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[very_real423]

Hi everyone,

I live in the greatest city in the world, New York City Tje city that never sleeps. I am a attractive clean fit fun bi woman. I have been searching for a bi woman like myself, and have no luck at all. I have chatted with woman who say they are bi, I have even gone as far as exchanging pictures, talking on the phone but when it comes time to plan to meet they get cold feet. It is not only me I have chatted with other bi woman who are fed up with even trying to befriend another woman it seems impossible. Can anyone give me any suggestions as to what I can do to meet other woamn like myself to hang out with go shopping with or just talk on the phone. I thank all that reply. very_real423

[the mage]

It is a function of youth and the anonymity of the big city that allows people to play vanishing games.

If you seek sexual experience you sure as hell are in the right city.
You should try seeking a gay playmate, they tend to have less trouble showing up.

no shows are all too common.... That does lessen as you and your playmates age. People get to know they want it and like it and actually show up to play later in life.

[CardShark]

Some lucky couples actually did meet online. However, there are a thousand sad stories for every one good story from my experience. I'm sure the exact numbers would vary depending on the person. If a really open minded bisexual girl that would be cool and fun to hang out with is what your seeking, ever think of going to a strip club? Reason I say that is because the girls that work there are a very good source of first hand information on hot spots,hangouts,clubs and such. :cool: Pick out a really cool girl there and offer to buy her a drink. Be very straight forward and to the point but relaxed and see what she says. If she doesn't know any info that would help you i promise you she does know someone who can. :tong: If that idea doesn't appeal to you then go to most any meat market type nightclub. I'd say half the girls in the club are either bi/lesbian or dying to experience it if the right circumstances. Both my best friends wives are cocktail waitresses at one of the casinos here where i live and the little click of girls who i'm around everyday from my experience would be harder to find a girl that is completly straight than bi. Couple of those girls are dancers and the rest are also cocktails but out of say a gang of like 10-12 girls? No more than three of them are totally straight the rest are bisexual. This was my reason for telling you to go to a strip club to begin with. That is all those girls do! :cool: Party and shop!

[very_real423]

Thank you card shark I will try that I appreciate your advice very much :-)

[welickit]

Get involved with your local Gay Pride Organization. They are GLBT, gay, lesbian, bisexual & trans gendered. There you will meet very real people with similar interests, likes & dislikes. Good Luck :bipride:

[Tx46M]

Gee I thought that only happens with guys....hang in there. When the right person comes along it will happen. I've been talking to 2 guys, one for almost 2 years and we finally met a few weeks ago. One I messaged 1 week ago and we met yesterday. ;)

:male: :2cents:

[very_real423]

Get involved with your local Gay Pride Organization. They are GLBT, gay, lesbian, bisexual & trans gendered. There you will meet very real people with similar interests, likes & dislikes. Good Luck :bipride:

Thanks alsot welickit I appreciate you taking time out to reply to me. Hopefully we will meet up with someone soon.:)

[very_real423]

Gee I thought that only happens with guys....hang in there. When the right person comes along it will happen. I've been talking to 2 guys, one for almost 2 years and we finally met a few weeks ago. One I messaged 1 week ago and we met yesterday. ;)

:male: :2cents:

Hi Tx46,
I am so happy for you I hope that everything when well. It really is a shame so much time is watsed talking 2 years is an awesome long tinme to talk, I wish you alot of happiness

[biwords]

It is a function of youth and the anonymity of the big city that allows people to play vanishing games.

True, and perfectly expressed.

[kitten]

I recieved advice once that you must meet 100 people to find one worth dating. I found that the number was not quite so high as 100 but it still takes time and patience and will be worth the wait to find the right one.

Best wishes to you in your exploration!

[the mage]

Ahhhh strip clubs.... fond memories for a Bi guy with his Bi curious Lady. I'd forgotten about them as pick up places for women.
My Lady and I went several times and she got lap dances from the female dancers. The asking quickly eliminated the totally straight ones and the ones just sucking cash were soon ID'd too. She did get serious offers and a couple phone numbers and e mail addy's slipped to her by the dancers.

What made me chuckle was the number of free beers purchased for ME by other men in the bar!! They were hot as hell at seeing my woman in mini skirt and thong legs apart with a nude girl rubbing her body all over her...
I kept telling them the drinks should go to her not me......

Any way .. ahem, fun times remembered...