Fear of women.

[liamt]

My wife and I are both admittedly bisexual. My wife is just coming out about unlike me. She has come forth with a confession. She actual has emotional feelings toward another woman. She has had a couple sexual interactions with women, but , never feeliings of this nature. I am wondering if there are any other people out there that have ever had to deal with the fear of emotional ties with the same sex, and if so, how did you you get handle that fear?

[Bluebiyou]

Sometimes the cookies fall where they may.
Love is a... huge risk.
No guarantee you'll love her tomorrow and vice versa.
In a breakup,
It's easier being the 'bad guy', the one who falls out of love first; it's easier to leave.
It's harder being the 'good guy', the one holding on, the one still in love. When my ex-wife left me, it would have hurt less to take a knife, cut my chest open and rip out my heart. Yet despite this truth, years later (even today) I muse about sending my ex mother-in-law a thank you card for being such a huge bitch and working to separate us, because now I shudder to think of still being married to that girl!
If you love her and she loves you, the relationship will last longer.
The bad news is -
I've never heard of a bisexual man leaving a woman for a man, but I do know a couple that she was bisexual, brought home girlfriends, and eventually fell in love with a girl (and divorced the fella).
But I think these are all individual situations.
No one knows what will happen.
Good luck and best wishes,
Blue