On the Low Down in the North Bay Area

[richardhelmut]

I would like to know how many out there are bi, married, and 'on the down low' and what you do to satisfy your bi-desires??? It has been many years since any physical relationship, so I 'go it alone' with my fantasies, a beer or two, my computer, and a whole lotta privacy...;)

[biwords]

Well, in my own case, I meet someone in the chat room or by PMing them (or they PM me), we exchange some email, a photo, have some more discussion, talk about getting together, make a date, he cancels it, we talk some more about getting together, make an iron-clad date, meet, decide we like each other, exchange some more email, make arrangements to meet in a hotel and fuck each other silly, book the hotel, wait for the day, he cancels, we cancel the hotel reservation, we exchange further email vowing to try again, nothing happens, and I end up hanging out with my five best friends, each one attached to my palm. Hope that helps! :)

[Doggie_Wood]

damn biwords - I don't have the available time to go thru all that - I email or PM them and they back to me - it usually doesn't get past making the date (because he cancells) - after that, I don't bother with that person again. There are other fish out there. Somewhere. Just gotta find 'em.

:doggie:

[biwords]

No question that your system is more efficient than mine, Dog....why in the time it takes me to have one failed date, you could have 10 or 20! :)

[kitten]

I am bi & married. My partner knows that I chat and cyber with partners here. I have not found a partner in physical real time, yet. I enjoy time spent here with "cyber buddies", watch porn dvd's, read erotic literature and make sure my hubby is satiated. That is what works for me at this point in time.

hugs,