What a kisser!

[biwords]

A friend of mine recently remarked that men simply aren't as good at kissing as women are. I suspect that's true -- though I'd be interested in other views -- but in any case, it started me reminiscing. I've never been with anyone who kissed really badly, but some have been better than others, and best of all was a former girlfriend from college days, Stella K. Being kissed by Stella was like having a dozen tiny Swedish masseuses going to work inside your mouth. I've never experienced anything quite like it, before or since. I tried to learn her approach but never succeeded. Maybe she made a pact with the Devil. It would have been consistent with certain of her other behaviours :).

Has anyone here had a similar experience? And do you think that Master Kissers are born, or made?

[MarieDelta]

I've had better luck with women than men. The men I've been with have tended to be a bit unsensitive & "pushy" in the kissing dept.

But then my sample size isn't large enough to make any sort of conculsions.:)

Most of the women I've been with have been great kissers. Possibly due to greater sesitivity I dunno.

I think a great kisser is a combination of two factors:

1. Phsyical sensitivity - How hard you touch things to get sensation.

2. Emotional Sensitivity - How 'keyed in" you are to your partner.

Is a person born with this? I don't know.

:2cents:

[TaylorMade]

One guy was an AMAZING kisser. Maybe it was our sexual chemistry (I have NEVER encountered this before or since), but his kiss was. . .a kiss of fire and ice... his lips were warm, his breath cool. I don't think I can find another guy like that, but I'll keep trying...but he was no where near as good as a woman I dated, B. WOW. She inhaled me and tasted my mouth before tasting the rest of me.

I think it's chemistry... not gender.

*Taylor*

[DiamondDog]

I personally think that men kiss a lot better than women do.

Kissing is something I prefer to do with both men and women and there are some men who I can and have made out with for hours.

I like to do this with friends and I've made out with men and women just for fun and it's enjoyable. Also I'll

Kissing a man makes me VERY aroused even if it's just light kissing and I get really hard and I want to see if I could ejaculate or have an orgasm from kissing; but again I'm very oral so this makes sense that kissing would do this to me as many people and lots of gay men consider it to be oral sex.

I also like to taste a man when I kiss him and I'll remember how he tastes for when I'm alone and thinking about us kissing/having sex while I'm masturbating.

Yes I can get a bit agressive/dominant when I kiss a man if he wants that.

I'll do thinks like grab him, kiss him slowly and passionately, and grab his head/wrists or grind into his crotch or spank his ass (even better when he is wearing tight jeans! <EG>), pinch his tits, kiss his neck/ears, and I've been known to lick and bite men's furry chins!

I also love to kiss men in public and I don't care if other people are watching and I've never had rude stares, homophobic comments said to us, or anything at all like that.

I've even kissed men in completely rural areas/towns in the middle of nowhere in public and again it wasn't a big deal at all.

I also just LOVE to spank and be spanked in public and a nice public paddling and whipping are good things too! <EG>

Kissing women I can enjoy but I dunno if a lot really know what they're doing when it comes to oral sex like kissing and I've made out with women where it was just like ummmm your slimey tongue inside my mouth isn't really doing anything for me....but I've kissed some women where it was nice and enjoyable but that is kind of rare.

But I've kissed men where I got all dizzy afterwards and I could feel our exchange of energy and it was like a sensation traveled from my lips down to my feet and I felt content/safe in a man's arms and kissing him.

I've dated smokers and while it doesn't bother me you can taste it when you kiss them and I'm OK with it as I don't try to change people and I have kissed chain smokers before.

I've kissed people who have drank lots of alcohol and again that's not really a big deal but I generally don't like to make out with someone that's trashed while I'm sober and they reak of whiskey or beer.

I've kissed A LOT more men than women.

I can't even begin to think about how many men I have kissed since I have no idea on how to quantify it and I've had men kiss me all the time in bars/clubs or I've just met someone at a party and he and I will wind up kissing each other and then we'll both start to kiss another guy.

I'm guessing that it must be at least 100 or maybe more over the years since I had kissed male friends as a kid/teenager.

I'll also kiss men as a greeting or to say hello or goodbye and it's not a big deal at all. Or if I become friends with a gay/bi man we will say hello and goodbye with a hug and a kiss.

With women I think I've only kissed maybe only 5-10 as I really don't think that I've kissed 10 women or more than 10 women.

[Lisa (va)]

I think it's chemistry... not gender.

*Taylor*

I have to agree with this. But also I think it has a lot to do with how a person feels about kissing. I think folks like myself and DiamondDog place a great deal of emphasis on kissing (and the accompaning closeness) than most others. Folks that truely enjoy it for itself will most likely be or become better at kissing.

Lisa

hugs n kisses

[kitten]

OOhhhh I learned what the term butterfly kisses means firsthand with a male lover. He was so soft and so yummy and knew just when to apply more or less pressure to make those tingly sensations just drive me through the roof!

In general, I agree that good/great kissing depends on many things like compatibility and practice....lots of practice...:)

[Fresia]

I know there is a guy on this site who is a fabulous kisser. Happy that I got to know him.

[Melody Dean]

Until recently, I thought women were so much better kissers than men. And then there's one guy... the most fantastic kisser! I have never been kissed like that before.

Some of it may be cerebral, some other sort of connection. But moreso, I think it makes a difference with how a person views kissing. He absolutely loved kissing, it was very important to him.

Man, I wish I could just kiss him again.