Howdy

[MrOzGuy]

Howdy, just thought I would say G'day from Down under...

Been looking around the web and this forum looks like it could be a good start...

Just about everything else I have come across seems to be catering for everything else apart from anything related the Bisexuality....

Anyway I am here now...

And am presently dealing with whatever it is I feel inside me...

Those things being physical attractions to Males (Thought I might be fully gay at one point but that has sorta changed a little now), Females etc etc etc...

It is kind of like there is a divider in my head slicing it in two...

My frustration though lies with the fact that I have still never been with a woman....just men, which I have enjoyed, but have always felt like there is something lacking...Relationship wise I see myself being with a female more than a male, although I don't like to ever rule anything out...

Because, who cares what love is physically....RIght???

[BiphobiaFighter]

Howdy, just thought I would say G'day from Even Lower... :bigrin:

I'm new here too.

And I'm frustrated too since I've never been with anyone. I've known for years about my attractions to men and women but I haven't been able to act on any of them since I'm a quiet nerd concentrating on university and other things that aren't going out partying or meeting new people. Last year, I went through a pretty lonely period. I've asked a few people out (two women and I came close to asking one man out but I was glad that I didn't afterwards since he revealed he wasn't very pleasant) but I haven't had any success. There's one guy I would ask out in a second if he lived near me but I only know him from the Internet and he lives on the other side of the world (he isn't a creep, I know he really is who he says he is). I'm working on my social skills and not giving up. :)

[kitten]

Welcome to you both and I hope that you find the friendship and support that I have found here!

hugs and best wishes,

[MrOzGuy]

Welcome to you both and I hope that you find the friendship and support that I have found here!

hugs and best wishes,

Yeah I think that is what I am after right now....especially after my new years mistake...

But hey, I am human after all.... And I essentially did break my rule of not getting with anyone who was all closeted.....

[proseros]

Howdy in turn sir.
And Good-Day.

I understand where you're coming from and sympathize totally. I didn't have my first relationship with a woman until I was almost 40 and it was a MESS.

The relationship was incidental and I wen through ALL KINDS OF EMTIONAL AND PSYCHO-SOCIAL MADNESS. Until then the idea of an actual relationship with a woman repulsed me even though I always knew I loved women, I couldn't be the "heteromonogomologist" society expects men to be. My 'ideal' relationship with a woman always involved one other man and one other woman. My ideal marriage and parenthood also always involved mulitiple loving partners all of who were bisexual, that taken care of, provided all of what was needed physically, socially, and emotionally with as much intellectual and cultural diversity brought to the table.

She's my ex now, but she accepted my bisexuality only enough to know it existed. It was not something she could handle emotionally; but I enjoyed being able to agree that a guy was cute and admit that without shame, what gay and straight movies and just talk about those kinds of things very candidly. Most of the women I attract seem to get the bi-vibe from me and are bi themselves. But then I am very friendly with attractive men and women
(who are friendly with me).

I could just emphasize the importance of accepting your bisexuality and teaching yourself how to be friends with women and share your real issues with them without broadcasting or advertising who or what you are. Remember the kind of World you live in and always inspect situations for "dicretionary opportunity", as it were.

[BiphobiaFighter]

Welcome to you both and I hope that you find the friendship and support that I have found here!

hugs and best wishes,
Thanks, I am thoroughly enjoying myself here.

Hugs and best wishes for you (and MrOzGuy, proseros and all the others) too. :)