confused

[Michigan_cpl]

hello, i sure hope that someone can help me here. the problem is that we met a very lovely bi lady on here and we have fallen in love.
she was gonna move here to be with us, but now she is having seconds thoughts about moving here, why should we give up what we have here and move out there? our house is bought & paid for, & we do have a a business here. also she has a child that does not want anything to do with us, what are we to do???? we do love this lady very much but on the other hand we are confused. like they say ture love does conker all.:wiggle2:

[scorpio9]

Maybe start with a few visits . . . .get a feel for what a 'daily routine' would feel like. Good luck with it.

[zanybrainy]

"why should we give up what we have here and move out there?"

Isn't that the same question she may be asking herself. If she,or her children have a support system where she is, I could only imagine how hard it would be to move her family from that. Think of both sides of the coin.

If it is worth having, then it is worth waiting for.

Just my opinion and I may be totally wrong,

Zany

:2cents: