Who Else in here is tired of the ENDLESS EMAILING BACK AND FORTH????

[very_real423]

I have been on this site for more then a few months now, I have chatted with a few really nice people. I have also chatted with people who have contacted us about our profile. We go through all the steps exchanging emails telling what we are looking for (what that clearlt states in our profile) then we go and exchange pictures, for the few that we have received and it seems we are all on the same page we then talk on the phone and see if we can arrange to meet for a drink if and when that ever happens we state that there MUST be attraction and chemistry for all for something to happen. Sounds good right? Sounds so easy right? WRONG,,,, All we have gotten are people who seem like they have want nothing more then to email back and forth for months maybe talk on the phone and always have something else they have to do the weekend we are suppose to meet for that drink. I have asked this in the past where are all the decent, attractive normal bi guys and woman at? I have heard from many people its not only happening to us, this happens all the time. So why the heck do we bother?

[dafydd]

I guess a proportion of people on this site are still in the closet and are weary of exchanging information or meeting. It is frustrating for those of us who have come out but we must accept it.
Otherwise people are just bullshitting you about wanting to meet which is quite common on gay chat sites.

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[Skater Boy]

Tbh, if I meet someone online, I like to get to know them a little before meeting them in reality. It may seem tiresome to them, but thats just the way it is. Ofcourse, for those who I have expressed an interest in meeting in reality (which is very few in my case), those sentiments are ofcourse sincere, and will be dealt with when the appropriate time arises.

[welickit]

If someone doesn't show up email them back and find out what it was that turned them off. You will find that most are married men living in a fantasy world. If you are contacted and you reject them, chances are you will get a return email that is vulgar and rude. That tells you something about the person. We get emails from married men (pretending to be single or a couple all the time) they become easy to spot. Last week we got an email from a guy in his 20's, he doesn't read profiles he looks at pictures and emails you with a fine email. When he gets politely rejected he goes off the deep end ranting and raving. Single men complain they get a raw deal, we wonder why? Those that do show up are usually drunk or so high they are useless to even talk to. On a positive note we have met some really nice people, none of them have been from this site but they are out there.:bipride:

[chicagom]

I would tell you not to give up. I think it's great meeting like minded people, even if it starts out being for a drink and nothing else. I don't fit your criteria, but my advice is to keep trying. As long as you're getting responses of some sort, things will happen eventually. Getting to know someone you may become intimate with takes time...on both sides. However, I don't see meeting for drinks being that hard to do.

[vittoria]

ppl are DUMB.

ppl are chicken sh*t.

ppl have problems---maybe they cant afford gas... (hell it IS getting to be almost $5 a GALLON.... or $100 a barrel...thats as much as a half gallon of ice cream folks...)

maybe they completely lied to you about what they look like... and that pic they sent to you... was from a victorias secret catalog... better yet... from muscle fitness magazine...

if the drink is alcoholic in nature maybe they are afraid of someone slipping them a mickey... (or roofies (sp) )

if the drink is caffinated, maybe they are worried about high blood pressure ( and staying erect more than 4-5 hours)

either way...

there are some screwy ppl on here... .doesnt mean the kewl ones dont exist...

hell, i met my bf on here, and all is swimmingly fine :)

:2cents:

[darkeyes]

ppl are DUMB.

ppl are chicken sh*t.

ppl have problems---maybe they cant afford gas... (hell it IS getting to be almost $5 a GALLON.... or $100 a barrel...thats as much as a half gallon of ice cream folks...)

maybe they completely lied to you about what they look like... and that pic they sent to you... was from a victorias secret catalog... better yet... from muscle fitness magazine...

if the drink is alcoholic in nature maybe they are afraid of someone slipping them a mickey... (or roofies (sp) )

if the drink is caffinated, maybe they are worried about high blood pressure ( and staying erect more than 4-5 hours)

either way...

there are some screwy ppl on here... .doesnt mean the kewl ones dont exist...

hell, i met my bf on here, and all is swimmingly fine :)

:2cents:
So ya gettin laid then V?? gud onya...cudda sed in fewer words tho babes..muah...:tong:

[very_real423]

Hi Everyone

I just want to say thank you to all of you that replyed. Its good to know that I am not the only one who seems to find it very difficult to meet a REAL normal decent attractive person on theses site. We are not here to rush anything, I just don't understand why there are so many profile of people claiming to be here to meet and have a good time yet no one has come thru. Thanks again. :-)

[DiamondDog]

Get used to it.

It happens on all sites even OK Cupid, on this site, and other hook up/sex sites with personal ads like this one.

Also there are TONS of pic collectors out there like people who don't really want to meet up or do anything at all but collect amateur porn from other people.

I don't always reply to email since a PM on here is a lot easier, I get emails with the email this member feature on here that seem/read like spam so I delete them, if the person doesn't have a pic of themselves or doesn't provide one I'm not apt to write them back, if the person seems sketchy or is into PNP or barebacking/meth/cocaine/heroin I don't write them back, and if they ask a question or something that they can easily find with a search engine or if they ask about something that's clearly in my profile I don't write them back.

[blissful]

hi all,
i've been here for about 2 wk and it is very hard to meet people on these sites. i've met 2 women so far and one acted like she hasn't had sex in 10 yr and tried to rape me the first time we met (total turn off). and the other was really nice and seemed to like me, but after our first meeting, (in which i gave her a massage), suddenly said she was too busy to make time for us. well the first woman was a lesbian and the second was bi-curious so i shouldn't really be surprised. i've yet to meet someone truly bisexual like myself. but i'm sure she's out there somewhere:bigrin:

[GreenEyedLady(GEL)]

The Doors

People are strange

People are strange when you're a stranger
Faces look ugly when you're alone
Women seem wicked when you're unwanted
Streets are uneven when you're down

When you're strange
Faces come out of the rain
When you're strange
No one remembers your name
When you're strange

People are strange when you're a stranger
Faces look ugly when you're alone
Women seem wicked when you're unwanted
Streets are uneven when you're down

When you're strange
Faces come out of the rain
When you're strange
No one remembers your name
When you're strange

When you're strange
Faces come out of the rain
When you're strange
No one remembers your name
When you're strange

[blissful]

hey gel, love the doors also

i've been considered strange my whole life.:bigrin:

[GreenEyedLady(GEL)]

Hey , I think I saw you once , your that lady that can do that thing with your.......hehe. Strange isn't is always a bad thing. I too love the Doors :)

[DiamondDog]

original poster-Try putting pictures of yourself in your profile.

I know that myself and many other people when on online dating/hook up/sex sites like this one will avoid profiles from people who don't have any pictures in their profile on the site.

[very_real423]

Hell-o,
Thanks for your suggestions I have put up pictures in my profile and all the emails I got were too much to handle. There wasn't a decent email in the whole bunch. I am very selective I know what type we are looking for thats why I make it a point to spell it all out on my profile. I want who ever it is I am interested in to know exactly what I am looking for so there is no confusion. If we like each others profile thats when I will suggest that we trade pictures and again if we all like what we see asking and making sure that the pictures are very recent and clear to see next step is too talk on the phone ask any questions that may pop in head, next step is to discuss a place to meet for a drink where both will feel comortable. No pressure, if the attraction is there you both will no it If not thats fine too, Its that easy.