Tiger Lily
Aug 3, 2008, 11:51 AM
Hi guys,thought I would introduce myself to the community.
As long as I can remember I have felt an attraction towards other women, however it's only very recently I have been able to pluck up the courage to admit to myself and close friends that I am bi.
I remember it starting out as trying to find any possible excuse to kiss my girl friends,then an opportunity came up to share my boyfriend with one of my friends. I took the opportunity,however was too overwhelmed by the whole experience to take full advantage. (something I have regretted ever since)
After that I made a friend and she revealed that she was bi. We went clubbing together and kissed on numerous occasions (an experience I will never forget) however when I decided I was ready to take it one step further,she informed me that she didn't want to be anyones experiment.
This left me feeling very uncertain about how other bi,gay and lesbian peeps perceived me,so I decided to retreat and continue to keep my feelings for women to myself.
This all happened a long time ago and when I turned 30 last year I decide a number of things were going to change in my life. One of which was my appearance and attitude. My confidence has grown and I can truely say that I am more myself now than I have ever been in my life. I look in the mirror and see the person I always dreamt I could be.
It's time to embrace who I am 100%, so today I told my closest friend that I am bi. Although I new it wouldn't really be a huge shock to her,I was nervous as hell and didn't really know what to expect. As always true friends are super cool about these things and told me nothing would change. :)
So here I am!! The next step along the way!!
So if you fancy a chat, pop by and say hi.
T.L. xx
As long as I can remember I have felt an attraction towards other women, however it's only very recently I have been able to pluck up the courage to admit to myself and close friends that I am bi.
I remember it starting out as trying to find any possible excuse to kiss my girl friends,then an opportunity came up to share my boyfriend with one of my friends. I took the opportunity,however was too overwhelmed by the whole experience to take full advantage. (something I have regretted ever since)
After that I made a friend and she revealed that she was bi. We went clubbing together and kissed on numerous occasions (an experience I will never forget) however when I decided I was ready to take it one step further,she informed me that she didn't want to be anyones experiment.
This left me feeling very uncertain about how other bi,gay and lesbian peeps perceived me,so I decided to retreat and continue to keep my feelings for women to myself.
This all happened a long time ago and when I turned 30 last year I decide a number of things were going to change in my life. One of which was my appearance and attitude. My confidence has grown and I can truely say that I am more myself now than I have ever been in my life. I look in the mirror and see the person I always dreamt I could be.
It's time to embrace who I am 100%, so today I told my closest friend that I am bi. Although I new it wouldn't really be a huge shock to her,I was nervous as hell and didn't really know what to expect. As always true friends are super cool about these things and told me nothing would change. :)
So here I am!! The next step along the way!!
So if you fancy a chat, pop by and say hi.
T.L. xx