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GreenEyedLady(GEL)
May 25, 2008, 2:21 AM
Hello All !

I just wanted to tell you all hello and that I miss you all very much. I feel like i've been swept up in a whirl wind lately. My life has changed so fast and so drastically this past month, and its so much more busier than i'm used to. My sweet Jill ....I have to say that having gawked at this woman from across the water every time she cut the grass for the past 2 and half years and now her living with me is freaking unreal to me. Infact her and I were just talking about that today, she asks me if I still find the idea of her living with me was still really different for me. Like if its some crazy dream and were about to wake up. I basically told her to pinch me because its unreal. I'm in love. From the depths of my heart I know it. I've had past relationships where my heart has pitter pattered when she/he enters the room, but I've never felt like I couldnt stand to be apart from them. And from the sounds of it, neither has Jill. She's definitely a permanant fixture in my life. We clicked. Pretty much instantly once we actually started talking and not that polite wave when were both out with our dogs ( which I found was her plan of attack to see me when she could. :) ). Speaking of her "home " across the water ( its a canal really ) is where the "family" lives. Basically Jill had been living a poly life, and in a million years I never would have guessed that. She was only with Dave, the husband , and not the wife. About 9 years ago she and Dave became attracted to one another and Dave immdiately shared this with his wife, and she said " if your going to be with her she is moving in with us. " 9-10 years later they reamian in the relationship, and Jill wanting out. She believes she's always been more attracted to women, but had the same struggles most of us had/has. Lucky for me she now believes shes lesbian. :) Ultimately Jill is out of the house and now with me, and yes you guessed it, were always under surveilence from across the water lol. Yes were moving !!! Tho im reluctant , pretty much because my home here kicks ass and I love it so much, I dont really want to move. But I will, we will be within the next month or two. She blows my mind folksies.

Sooooooo. With that, im just not here as much, which is why im writing. I miss you all. I have some super fucking close friends here, and believe me when I tell you that be it as may, most of us havnt met in person, but we've grown wonderfully close, you are in my heart, and I do think of some of you quite often. I think Jill will enjoy the forums once she remembers a place like this exsists lol She SO NOT a chatter. Crazy, I thought everyone on this planet with the means, has chatted lol Not to mention id feel weird chatting in front of her right now anyway. I don't think alot of nonchatters get how attatched us chatters get to one another. But then again shes extremely open minded and super fun !!! I think enventually she might be interested in becoming more involved with me on this. We took a monster step moving in together, now its baby steps getting to know one another. The best part in my book. She's crazing inlove with music as I am so were usally jamming out to our favorite music ( folk / indie rock ) and through her I've learned 50 cent isnt half bad lol She is a Beatles nut as well as Led Zep head. Crazy cool lady indeedy. So.....hence my absence, but im having fun ! Miss you all !
Love,
Lynn Anne

matterinhand
May 25, 2008, 6:05 AM
All you need is love, so come together and let it be.
Seriously, Good luck.

darkeyes
May 25, 2008, 7:22 AM
..an ya dunno jus how dead huffed me is for ya ya tart!!! Not fore time an all is all me sez... ya get haff the joy an fun Naggy an me get yas gonna b fine!!! Jus make sure yas r... er taste in music is a bit dodgy..but not every1 has the Fran impeccable... folk sounds gud..but don spose its folk as me knows an plays it... havta get er in wiv me dad...he a big Beatles an led Zep fan..silly ole fart.. main thing Lynne an Jill is yas happy.. an togetha face the world as 1... liv luff learn an luff more..

Kissies n huggles 2 yas both from us all ere.

Fran Kate Shiv n Lou xoxoxoxoxox

PS..don giv a sod wetha she chatter or not..me expects 2 hav natter..so u tell er...:tong:

Diane54
May 25, 2008, 8:20 AM
Hey Great!
I Guess Congrats is in order.
My heart-throb say's she is straight, Darn, so I am still lookibg for what you have found.
XXOOXX :rotate:

darkeyes
May 25, 2008, 8:46 AM
..an ya dunno jus how dead huffed me is for ya :tong: Oops.. big OOPS an all.. meant 2 say chuffed..tee hee:bigrin:

jamieknyc
May 25, 2008, 9:45 AM
Although I have told you this before, it is worth repeating: it is wonderful that you are so happy. You deserve it.

12voltman59
May 25, 2008, 10:15 AM
Congrats GEL--I am glad that you and your lady got together and are happy with each other--it is too bad that you have to leave a house and piece of Earth that you dearly love---but I guess we can't have it all.

I wish you all the best in your move and in your relationship with Jill, may we all be so fortunate to find such a relationship.

csrakate
May 25, 2008, 11:07 AM
So very glad to see you so happy!!!

Hugs,
Kate

arana
May 25, 2008, 4:41 PM
Although you're missed, Gel, it's wonderful to see you're so happy. I hope everything keeps getting better and better for you, you deserve it.

Big Hugs

Cherokee_Mountaincat
May 25, 2008, 7:29 PM
Sweet GEL,
I am So tickled for you! I wish you and your honey all the love and happiness that there is!:wiggle2:
Biiig Hugz
Cat:paw:

Annika L
May 25, 2008, 8:42 PM
Lynn Anne,

Ever since I first heard you talking about this woman over two years ago I have been hoping for you, that you'd finally get to meet her and to talk with her...that you've ended up *living* with her is just too cool for words! I am so happy for you that things have worked out so amazingly well!

I wish you both the best!

GreenEyedLady(GEL)
May 26, 2008, 12:13 AM
Thank you Annika, I do recall blabbering on about Jill to you once upon a time. Infact I recall me and Tiger talking on the phone, me drinking beers with a bon fire and her trying to help me get up the courage to say hi lol I thank you for wishing me well, I wish you all the best in return.

MarieDelta
May 26, 2008, 9:12 AM
Its so great to have you happy and in love GEL!

All the best and wonderful things to come!


I still expect to hear from you now & again!!

all the best to both of you,

Marie

**Peg**
May 26, 2008, 9:32 AM
YAHOO ... very happy 4 U GEL...

darlin, don't move, just plant a fast-growing hedge or build a big tall fence :)

much happiness to you both

>>tight hugs<<

**Peg**

onewhocares
May 26, 2008, 9:42 PM
GELLY my dear cutie pie,

I am thrilled for you....more than you know. I wish you and Jill the best....for it is yet to come.

Belle

meteast chick
Jun 1, 2008, 4:25 PM
GEL,

From one green eyed lady to another...CONTRATS! Isn't it fantastic to have finally found what your heart desires? I must say I'm in the same boat as you are as far as not being here as much due to a lady friend. Yes, my girl Kim (aka Roxy Ruthless to anyone who knows the Arch Rival Roller Girls in St Louis!) and I have been hot and heavy for awhile now and I've been a little MIA from this site too! I will say we have more similar tastes in music. We both dig the girl rock! (Jack Off Jill( how appropriate, yeah?), The Donnas, Betty Blowtorch, among others, plus a little Johnny Cash and a smattering of 80's music thrown in!).

Just enjoy what you have while you have it and make no excuses! I just hope to run into you when both of us have a pause!

Take care,
luv and kisses,
Rachelle aka meteast_chick

the mage
Jun 2, 2008, 9:27 AM
Be Well GEL...and to A/all its pretty much goodbye for me too.

This site has become stale and redundant. The size and anonymity allow too much bullshit for proper discourse. The open source front page allows all ages all over the world to see all the postings with resulting garbage tossed in. I am involved in Love with 3 fine people in the real world now. Not found thru here I might add, but thru good old Craigslist in one case and serendipity in the other.
I prefer involvement in local message boards more related to my life now where the people meet in real life regularly., so to the relief of many I will almost never be seen here again.
.Be Well A/all...
Life is short and its all you've got. Live it in truth and peace will follow.

Eddie altamonte
Jun 2, 2008, 9:45 AM
May there always be happiness through love for you GEL. We will miss you but you will always be a warm part of our hearts in all of us. We are happy to see that it is possible to achieve what your heart desires

CalanderGirl
Jun 3, 2008, 12:24 AM
Sweet Woman,

I really hope that this is the answer to both of your prayers. Take care and know that we all are thinking about you!!!


Kisses;

Nay xo

GreenEyedLady(GEL)
Jun 3, 2008, 4:00 AM
I hope so too ! Day to day its been a blast so far. We did move in really really fast , so alot of times were out doing things and getting to know one another. Crazy as it all seems , and I know it does because I only knew her from waving back and forth. Hehe , so we talk alot. And its so much fun. We eat out sooo much more than we should, and its not real healthy, but its been at really nice resturants, some we've not been to before so it was fun. I leave for SC in 2 days, so 10 days away from her. Kind of sucks , but I have been looking forward to see my sister so bad. Just wish she could go to ;-) Its going to be a flippen blast. Myrtle Beach here I come !!!!!

GreenEyedLady(GEL)
Jun 3, 2008, 4:11 AM
ps --

Im getting this tattood on the back of my neck tomorrow. Not the writing, just the picture.

kitten
Jun 3, 2008, 7:39 AM
HUGS! and welcome Jill!
I am happy to hear your great news and wish you both the best!

more hugs-
Kitten

PolyLoveTriad
Jun 3, 2008, 8:21 AM
Im so happy for you! Squeeeee! Nice that you have found someone who makes you feel that way :) Hehe you make me feel happy just reading about it! *hugs*

gfofbiguy
Jun 3, 2008, 9:56 PM
YAYYYYYYYYYY GEL!!!!!! I'm so happy for you!!! Congratulations!!!:smilies15:rotate::bounce: You soooooo deserve this! Congratulations to you both!

(Put in the fence or fast, high-growing bushes, don't move if you can help it! You have a beautiful home!)

Love,

gfofbiguy & Bisexualnewbie;):bigrin:

GreenEyedLady(GEL)
Jun 7, 2008, 3:29 AM
Well im on vacation , in South Carolina got in weds. I'll have to be honest, id much rather have Jill with me. New job , so no vacation for her. Im having a great time, but Il tell ya what I miss that lil lady :) Im not normally the type that cant stand to be away from their partner. Im always the one that pressed for time away. Not this time, so Im thinking im totally screwed, I done fell in love lol.