, Law and custom.
In conclusion, let me say that I think ALL men have a homosexual man on the inside even though they may never acknowledge their homo urges or may not ever face up to their homo part.
You may think I am crazy but I once saw a group of six of my married male Psychologist friends standing around in a circle talking about which Secretary they wanted to fuck but giving each other awesome sex Body Language. I was amazed but not too surprised. After all, my reasaech project had predicted what I saw in front of me!
Its a wonderful world - but full of surprises.
Yours truly Crazy Owl

[paddington]

Hi, this thread made me think so much-sometimes i feel i'm soooo confused,then i think i know! i lived into my 40's married to a husband i love for over 20 years believing i'm straight. then i met a woman at a group i joined who befriended me.she seemd the best friend i'd ever had.after some time she kept coming onto me.i felt seduced by her,she was very persistant.in the end i gave in,i was very lonely and can remember feeling i'd loose her friendship because she really wouldn't have accepted "just friendship".we had a relationship,i fell head over heels in love with her.i can't think of anything in particular that makes me think i was bi at a younger age.denial?? it was amazing and has been awful too.she keeps telling me i'm a lesbian(wants me to leave my husband&live with her-i don't want to),i don't feel i'm a lesbian because i'm enjoying a fantastic sex life with my husband,i love sex with my man BUT now because of that experience with her i feel changed,i'm looking at women sexually&we use that in fantasy. untill a few weeks ago i'd never considered bi,hadn't heard much about it, when i found this site it felt like a light bulb moment! i laughed out loud!
it's big enough to admit your feelings to yourself let alone others! at times it seems to me from the posts-remember i'm new-that people who are bi seem to have a harder time than those who "fit" under gay or lesbian.
i'm trying to work out if i was just in hiding before this relationship???
one things for sure,i feel better for being open with my husband about it.he's amazing,i'm very lucky.

[steve617413]

i don't have no phD or even a lot of years of being bisexual. i do now that the frist time i had sex with another man, yes it was just a blow-job it was because my sex life with my wife had almost disappeared. sex is something i as a man want and feel i need. with the other married man we both was able to help each other out with our needs and all was good. and i still called myself a stright man back then & so did he. but as i did more gay sex i enjoyed it even more and as i learn more about the life styles of my gay & stright friends i found that most men are willing to have sex with anyone if the sex is not aviable with some one they are with ether be women or there gay partner.

the only ones that i have found to be the strighties men are the (bigamist) the closed minded people that don't understand how two men can have sex with each other or even fall in love with someone of the same sex. it makes them sick to think about it. but yet they get off on watching porn with two women doing each other to me its still gay sex but thats different some how.

to me its all mind set its how the man really thinks that makes him gay, bi, or stright. the more you care less about what other people think and enjoy your own life and live it the way that makes you happy. finding yourself well set you free. you'er the only one that you need to please in the end. i'm bisexual and i love it :bipride:
so my definition of a stright man is a closed minded person.
i hope i didn't miss spoke and upset anyone. sorry if i did.

i had a friend that did some time in pirson he said they had a saying in there. you'er only gay if you pushed back:yikes2: i must be gay then cause i push back and i love it

[Bi Boi Indiana]

I'm not "busting your balls" if I were doing that I wouldn't be casting pearls and writing something that's contrary to your wrong opinion. Don't take it all so personal.

You said that everyone is bisexual. I wrote the example of homosexual men because they're not bisexual at all and they don't fit into your theory and neither do heterosexuals.

Don't be so homophobic and heterophobic and say that heterosexuals and gay people don't exist because it's just as bad and as hypocritical as saying that bisexuality doesn't exist.

I get tired of and annoyed at Bi/gay men who have to project their sexuality onto all other men, especially onto straight/hetero men, and feel that all men secretly want sex with other men but just don't know it or won't admit it.

It's a fantasy and one that's in lots of gay fiction/porn but that's all it is along with wishful thinking.

This doesn't help how GLBT people are viewed by heterosexuals and it makes straight/hetero males think that all bi/gay men want them or want to "convert" them which is impossible.

This is just as bad as how het men say that "all women are bisexual yet they just don't know it". :rolleyes:

<sarcasm > If you really do actually believe that there's no such thing as a heterosexual/straight male try going up to a random guy in a hetero bar and ask him if he wants his dick sucked.

You'll either get called a complete idiot, you'll be told no and maybe be told to get the fuck away from him, or you'll be punched in the face by him. </sarcasm >

To those who are out there to explore every man's level of homosexuality, I say STOP RIGHT NOW!

You're NOT helping the world's perception of the queer environment by making men uncomfortable to talk to you. They perceive that you have and will always have an agenda regarding them an no friendship can grow in that shadow, nor can perceptions of queer men change from that.


My Wrong opinion ..... LOL ok whatever!!!! And im not Homo Or Hetero Phobic either .... RE READ What i wrote before you Jump to your own " Wrong " Opinion of Me! I Said I Thought all people were born Bi and then chose what path to walk in life, Weather it be Straight, Gay , Lesbian Or Bi ....

And everyone is entitled to their opinions! I Dont need to go to ANY hetero bar and ask a straight man ANYTHING! I have found a VERY Wonderful BI Male here on this forum that The Wife and I Have accepted Into our marriage! And Thank god he does not share your views on this topic!

:bipride:

[Apleasureseeker]

Interesting thread. I was having a chat with a bisexual woman who claims she bisexualized every one of her boyfriends. She told me about some of her techniques and I got quite an erection, which she noted, and wants to help convert me. she said my stiff penis straining through my pants was like a hungry dog needing to be petted, trained and fed by the right woman, and man.:tongue::tongue:
As for myself, I'm kindof a 1 on the bisexuality scale--mostly hetero, but open to occasionally finding myself getting turned on by cock.

My 2cents goes like this: I think a person's gender pref. is determined by whom they relate to emotionally the most. Very few people are actually bisexual, even if they enjoy both sexes. Of course, it can take many years for a person to know. Nevertheless there are many gay people enjoying hetero sex, and many straight people enjoying the occasional homo.

Now, as for straight guys, do they have san element of homo/bisexuality in them? No. And Yes. Many perfectly straght guys will be able to engage in homo-sex if their sex drive is strong and they have no female available. Guys in prisons, the military, boys' schools, clergy, and guys with high testosterone levels... Thing is, once a person is exposed to homo-pleasure, it becomes a viable option for them., even if it's not natural to them. Sadly, a lot of people molested as kids by someone of the same sex will take on that sexual identity, and feel awful internal conflict.

There are also plenty of men like myself, who have a strong sex drive and dont always have an outlet. I become open to bisexuality, and attracted to both sexes when my drive is high and frustrated, but as soon as I've had one or two strong ejaculations, I'm suddenly, instantly, 100% hetero again, which makes hooking up awkward. Over the last few years, I've tried to keep myself on that edge, and retrain my sexuality to still be bisexual after I've had the relief. Nevertheless, I'm never comfortable kissing another guy. I know there are a lot of guys like this out there (and if you're reading this, email me!). I'm often dominant with women, and am more comfortable with men when I'm in control, which helps me get past my momentary need to get away after cumming, since I Still usually enjoy the pleasure of stimulating another male. I think it's for the about reason that many men need a woman there the first few times.

So you could say, i'm still 100% hetero 95% of the time.