naive
Oct 12, 2007, 8:14 AM
..but rather cu later.
i don't want it to seem like i'm tossing gum after it has lost all its flavour but even i can draw comparisons. i truly appreciate all the help that i have received and i thank everyone that has given me advice. i honestly don't think i would have been able to come this far without the wise words. one piece of advice that i actually do need to follow is that this forum is only a stepping stone along my bi journey, rather than a means to finding someone. the combination of talking to someone that i click with and for it to be physically possible to meet them is rare, if not impossible. and i've come to realise more than ever that nobody has all the right answers to my problems, no matter how much reading they've done or life they've experienced. i need to make my own mistakes and learn accordingly.
reading and replying to the posts has taking so much of my limited time that i haven't been able to do the thing that i've needed to do all along, socialise with real people.
i will most likely be back when i struggle with coming out to more people, or maybe after i have my heart broken after my first bi encounter, just because this is the largest bi community that i will probably ever know and there is such safety in numbers.
plus, u don't have to tell me that i'll be missed. i never really got that close to anyone nor did i contribute that much. i don't have the experience to provide much advice so i really only received without giving (sorry for being selfish but it's true).
i started this thread (instead of disappearing without a word) in case i actually made an impression on at least one person here, rather than being an unnoticed shadow that drifts in and out of lives....like i normally do.
wow, i'm actually sad now :(
i don't want it to seem like i'm tossing gum after it has lost all its flavour but even i can draw comparisons. i truly appreciate all the help that i have received and i thank everyone that has given me advice. i honestly don't think i would have been able to come this far without the wise words. one piece of advice that i actually do need to follow is that this forum is only a stepping stone along my bi journey, rather than a means to finding someone. the combination of talking to someone that i click with and for it to be physically possible to meet them is rare, if not impossible. and i've come to realise more than ever that nobody has all the right answers to my problems, no matter how much reading they've done or life they've experienced. i need to make my own mistakes and learn accordingly.
reading and replying to the posts has taking so much of my limited time that i haven't been able to do the thing that i've needed to do all along, socialise with real people.
i will most likely be back when i struggle with coming out to more people, or maybe after i have my heart broken after my first bi encounter, just because this is the largest bi community that i will probably ever know and there is such safety in numbers.
plus, u don't have to tell me that i'll be missed. i never really got that close to anyone nor did i contribute that much. i don't have the experience to provide much advice so i really only received without giving (sorry for being selfish but it's true).
i started this thread (instead of disappearing without a word) in case i actually made an impression on at least one person here, rather than being an unnoticed shadow that drifts in and out of lives....like i normally do.
wow, i'm actually sad now :(