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Studley2000
Dec 17, 2007, 1:57 PM
I've read many threads here saying that it is possible to get off from anal intercourse. Unfortunately (for me that is) I've never been able to do that. Not during anal intercourse, or when I'm using a toy. Can someone help me by telling me what I need to do, or possible what I'm doing wrong. Thanks:)

allbimyself
Dec 17, 2007, 2:04 PM
you need to make sure the prostate gets plenty of stimulation. It's located about 2" inside on the anterior wall.

DiamondDog
Dec 17, 2007, 2:13 PM
Use fingers and lube.

You can also do it externally and may find that this works a lot better for you than internally.

liquidcandycain
Dec 17, 2007, 7:08 PM
i thought that was a myth i dont want to sound stupid and im straight (the wife is bi) but i really thought it wasnt a real thing hmmmmmm

elian
Dec 17, 2007, 7:32 PM
Oh, its real - let's just say that regular sex play doesn't make me whimper. I've never had an orgasm from prostate stimulation alone (being that I'm solitary) but it's a lot of fun to play with and I could sure see how a person COULD cum that way.

Not really fond of anal all by itself right out of the blue but if I'm already really hot and horny anal play can be very pleasurable.

I have recently read however that if you are too aggressive with the massage you can actually damage the prostate so be careful - it honestly doesn't take that much PRESSURE to illicit the sensation.

elian
Dec 17, 2007, 7:40 PM
Sorry - I know it's off topic but I couldn't resist with the subject line and all..

--

The Internet Oracle has pondered your question deeply. Your question was:

> what is sex?
And in response, thus spake the Oracle:

Sex is what happens when a man and a woman...hmm, no, that's not
quite it. Sex is what happens when two (or more) people get together
and...do stuff. You know, nookie? No? Lovemaking? No? Ok, you must
know about the birds and the bees? No? *sigh* I thought not.

Ok, the bird comes along and sticks its beak into the..hmm, no
that's not quite it. The bee comes along and sticks its...well,
you see, it's like inserting tab A into slot B. Only you do it a lot
of times and the result can be more boxes if you're not careful, or
worse yet, tab A gets something from slot B and falls off. Or slot B
gets something from tab A and then you have to smear goopy cream all
over slot B, during which time inserting tab A into slot B is just
not going to happen, what kind of slot do you think B is anyways?
Meanwhile, tab A is busily being inserted into slot C or D, without
even so much as a phone call the day after. And tab M just looks on
just wishing it could be tab A, because nice tabs never get any slots.
And then there's tab F who actually likes tab R, but isn't sure if tab
R folds that way. Slot C eventually finds out about slot D and they
all find out about slot B, who in turn finds out about slot C and D
and in a vengeful plot, tears tab A from its box in a fit of passion.
Slot C ends up meeting tab M, and it turns out tab M fits perfectly
into slot C--no jostling or forceful cramming at all. Tab and slot
C are joined forever by tab K, who has sworn not to insert itself
into anything and a few months later, there are new tabs and slots
and everyone, except for A, is happy.

And that, my son, is how corrugated cardboard boxes are made.

bigregory
Dec 17, 2007, 9:56 PM
just a bit off topic elian

bigregory
Dec 17, 2007, 10:27 PM
Yes there is such a thing as a anal orgasm.
There is alot more to it than the prostate although it plays an inportant part.
This is not like a 3 minute quicky. how do I explain it.. hmm .
Ok you need to be in touch with your ass,all its nerves bumps lumps etc.
This needs a very relaxed session.
Could be some booze, drugs, mood lighting , music whatever gets you mellow,I like beer candles and poppers.
You may want to try it alone fist when you have some time to spend just playing with your ass and thinking about nothing else.
A dildo and lube are two things that you must get.
You must take your time and feel every nerve in your ass(there are many)
and after time you might just find the one that sends you to a truly orgasmic orgasm quite different than a cock orgasam.:bounce:

Toad82
Dec 17, 2007, 11:29 PM
Anal orgasms are the best. To be able to orgasm with only anal stimulation (and maybe some mind stimuli) can for me; be an almost absolute mind blowing experience. :drool:


RJ:lokai:

innaminka
Dec 18, 2007, 9:50 PM
Never had an anal orgasm, but like other writers have said, it certainly sets them up nicely!
Just a little rub in the right place and oh, boy, does the top of the head lift off! :female:

someotherguy
Dec 18, 2007, 10:37 PM
This is how it happened for me one time:

Hey, that feels weird. Get off!

bi42guy1958
Dec 19, 2007, 12:29 PM
Just wondering if we may be confusing orgasm with ejaculation? I have orgasms with anal, but rarely have ejaculation. And may i add that the orgasms are much more intense too!:bigrin:

bigregory
Dec 19, 2007, 5:24 PM
Im thinking an orgasm without the cum, heck not even an erection.
Very powerfull.
Must be akin to a womans G spot O as compared to the clitoral one..
:flag3:

chulainn2
Dec 19, 2007, 5:33 PM
I saw this picture of a guy getting it in the ass from the late Johhny Holmes...and judging by his gaping mouth and bug-eyes.. I don't think he was going to have an anal orgasm either. He looked like a a poor soul just impaled by Vlad Dracula.

vaddieman
Dec 19, 2007, 6:23 PM
I get off by riding my man. He hits me just right when I'm on top. Other positions kinda hurt but satisfy him but not me. I usually cum fairly quick riding him, especially if he stokes me alitttle. good luck

mrplayfuluk
Dec 20, 2007, 1:18 PM
go www.aneros.com and buy one it works believe me, IT DOES.... and then you will know.

*pan*
Dec 20, 2007, 4:33 PM
while the prostrate is being worked ( anal sex) and i orgasm while having oral done one me, it is so intense, unlike just orgasm from just intercourse, that it drains me, mmmmmmmmmmm lol
it's as if it's and anal orgasm and a regular orgasm both at the same time. woooo hoooo.
and it's no myth i can assure you