Moving On

[jazzer]

I would just like to take this opportunity to thank Drew and all the great people who make this site function so well.
I came here still with some confusion over my feelings towards my own sex, feelings that I had suppressed for many years. My two greatest regrets have been that I did not share my feelings with my wife sooner and that I left acting on my bisexuality until I was 59 years of age. My wife has offered me wonderful support and has shared in my bisexual/straight activities, many of which I have shared with you in the chatroom. We have had some great experiences and some not so great ones. As I have often said in the chatroom "I could write a book". Interestingly, I have found that older people, particularly men are willing to experiment more with their sexuality, something I found quite surprising.
Over the years I have been a member here I have spent many hours (probably too many) chatting to people from all age groups. I have been impressed by the genuine support and meaningful advice offered by older more experienced members in the chatroom, to people confused about their sexuality and stressed about personal issues in their lives.
Of course I cannot leave without commenting on the humour, clever puns, jokes and funny ad lib comments that have made the chatroom such an enjoyable experience for me.
To people I have offended I sincerely apologise to them, to those who have enjoyed chatting with me, can I say the feeling has been mutual.
For me it is time to move on. I am now 63 years old and have become very busy in retirement (not only sexually). We live on the South Pacific Coast and are blessed with a wonderful sub-tropical climate, my intention is to take much more advantage of it.
I wish everyone on this site the very best in life, it can be a great journey. Stay well and be happy.

Cheers Jazzer :)

[GreenEyedLady(GEL)]

Jazzer,
Its been a joy chatting with you and I thank you for making me feel welcome when I first started chatting. Im proud of you for taking charge of your life such as you have, and you really do need to start enjoying your retirement years lol Life is just beginning for you. Who knows maybe there is a bisexual shuffle board club :cutelaugh . You are going to be missed tremendously and I would ask that maybe instead of leaving and not looking back that maybe you keep in touch with us now and again. My very best to you and your wife. Much love to you.
Hugs n Kisses
LynnAnne

[darkeyes]

Rite u ole fart..it aint gud bye its au revoir..me luffs an has loadsa giggles wiv ya an me wans more...so no babes...not gud bye.. 2 many of us luff ya..me included... expect ya 2 show ya face fore 2 long an hav loads more giggles..even if ya r an old gett of 63!!! Smoochies fart face!:tong:

[wanderingrichard]

jazzer,
though thousands of miles have separated us, and we've had very few times to talk in the chats, i've been a better person because we've met.

thanks for your advice over the years and all the laughs you've given me.

you've my email address, my friend.. drop me a line on the odd time..

you'll be sorely missed hereabouts,
Rich :grouphug:

[mistymockingbird]

(((((((((((((jazzer))))))))))))

My dear you will be sorely missed. Enjoy your retirement. Play hard. Live happy. Know that you'll always be welcome here.

Muuuuuuuuuuah darlin.

[onewhocares]

Jazzer my Friend,

I echo the sentiments of Misty Mockingbird when I say that I am a better person having had the pleasure on numerous occassions to chat and also to laugh joyfully at you and with you in chat. You shall most certainly be missed, by me and many many more.

My your future be filled with health, love, happiness and a great sense of humor.

All the Best my Friend,

Belle

[Cdasue]

Well I am quite in shock but understand all the same.

All the best!

[vittoria]

Jazz!!!!:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:( I'll miss you bunches and bunches and bunches!!!

You are wonderful... a joy... proof that it doesnt matter how old you are to experience the Joys of Sex!! You rock my socks, and are a dear friend :( :( You take our love with you no matter where you go.... and what you do


Hugs and Kisses... missin you heaps already, Vittoria



I Could Write a Book
Harry Connick, Ella Fitzgerald
If they asked me, I could write a book;
About the way you walk, and whisper;
And look.
I could write a preface;
On how we met;
That the world will never forget.
And the simple;
Secret of the plot;
Is just to tell them;
That I love you, alot.
Then the world discovers;
As my book ends;
How to make two lovers of friends.

:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug:

[AdamKadmon43]

I wish everyone on this site the very best in life, it can be a great journey. Stay well and be happy.

Cheers Jazzer :)

Bye Jazzer.... I love you... and I am out of here too.

Adam

[kitten]

Jazzzzzz - muah! and wish you well!

Enjoy and keep in touch!

hugs,

[Doggie_Wood]

JAZZER! You take care of yourself, bruddah.
Drop me an e-mail now and again.

Love ya,

:doggie:

[texasman6172003]

Jazzer my Friend,

I echo the sentiments of Misty Mockingbird when I say that I am a better person having had the pleasure on numerous occassions to chat and also to laugh joyfully at you and with you in chat. You shall most certainly be missed, by me and many many more.

My your future be filled with health, love, happiness and a great sense of humor.

All the Best my Friend,

Belle Gawd Belle you write so well.. Jazz i feel the same as Belle and many others. Like Fran said do bring yur butt back from time to time,:bigrin:. Take care buddy...

[mariersa]

Geez Jazz going to miss YOU and The Cat On The Hot Roof, also. Take Care see ya in the waters, muuuahhh

[jazzer]

Wow I am gobsmacked, I had no idea that my presence in the chatroom was so appreciated. I thought my role had become resident dirty old man lol.
Seriously though, I hope I have given the younger members on this site an appreciation of sex and aging. Yes, believe it or not us oldies are still banging away like a dunny door in a gale and still loving it. We enjoy swinging with couples but for a bi man the best for me is still the MMF threesome and my wife agrees with the one woman two cocks principal too.
Sadly there is still a strong feeling in the general community that there is no such thing as a true "bisexual" and that we are just closet "gays". Perhaps one day we will be accepted for what we are, men and women who are genuinely attracted to both sexes, but I am not holding my breath waiting for that to happen.
Meanwhile thank you for your genuine love and support on here and the flattering comments you have all made.
Perhaps I will return one day to renew friendships. Maybe when the Australian dollar reaches parity with the US dollar lol.

Cheers Jazzer MUAH :)

[arana]

Wish you'd reconsider the "moving on" part Jazzer as you are a big part of this community and many look up to you....or down depending on the position. :eek: I know we all need time to breath and do other things but this is sort of a home away from home and you are part of the family. Enjoy life and do what you must or desire but don't leave totally.

[hisnhers]

Jazzer hate to go its been a pleasure chatting with you and dont be a stranger drop in and say hello every now and then..

[darkeyes]

Wow I am gobsmacked, I had no idea that my presence in the chatroom was so appreciated. I thought my role had become resident dirty old man lol.
Seriously though, I hope I have given the younger members on this site an appreciation of sex and aging. Yes, believe it or not us oldies are still banging away like a dunny door in a gale and still loving it. We enjoy swinging with couples but for a bi man the best for me is still the MMF threesome and my wife agrees with the one woman two cocks principal too.
Sadly there is still a strong feeling in the general community that there is no such thing as a true "bisexual" and that we are just closet "gays". Perhaps one day we will be accepted for what we are, men and women who are genuinely attracted to both sexes, but I am not holding my breath waiting for that to happen.
Meanwhile thank you for your genuine love and support on here and the flattering comments you have all made.
Perhaps I will return one day to renew friendships. Maybe when the Australian dollar reaches parity with the US dollar lol.

Cheers Jazzer MUAH :)

if me offers me body wudya change ya mind... tee hee:tong: me not gonna so don getcha hopes up hun...:bigrin:

[chook]

Jazzer you old bugger, what are ya doing mate? ya cant piss off and leave me to explain everything Australian to this lot, I'll go fucking nuts mate!!!!


But in all seriousness it has been a real pleasure chatting with a fellow countryman I shall miss you deeply and I know Aussie wont be none too happy either. I'll be in touch I still have to send you that pic.....I haven't forgotten mate :) All in all I hope you do keep in touch with all your friends here because I know you will be greatly missed. Aussie and I would like to thank you for being our good chat mate and we would also like to wish you and your wife a long and healthy and happy time together.........Take care old friend.


Cheers Chook and Aussie :bigrin:

[qchamp]

Hey Jazzer mate,

Wish you wouldnt go. Yeah you are the dirty ol' man. But thats why we love ya.

Please stay, or at least check in every so often to let us know you are ok. I for one will miss you.


Thanks for all the chats we have had.

Qchamp
Tim
:(:(:(:(:(

[csrakate]

Please say it isn't so!!! Jazzer....how could you leave us??? I do, however, understand that you want to enjoy your retirement. You and your wife have have such a full and incredible life in so many ways and you have brought hope to many of us who are facing this period in our lives!!

Take care, my dear friend, and please...don't be a stranger!!!

Hugs, kisses and lots of love!
Kate

[Bluebiyou]

Wow,
I really didn't know Jazzer. I think I only saw him in chat once, maybe twice. But, he gives interesting perspective. He speaks to this group like I felt about ACOA (Adult Children of Alcoholics). It's a 'twelve step' program to help people understand many things about themselves. Once people learn/understand/accept some of the many attributes of their own makeup that came as a result of growing up in an alcoholic environment, they tend to move onward with fond farewells to those still in 'the program'. Likewise, it is difficult to deal with other-than-heterosexual feelings in our society. People come here to safely discuss, share those feelings, even explore sexuality based on those feelings (meeting up with others :tongue:!). I know how I felt when I found this place. I can talk with other people who are attracted to intimacy, whether connected to a penis or vagina, rather than have my interaction with the whole world determined by what is between someone elses legs.
God's speed, Jazzer. Feel free to come back and visit any time.

[12voltman59]

If you have not yet moved on down the pike Jazzer, I understand "where you are at man" and respect your decision----I hope all goes well for you and you, like nearly everyone who comes here and does decide to not return--you are always welcome to come back whenever you feel like it---

We'll keep the light on for ya!

[jazzer]

I am a great believer that everyone eventually reaches their "use by" date and I thought I had reached mine. I was particularly concerned that the younger members on the site would just think I was a silly old bugger with little or nothing to offer them. I have been heartened by everyone's responses and Fran's in particular actually toying with the idea of offering her body to me (although for only the briefest moment lol). Personally I think she was just wanting to play with my sporran and blow my bagpipes.
Ok you all win if you can tolerate a dirty old man calling in occasionally to say "hello" well I am happy to do so, even if only to report that I am still alive and fucking er kicking.
Meanwhile everyone be kind to each other and remember being "bi" means you can have twice the fun. :)

[Mrs.F]

Wow, Jazzer. It's always so hard to say goodbye. While I have not chatted with you much I know that my hubby Flounder has and has always thought you were such a good man. But, we do understand that things in life come about and we must do what we must.........so enjoy retirement.......I won't see it till I'm 90 atleast if not longer. :eek:

enjoy, enjoy and come back every once in awhile to say HI...

Flounder and Mrs.F

[darkeyes]

I am a great believer that everyone eventually reaches their "use by" date and I thought I had reached mine. I was particularly concerned that the younger members on the site would just think I was a silly old bugger with little or nothing to offer them. I have been heartened by everyone's responses and Fran's in particular actually toying with the idea of offering her body to me (although for only the briefest moment lol). Personally I think she was just wanting to play with my sporran and blow my bagpipes.
Ok you all win if you can tolerate a dirty old man calling in occasionally to say "hello" well I am happy to do so, even if only to report that I am still alive and fucking er kicking.
Meanwhile everyone be kind to each other and remember being "bi" means you can have twice the fun. :)

Knew ya wudn b able 2 stay way from us..even the mere thotta havin ya wicked way wiv me enuff 2 makeya changeya mind huh???:tong: Occasionally is gud enuff for me ya ole sod!:bigrin:

[mariersa]

Jazz you sly old (haha) rascal, so all it takes is for fran to offer herself in a prone position and you change your mind, Jazz oh, the sacrifice you've made for us wayward juvenils. Glad you came to your senses, muahhhhhhhhhhh. :bigrin::)