something is wrong here...!!!

[horny-couple]

First let me tell you that i'm the younger wife posting this..!!! We've been on this site for some time now and it just appears that most of the people on this site get off by chatting or just getting off on line!! We are a real couple and we try to play 3 or 4 times a week and it doesnt matter what city were in. From this site we've only met 2 people so i guess what does that tell you! If i post an ad on craigslist i get hundreds of emails and of coarse i go thru them to screen them out and on this site it doesnt happen..!! I know there are plenty of you guys out there! try letting yourself go and go out and have a good time. If your Bi be proud of it and enjoy what life has to offer. Your getting the best of both worlds!!!

[darkeyes]

You sound miffed? This isn't Craigs list..it isn't a hook up site as such.. it happens and that's good, but its a community site for much more than hooking up and getting ourselves laid.. its about community..who we are, what we are, what our wishes and desires are, where we want to be, its about laughing with each other and crying, helping each other, debating the greater issues of the world with each other.. it is at once a social service and entertainment.. its primary purpose is not to find someone to play with..it is about difference, tolerance and acceptance, it is about friendship and understanding.. love, hate, the world we live in.. it is about people... we are sexual beings.. but we are also much, much more than that...

[horny-couple]

You sound miffed? This isn't Craigs list..it isn't a hook up site as such.. it happens and that's good, but its a community site for much more than hooking up and getting ourselves laid.. its about community..who we are, what we are, what our wishes and desires are, where we want to be, its about laughing with each other and crying, helping each other, debating the greater issues of the world with each other.. it is at once a social service and entertainment.. its primary purpose is not to find someone to play with..it is about difference, tolerance and acceptance, it is about friendship and understanding.. love, hate, the world we live in.. it is about people... we are sexual beings.. but we are also much, much more than that...


Live for the moment, I think your reading to much into this. Dont kid yourself most of these people want to hook up but there either shy or nervous

[Michael623]

You sound miffed? This isn't Craigs list..it isn't a hook up site as such.. it happens and that's good, but its a community site for much more than hooking up and getting ourselves laid.. its about community..who we are, what we are, what our wishes and desires are, where we want to be, its about laughing with each other and crying, helping each other, debating the greater issues of the world with each other.. it is at once a social service and entertainment.. its primary purpose is not to find someone to play with..it is about difference, tolerance and acceptance, it is about friendship and understanding.. love, hate, the world we live in.. it is about people... we are sexual beings.. but we are also much, much more than that...

Exactly, thank you Fran!!!!!!!!!

[darkeyes]

Live for the moment, I think your reading to much into this. Dont kid yourself most of these people want to hook up but there either shy or nervous
.. and you sweets, are not reading anywhere near enough...:)

[horny-couple]

.. and you sweets, are not reading anywhere near enough...:)

name isnt sweets hon its taylor and it just isnt about sex! if thats what you think get your mind out of the gutter. its about getting out and meeting real people enjoying there company even if its just over a drink. like i said your reading to much into this go out and enjoy yourself

[Iowabiguy]

There is a happy middle between both sides here. Certainly, there are people that come to this site just for the comfort and support and to express their bisexuality in whatever way that means to them. It is a safe community.
For others it is a place to look for others bisexuals to play with. Some people have the ability to travel. Some people are in a place in their lives to openly explore their bisexuality. And some people wish that they could but just need a little push. Then again some people are not attracted to other people's profiles, plain and simple. It could just be a simple change in wording or emphasis that alters everything for you. I know I don't have a picture up yet but I know for myself I don't find a close up of a man's penis the selling point as to whether or not I am going to contact that person.

[darkeyes]

name isnt sweets hon its taylor and it just isnt about sex! if thats what you think get your mind out of the gutter. its about getting out and meeting real people enjoying there company even if its just over a drink. like i said your reading to much into this go out and enjoy yourself

Touchy aren't u? Boy..u so don't know me.. no matter.. I'm not saying and haven't said all you are about is sex.. I am saying this site is more than about hooking up.. however your first 2 posts maybe gave an inkling that predominantly its about sex and playing.. maybe you should pick your words more carefully to avoid misunderstanding...;)

[void()]

"Life is what happens while you're making other plans." - Lennon

That fairly sums my situation. Would love to 'get out and enjoy myself', unfortunately the largest city near here is twenty odd miles out of the way. And no, you don't need a large city to have fun. But they do lend to having nice attractions.

Also I'm not really a coffee shop or bar hopping type of person. Once went into a coffee shop for a cup of tea, which they did serve. I was charged almost $3 for a cup of hot water. The tea was supposed to have been some of the finest grown. I've tasted better penny a bag tea.

Besides the products served in bars and coffee shops, the atmosphere leaves me unsettled. You go in and are surrounded by strangers. You have no idea what to talk about with these folks, or even how to approach them. After all you've never met them and don't know. Not that I don't meet and befriend folks but rather it be done in a more casual way.

Coffee shops and bars leave me wondering if I need a tuxedo and an SUV to drive. I don't drive though. Never have really learned how. I get terrified behind a steering wheel, unless it is on a farm tractor or riding mower. I'm alright on those, cars lock me up. Fortunately I can always chime in and say "get me there."

And most folks I know are aware that if something needs done, getting me there is beneficial to all concerned. So, with not driving and not being interested in coffee shops or bars, sporting events, concerts I guess it sort of limits fun. I also work 40+ a week. In my free time sleep is a favorite past time. There are times all it takes is for me to sit down, then I pass out.

That only further serves in limiting fun. I'd love to go fishing or maybe rolling skating with someone. But, it has been ages since either has came along. Bowling used to be a weekend religion. Even have a a ball that still needs drilled to custom fit, brand new. But alas I've not bowled in years.

Neither has the wife. We usually stay home and get lost in our own worlds. She crochets, I write or play a video game, watch a movie (see sleep). There's always tea here, too. And penny a bag more than adequately suits my need. So, yes I would love to get out and have fun. But, fun causes bills which need paid, which causes me to work all the more. Rather difficult to work and have fun.

Eventually though, I would like to meet a guy through this site. I think a possibility exists, too. We only need trick Life a bit and grab a few spare minutes. With him being a few states away, difficulty also exists. But, if it is worth it then you don't mind the efforts required.

For now, I'll be happy to come to Cheers here. Even if no one really pays much mind to me, always nice to see all the other friendly faces. And Fran is right, Craig List this ain't.

[smicheller]

To horny couple
if you can't find what your looking for here, then move on. i agree with dark eyes, this site is about more than sex and hooking up.did you ever consider that some people need more than just an invitation for sex, that fact that you have nothing more to offer might be a clue. It;s called attraction, friendship, honesty, if your looking for a hookup (let go and enjoy life) then you need to find a site that caters to that need.:bipride:

[angelrose1955]

Well, for me....I did not join this site just to "hook up" with someone...but rather to learn more about the bi male ...I am currently in a relationship with a bi male and we plan on getting married in July...I joined this site to get more insight into how I can make him happy...we are an exclusive couple right now...wanting to learn more about each other and our sexuality...but eventually he would like to see if there is a bi male out there to join us in a triad.
So the more I can learn from others about the life with a bi male and how I can please him...the better for the both of us. I want to make sure he is happy all the way around...and have found that help from others on this site.
If you just want to hook up with another couple, or single...then by all means...there are lots of sites that you can do that on...but to have the since of community....of family....that is what this site is all about. And that is why I love it so much.
Everyone here is wonderful..well most everyone * no, didn't forget the troll* and if I ever have any questions...all I gotta do is ask my chosen family...
So, by all means...if you want to just hook up...go to craig's list or another site that promotes that sort of thing...but if you want true understanding and support...then this family is where you can get it.
Just my 2 cents worth
AngelRose

[horny-couple]

To horny couple
if you can't find what your looking for here, then move on. i agree with dark eyes, this site is about more than sex and hooking up.did you ever consider that some people need more than just an invitation for sex, that fact that you have nothing more to offer might be a clue. It;s called attraction, friendship, honesty, if your looking for a hookup (let go and enjoy life) then you need to find a site that caters to that need.:bipride:

If you would read the other post you'll see that for me its just not all about sex. We like meeting people even if its just for dinner or a drink and it just seems that people on this site just want to chat and write letters we get calls from people on this site but when you try to meet they seem to shy away My husband and i both enjoy life and take it as it comes we are fun and at peace with ourselves

[FalconAngel]

name isnt sweets hon its taylor and it just isnt about sex! if thats what you think get your mind out of the gutter. its about getting out and meeting real people enjoying there company even if its just over a drink. like i said your reading to much into this go out and enjoy yourself

Darkeyes has been on this site longer than most of us and she has a lot of wisdom to share, should you choose to listen to it, as regards the site and how people use the site.

And while it is true that a lot of people use the chat to get off, many of us do not. Some of us never get on the chat here at all.

There are a lot of us who came here looking to find a hook-up and found much more than we could have expected.

Given time, you will realize that, too.

We've also had a glut of trolls here, over the past few months and we haven't gotten rid of them all, quite yet, so anyone new will be viewed with a critical eye for awhile. Post to some of the forums a bit more; let people get to know you and things will change for you.

Take some more time for the site to grow on you and for you to get better acquainted with the folks here. You will be quite pleasantly surprised.

[darkeyes]

Darkeyes has been on this site longer than most of us and she has a lot of wisdom to share, should you choose to listen to it, as regards the site and how people use the site.


*Broods*

*thinks.... 'e makes me seem like a rite borin ole grannie bag...*

[Ninnian]

No-no darkeyes!,
yer Just a youngster with a good bit of wisdom about bieng Bi and this site- I was delighted to be able to read you once againi! yipee!!

It always amazes me how inflection etc. is just so difficult to get thru online- I manage to torque enough folsk off in reallife , I just add to the numbers when I can't get thru ho wmy voice sounds and then there sthe dyslexia. HA!

This site is very infomative for thos eof us who dont have th eresources(and even for you who do?) to commune with other bi;s on thier Beingness and even everydau thoughst and questions. Everything else is just dessert.:tong:

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

If this site isnt what you expected, then move on and find one that Is. The majority of folks that come on here come for the friendship and comeraderie. Some do meet up, some dont and thats up to the individuals to do so.
If you want to make friends for just friendship or even hook-up's that cool too, but give the rest of the populous a chance, we have some fantastic folks in here. And even the pitiful Trolls are entertaining.
Nuff said until my brain de-fogs...lol:cool:
Cat

[pottzie]

A lot of us are cautious, probably overcautious, and a little older. Funny how that co relates.
You're right for wanting what you want, just as others are right for their reasons.

[csrakate]

First let me tell you that i'm the younger wife posting this..!!! We've been on this site for some time now and it just appears that most of the people on this site get off by chatting or just getting off on line!! We are a real couple and we try to play 3 or 4 times a week and it doesnt matter what city were in. From this site we've only met 2 people so i guess what does that tell you! If i post an ad on craigslist i get hundreds of emails and of coarse i go thru them to screen them out and on this site it doesnt happen..!! I know there are plenty of you guys out there! try letting yourself go and go out and have a good time. If your Bi be proud of it and enjoy what life has to offer. Your getting the best of both worlds!!!

Being bisexual and being proud of it doesn't mean you have to "play" constantly. Many people can enjoy life and be proud of who they are without having to use sex. Maybe YOU are the one who needs to get real...why the constant need to prove something????

[Bi_Druid]

Quite
I see the arguements everyone putting across, and I am in the favour of the line of thinking that I joined this to find fellow Bi's and a place to vent my worries, fears, ideas, thoughts, etc.

I joined it to try and find fellows like myself who I could relate to, even if only on-line. I am actually much happier that I have found a safe community where I can talk about ANYTHING and not feel I'm compromising myself or commiting myself to something I may later regret in any way.

I would love to be able to meet up with more people, some of the more regular and , dare i phrase it, 'veteran' users on here. But alas I personally have geography working against me mostly. Darn Atlantic ocean in the way of the majority of fellow members, and an unfortunate lack of personal transport for those over here on the British Isles.

But I do digress somewhat.
Personally, I'm on here, like many of the others appear to have voiced in this thread, to just chat to fellow bis and learn and hopefully contribute some to the community feel. There are much better suited sites out there for more 'personal' gains, what ever they may turn out to be interpretted as.

But still, don't give up at the first hurdle, you may find something here you never knew you didnt have. Just maybe.

[12voltman59]

While it may be true that finding an easy "hook up" on here is harder--there are some other sites that I am sure you can find plenty of those out on the great world wide web----but if you are fortunate enough to make contact with a person or persons that fit criteria other than being easy to meet--you are more likely to find they are of a better "quality" in terms of something long term and "real"---either way--good luck--and I hope you find what you are looking for.

[vitt&cho]

If everyone is saying the same thing, somebody must be right..

~~Shawn Steinmetz (1975-2008)

[darkeyes]

If everyone is saying the same thing, somebody must be right..

~~Shawn Steinmetz (1975-2008)

sum 1 is V...me!!!!! muah...

[onewhocares]

Well....I guess there are those who are into meetin people...I mean as in meeting someone from this site whom they have gotten to know, enjoy their company on line...and then well meet in person. I am Belle, and I am the straight wife of a then bi, now gay man who has, as last count met just a tad over forty, yes forty people, from this site in the last three years. Has it been purely for the purpose of a "hook up" gosh no. Like Darkeyes has said this site is SO not just for that. We have a heart and soul and have a sense of community and purpose here. That being said I have, or have hubby and I established intimate relations with others from this site? Yes we have and I treasure each and everyone of the fine men that we have met. Most have become treasured friends.

I wish you well on your journey to find playmates...if this site does not work, CL is good or Adult Friend Finder.

Belle

[curious married m]

*Broods*

*thinks.... 'e makes me seem like a rite borin ole grannie bag...*

LOL HeHe Now who's the ole nanny goat. Baaaaaahhhhhh MUAH

[eddy10]

Quote: If everyone is saying the same thing, somebody must be right..

~~Shawn Steinmetz (1975-2008)
==========================
Well maybe there are exceptions to that.

Nazi Germany under Adolph Hitler comes to mind.

And, everyone was saying the world was flat. That was not true either.

[elian]

I've looked at those personals on craigslist once..don't they usually go something like:

"SWM renting hotel room date of X in town Y for night so I can have gonzo sex with many anonymous partners while my wife doesn't know. Please, bring no illegal weapons, lots of herb and be sure to leave your wallet and credit cards stuffed flush with cash on the nightstand afterward.."

thanks, but no thanks.

There nothing wrong with you as a couple, and there's nothing wrong with this site - it's just the way it is. Personally I hang out here because I DON'T want 100 responses to my profile.

-E

[texasman6172003]

Belle, your husband was never bi, he was always gay and just closeted about it. What a pussy!

You're holding him back in the closet by insisting that he stay married to you and not get a divorce. Good job cunt!

No wonder why you're always looking for cock here on bisexual.com! Your man is gay and he doesn't want to fuck your stanky ass pussy and I can understand why because he's not sexually attracted to you since you're a woman!

Well i am not wanting to do Drew's job,But Drew don't you think this response here needs to be deleted???:eek:

[void()]

"Personally I hang out here because I DON'T want 100 responses to my profile." - E

Wow! That is a huge statement. One I patronize also. There isn't a need for dozens of lovers when a couple will suffice. Now, excuse me baby. I need to growl at some one in a nasty tone. Hope you enjoy your weekend. :)

[void()]

Belle, your husband was never bi, he was always gay and just closeted about it. What a pussy!

You're holding him back in the closet by insisting that he stay married to you and not get a divorce. Good job cunt!

No wonder why you're always looking for cock here on bisexual.com! Your man is gay and he doesn't want to fuck your stanky ass pussy and I can understand why because he's not sexually attracted to you since you're a woman!

Enter the powerless troll whom may only attempt to debase others because they can not figure out the Big Lesson. If you read along, you may pick it up on the way. By the way, this is a brief story.

Once there was a young man who dreamed to one day become the most powerful wizard. He devoted every free moment he could into studying all about magic. One day, a traveling wizard saw the boy in the town's open air market. The wizard was incognito as a dirty old bum.

The boy never realized the old bum in his way happened to be the most powerful wizard in the world. "Out of my way you old coot! I want to buy some belladonna root for a spell."

A few days past. The boy was called in to his house by his dad. A visitor awaited. The old wizard had donned his trade's normal trappings. Right away the boy knew exactly who he was and fell to the floor bowing. "Oh wise master, I seek to be your apprentice but am unworthy. Surely you've not came to my home to say that, however."

The wizard grinned. "Remember that spell with the belladonna root?"

Right away the boy appeared lost. The wizard continued.

"I was in disguise as the bum you so rudely shoved aside. Traveling as I do, many come seeking being an apprentice. But none can make it past the admission riddle."

The boy laughed. "Oh riddles are easy. I'll get it."

"What is the one thing you give another freely, only if you first grant it to yourself?"

'Til this very day that boy can not answer. A shorter version of the story with a little Greek flavor, involves Diogenes roaming the world with his lantern in search of honest men. He still hasn't found any. And he was the founder of the philosophy of life called cynicism. Short and sweet, everyone only seeks the best for themselves, even shorter dog eat dog.

Once you figure out what that boy's answer ought to be, and yes there is only one correct answer, then perhaps we'll all let you speak further. Until then shut the fuck up about things which obviously do not concern you. Belle is a very nice person. As of yet, I've not had reason to think she would lie.

It is possible for one of a particular way to see another path and decide it better for themselves. This is called ... change, growth. And guess what, life is nothing if not ever changing. Hopefully you shall guess the boy's answer. That would mean you learned something and grew. Oh, and you needn't reply to me. I've said all that was felt was needed.

[FalconAngel]

*Broods*

*thinks.... 'e makes me seem like a rite borin ole grannie bag...*

Not at all, dear. Just learned and wise.

[FalconAngel]

Great story, Voidy.

Sadly, our troll will never learn anything from an ancient, universally true and timeless fable as you have graced us with.

Would that it could, but it won't.




Enter the powerless troll whom may only attempt to debase others because they can not figure out the Big Lesson. If you read along, you may pick it up on the way. By the way, this is a brief story.

Once there was a young man who dreamed to one day become the most powerful wizard. He devoted every free moment he could into studying all about magic. One day, a traveling wizard saw the boy in the town's open air market. The wizard was incognito as a dirty old bum.

The boy never realized the old bum in his way happened to be the most powerful wizard in the world. "Out of my way you old coot! I want to buy some belladonna root for a spell."

A few days past. The boy was called in to his house by his dad. A visitor awaited. The old wizard had donned his trade's normal trappings. Right away the boy knew exactly who he was and fell to the floor bowing. "Oh wise master, I seek to be your apprentice but am unworthy. Surely you've not came to my home to say that, however."

The wizard grinned. "Remember that spell with the belladonna root?"

Right away the boy appeared lost. The wizard continued.

"I was in disguise as the bum you so rudely shoved aside. Traveling as I do, many come seeking being an apprentice. But none can make it past the admission riddle."

The boy laughed. "Oh riddles are easy. I'll get it."

"What is the one thing you give another freely, only if you first grant it to yourself?"

'Til this very day that boy can not answer. A shorter version of the story with a little Greek flavor, involves Diogenes roaming the world with his lantern in search of honest men. He still hasn't found any. And he was the founder of the philosophy of life called cynicism. Short and sweet, everyone only seeks the best for themselves, even shorter dog eat dog.

Once you figure out what that boy's answer ought to be, and yes there is only one correct answer, then perhaps we'll all let you speak further. Until then shut the fuck up about things which obviously do not concern you. Belle is a very nice person. As of yet, I've not had reason to think she would lie.

It is possible for one of a particular way to see another path and decide it better for themselves. This is called ... change, growth. And guess what, life is nothing if not ever changing. Hopefully you shall guess the boy's answer. That would mean you learned something and grew. Oh, and you needn't reply to me. I've said all that was felt was needed.

[FalconAngel]

It is fascinating that the troll was stupid enough to admit that it uses a lot of fake ID's on the site and has admitted that it has more waiting in the wings.

More interestingly, that it has admitted to faking one in particular, even though it didn't say which one.

Most people have lives, but the troll spends it's days and nights trying to make miserable, the lives of people that they have never met, don't know and who have done nothing to it.

The word pathetic comes to mind. But then, what can one expect from a troll.

It's no more than a vain attempt at being the town bully or a serial criminal.

[Lienda]

From this site we've only met 2 people so i guess what does that tell you! If i post an ad on craigslist i get hundreds of emails and of coarse i go thru them to screen them out and on this site it doesnt happen..!!

*shrug* Perhaps you need to post more? I have noticed in a number of web sight forums (bisexuality aside), that if you don't post much, alot of people pretty much don't know you are there.

[FalconAngel]

*shrug* Perhaps you need to post more? I have noticed in a number of web sight forums (bisexuality aside), that if you don't post much, alot of people pretty much don't know you are there.

That's a good point, too. The more you post, the more people notice you.

Also, posting more lets everyone get to know you and where you stand on things far better than just what you can fit on a profile.

[chancesare]

To the very first couple, my wife and I are new to the site and yes we are looking to hook up with others also, but we also enjoy the site and have chatted , emailed and so on to some of the other people on this site and we enjoy the forums, the game was interesting and fun and the communiation with the other members here i have found (I being male) to be very nice and helpful, We plan to stick around because we are free to do what we like here, which is view others thoughts on their sexuality, view other comments like on the posting. If you really want to hook up we have found so far that it take times, and it takes talking to others. We are looking forward to possibly meeting a few people we have chatted with here. I don't hear anyone on this site or even in this post saying "don't come here to hookup" they are saying they are a community, friends with feelings, family, rights , wrongs and everything else that goes along with being human, let alone being bi. I found a person (The Cat) who was so nice I could have hugged the cat if he/she (not sure on that) was standing in front of me. So I gained a friend just by coming here to this site. I have talked dirty with others, got off (thank you) and had conversations about life. (thank you).
Don't be so hard on us here, I'm new, don't even know of other sites, I was told by Heather (thank you) about (AFF site) and another one. I don't think anyone here wouldn't help give more information if you asked. I believe that is what most of them here are saying.

SORRY so long of post.

Here's a old saying and maybe it fits for this- You can pick ur friends and you can pick ur nose, but you can't pick ur friends nose -unless ur really close friends. and I mean close

[wikskul]

You sound miffed? This isn't Craigs list..it isn't a hook up site as such.. it happens and that's good, but its a community site for much more than hooking up and getting ourselves laid.. its about community..who we are, what we are, what our wishes and desires are, where we want to be, its about laughing with each other and crying, helping each other, debating the greater issues of the world with each other.. it is at once a social service and entertainment.. its primary purpose is not to find someone to play with..it is about difference, tolerance and acceptance, it is about friendship and understanding.. love, hate, the world we live in.. it is about people... we are sexual beings.. but we are also much, much more than that...

well stated....

[Sarasvati]

I'm saying all you are about is sex.. I am saying this site is about hooking up.. predominantly its about sex and playing.. maybe you should pick your words more carefully to avoid misunderstanding...;)

Hi Dark Eyes,

Sorry for mispicking your words and making them say what I want them to say. Only playing, I know without a cleaver I ain't got no chance.

Anyway I'm with horny couple. I'd much prefer to get rid of all the conversation and just get on with some hot steamy sex.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Glad this little Dork got deleted. TY Void-honey for finding it. kisses to your handsome cheek, :bigrin:
Cat



Originally Posted by DavidC
Belle, your husband was never bi, he was always gay and just closeted about it. What a pussy!

You're holding him back in the closet by insisting that he stay married to you and not get a divorce. Good job cunt!

No wonder why you're always looking for cock here on bisexual.com! Your man is gay and he doesn't want to fuck your stanky ass pussy and I can understand why because he's not sexually attracted to you since you're a woman!

[elian]

FYI, Void's computer is on the fritz, but I'm sure he'll be looking around once everything is up and running again.

[csrakate]

No offense, Cat...but I am a bit confused as to why you reprinted that horrid comment about Belle. I am well aware that it was posted by a troll, but some of us have worked very hard to have this troll AND his hurtful remarks removed as quickly as possible to save the offended party the pain of seeing what he has written. The last thing we need to do is give his voice another platform. I realize you were merely applauding another chatter for his defense of Belle, but reprinting his harmful words isn't really going to help much and will only allow his actions to live in perpetuity.

Hugs,
Kate

[*pan*]

hmmm, i have met people on here for one on one sex, and now we are friends and see eachother when ever we can. have vented,posted, chatted and the like, i agree this site is more then just a hook up but at the same time i can understand some peoples frustrations, yes there are a lot of curious, sex chat people who get off like that and such but have to remember people will do what they want and like to do. patience is my advise. and in time someone will check out your profile and want to play and thats a bonus if and when it happens. if i were closer i'd play with ya, lol.

[badkitty87]

i joined this site because i was having a sexuality crisis. I have identified as bisexual for six years now and had started to lose what it meant to me to be bisexual. so i joined. then it seemed like a cool way to find a hook up, but when people started replying to my profile i realised that what this place offered me was intellectual thought surrounding bisexuality.now i'm definitely more interested in the cameraderie that looking for a fun little shag.

[Westwick]

I would love to hook up with horney couple, but we only have 3000 miles between us. Craig's List is a great way to hook up. But here is a community, I agree with dark eyes. This community is helping me in many ways. I love reading intelligent comments here. My sexual identity is broadening now that I can discuss it with adults.