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heartylust
Dec 30, 2007, 9:42 AM
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I am wondering how do you let someone know you want to give them a bj.Don't want to offend anyone and you all know most guys love a hot bj.Any advice.

shameless agitator
Dec 30, 2007, 9:48 AM
Kinda depends. Are you out to the guy in question? Is he homophobic? The advice I usually give people with this kind of thing is just come out to him & see how he reacts. Just kind of wait a while & see if he gives you any kind of encouragement. If you don't really get any indication either way, and you're sure it would be safe to do so, you could try kissing him & see where that goes.

bityme
Dec 30, 2007, 10:12 AM
how do you know if guys will like a bj? Easy, check his pulse.

You do not say what the relationship is with the other guy. Does he know you are bisexual? Is he straight, bi, or gay? Is he someone you work with or just a friend.
Let him know your sexuality first. Gauge his response. Maybe ask if he has ever had sexual activity with a member of the same sex? Find out his feelings before you make the offer.
Do you work with him? If you do, move on to someone else. Mixing sex and the workplace can bring disaster. It might bring a moment of fun, but if he develops regret or remorse afterwards it could put your job on the line or create a sexual harassment nightmare.
Bottom line, don't make the offer until you are sure what the response will be.