is there such a thing as a "Bisexual" bar?

[funhunter44]

We all know there are gay bars, but is there such a thing as a Bisexual Bar? Do most bisexuals simply go to gay bars when they want to meet same sex and non-gay bars when they want to meet the opposite sex?

I can remember hearing people say of certain bars in the past that they drew a lot of bisexuals, however, I have searched online to see if there were any internet listings of bars popular with bisexuals only to come up empty.

I guess if there is such a thing as a bisexual bar, it would probably only exist in very large cities.

I live in Central Florida, and would be interested in hearing from anyone who knows of nightlife venues that cater to bisexuals.

[DiamondDog]

They're called mixed crowd bars.

Keep in mind that in some gay bars you will meet men who we'd consider bisexual since they have sex with both men and women and lust after both or they will have sex with a man and a woman in a Male/Male/Female 3 way; but they're hung up on labels and appearing "gay" so that's what they call themselves.

[wolfcamp]

Let's see if I can post this link.

http://twincities.citysearch.com/review/5521409

I used to go to this place occasionally. It wasn't specifically bi, but it always had a good m/f mix, and everyone was always very friendly. I got the feeling that many of the patrons went both ways. I never hooked up with anyone, but I had plenty of chances.

This bar isn't in your Florida area, but it shows that they do exist. I think the biggest problem with bars, even like this, is that everyone assumes you are looking for a same sex hookup. I remember getting looks from ladies at the Townhouse which I took to mean, 'I'd do you if you weren't gay.' If they only knew. I think you really need to get out there and talk to the people who attract you; find out what you have in common. That's always been part of my problem, I'm too shy to just walk up and start talking to someone.

Actually, the one and only time I ever hooked up with a guy in a bar was in a straight bar where bikers hung out and the bands played rock and roll. As I walked by, he made a casual comment to me about all the Harleys outside, and we started talking. I caught a few subtle hints from him about going to his place, and I eventually left the bar with him.

[funhunter44]

wow Wolfcamp, I'm impressed you made a same sex connection in a Biker Bar!....I've always been terrified of even looking interested in the same sex outside of a gay bar environment. I usually go out of my way to seem disinterested in the same sex in most environments unless I know they are friendly....and that's simply out of fear of the kind of rejection you can get from the "straight and narrow" types.

[wolfcamp]

wow Wolfcamp, I'm impressed you made a same sex connection in a Biker Bar!....I've always been terrified of even looking interested in the same sex outside of a gay bar environment. I usually go out of my way to seem disinterested in the same sex in most environments unless I know they are friendly....and that's simply out of fear of the kind of rejection you can get from the "straight and narrow" types.

The situation started off very casual and innocent, at least in my perception. I had noticed this guy standing near me, but thought nothing of it. I was just leaning against the wall near the open double doorway that looked out onto the beer court and the parking area. I was drinking a beer and watching the crowd, as I am fond of doing. I like to watch people. When the guy started talking to me, he was very casual and seemed non-threatening. At first I was just being polite and returned his comment about all the bikes in the parking lot. But then the conversation kept going and he started telling me about his work, and I was genuinely interested.

I finished my beer and he bought me another, always a plus in my book. Then I bought him one. He told me he was working in the state for about 6 months, and was staying over in Minneapolis. Some friends at work had told him about this bar so he drove over and got a room. The first subtle hint that he might be hitting on me was when he said his room had a whirlpool bath, and I should see it. I don't think I really reacted to that statement but my mind immediately locked on to those words, and I wondered what he meant by it. The conversation continued on. Then later he mentioned the whirlpool again. I started asking him questions about the whirlpool and that's when he asked if I would like to go see it. I said yes, I would, and we left the bar and walked over to his hotel. I have to say that the whirlpool was very nice, plenty big, and just the right temperature.

So, you see, the evening started out very innocently. I wasn't looking for anything. My intention was to go out, have a couple beers, watch a set or two of the band, and then go home. That particular bar always has a lot of interesting people. I don't know what it is about warm nights and biker bars, but the ladies really like to wear skimpy clothes, so I was just enjoying watching the crowd. Hooking up with a guy was the last thing on my mind.

[12voltman59]

I don't know if there really is or could be such a thing as a "bisexual bar"--it would seem to be kind of hard to create one--that as a bar owner--you would just establish a place that makes it clear--everyone is welcome---

[FalconAngel]

Down here in Ft. Lauderdale, there used to be a place called "The Copa".
It was a great place to go to meet gay, straight, bi, transgender, c/d men and women.
It had 3 bars (2 inside and one patio bar) and a nice sized dance floor, a small game room with pinball, video games and pool. There was normally a small entry fee, but it was definitely worth it. They closed their doors right after Wilma came through. I guess the storm did more damage that was worth to fix.

[miamiuu]

What ive noticed is that many times a straight night club throws gay parties certain nights. and these parties do attract straight women. I'm personally not too crazy myself about being surrounded by nothing but men. Cus im picky but i usually go out to meet women or listen to music and the men things just kind of happen out of the blue.

[deeTM]

Hmmm, wouldn't that be nice, lol.

I was in a gay bar last night as a matter of fact. The bartender asked me if I knew that I was in a gay bar, lol. Um, I am? Lol.

[deletetacount123]

There are a lot of bars that have "Theme Events"... one night could be straight, another night bisexual/gay/lesbians..... and so on.

I have never been to a bar (well, Ive been to resturants that had bars attached but its not the same as you guys are talking about I bet) but my sister has told me about the events and she goes to bars often lol

[miamiuu]

OP are you in south florida? I might have some suggestions for you. Miami has a club called Miami Velvet which is known as a bisexual club. Thing is you have to be a member and I guess they decide if you can join. I prefer going to mixed straight/gay hang outs cus it keeps life interesting.

[TaylorMade]

OP are you in south florida? I might have some suggestions for you. Miami has a club called Miami Velvet which is known as a bisexual club. Thing is you have to be a member and I guess they decide if you can join. I prefer going to mixed straight/gay hang outs cus it keeps life interesting.

I went to Velvet once... it was... meh.

I don't think there are true bi bars, just bi-friendly ones...

:2cents:

*Taylor*