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Sex in Words
Mar 27, 2008, 8:50 PM
It is with great regret (but a whole lot of bitterness) that I have resigned from my position as Feature Articles Editor on bisexual.com.

I know people are confused about the status of the feature articles...I wish I could give you answers. But what I can say is that I am damn disappointed that this wonderful community includes so many assholes who deem it appropriate to comment on the photos of the writers—myself and others.

Really, I don't give a shit what you bitter motherfuckers think of my photo. I am confident and cocksure enough to know that I am damn hot. But I am not someone who sits back and takes bullshit from nameless, faceless bastards. You have no right to that. If this were a paysite that you signed up for and were promised hot people of only your type, then sure, your little mind would have something to complain about. But it is NOT so get over yourselves.

The authors of these articles are the faces of bisexuality. They are here bringing you information, guidance, history and fun. I have been honoured to work with every single one of my writers and you should all thank your lucky fucking stars for their hard work. Instead, a group of you have taken to insulting and disrespecting them. Shame on your petty little souls.

Depending on what happens with the site, I may very well be back. I take great pride in this site and I am so lucky to have met and chatted with so many of you. I thank all of you who have counter-commented when some jerk shoots his/her mouth off. You are the community I yearn for and hope to keep building. Unfortunately, I can't do it in this environment anymore at this time.

I hope you've enjoyed the words we've presented. I know I've enjoyed bring them to the bisexual.com family.

Regretfully,

Jon

csrakate
Mar 27, 2008, 8:57 PM
Jon,
I am so very sad to hear of your decision but I can surely understand that you have been driven to make this move. I hope you know that many of us have truly appreciated your contributions and have enjoyed your articles....I think I speak for many when I give you kudos for a job well done.

Good luck to you and I hope you stick around....there's got to be hope for this site and if all the good ones run off, we've allowed the rude minority to win!

Hugs,
Kate

Doggie_Wood
Mar 27, 2008, 8:58 PM
Jon - sorry to see ya leave and I do truely hope you come back. I know as of late there have been a growing number of FMP.
Take a break dood, hopefully we'll see ya back in a while.

:doggie:

shameless agitator
Mar 27, 2008, 9:01 PM
We'll miss you Jon. It's a shame to let the few assholes on here drive off the valuable members like yourself. Thank you for all the great work you have done for us & I hope we'll see you again.

Peace
Denver

alaskacouple
Mar 27, 2008, 9:08 PM
We're sort of new here, and I'm not too sure what has happened - but, it is people like you who do the hard "behind the scene" work to make a site like this work. I hope that you might reconsider your decision. As "csrakate" said, if the good leaves that will only leave the bad... This site has been a breath of fresh air to us and we would hate to see it disintegrate. Anyway, try to be at peace - all things pass...

P.S. I just had to go look at your photos in your profile - IMO, you are a beautiful young man!

ambi53mm
Mar 27, 2008, 9:13 PM
Jon....We have certainly appreciated all of your valuable contributions and are sorry to see you leave....we bid you safe journey and hopefully sometime in the future... a safe return.

Ambi:)

vittoria
Mar 27, 2008, 9:47 PM
Jon,

Sorry to see you go. I understand how you feel. I wish you the best, and certainly hope to see you again soon.

V

Delilah
Mar 27, 2008, 10:04 PM
Jon!
Majority of us do appreciate you here and the work you do for this place. Those assholes who complains should be the one to be driven out. Is there a possible chance that we can talk you out of leaving us?

:(

bisexualinsocal
Mar 27, 2008, 10:57 PM
Don't get all bent out of shape over some pictureless fat fucks on this site. I learned real quick that this message board is full of 'hall monitor, parking ticket attendent, nosy-old-lady" chivatos who love nothing more than to point out anything that violates their nanny-senses. This is includes, but is not limited to pictures, tone of speech, alleged chats, alleged political beliefs and anything that flies in the face of their religious environmentalism (namely, common sense). My advice is to laugh at and ridicule their sad attempts to pigeonhole you into ridiculous attempts to defend yourself.

At least you have a picture whereas these fat-ass housewives are logging on here gossiping and cohorting to stir drama.

csrakate
Mar 27, 2008, 11:09 PM
Don't get all bent out of shape over some pictureless fat fucks on this site. I learned real quick that this message board is full of 'hall monitor, parking ticket attendent, nosy-old-lady" chivatos who love nothing more than to point out anything that violates their nanny-senses. This is includes, but is not limited to pictures, tone of speech, alleged chats, alleged political beliefs and anything that flies in the face of their religious environmentalism (namely, common sense). My advice is to laugh at and ridicule their sad attempts to pigeonhole you into ridiculous attempts to defend yourself.

At least you have a picture whereas these fat-ass housewives are logging on here gossiping and cohorting to stir drama.

At the risk of being called a "fat-ass" housewife, I simply cannot let this go....I can't believe that you would use this thread to spread your vitriolic beliefs! If this was meant as a show of support...you sure as hell missed the boat! As for the fat ass housewives "logging on here gossiping and cohorting to stir drama", the most drama being stirred here lately has been stirred by YOU! And by the way....the majority of the rude comments posted towards this fine man were made by MEN.

Kate

jem_is_bi
Mar 27, 2008, 11:12 PM
I do not understand getting upset because of bad comments about pictures.
You get slammed if you do not have a picture and if you do have a picture.
So what?
I do not care if people that I do not know think I look awful.
I only care that the people I care about like and respect me.
I would like to see more articles with or without pictures.

BronzeBobby
Mar 27, 2008, 11:31 PM
Good luck in the future! I enjoyed your articles very much.

12voltman59
Mar 27, 2008, 11:34 PM
Bisexualinsocal---you are one sorry excuse for a person--you are a relative newbie here and in your time here--you have not contributed one thing at all positive to this site--you spread your negativity and such to this site.

You seem like a very nasty and bitter person--and it does seem that the misery in your life--you like to spread it--like the old saying "misery loves company!!!"

I don't know what your reason for coming here was other than to be negative---well you have succeeded in that.

You sure as hell don't have any right to go making value judgements about some very good people when you are such a sorry specimen----

In terms of looks being so important---you are no great shakes yourself---so you certainly have no room to talk in that regard, but you know--I generally say that to me--I don't care all that much on how people look--but you sir--are ugly--not because of your physical appearance--but because you have a nasty disposition and a very dark soul---

Please take your nastiness and vile personage elsewhere----go chat in the bisexual themed chat rooms on AOL or some such place---you fit into such places rather well---but not here---and I am going to do my damndest to see that you are indeed banned for the comments you have made here on this thread.

12voltman59
Mar 27, 2008, 11:48 PM
Now that I got that off my chest---I have to say a public goodbye and apology to Trade for the shit he had to put up with--sorry my man that we had some total 100% USDA Prime Grade Assholes who dissed you and those you interviewed over some stupid shit---that seems to be par for the course on here lately---and I am sick of it--I have to say --I am pretty much done here now myself---it seems like trying to care and make the place good is pretty much an uphill battle since we seem to have attracted so many jerks stinking up the place---

I guess the assholes can have the place and make it pick up city and such---at this point I almost don't care----

To Trade--I am sad to see ya go--but I understand fully well why--there are reasons beyond your control I am sure that kept you from posting up new articles lately--but I do thank you for your past work---and good luck in whatever else you do.

Take care man!!

stuporman
Mar 27, 2008, 11:50 PM
Bisexualinsocal---you are one sorry excuse for a person--you are a relative newbie here and in your time here--you have not contributed one thing at all positive to this site--you spread your negativity and such to this site.

You seem like a very nasty and bitter person--and it does seem that the misery in your life--you like to spread it--like the old saying "misery loves company!!!"

I don't know what your reason for coming here was other than to be negative---well you have succeeded in that.

You sure as hell don't have any right to go making value judgements about some very good people when you are such a sorry specimen----

In terms of looks being so important---you are no great shakes yourself---so you certainly have no room to talk in that regard, but you know--I generally say that to me--I don't care all that much on how people look--but you sir--are ugly--not because of your physical appearance--but because you have a nasty disposition and a very dark soul---

Please take your nastiness and vile personage elsewhere----go chat in the bisexual themed chat rooms on AOL or some such place---you fit into such places rather well---but not here---and I am going to do my damndest to see that you are indeed banned for the comments you have made here on this thread.

Hey guys, lets cool off shall we? I mean on ANY site there are a couple of faceless assholes...but why let that spoil the fun? I'm not exactly mr sweetness and light myself, but i've met some cool people on here, and this site has helped me through some hard times. yes, there are self righteous women and pissed off men anywhere you go..that's the nature of the human animal.
I been gamblin eherabouts for ten good solid years, and if i told you all that went down it would burn off both your ears...." Grateful Dead

Lateralus
Mar 28, 2008, 1:05 AM
You leaving isn't gonna make the haters go away. All it's gonna do is hurt the members that enjoyed your articles. Not everyone in life is gonna think highly of you. I personally love your style and think of you as being inspiring as well as good looking. Others may not, so what? Whatever decision you make I hope you're happy with it and wish you nothing but the best.

12voltman59
Mar 28, 2008, 1:19 AM
Well--it is a matter of getting tired of all the crap that has been going on here of late----it seems we have nasty stuff going on in the chat rooms and here on the boards-I am just tired of it--and with all the stuff going on in the real world that can bum ya out-why come here to get bummed too???

bisexualinsocal
Mar 28, 2008, 2:01 AM
Bisexualinsocal---you are one sorry excuse for a person--you are a relative newbie here and in your time here--you have not contributed one thing at all positive to this site--you spread your negativity and such to this site.

You seem like a very nasty and bitter person--and it does seem that the misery in your life--you like to spread it--like the old saying "misery loves company!!!"

I don't know what your reason for coming here was other than to be negative---well you have succeeded in that.

You sure as hell don't have any right to go making value judgements about some very good people when you are such a sorry specimen----

In terms of looks being so important---you are no great shakes yourself---so you certainly have no room to talk in that regard, but you know--I generally say that to me--I don't care all that much on how people look--but you sir--are ugly--not because of your physical appearance--but because you have a nasty disposition and a very dark soul---

Please take your nastiness and vile personage elsewhere----go chat in the bisexual themed chat rooms on AOL or some such place---you fit into such places rather well---but not here---and I am going to do my damndest to see that you are indeed banned for the comments you have made here on this thread.

You've already tried. It's becoming quite hilarious.

Doggie_Wood
Mar 28, 2008, 6:42 AM
Glad to see my terminology is spreading :bigrin:

in order to be great, one must emulate greatness :bigrin:

:doggie:

Doggie_Wood
Mar 28, 2008, 6:53 AM
You've already tried. It's becoming quite hilarious.

What a dickweed

GreenEyedLady(GEL)
Mar 28, 2008, 7:21 AM
Jon,

You needed to vent , and I am so glad that you did ! You didn't say anything untrue. If you really believe resigning is the best option for you at this time, I wish you well. But do you know if Drew has someone lined up to fill your postion ? As far as the status of the site should we be concerned of it closing down ?

Lynn Anne

the mage
Mar 28, 2008, 8:06 AM
When you post a picture you expose your self.
When you post your thoughts you do the same.

Some people on this site have time and again shown a bitter nasty hard side which they love to use to hurt others, ad hoc. That will not change.
Leaving the site doesn't change that. It empowers the assholes.

I too removed my pic, ages ago, due to some annoying comments, and the zirconium puppy's bitter rude remarks towards my Lady's pics show that even the "regulars" feel no need to exhibit normal social niceties. So it goes. Its the internet.

Real people come in packages that were meant to be observed and consumed in their entirety in person.
Online meeting, like cocaine, only amplifies personalities to an extreme.
LIke Robin says.. "What if your an asshole?"

BronzeBobby
Mar 28, 2008, 10:36 AM
Hey guys, lets cool off shall we? I mean on ANY site there are a couple of faceless assholes...but why let that spoil the fun? I'm not exactly mr sweetness and light myself, but i've met some cool people on here, and this site has helped me through some hard times. yes, there are self righteous women and pissed off men anywhere you go..that's the nature of the human animal.
I been gamblin eherabouts for ten good solid years, and if i told you all that went down it would burn off both your ears...." Grateful Dead

I agree with Stuporman. If it were not for the occasional flame from a nasty person on the site, the discussion threads would get kind of boring, no? It would be a continuous stream of "I think I might be bi, what do I do?" and "oh, we all love and support you, be strong," etc. Sometimes it's good to have a total douchebag come in and bash our sacred cows; I, for one, am more likely to read threads that are controversial than threads that are predictably congenial. Just a thought. Let people say mean things, and then move on.

12voltman59
Mar 28, 2008, 12:12 PM
I agree with Stuporman. If it were not for the occasional flame from a nasty person on the site, the discussion threads would get kind of boring, no? It would be a continuous stream of "I think I might be bi, what do I do?" and "oh, we all love and support you, be strong," etc. Sometimes it's good to have a total douchebag come in and bash our sacred cows; I, for one, am more likely to read threads that are controversial than threads that are predictably congenial. Just a thought. Let people say mean things, and then move on.

Well my frustration is not that we have just a little bit of flaming and such on here anymore--it is becoming the rule and not the exception.
We have people pissing on and at each other on here and we have people pissing on and at each other in the chat room nearly all the time---

I don't much care for "happy horse shit" either---but it would be nice to come here and not have all the constant bullshit sniping----I have been here over two years now and this is the worst patch we have had---and I am not the only one who feels this way--it has become a major topic of discussion by many on here---

It is too bad--- things do change and this place has, I am sorry to say--has changed not for the better.

Too damn bad!!!!!

Delilah
Mar 28, 2008, 1:57 PM
That's a damn shame. You two are real down to Earth people and it shows.
It's a pitty that some faceless asshole does that to people who is real. I bet most of their profiles is totally bogus.




I too removed my pic, ages ago, due to some annoying comments, and the zirconium puppy's bitter rude remarks towards my Lady's pics show that even the "regulars" feel no need to exhibit normal social niceties. So it goes. Its the internet.

Delilah
Mar 28, 2008, 2:17 PM
Let's all stop fighting for awhile and use this thread as a tribute to our dear friend Jon. Hopefully we can talk him out of leaving. Please, let's respect this thread. It's his goodbye and we should honor him and respect him.

the mage
Mar 28, 2008, 4:07 PM
I can understand cutting back activity, and if you just don't enjoy cumming here then of course, don't, but do not stop because of other people.
Thats self abuse.

DiamondDog
Mar 28, 2008, 4:13 PM
When you post a picture you expose your self.
When you post your thoughts you do the same.

Some people on this site have time and again shown a bitter nasty hard side which they love to use to hurt others, ad hoc. That will not change.
Leaving the site doesn't change that. It empowers the assholes.

I too removed my pic, ages ago, due to some annoying comments, and the zirconium puppy's bitter rude remarks towards my Lady's pics show that even the "regulars" feel no need to exhibit normal social niceties. So it goes. Its the internet.

Real people come in packages that were meant to be observed and consumed in their entirety in person.
Online meeting, like cocaine, only amplifies personalities to an extreme.
LIke Robin says.. "What if your an asshole?"

Bitch please. Let's not get started on your own personal track record of flaming myself and other people on this site. :rolleyes:

You're one to say how tons of people here are assholes and show a bitter nasty hard side of themselves, which they love to use to hurt others and flame, and yet you're one of them!

More revisionist history postings will follow from you.

I will say this, if I REALLY wanted to actually be rude/bitter/hateful towards your "Lady" I'd say something a lot more worse than how I said that she looks like she's strung/stressed out and has used some meth in her time.

I don't see the big deal in saying this, and you yourself post openly about how you're into smoking lots of pot, and you've now written about cocaine use.

To Jon and everyone else: Don't take it so personally.

This board is VERY tame compared to other forums I've been/am on where people will insult other people over anything and everything.

An opinion on the Internet can only hurt you, if you let it hurt you.

I can totally also see why Jon doesn't want to be the editor anymore since one of the owners/administrators of this site Drew doesn't seem to care about this site anymore even to put new articles up, and I remember a post where Jon did write about how he'd tried putting up articles but how Drew has to put them up.

Doggie_Wood
Mar 28, 2008, 6:37 PM
Tit for Tat

(the Tat)


I too removed my pic, ages ago, due to some annoying comments, and the zirconium puppy's bitter rude remarks towards my Lady's pics show that even the "regulars" feel no need to exhibit normal social niceties. So it goes. Its the internet.


and

(the Tit)

Bitch please. Let's not get started on your own personal track record of flaming myself and other people on this site. :rolleyes:

You're one to say how tons of people...........


So themage starts it and the DD HAS to retaliate. Jeeeeez!


Children! Children!
Behave and (please) STOP fighting!

For the life of me, I can not understand why two intelligent men have to act like two 6th grade kids. Tit for Tat, all the frigging time.
You two keep this shit up and I wouldn't be the least bit surprised if the both of you get bannished!
Please! Please! GROW UP and act like adults, not your shoe size! PLEASE!

DiamondDog
Mar 28, 2008, 9:00 PM
Tit for Tat

(the Tat)


and

(the Tit)


So themage starts it and the DD HAS to retaliate. Jeeeeez!


Children! Children!
Behave and (please) STOP fighting!

For the life of me, I can not understand why two intelligent men have to act like two 6th grade kids. Tit for Tat, all the frigging time.
You two keep this shit up and I wouldn't be the least bit surprised if the both of you get bannished!
Please! Please! GROW UP and act like adults, not your shoe size! PLEASE!

is it OK if we start posting a lot about how global warming is a myth, and how global warming is an ugly bitch that does not exist?

DiamondDog
Mar 28, 2008, 9:09 PM
Don't get all bent out of shape over some pictureless fat fucks on this site. I learned real quick that this message board is full of 'hall monitor, parking ticket attendent, nosy-old-lady" chivatos who love nothing more than to point out anything that violates their nanny-senses. This is includes, but is not limited to pictures, tone of speech, alleged chats, alleged political beliefs and anything that flies in the face of their religious environmentalism (namely, common sense). My advice is to laugh at and ridicule their sad attempts to pigeonhole you into ridiculous attempts to defend yourself.

At least you have a picture whereas these fat-ass housewives are logging on here gossiping and cohorting to stir drama.

What is a chivato? Someone who loves to gossip?

Also who are the people/women who you're talking about?

I can see one example below this post if this is what you're talking about.

Fire Lotus
Mar 28, 2008, 9:19 PM
I have one thing to say to DD and Mage: Do not make this thread about you! Both of you are being little boys. One of you holds out bait and the other one takes it. Both of you, Knock it off!

Back on topic - It's really a shame Jon has made the decision to resign. As someone who had an official position on the site, he was someone who actually cared about this place.

Lately this place has been going down the shit hole. That to me is really sad.

csrakate
Mar 28, 2008, 9:27 PM
What is a chivato? Someone who loves to gossip?

chivato:
A Spanish word for "informer." It could also mean "rat" or "stool pidgeon."
For example:
"...he had chivatos like that working for him, his judgment stinks." (Alejandro Sosa, from the 1983 movie Scarface)

OK....now that you boys have learned a new way to insult people, in another language, no less....can we PLEASE remember what this thread is for??? It was bad enough that bisexualsocal posted that garbage to begin with, but now it's been given front and center attention by being quoted!! And DD and mage, as for "As the Pissing Match Turns"....please...I implore you two.....let it GO!!! You don't like him....he doesn't like you....Case closed!!

Jon....if you are even bothering to read this....please realize that despite the constant interruptions to see who can show their ass more than the other, this thread should really be devoted to show you that you will be missed. I would gladly trade these three for one of you anyday!!

Kate

PS....Diamond Dog...I don't give a damn if you and bisexualsocal think I am a "fat ass housewife" or not....I think it is obvious that I am not in the minority as to how I feel about the many nasty posts that y'all make....but one thing that I am NOT is a snitch, and I have never run to "nanny", as bisexualsocal calls it, to complain about you! I have simply asked that you please put a stop to all of the negativity. Believe what you will...but if either of you think that I would waste a single moment of my day to gossip about you, you are most assuredly legends in your own minds.

bisexualinsocal
Mar 28, 2008, 9:36 PM
What is a chivato? Someone who loves to gossip?

Also who are the people/women who you're talking about?

I can see one example below this post if this is what you're talking about.

Test... test... test... ;)


Well I used the term "Chivato" in the way Tony Montana uses it to describe the communist nanny's who monitor the behavior of regular people to find some alleged wrongdoing. A Chivato would then report that behavior to the state in order to gain favor in the eyes of the government.

DiamondDog
Mar 28, 2008, 9:52 PM
chivato:
A Spanish word for "informer." It could also mean "rat" or "stool pidgeon."
For example:
"...he had chivatos like that working for him, his judgment stinks." (Alejandro Sosa, from the 1983 movie Scarface)

OK....now that you boys have learned a new way to insult people, in another language, no less....can we PLEASE remember what this thread is for??? It was bad enough that bisexualsocal posted that garbage to begin with, but now it's been given front and center attention by being quoted!! And DD and mage, as for "As the Pissing Match Turns"....please...I implore you two.....let it GO!!! You don't like him....he doesn't like you....Case closed!!

Jon....if you are even bothering to read this....please realize that despite the constant interruptions to see who can show their ass more than the other, this thread should really be devoted to show you that you will be missed. I would gladly trade these three for one of you anyday!!

Kate

PS....Diamond Dog...I don't give a damn if you and bisexualsocal think I am a "fat ass housewife" or not....I think it is obvious that I am not in the minority as to how I feel about the many nasty posts that y'all make....but one thing that I am NOT is a snitch, and I have never run to "nanny" as bisexualsocal calls it, to complain about you! I have simply asked that you please put a stop to all of the negativity. Believe what you will...but if either of you think that I would waste a single moment of my day to gossip about you, you are most assuredly legends in your own minds.

Who said that I was even writing about you in my post?

Since you're really that worried about your reputation here on this site, No I wasn't writing about you at all in my last post.

I was talking about how lots of people here seem to like to dictate what can and can't be written about, or there's one person here on this site who is crazier than a shithouse rat and she thinks that if you happen to disagree with anything that she or her tool of a boyfriend post that you're threataning her or being "racist" because you don't agree with her, and sadly she has to play the flame card/race card because her arguments don't hold water and are absurd.

No I'm not going to out this closeted crazy woman and her tool of a boyfriend but they have been known to harass people via private message, and they've accused friends of mine on here of doing things that they're flat out lying about.

Flounder1967
Mar 28, 2008, 11:18 PM
It is with great regret (but a whole lot of bitterness) that I have resigned from my position as Feature Articles Editor on bisexual.com.

I know people are confused about the status of the feature articles...I wish I could give you answers. But what I can say is that I am damn disappointed that this wonderful community includes so many assholes who deem it appropriate to comment on the photos of the writers—myself and others.

Really, I don't give a shit what you bitter motherfuckers think of my photo. I am confident and cocksure enough to know that I am damn hot. But I am not someone who sits back and takes bullshit from nameless, faceless bastards. You have no right to that. If this were a paysite that you signed up for and were promised hot people of only your type, then sure, your little mind would have something to complain about. But it is NOT so get over yourselves.

The authors of these articles are the faces of bisexuality. They are here bringing you information, guidance, history and fun. I have been honoured to work with every single one of my writers and you should all thank your lucky fucking stars for their hard work. Instead, a group of you have taken to insulting and disrespecting them. Shame on your petty little souls.

Depending on what happens with the site, I may very well be back. I take great pride in this site and I am so lucky to have met and chatted with so many of you. I thank all of you who have counter-commented when some jerk shoots his/her mouth off. You are the community I yearn for and hope to keep building. Unfortunately, I can't do it in this environment anymore at this time.

I hope you've enjoyed the words we've presented. I know I've enjoyed bring them to the bisexual.com family.

Regretfully,

Jon



Jon,

Thanls for all the help you have put in. Sometimes you just need a break. Your doing more than i could ever do for this site and myself. I just want to say thanks. I hope you will stay and just talk to friends.

diB4u
Mar 29, 2008, 7:35 AM
tradeqt....

I understand why you have chosen to leave... When something that was passionate becomes passionless, when instead of waking up really looking forward to doing a task, instead you try and delay it for as long as possible.... Then you know in your own heart that it is indeed time to move on.

Thank you for the help that you have shown me.

I hope that you stick around for longer as a normal member. I agree that in the world of GLBT community, the bisexuals dont have so much of a say, or a political voice.

I think I've said it before and I'll say it again....

Just because most of us, identify with the term "bisexual" or you have a partner that is bisexual.... or a daughter, or a son.. or even a friend.... These people... Us we are all individual and we're all seeking different things in life as well as from sites like this one.

Good luck tradeqt- and if I can ever help you... Just let me know.

:2cents:

12voltman59
Mar 29, 2008, 1:13 PM
Well-I have gone to "Drew" or who ever it is who reads things directed to our present, past?? leader and said that I do think that bisexualinsocal should get the boot from here.

I don't have a problem with people who have strong opinoins on things like many on here do--for most of them--if I don't like what they have to say--I simply don't pay much attention to the things they post--

With Bisexualinsocal--I make it very clear my problems with him---beyond the fact that I do disagree pretty well diametrically with what he says and must believe---that is fine--the problem I have with him---he can never come to a point that he can even say--"OK--I think you are full of shit and stupid for what you think about X--but I at least respect your position."

If he did that --then my beef with him would be over--it is like I said--if we could come to a point that we agree to disagree--that would be great----and that is the nature of a real conversation if the respective parties do feel very different on things and can still come to that point--but that is not for him--he has to make little nasty, childish remarks about things---like the time he told me "you should not breed!"

Now what kind of reasonable, rational, intelligent type of response is that???

Dealing with Bisexualinsocal really reminds me of when I was back in elementary school and kids would get into those stupid kid arguments where someone would say something like "you are butt ugly!" ---"Am not"--"Am too and you got cooties!!!"

As I said in previous posts about Bisexualinsolcal---there is no reasonoing with an unreasoning and unreasonable person!!!

All he does here is go about spreading his nuggets of negativity and nastiness that does nothing to do any good--it only serves to sew dissension and such and while he is not the only one at fault--it is his actions on here that are playing a very large part in serving to bring this place down---and that is I would think --now a very real possiblity that the person that in the recent past has served as the owners of the site's "official face" has chosen to resign thanks to the nastiness, childishness and stupidty on the part of a handful of individuals.

So yes--I am proud that I am trying to get Bisexualinsocal booted from here!!!

bisexualinsocal
Mar 29, 2008, 4:35 PM
check.... check.... check..... ;)


You make me laugh!

Stargazer1417
Mar 29, 2008, 8:06 PM
Wow... just... wow. I don't even know what else to say.

First and foremost, it amazes me that people actually take the time to send nasty comments to a writer on this site because they didn't care for their photo. And to the point that Jon is now angry, and bitterly leaving the site... Seriously, are some people just that bored, that they have nothing better to do with their day than look through pictures and send nastigrams to the people they don't find visually appealing for whatever reason? Jon, I'm so sorry to read this. I know it is hard to ignore people like that... but I hope you won't stay away long.

Beyond that, I can't believe some of the comments that have been posted subsequent to Jon's. Good grief, people. I wish just once I could check out the forums and not see countless instances of needless bickering and bitching. I've posted on this general topic before. I don't know... its a real turn off to the whole site. I also think it is disrespectful to Jon in this particular instance.

onewhocares
Mar 30, 2008, 9:33 AM
As much as I agree with the state of condition on this site..this thread is NOT the place to tackle these issues...this is to speak of Jon and the fine work he has done for ALL of us to share. The articles which he has been able to present here have been interesting, informative and most enjoyable to read. He has brought articles to us to enlighten us and showcase the talents of many. I know that I shall sure miss him.

Jon I wish you well in your future endeavors and please try and come to visit.

Belle

the mage
Mar 30, 2008, 3:13 PM
I have one thing to say to DD and Mage: Do not make this thread about you! Both of you are being little boys. One of you holds out bait and the other one takes it. Both of you, Knock it off!

Back on topic - It's really a shame Jon has made the decision to resign. As someone who had an official position on the site, he was someone who actually cared about this place.

Lately this place has been going down the shit hole. That to me is really sad.


No, I had no intent of starting anything, the beautiful and co-operative love that exuded from from DD's posting is surely intended for another lost soul. I was merely pointing out how easy it is to be nasty here, so well repeated by DD's most inspiring and eloquent posting.

The internet remains a place where cock pics as an intro are the norm.
We have degenerated 10,000 generations in social graces here.

DiamondDog
Mar 30, 2008, 6:11 PM
The internet remains a place where cock pics as an intro are the norm.
We have degenerated 10,000 generations in social graces here.

eh that's true, just look at how badly the Angie Bowie article and the thread in the article went downhill fast. :(

http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=4600&page=4

Our fighting with each other is dumb and pointless, and it's not helping things here, want to have a stalemate/truce?

Skater Boy
Mar 30, 2008, 6:28 PM
eh that's true, just look at how badly the Angie Bowie article and the thread in the article went downhill fast. :(

http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=4600&page=4

Our fighting with each other is dumb and pointless, and it's not helping things here, want to have a stalemate/truce?

OMG... what a noble thing to say. Mage... please do accept his offer! I'm not gonna suggest that you two should "kiss and make up", but I think you'd be doing yourselves a great favor by agreeing to call it quits.

Peg was right... there IS hope for the future! :)

At least sometimes.

BronzeBobby
Mar 30, 2008, 10:14 PM
eh that's true, just look at how badly the Angie Bowie article and the thread in the article went downhill fast. :(

http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=4600&page=4

Our fighting with each other is dumb and pointless, and it's not helping things here, want to have a stalemate/truce?

After reading through that whole thread about the Angie Bowie article, I am kind of disappointed that the author is quitting the site. There were only four or five members who posted truly derogatory things about his picture. Why let a few people push you away from a job you like?

Lateralus
Mar 30, 2008, 10:31 PM
eh that's true, just look at how badly the Angie Bowie article and the thread in the article went downhill fast. :(

http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=4600&page=4

Our fighting with each other is dumb and pointless, and it's not helping things here, want to have a stalemate/truce?

Don't do it! It's a trap!

TaylorMade
Mar 30, 2008, 10:38 PM
ur doin it rong.


http://photo.gangus.com/d/26788-2/ackbar.jpg


*Taylor*

wutheringheights
Mar 31, 2008, 7:36 AM
Even though it's beside the point of the thread, I've been really enjoying the back-and-forth abuse between different contributors here. So funny, so funny. This kind of bitchery takes me back to when I was in the Queer Society at my old university. It almost makes me wish someone would flame me.

allbimyself
Mar 31, 2008, 10:24 AM
Even though it's beside the point of the thread, I've been really enjoying the back-and-forth abuse between different contributors here. So funny, so funny. This kind of bitchery takes me back to when I was in the Queer Society at my old university. It almost makes me wish someone would flame me.You Aussies are so stupid you wouldn't catch on when someone is flaming you anyway!

Did that help? LOL

wutheringheights
Mar 31, 2008, 10:38 AM
You Aussies are so stupid you wouldn't catch on when someone is flaming you anyway!

Did that help? LOL

Well colour me flamed! Thanks.

allbimyself
Mar 31, 2008, 10:41 AM
Well colour me flamed! Thanks.Sheesh, you can't even spell 'color' right!

wutheringheights
Mar 31, 2008, 12:19 PM
Sheesh, you can't even spell 'color' right!

We use the Oxford spelling down here.

allbimyself
Mar 31, 2008, 12:25 PM
We use the Oxford spelling down here.

You're right the words hour and flour rhyme with colour and neighbour. Oops!

the mage
Mar 31, 2008, 5:47 PM
Don't do it! It's a trap!



oh fuck I SO laffed my ass off....

the mage
Mar 31, 2008, 6:01 PM
eh that's true, just look at how badly the Angie Bowie article and the thread in the article went downhill fast. :(

http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=4600&page=4

Our fighting with each other is dumb and pointless, and it's not helping things here, want to have a stalemate/truce?



Well that has been my attitude for a while.

I have posted positive responses to some of your stuff all along....

A bit of objectivity does help.

You REALLY pissed me off when I first came on here and the remarks deserved it. I was new here and WE were a tad reactionary.
As I posted before, time reveals issues. We all have them.
We are supposed to be here to talk them over and even fight over them. but basic civility is needed in all human communication or it cannot progress..

Truce was and is offered since that last big thread on this silliness.


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vittoria
Apr 1, 2008, 12:01 AM
ur doin it rong.


http://photo.gangus.com/d/26788-2/ackbar.jpg


*Taylor*

ROF LMAO ( Yahoo-style)