hotgagirl
Mar 10, 2008, 7:01 PM
hello everyone, i just thought id share a story for everyone who's looking for someone special......
It all started one summer afternoon in 2006. I was in the chat room as was my normal during the day and enjoying the convo with friends i knew when i get a PM. Now, normally i dont answer people i don't know but, something about this person told me to say "hi, how are u today?" And so I did. As it turns out it was a man from Georgia just looking to chat. Well we both asked the normal questions trying to get to know each other and ended up chatting most of the afternoon into the evening. Come to find out he was married with 2 children, and I was also married with 2 children. Well, as days went on we started meeting online to chat on his day's off from work (just as friends) of course. Until one day he met me online and was very sad and depressed. So I asked if there was anything he would like to talk about, maybe it would make him feel better to get it off of his chest so to speak. So he tells me, " my wife came home from California today and told me that she doesn't love me anymore and wants a divorce!" Well immediately i was heart broken for him, because i knew how much he cared for her and his children. But I offered him a shoulder to cry on and an ear to listen to help him through that tough time he was going through. And of course after a while it did get a little easier to deal with, then strike 2 comes. As usual we met online and started talking and again he sounded down in the dumps.... come to find out he got fired from his job that he'd been working at for 5 years, because someone set him up for something he didn't do. Well again I offered an ear to listen. Well as the days and weeks went on we became very close friends. Then on my end, I was in a very bad marriage and I had a baby less than a year old and my son, I finally decided enough was enough and packed my kids and myself and moved out. I told my husband I wanted a divorce. Well I moved back in with my parents and got a better job so that I could support my 2 children and hope for a better life for all of us. Again, days and weeks pass by and after a year i was finally granted my divorce. Meanwhile, me and as I came to know him James still chatted online and even on the p hone everyday. He was divorced several months before me and was now on his own. Well we made plans for him to come up to WV so that we could meet face to face, and see what happened from there. It ended up that we got along famously and wanted to see more of each other; but there was 1 small problem, we lived 650 miles apart! So, we did the long distance relationship for about a year and
I flew down when I could to visit. Then before u know it I'm packing again to move to Georgia with him and start a new life together. Now here we are 2 years later, still together and still as happy as we were the day we met. James(hotlantaguy) has asked me to marry him and we are to be married March 15th, 2008!!
I just wanted to share this story with all of you. You can see I met my soul mate right here on this site, and today I couldn't imagine my life without him in it. Dreams do come true even in the most usual way's, times, and places.
Even when your not looking. To all of you who are looking, DON'T GIVE UP!
your soul mate might be right under your nose.....................
thanks for reading!!
GOOD LUCK TO ALL OF YOU!!
hotgagirl
It all started one summer afternoon in 2006. I was in the chat room as was my normal during the day and enjoying the convo with friends i knew when i get a PM. Now, normally i dont answer people i don't know but, something about this person told me to say "hi, how are u today?" And so I did. As it turns out it was a man from Georgia just looking to chat. Well we both asked the normal questions trying to get to know each other and ended up chatting most of the afternoon into the evening. Come to find out he was married with 2 children, and I was also married with 2 children. Well, as days went on we started meeting online to chat on his day's off from work (just as friends) of course. Until one day he met me online and was very sad and depressed. So I asked if there was anything he would like to talk about, maybe it would make him feel better to get it off of his chest so to speak. So he tells me, " my wife came home from California today and told me that she doesn't love me anymore and wants a divorce!" Well immediately i was heart broken for him, because i knew how much he cared for her and his children. But I offered him a shoulder to cry on and an ear to listen to help him through that tough time he was going through. And of course after a while it did get a little easier to deal with, then strike 2 comes. As usual we met online and started talking and again he sounded down in the dumps.... come to find out he got fired from his job that he'd been working at for 5 years, because someone set him up for something he didn't do. Well again I offered an ear to listen. Well as the days and weeks went on we became very close friends. Then on my end, I was in a very bad marriage and I had a baby less than a year old and my son, I finally decided enough was enough and packed my kids and myself and moved out. I told my husband I wanted a divorce. Well I moved back in with my parents and got a better job so that I could support my 2 children and hope for a better life for all of us. Again, days and weeks pass by and after a year i was finally granted my divorce. Meanwhile, me and as I came to know him James still chatted online and even on the p hone everyday. He was divorced several months before me and was now on his own. Well we made plans for him to come up to WV so that we could meet face to face, and see what happened from there. It ended up that we got along famously and wanted to see more of each other; but there was 1 small problem, we lived 650 miles apart! So, we did the long distance relationship for about a year and
I flew down when I could to visit. Then before u know it I'm packing again to move to Georgia with him and start a new life together. Now here we are 2 years later, still together and still as happy as we were the day we met. James(hotlantaguy) has asked me to marry him and we are to be married March 15th, 2008!!
I just wanted to share this story with all of you. You can see I met my soul mate right here on this site, and today I couldn't imagine my life without him in it. Dreams do come true even in the most usual way's, times, and places.
Even when your not looking. To all of you who are looking, DON'T GIVE UP!
your soul mate might be right under your nose.....................
thanks for reading!!
GOOD LUCK TO ALL OF YOU!!
hotgagirl