Help! I'm in love!

[I Like Both89]

I'm in love with John-Paul from Hollyoaks. Not the actor James Sutton, but the actual character. I often have fantasties where we have sex, and get married and him being in love with me. Am I crazy? And the thing is, he is leaving the show in the next few weeks and I will be really heartbroken. I have never had a boyfriend, (or a girlfriend either as well), so am I going insane with loneiness? He's my dream man. It's actually making me depressed right now. Do I need help?

[GreenEyedLady(GEL)]

Its normal as far as Im concerned to become attatched to characters. For me they usually come from books ive read. The most recent came out of a 14 book series, she died in book 13 and I cried myself to sleep. I really took it hard. I can't say I had a sexual attraction, wasn't quite like that, but I was hurting there for a bit lol. I did put the book down for a couple of days. Time and space maybe ? Just know your not alone, happens to the best of us,and don't forget in the end its fiction.

[Cesca]

In fiction, whether it is drama or literature most of us become attached to certain characters. I agree with Gel because I have often cried my eyes out at the demise of a character I loved. Whether it is love or not is debatable but it can feel like it. When the Master died in the last but one series of Doctor Who I broke my heart. He may have been the baddy but he was such a lovable, hysterically funny yet tragic and at the same time so obviously evil a baddy that my attraction to actor (John Simms from Life on Mars) had nothing whatever to do with it.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

lol I have been in lust for Years with Sean Connery, Jeff Goldblum and now Josh Halloway from Lost. Would love to find One of them in my Christmas stocking..lol
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[Minxy]

i dont think there is anything wrong with havin fantasies about people from tv, ive had many a fantasies about famous people;) obviously wit this guy u are finding the way he is atractive and you wud like someone (not him) like him in the real world and ya never know it can happen :)

[onewhocares]

I must agree with GEL...I think it is ok to have a fanstasy...GEL YOU have good taste...I have (had) my own verzion of Sean and I adore him...but that Sean is NOTHING to the man that Jess is.

Everyone wants to fell wanted.

Belle

[BareHunter45]

Well Cher...if you do find one of them in your Christmas stocking...you'll be really happy....but it also means you have REALLY REALLY BIG feet..



lol I have been in lust for Years with Sean Connery, Jeff Goldblum and now Josh Halloway from Lost. Would love to find One of them in my Christmas stocking..lol
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[elian]

I don't think there's anything wrong with fantasies, but I do have a friend who seems to push the edge a little in that regard. Claims that a certain celeb. visits her at night - I'm pretty open minded - but they she also started tell the kiddies "oh, Mr. Celeb is going to buy us a pony" an such.

Whenever you press her and say "Oh, can we meet 'im?" there's always a convenient excuse why not..

So yeah, I think fantasies can be healthy, up to a point - just like anything else in life TOO MUCH of something isn't always good.