help

[machetazo]

I have never been with a guy, but i been thinking about it. so i want to buy a dildo just to get started but i dont know how to buy one with out any one knowing that i got one. if i go to a sex toy store ill be to shy to get it if get it online im never home some one where i live could open it like my dad and me have the same name we live in he could think is his and open it up and that would suck so much. How i get one with out any knowing.

[vittoria]

I've been prompted to ask..
dOOd... how old are you?

[machetazo]

22 is this because i said my dad has same name is because we live in the same building but difren apartment i get his mail sometimes i get my because are name is same

[eddy10]

Bite the bullet and go to an adult store. Nothing to fear, but fear itself. And, you might find you enjoy being there. No one will make you do or buy anything you do not want.

[JoeErl]

Nothing to fear. Just go in and buy one. Someone there will help you if you need help. Use it in good health.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

You can always put out 20 bucks and get a post office box too, ya know. That way theres no danger of anyone but You having whatever kind of toys that you want to have. ;} Go to one of the toy sites and pick something in your price range. Or like everyone keeps telling you. Get brave and visit a toy story in your town, or better yet, go out of town and visit one like Lover's Package or any other adult store. :} Good luck and dont forget the Astro Glide...LOL
Cat
Just a suggestion.

[elian]

I remember being embarrassed to visit the adult store at first, or to buy condoms at the grocery - a handful of people at the adult store just basically said "look kid, relax and take your time". That's when I started to realize that most people have sex - one way or another - for all those people know you could be buying that dildo for your girl.

I actually spent about two hours in a really disgusting bookstore just walking around just looking at the porno/toy section - because I really wasn't interested in the OTHER merchandise..after a while it all starts to look the same.

In all the times I've ever bought condoms I only had one cashier say anything - she was very enthusiastic "Yeah hon, gotta protect yourself"

There isn't any easy way, you just have to sort of get over it..this site helped me because instead of plain vanilla "straight/gay" I realized that there are a whole different range of desires out there..not that folks will admit it in public.

The self-checkout lane is helpful sometimes, but as is typical with this world inevitably a very nice young person comes over and helps to bag anyway :)

I had to laugh the other day, I bought some condoms, some astroglide, some suntan lotion and some q-tips..