View Full Version : Porn observation and question
mannysg
Sep 24, 2007, 11:45 PM
If you don't like, or approve of, porn please don't relpy. I have no desire to discuss the morality of porn. I had my own porn site for a few years, so that should tell you my opinion on the subject. I had no gay or bi activity on my site mainly because of my wife's wish that I have sex only with her. Most of the people that joined my site were gay men and I got some rather hot emails from a few of them (which I shared with m wife of course). ;)
I have never watched gay porn until recently. I wanted to watch a movie of 2 guys having oral sex until they came and suspected that my best chance of seeing this would be a gay movie. I've seen very few bi-movies where a guy goes down on another man to completion. Most of the time, the oral action in the bi movies is foreplay for anal (M or F) or vaginal peneration.
I find it odd that nearly all of the gay video clips I have seen the guys rarely get a complete erection. It's rather disapointing to watch a guy give a BJ on a cock that never gets very hard, if it even gets hard at all. And it's nearly as difficult to find a guy giving a BJ to completion in a gay movie as it is in a bi movie.
But in the bi-sexual video clips, most of the guys have little difficulty getting it up all the way when another guy is going down on him. It is so much better, at least to me, to see someone suck a hard cock then a soft one. Even in the anal scenes the bi guys are harder then the gay guys. (Which brings to mind, the "bottom" guy is rarely hard. When I have a dildo used on my ass, I'm hard as a rock. I would think that the real thing would be more erotic then plastic.)
I much prefer the bi movies, not just because of the better erections, but also because I like to see some action between a man and a woman, especially if the action is MMF.
Now the question: Does anyone know of a move, preferrably bi, with scenes of a guy giving a BJ to completion?
shameless agitator
Sep 24, 2007, 11:54 PM
For the kinds of movies you're after, check out threepillows.com. As far as the phenomena you've described, that's probably because most of the men in gay porn are straight. They refer to it as "gay for pay". This is because gay porn pays considerably better than straight & is much easier to get into because of the lack of competition. I don't know if it happens less in bi porn because the men are actually bi or if it's just that the woman's presence keeps them interested.
DiamondDog
Sep 25, 2007, 2:49 AM
What types of gay porn are you watching?
In all the types of gay porn I've seen there's lots of oral sex and you can watch two men get aroused and get into various states of arousal and go from limp, hard, to ejaculation and sometimes there are movies I've seen where only one guy ejaculates but the other person/people do not.
I actually love seeing this since it's not like hetero porn where it's all edited and everyone's shown as being hard ALL THE TIME with the help of editing and Viagara/Cialis/other drugs, and they focus on men and the men's bodies, and while hetero porn can be hot I don't like how it mostly focuses on the woman's body and it doesn't really show the man's face/body that much, and a lot of the women who do hetero porn aren't "hot" to me at all. I don't like some bi/hetero porn since it seems so fake with the women screaming.
Unless you watch modern bareback or pre-condom gay/bi porn you won't see swallowing, facials where the guys let another guy cum in their eyes, someone cuming in another guy's mouth, and you won't see the men swap cum orally (snowballing or whatever you want to call it), like you see in most hetero porn, since all of that is considered very unsafe, and it is.
Is that what you mean by "a blowjob to completion"? Like someone swallowing or doing the above things I wrote about?
You will see guys eating their own cum but this is perfectly safe since it's his own semen and not to mention it's VERY hot to watch and do!
"Gay" for pay is a myth and a homophobic marketing term.
Most of the guys who are in gay porn aren't heterosexual and they're gay/bi. Gay men don't do "straight" porn, have sex with hetero women for money, or bill themselves as LOL "straight" for pay.
If a guy's really heterosexual he's not going to want anything to do with having sex with men at all, not for pay on camera and all the men who are "gay" for pay are at least bisexual if not full out gay, and they just either call themselves "straight" or get billed as being "straight" since it makes porn sell and plays into the homophobic fantasy that many gay/bi men have about having sex with a hot hetero guy that you can't ever have but he's in your fantasies.
Some real heterosexual guys do solo jack off videos but that's a solo masturbatory video where they don't have sex with anyone but themselves, and there aren't any men involved.
Not every man gets hard instantly or stays hard and aroused all the time when they have something inside them even if it's a cock in his ass or mouth.
Many men won't get hard when they have a cock in their mouth and they have to masturbate themselves while blowing another man, the same goes for when a guy is getting fucked.
Also it's completely normal for a guy to go through various states of arousal while having sex and lose an erection, yet stay aroused in other ways even if he doesn't have an erection.
Not everyone can get/stay hard on camera, take directions from a director, and there's tons of pressure and some people aren't good at being in porn.
If you want gay porn where there's only oral sex (includes kissing, rimming, and oral sex) you can look for titles or types that only have oral sex or that don't have any anal sex at all.
Most of the bi porn I've seen that has MMF 3 ways is mostly oral sex in the 3 way, and if there's anal sex it's done by a woman with a strapon (which I don't really get?), or if the two men do it to each other it's at the end.
scubaman
Sep 25, 2007, 4:33 AM
Manny, have you every been to randy blue.com? There is some pretty good gay porn there. The guys are sporting full and hard erections. If I recall there is some older videos where there is snowballing. There are also links to other types of gay porn as well with varied themes. It is a pay site but in my estimation worth the money to check it out for a month. :2cents:
mannysg
Sep 25, 2007, 8:23 AM
Shameless,
I've been thinking about joining threepillows, but haven't yet. I will definaely join soon though. :) THanks!
Scubaman,
I've never beento Randy Blue, but I will check it out.
THanks!
DiamondDog,
I agree that seeing a man go from soft to hard is quite erotic. Such a scene says that the man is really enjoying himself. I don't expect "hard all the time", but do want to see the guy get hard when someone is sucking on him. By "to completion" I mean the guy cums. Where he cums isn't extremely important, but I do prefer seeing him cum in the other guy's mouth.
My porn site was mostly solo, with a few scenes of MF with my wife. I also did a couple of scene where I jacked off, then swung my legs over my head and came in my own mouth. Well, most of it went in my mouth, I missed with some.
I can understand not getting hard while giving a BJ, in fact when I'm eating pussy I rarely get hard, even though I love to go down on a lady.
I don't necessarily want oral only, I do enjoy watching a man do another guy in the ass. I have seen several bare-back scenes where the guy starts to cum, pulls out, and finishes by shoting on the other guy's ass/back. I just haven't come across many movies where a guy cums in another guy's mouth.
Thanks!
dickhand
Sep 25, 2007, 10:01 AM
I know what you mean about being disappointed with the sex in bi and gay videos . Try spunkvideo.com . they alot of gay stuff and some bi . Both are very good . A bit pricy compared to the usual fare but you know what they say , " you get what you pay for ". Young Barebackers I and II are quite good for the gay taste and the their small selection of bi movies are very nice as well . Just one old bi guy's opinion .
jem_is_bi
Sep 25, 2007, 10:38 PM
From my sampling of FREE Gay porn sites, if you want male oral sex porn you have to settle for a mixture with male anal sex porn. This has discouraged me from joining any PAY site. I am completely turned off by anal sex, so a selection of porn movies that are a mixture of what I like and totally dislike does not work for me. I do not want to download and discard 100 movies to get one I enjoy.
JEM
NakedInSeattle
Sep 25, 2007, 10:40 PM
can't recommend three pillows enough...fan-fucking-tastic. Hottest on the internet. Well worth the price.
DiamondDog
Sep 25, 2007, 10:53 PM
People actually pay for porn on the internet still?:kay:
NakedInSeattle
Sep 26, 2007, 2:16 AM
for this quality, yes - gladly!
ForbiddenWindow
Sep 26, 2007, 6:14 AM
I sported 3 pillows for a couple months and I believe I got my money's worth.
Definitely a site to check out.
FW.
redheadhoneycat
Sep 28, 2007, 12:30 AM
As a bi woman my opinion is I love bi MMF and gay porn is my favorite. I know a lot of women are not into it but I think it is hot!!!:bigrin: :2cents:
ohbimale
Sep 28, 2007, 1:09 AM
Although I can not recommend a particular gay porn movie, I enjoyed the few gay porn movies I have seen. I think same sex sex is hot, whether it is all women or all men. I have not had occassion to watch a gay porn movie where a guy is giving a blow job to another guy with a limp dick. All of them I have watched the guys had raging hard ons. I do enjoy the bisexual porn movies with MMF sex too. Usually the foreign bi porn movies have more man to man action , including both men going down on each others beautifull cocks. :male::male::flag3:
Trinity-Fl
Sep 28, 2007, 2:05 PM
Was never really interested in gay porn. Several years ago they started puttinig out some straight MFM porn which I found very exciting.
I joined threepillows.com about a year ago because of the name. :) We had threepillows on our bed when we lived as a triad and it was sort of a symbol of our threesome. (Short story: Our fem partner was having hot flashes at that time and would throw the covers off. Of course, that left one of us guys out in the cold so we developed a linen system using twin sheets and blankets. When she got hot she could push the covers to the side but still leave us covered.)
Anyway... threepillows.com has lots of quality bi MFM (as well as other varieties) movies and pictorials. I also enjoy the bi comics and artwork.
I will venture one bit of criticism. Most of the video and pictures available on the site are pretty stereotypical - the guys have oral and anal sex, they may have vaginal sex with the girl and then they cum on her face or chest. Same formula over and over. In my 30 years of MFM sex it happened that way maybe twice. :) We cum while we're being sucked or fucking our partners. And one of our favorite things is DP. You rarely see the female getting Double Penetration unless it's in a MFM-straight movie. (There is one series on threepillows which gets it right. The MidWest Farmers are a couple of averge guys with their BBW wife who do things just like we do.)
Overall, I think threepillows.com is an excellent site with lots of variety and lots of MFM bi 3sums.
DiamondDog
Sep 29, 2007, 4:17 AM
MannySG-If you want to see gay porn where men swallow cum and get facials look for Damon Dogg's modern day produced movies, watch pre-condom gay porn, most hetero porn (just put yourself in the woman's place! <grins> ;)) as these types of porn has cum swallowing/facials.
Janesmith
Sep 29, 2007, 11:31 AM
Just curious, what does three pillows cost?
Do they drop any spywhere on your computer?
Absolutely correct, Just how ofter does the guy cum on the women's face?
Overall, I think threepillows.com is an excellent site with lots of variety and lots of MFM bi 3sums.
Ocasio otoko
Sep 29, 2007, 1:25 PM
Now the question: Does anyone know of a move, preferrably bi, with scenes of a guy giving a BJ to completion?[/QUOTE]
Due to my lack of lovers in real life, I do watch bi and straight and gay porn. I suggest to get oldies from the mid 1980s and from before that. The performers were all passionate, sensual and into what they were doing, unlike most of today's porn that seems too mechanical. Also most performers both women and men loved swallowing cum and condoms were hardly ever used since AIDS wasn't around.
The only gay videos I know that answer your question of this era are from Treasure Island Media, very raunchy. Bi ones try buying them from any site that belong to Catalina Studios. The best ones are:
Passion Bi Fire, The Big Switch, Bi Coastal, Bi Bi Love (my persoanl fave), Innocence Lost and from the Brazillian studio Gia Adore. They have real hot bi films, no plot all action.
But I also highly recommend the Three Pillows website for all kinds of sex videos. And yes in most movies I dunno WHY guys getting fucked aren't hard!!!! I don't get it! Maybe they're not really into it....
mannysg
Sep 29, 2007, 11:06 PM
Just follow thelink at thebottomof thispage for Three Pillows
The cost:
Membership Rates:
30 Days $24.95
90 Days $59.95
Based on the responses ere, I'll be joining as soon as I can. (Gotta get a couple of bills taken care of first.)
Just curious, what does three pillows cost?
Do they drop any spywhere on your computer?
Absolutely correct, Just how ofter does the guy cum on the women's face?
mannysg
Sep 29, 2007, 11:09 PM
Thanks for the replies everyone!
Now I have some other places to check out.
bitony14
Oct 6, 2007, 2:38 AM
From my sampling of FREE Gay porn sites, if you want male oral sex porn you have to settle for a mixture with male anal sex porn. This has discouraged me from joining any PAY site. I am completely turned off by anal sex, so a selection of porn movies that are a mixture of what I like and totally dislike does not work for me. I do not want to download and discard 100 movies to get one I enjoy.
JEM
Hi Jem, I suggest you have a look at www.NextDoorStudios.com line up of sites, in particular www.tommydxxx.com which is the bi content. What marks it out from any bi site I've seen is the virtual absence of anal sex. There is some anal on it but the films i have watched there don't contain any anal at all neither on the men or women. It almost wholly mutual sucking, wanking etc. between the men and vaginal sex with the women. The downloads are high quality and the camera work is quite interesting especially on their site www.nextdoorhookups.com. Despite the content on this site being straight, the camera lingers quite unashamedly on the mens bodies as well which makes a change to the usual erect penis on two legs. There are sample vids of the downloadable films so you can to some extent try before you buy and when you join one site you get access to the rest of thier material as well.
See what you think.
:bibounce:
jem_is_bi
Oct 6, 2007, 9:45 AM
Hi Jem, I suggest you have a look at www.NextDoorStudios.com line up of sites, in particular www.tommydxxx.com which is the bi content. What marks it out from any bi site I've seen is the virtual absence of anal sex. There is some anal on it but the films i have watched there don't contain any anal at all neither on the men or women. It almost wholly mutual sucking, wanking etc. between the men and vaginal sex with the women. The downloads are high quality and the camera work is quite interesting especially on their site www.nextdoorhookups.com. Despite the content on this site being straight, the camera lingers quite unashamedly on the mens bodies as well which makes a change to the usual erect penis on two legs. There are sample vids of the downloadable films so you can to some extent try before you buy and when you join one site you get access to the rest of thier material as well.
See what you think.
:bibounce:
Thank you for the reviews of these sites. I will check them out.
JEM