happy with 1 sex

[funkycat36]

I am curious to hear from any people that are in a monogomous relationship and how they deal with their other sex attractions?

At the moment I am hoping that this is how my relationship will turn out.

How do you cope with your feelings?

[roses259]

I am married to a man that I am still very much in love with. He has known that I am also attracted to women since before we were married.

Fortunately, it turns him on that I also like women, and so I can talk about it openly. We watch The "L" Word together and porn together, I read a lot of bisexual/lesbian erotica, and the fantasy works its way into our sex life.

We are monogamous and I don't want another romantic partner. He says that I am allowed to have sex with women, as long as I tell him all about it afterwards. :) In the right situation I would take him up on it, it's a long time since I've been with a woman and I would like to again, but it's not something that I feel the need to actively seek and I can sustain myself with the fantasy.

[kitten]

I am a married bi-female in a monogamous relationship (we have been married 26 years). I read erotica, occasionally watch porn and have made many friends here at the site. Here, I have more freedom to talk and discuss my bisexuality and other interests we have as a couple. Occasionally, I "play" and have fun with fantasies and talking about them in chat or in a forum thread has given lots of stress relief and some really close online Partners.
Hubby is actually the one interested in a non-monogamous situation. We are working to open those doors together.

good topic.

[funkycat36]

For the people who have a partner that is not open to other relationships or on the side sex how do you cope?

roses259 you are lucky that you have a hubby that gets turned on by it. My partner is a lesbian and would find me talking about men a real turnoff.

Isn't life complicated!

[Tx46M]

I am curious to hear from any people that are in a monogomous relationship and how they deal with their other sex attractions?

The last 3 females I was romantic with were bi-curious and loved the idea of 2 or more guys "playing," including my ex-wife. She was the only one of the 3 that actually indulged in her bi-curiousity much to her and my delight. I did not have the chance until well after we divorced. Guess I was at least doubly blessed.

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[Lisa (va)]

For me is quite easy and simple, being in a monogamous relationship means committing to the other person, be it male or female. Being bi doesn't mean if you are in a relationship with one sex you will only find the other sex attractive, no different than a straight person once in a relationship won't find others attractive. It's just a matter of choosing the right partner to devote your attentions to.

Lisa

hugs n kisses

[Tx46M]

For me is quite easy and simple, being in a monogamous relationship means committing to the other person, be it male or female. Being bi doesn't mean if you are in a relationship with one sex you will only find the other sex attractive, no different than a straight person once in a relationship won't find others attractive. It's just a matter of choosing the right partner to devote your attentions to.

Lisa

hugs n kisses

Totally agree!

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