my first bisexual forum

[brunette]

Hey guys and girls,

I've been visiting this forum for several months now and finally decided to join. I have never seen such a welcoming and understanding community of people, and I can't wait to extend the same spirit to others.

I'm a bi female from the deep south. I'm married with an 11 month old, and I have a female f*ck buddy on the side. My husband knows about her, in fact, they work together, and he's okay with it.

I've been out to my husband for over a year and a half now. He and my buddy and I have all messed around, and we're all very good friends.

Here's the thing, though. It wasn't until recently that my buddy and I started having sex just the two of us (which my husband is okay with as well). Now, I can't get enough. I still love to have sex with my husband, but I wish I could do both several times a day (I guess I'm a bit of a nympho). My buddy, though, only wants to get together like one day a week though. We have both made it clear that we're looking for no strings attached, but I want more than one night a week with her.

I tried talking to her, but she's very busy and feels that that's the best she can offer. I don't ever see us falling in love or getting serious, and she knows that, but I feel unfulfilled by our once a week get together.

So, do I look for a real girlfriend? Do I just count my blessings and look forward to that one night a week? How do I get sex with her off of my mind (since lately, I think about it a lot)?

Anyway, it's a weird situation, but an advise would be awesome.

Thanks.

[billy_campbell]

Welcome to our little part of the world. Sound like you have a very understanding husband which is really great. I think you are going through what alot of us have gone through and that is after you let go and really let it happen you really want to have it all. Sound like you have two people in your life that are very loving and that you love them both. Talk it out with them, let me know how you feel and then just go with what feels right for you. Again welcome to our little part of the world.

[onewhocares]

Just wanted to say welcome from someone from the deep Northeast...Boston to be exact. I hope that you find what you seek here. It is a great place to talk to people with like minded, like situations and experiance. I agree that you do indeed have a wonderful loving and giving husband as do I. I also agree that yes, when all is new and fresh it is exciting and you can not get enough. It has been over a year for us and it is still as fresh and vibrant as ever...we wish we could see him more too.

Belle

[shameless agitator]

Welcome and I'll have to agree with the folks who give props to your husband. As to your question, it seems to me if your fuck buddy doesn't want it as often as you do then you have two choices. You can 1 deal with not getting enough sex, or 2 find a replacement who will be available as much as you want them to. If sex is all there is I'd go with # 2. Only you can decide if there's enough there to make it worth dealing with sexual frustration

[curious married m]

Welcome and I'll have to agree with the folks who give props to your husband. As to your question, it seems to me if your fuck buddy doesn't want it as often as you do then you have two choices. You can 1 deal with not getting enough sex, or 2 find a replacement who will be available as much as you want them to. If sex is all there is I'd go with # 2. Only you can decide if there's enough there to make it worth dealing with sexual frustration

Shameless, Why in choice 2 does she have to find a replacement for the fuck buddy, just get an additional fuck buddy to fill in the gaps. Since she is not in monogamous situation, this could quench her urges for more g/g sex and maybe get an additional partner for 3somes for her hubby. But a word of caution that I have seen happen on this site many times, as soon as the hubby or the fuck buddy start getting jealous of the others thats when most relationships go sour. Btw welcome to the family and hope you enjoy the folks here as much as I have. CMM

[laloo3]

Enjoy, Count your Blessings and Be careful! A few years ago my wife and her friend Cindy got so hot for each other that they wanted sex with each other every day...That was ok with me, tho for a while I knew the only way Teresa was cumming with me was by thinking of Cindy. I figured things would calm down.
Sadly it got out of hand. Cindy fell in love with Teresa and wanted to leave her husband and run off. This was much more than any of us had bargained for. Teresa had to break it off which was painful for all of us. She missed Cindy, and I missed the occasional 3-some we used to have.
So I'm not saying this could happen to you, but keep your eyes open! (and enjoy!)