First time sex

[amcu48]

When was your first time of any kind and how old were you? I first masturbated in grade school with a group of boys but of course only dry cummed. All my first experiances was usually animal related because I lived on a farm. Anal with a dog, tried with a goat(unsucessful) cummed in a female dog though she was in heat and took it willingly. Bi experiance with my brother.

[miamiuu]

The only response I have is. :eek: Never did animals and I was never close to any guys when I was younger where we would masturbate around each other.

[gb11vt18]

yeah man I think the stuff with animals is kinda strange and I do not know people will react to it. I would never do it but I do not pass judgement on others, and your first bi with your brother that is incest and it is very illegal, but thanks for shareing.

[biwords]

First time of any kind? with a lovely young woman, Martha Jo Crawford of Rochester, Michigan. I was 18l she was an 'older woman' of 19, and a preacher's daughter. Have made efforts to track her down to say hi, but to no avail. A truly good person of whom I have only the fondest thoughts. Sheesh, that was in February, 1974. And if we want to be really precise, in apartment #4, 60 Albany Avenue, Toronto.

[paukenplayer]

Bear with me here...this may turn into a long post!

The first time was with my high school sweetheart. I was a senior and she was a junior. We had been just friends, but I was hoping for a romantic relationship so out of the blue asked her to the senior prom. that was the beginning of a whirlwind romance. The sex happened the summer after I graduated. At a state park, in a secluded field of woldflowers - I can still remember every detail. Fast-forward, for reasons that neither of us understand to this day we drifted apart after I went off to college.

fast-forward twenty-some years, we both have been married, kids & divorced..somehow we get back in touch, we meet again and the old flame is still there - perhaps even stronger. Only problem is we live far apart - her in PA and I in TN. We don't get together often, but when we do it is still magical. perhaps we will find a way to be together in the near future, but only time will tell. I know in my profile it says that I am looking for what I apparently have already found. She has encouraged me to keep looking because, as she puts it; we don't know what the future may bring. Maybe we can be together, maybe not - in the meantime (I) don't want (you) to miss out on finding someone. If we are really meant to be permanent, it will happen eventually.

Hard to top such a woman....

Oh, yes...in between when we were apart, we discovered things about ourselves....turns out that we are both bi... certainly put a wonderful twist on the relationship.

[biwords]

Hard to top such a woman....

I won't say it, I won't I won't I won't. (The temptation passes).

She sounds wonderful, and you both sound fortunate. In fact yours is one of the more deliciously romantic stories I've seen posted here.

Already reported my first-time experience above, but yours reminds me of another long-ago episode of mine. Back in first grade I knew a l'il slip of a girl who was so pale and insubstantial as to seem almost transparent, more a larva than a girl. In a Victorian novel she'd have been the one to die of consumption. Fortunately she was more robust than she looked, though very shy. We were together in school until twelfth grade. I kind of admired her from afar. I don't think she noticed me at all. She appeared in the movie Network soon after finishing highschool. When we were both just shy of 30 we met again and spent a torrid summer together, notwithstanding that she'd become a fundamentalist Christian. She's married and living somewhere in the US now. Wherever you are, Lynnie.................mmmmmuah!

[MarieDelta]

I probably shouldn't post this, but ya know when have I ever listened to that voice?


My first time sex was when I was molested - by my brother - at 13.

It wasn't until I was 19 that I had my first time sex (w/ a female) with a prostituite in Germany. I was drunk(fwiw that was the only way i could get the nerve up), it wasn't a real good scene for either of us. The first time I had consesual sex (without $$ exchanged) wasn't until I returned to stateside and started college at 26(OMG! I can't believe I'm telling this) that was my first real relationship.

That's my story and I'm sticking to it.

[onewhocares]

Well, being in such elite company, I shall share my story. Being that I was such a tom boy , and KNOWing that no one would want a tall tom boy I well, sort of gave up. That was until I met this local business man. A florist. I had this hard fast rule that I never went out with some I did business with...well one date on New Year's Eve 1985. Gone was that rule of mine. Skip forward...five months, I am 24 as is he...it was, in retrospect...no techinque..lots of passion. C'est La Vie..................


Belle

[innaminka]

First time sex of any kind?
I think it must have been with a friend of mine - Sally R*********n when we watched her big brother (we were 10 he was 15!!!) putting his hand up some girl's dress. We couldn't see everything (they were on a lonely patch of Rye backbeach, we were behind tussocks of Marram grass) but he defintely "did" something and then she unzippied his shorts and did something to him.

Not conclusive evidence, but it sort of confirmed rumors we'd been hearing about what grown-ups do!!! :eek::eek::eek:

[DiamondDog]

I was very young, we are talking long before puberty, and I masturbated with a boy that I was friends with.

No it wasn't molestation, forced, rape, or anything at all like that.

[DiamondDog]

I find it a bit odd and disconcerning that the original poster was very candid and casual about haivng sex with animals.

[AdamKadmon43]

I find it a bit odd and disconcerning that the original poster was very candid and casual about haivng sex with animals.
I suppose the underlying assumption there is that people are not animals.

[kitten]

At age 11 with a best friend of 12. Both girls, we often masturbated together and "practiced" kissing.

At age 14, let my steady touch my breasts and kiss them all over.

First intercourse, with hubby a few weeks before we got married at a young age of 19.

First adult experience with a woman, at age 29 with a friend and hubby in a mff for his benefit and I enjoyed more than he did!

[DiamondDog]

I suppose the underlying assumption there is that people are not animals.

Well no I do see people as being animals.

But there's a difference between having consenting sex with a man/woman and having it with a dog or goat or whatever else you want as animals like this don't give consent and even if they do it's not like humans can understand it, and I doubt that most animals even want to have sex with humans or the people who take care of them.

Like I love my cat and I'll tease him and call him a slut when he gets friendly and rubs up against me for food/attention, but I don't want to rim him or have any sex at all with him! :eek:

[the sacred night]

On the bestiality note- I think it depends on the animal. If it's a horse, it's doubtless a lot stronger than you are and could stop you easily if it didn't like what you were doing to it. If it's smaller than you, that's not the case, and even if you think it wants whatever it is you think it wants, it can't tell you so and can't say stop, so I would not consider that consensual and therefore not okay.

On the first time sex note- it was with my ex fiance in his apartment, right after he moved out of his parents' house. He had this ridiculously shitty, uncomfortable, tiny little bed, in an apartment of about the same quality, but it was home. He dimmed the lights, lit candles, and put on some exotic, serene music. We started out making out, but since we were well and truly alone, this time we didn't have to stop. It was the first time anyone saw me naked as an adult, and I was astonished to find I was okay with it. I didn't actually let him put it inside me, but rather we were rubbing up against each other, which provided enough stimulation for us both to get off. We knew this because we had done it before clothed, but this time we didn't get off because I got scared halfway through and made him stop, afraid if I got any of his cum on me down there I'd get pregnant. Still, it was amazing up to that point. We were terrified for days until I started my period. It makes me smile now how naive and clueless we were :stanico::wendyico:

[Lorcan]

I kissed a boy at 15 who i was in love with at 13. We were too chicken to make the first move when we were 13. But at 15 i hadn't kissed anyone yet, so when we met again I kiss him for the heck of it.

At the end of 15, turning 16, I met a nice bi boy while on a trip hiking in the mountains. Gary. It was a purely external relationship...no penetration. His mom made him promise two things: not to get a girl pregnant, and not to be gay :eek:. He felt he had to keep one of his promises :rolleyes: He was right, you know...anytime boys and girls have vaginal sex they are playing Russian roulette; no (non-permanent) contraceptives is 100%

always wonder about Gary... is he still alive?

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

lol Mine is too long and reads like a bad porno movie..lol I wrote it out and put it in my writing group, tho.
Minx.

[Not2str8]

Personally, I prefer two-legged animals, but hey, that's just me.
My first time, I was pretty lucky. I was 15 and managed to get a hot 18 year-old girl to have sex with me. At that time, it was undoubtedly the most exciting moment in my life. I suspect she was somewhat less than overwhelmed. I had a rough idea of where all the parts went, but not much finesse beyond that. Still, I'll never forget it. Sadly, it was 3 years before there was a next time.
Been trying to make up for lost time ever since !

[tracie18]

Well i got raped at the age of 13 by my nextdoor neighbour, from then on i changed my mine about boys, at the age of 15 got with my first girl who was my best friend when i was on hoildays, at the age of 16 got sexual assulted by my friends older brother, at 17 i had meaningful sex with a guy then found out he cheated on me, from then on i have had a relationship with my best friend (girl) which is really good and strong.

[bigdreams3250]

I think I always used to feel good at touching my cock and arse when i was young, it was a bit of a thrill. My first sexual experiences were with a male friend at a swimming pool when I was about ten I would think. There were change cubicles there for either sex and up to three were allowed in. I dont think we knew what we were doing but he wanted to put his cut cock up my arse and I wanted him to. When it touched the rim it kind of felt nice, but we could not get a connection. Next time we were at the swimming pool and after our swim, i went back to the cubicle and he came along shortly afterwards. H wanted to try again and I thought that would be a good idea. When he put his cock on the rim it was cold and he pushed and pushed a bit harder and wallop, he was in. Now that made my eyeballs pop out. It also frightened him and he could not get out at first and he was near tears that his parents would find out after we had been arrested by the police. Then it deflated and popped out. Apparenlty he shoved a pennie down his swimming costume and when I went back to the cubicle he went over to a vending machine and got some Brylcreem. Which only goes to show 'that a little dab'll do yer' or me in this case, as the advert said.

And that is a true story.

[gcidd]

I was 24. Yes, 24. I came from a very conservative family. He was about 39. It was really just a mutual oral situation, but what sucked was he made us wear condoms. I hated the oral sex. I kept having the taste of rubber in my mouth.

4 years later I was with this stripper. She digged me and ended up doing me in the ladies room. That's about it. Nothing really exciting.

[Siruya]

Wow......24? I feel so bad for you. And oral sex with a condom? doesn't that defeat the purpose?

My first was at 15, with the guy I'm with now. We were pretty slutty about it too; we did it right after school in the school bathroom. I still ahve no idea why we weren't caught. :bigrin:

And I agree with Diamond dog, the animals thing is....eeeewww. Definitely not up my alley.