People you know or work with...

[Iowason]

I am just wondering if members out there wonder about others around them. I work with mostly guys and I would assume that at least a couple are either gay or bi. I would never confront any of my coworkers or anyone else I know for that matter... but I like to imagine which ones are like me. I can't help when I am in a public place to look at people and wonder about them also. Wouldn't it be so much easier if people were literally labeled so we would know their preference.... you know like a republican senator....LOL (just kidding)

[bikiniguy]

Ok so I started a new job in a athletic sort of endevor-Im just in maintance myself. I know one guy is gay and I think several others are too. As for the women, I have had little contact so far since I have been on the grounds a lot so far. We have 1200 acres of mountain. So I have the same wonderings as you do and I dont know how to approach this either. I can do the bull in the china shop routine but that is a hard way to go and I not interested in being the gay guy label. I work with hot guys and girls and some just plain dull. Its a no win situation so I just try ot put it out of my mind in general. That works most of the time but those other times its a bit of a challenge. A a guy came out of his room with what appeared as a siffy which caused me to give him a wide birth...I think he was watchin porn at the time. Sort of confusing. Anyway Im new so I am just tryin to blend in and act like I dont care which is true to some degree. At work stuff can be so weird sometimes.

[canuckotter]

I play that game every once in a while... I've apparently got at least one other bisexual coworker, no gay/lesbian folks in the office though... 40 people at the moment, so I'm a little surprised we're not more diverse, but what the heck. It's actually a very open-minded office... The folks who do the hiring for the various departments I don't think would even consider excluding someone for being queer any more than they'd reject an applicant for being a woman -- I work in a fantastic office :bigrin: -- we just seem to have ended up with a pile of straight people. Go figure. :) But yeah, there are a couple of folks that I just keep wondering... ;)

[jem_is_bi]

I never wonder or care about sexual preference of people at work or in my daily life. However, whenever I travel, I always wonder how many people on the airplane are gay, bisexual and had sex with the same sex and when. Especially, when, I have had oral male sex the previous night. Should I look for a smile of contentment?

Maybe it is just boredom of waiting for the trip to end that leads to this mental amusement.

JEM