Party Michigna swingers style

[dragontiger]

we are having a party on july 28th @ 8 pm till when ever...This will be a Toy /Lingerie/ Swingers party. What a better way to have fun with new people, toys, and lingerie. If you would like to join the fun and have something ordered and play with at the party let us know. We could make it alot of fun here at our party with all the right people that like toys,lingerie,and swinging. BYOB :three:

[Azrael]

Another participant in 'the lifestyle'. Blech :eek:
Perhaps I should clarify this. Nothing personal, but seeing a natural state of being described as a 'lifestyle" makes my celtic blood boil. I know I'm not alone in this.

[vittoria]

Another participant in 'the lifestyle'. Blech :eek:
Perhaps I should clarify this. Nothing personal, but seeing a natural state of being described as a 'lifestyle" makes my celtic blood boil. I know I'm not alone in this.


umm
i would have to agree with my liege...

its not a lifestyle like a name of condoms

its not like we're a bunch of bohemians

i read the profile and i think that perhaps the best way to put it would be "if you dont share our viewpoint" or something like that...

sounds SO diminishing when referred to as "the lifestyle"---we're all BI on this site... so maybe some clarification is in order so that the rest of us arent confused??

[The Cheshire Cat]

Hummmmm...I don't think they are talking about a bi lifestyle but about a swinger lifestyle. Of course I could be wrong..... :rolleyes:

[dragontiger]

Hummmmm...I don't think they are talking about a bi lifestyle but about a swinger lifestyle. Of course I could be wrong..... :rolleyes:
your so right not talking about the bi life style that is not a live style that is a choice WE are talking about the swingerlife style sorry for any miss understanding Dragon and Tiger :bibounce:

[dafydd]

your so right not talking about the bi life style that is not a live style that is a choice WE are talking about the swingerlife style sorry for any miss understanding Dragon and Tiger :bibounce:

Can they not talk about being bi or being swingers as *their* lifestyle? Why can't they define themselves as such?
For some guys being gay is both a sexual orientation and a lifestyle.
D

[Azrael]

your so right not talking about the bi life style that is not a live style that is a choice WE are talking about the swingerlife style sorry for any miss understanding Dragon and Tiger :bibounce:
Some of us beg to differ. No sane person would 'choose' to exist in direct opposition to the mores of human courtship. That said, no offense intended to anyone.
Also, be careful who u swing with. All kinds of horrors out there :eek:

[CSBForum]

In starting a bi group i made one rule: We do not attack people for the way we live our lives, we get enough of that in the real world. Everyone is trying to live their lives the best way they can, but everyone finds a different way to do that.

I see this group does not have the same rules.

[dragontiger]

Sorry we did not mean to start any thing we thought comeing here would be a good thing and posting about are partys would be fun but it just made a big old mess out of what we are and that we are class afing bisexual's hasa life style and its not swinging is a part of are lifestyle that is why its a lifestyle to us any way sorry for causeing this Dragon and Tiger :three:

[Azrael]

Sorry we did not mean to start any thing we thought comeing here would be a good thing and posting about are partys would be fun but it just made a big old mess out of what we are and that we are class afing bisexual's hasa life style and its not swinging is a part of are lifestyle that is why its a lifestyle to us any way sorry for causeing this Dragon and Tiger :three:
Oh, relax :) No blood spilled :P

[ArtLuvsoral]

As someone who has been in the swinging life 26 years with both my late wife and then my now ex, I have co owned a swingers club for 5 years, written articles on the lifestyle and given seminars at Hedo and elsewhere, I knew exactly what Scott and Cary meant........Swinging is a lifestyle, just as being a nudist is.....Being or becoming bisexual is a personal choice and there is a BIG difference between the two......Fact is I entered into the bisexual arena about a year and a half ago being introduced to it by a married couple who were bi at a swinger's party........
Good luck with your party Scott and Cary, I hope it's a huge success, wish I could be there!!
Art

[dragontiger]

As someone who has been in the swinging life 26 years with both my late wife and then my now ex, I have co owned a swingers club for 5 years, written articles on the lifestyle and given seminars at Hedo and elsewhere, I knew exactly what Scott and Cary meant........Swinging is a lifestyle, just as being a nudist is.....Being or becoming bisexual is a personal choice and there is a BIG difference between the two......Fact is I entered into the bisexual arena about a year and a half ago being introduced to it by a married couple who were bi at a swinger's party........
Good luck with your party Scott and Cary, I hope it's a huge success, wish I could be there!!
Art
Thank you so much Art for knowing what we ment all this time and oh do we wish you could be here with us also and thanks for your warm wishies XXO Dragon and Tiger :bibounce: :bibounce:

[Azrael]

Am I to understand you all see your sexual identity as a choice? I'm confused. I thought we are the way we are and it's up to us to figure it out, not 'choosing' what suits our mood. Something tells me I should just say fuck it and leave this alone. Fuck it.

[weskain77]

Well I don't know about all this blood boiling and definition stuff. I try to stay clear of it.

I would like to say, however, that I would love to have met you, had a couple of drinks and let myself have a great time at your party. Unfortunately geography is against us.

But cheers regardless.

:)

-W

[JoyJoyHollywood]

I don't really see my sexual identity as a choice, I'm simply this way. However, I do recognize that I choose to accept it, but that I could also choose to reject it. So, maybe it's a little of both.


Oh-and thank you for the invitation, that was very nice. I'm sure it's going to be a lovely party.

[jem_is_bi]

Thanks for the invitation. I hope you and your guests have a great party. Unfortunately, I am not into toys and lingerie, and am happier with one-to-one sex. Otherwise, if I lived a little closer, I would attend your party to meet you and others.

JEM

[GreenEyedLady(GEL)]

Am I to understand you all see your sexual identity as a choice? I'm confused. I thought we are the way we are and it's up to us to figure it out, not 'choosing' what suits our mood. Something tells me I should just say fuck it and leave this alone. Fuck it.


Why couldn't you have just left it alone to begin with ? She was only trying to post about a party at her home , inviting anyone who wishes to come. Then you had to go and pick it apart !!!! For petes sakes.

[dafydd]

Why couldn't you have just left it alone to begin with ? She was only trying to post about a party at her home , inviting anyone who wishes to come. Then you had to go and pick it apart !!!! For petes sakes.

here here

d

[Azrael]

not that big a deal, I just misconstrued certain statements from the profile. that is all *offers buds of peace*

[arana]

Am I to understand you all see your sexual identity as a choice? I'm confused. I thought we are the way we are and it's up to us to figure it out, not 'choosing' what suits our mood. Something tells me I should just say fuck it and leave this alone. Fuck it.
Bi, Gay, Lesbian...not a choice unless you are one of those flavour of the month types that do it to be in...which I never understood. Swingers..yes a choice. You choose to have sex with other couples and exchange partners and so on and so on.

[redheadhoneycat]

Why couldn't you have just left it alone to begin with ? She was only trying to post about a party at her home , inviting anyone who wishes to come. Then you had to go and pick it apart !!!! For petes sakes.
I agree with GEL chill out dude!!! For the party hosts.... Hope you have a great time!! :)

[Spicy]

Wish I could join your party but geography does not allow that. Have fun.

Spicy

[anne27]

I'd like to see us welcome all newbies (and regulars for that matter) regardless of their 'lifestyle' choices. :2cents:

Hope y'all have a wonderful party. Stop back in and tell us all about it afterwards!

[dragontiger]

Why couldn't you have just left it alone to begin with ? She was only trying to post about a party at her home , inviting anyone who wishes to come. Then you had to go and pick it apart !!!! For petes sakes.
TY SO MUCH GREEN your so right please join us hun

[dragontiger]

we are having a party on july 28th @ 8 pm till when ever...This will be a Toy /Lingerie/ Swingers party. What a better way to have fun with new people, toys, and lingerie. If you would like to join the fun and have something ordered and play with at the party let us know. We could make it alot of fun here at our party with all the right people that like toys,lingerie,and swinging. BYOB :three:
We are having a party July 28th and would like to invite you to our party. We need to know who is all coming by the 20th so we can let Joe know how many will be here for our toy/lingerie/swinger party on the 28th so please if you plan on coming and are going to be here for the fun please let us know by the 20th love Cary and Scott.
:bibounce:

[DiamondDog]

Can they not talk about being bi or being swingers as *their* lifestyle? Why can't they define themselves as such?
For some guys being gay is both a sexual orientation and a lifestyle.
D

I don't know how "lifestyle" is used in reference to gay/bi/trans/queer people in the UK.

But here in the US if someone equates being gay/bi/trans/queer with a lifestyle it's seen as being in very poor and in the sense that the person is homo/bi/trans-phobic since they equate sexuality/gender with a choice by using it with the word lifestyle.

I have to say that I agree. I hate how "lifestyle" is used in bad taste to define people who are homosexual/bi/trans.

I don't see how a sexual/gender orientation is a "lifestyle" and how either one could be equated with a "lifestyle" since everyone's totally different and as many homo/bisexual people will tell you how many feel that besides their sexuality they don't feel that they have anything in common with other homosexual and bisexual people.

[dragontiger]

Fuck it we give up on posting about are partys here all you people ponder on is how one says any thing about a lifestyle and for the last FUCKING TIME WE NEVER SAID ANY THING ABOUT BI GAY LES WHAT EVER HAS BEING A LIFESTYLE WE ARE SWINGERS THAT IS A LIFESTYLE SEE YA AND HOPE YOU ALL WILL NOT RIP APART SOME ONE ELSES PARTY POST IN THE FUTURE :mad: :mad: and to those that have under stood what we was talking about and that posted about are party thanks for responding

[jamiehue]

kalkaska in july nice! this i know.

[TaylorMade]

I don't know how "lifestyle" is used in reference to gay/bi/trans/queer people in the UK.

But here in the US if someone equates being gay/bi/trans/queer with a lifestyle it's seen as being in very poor and in the sense that the person is homo/bi/trans-phobic since they equate sexuality/gender with a choice by using it with the word lifestyle.

I have to say that I agree. I hate how "lifestyle" is used in bad taste to define people who are homosexual/bi/trans.

I don't see how a sexual/gender orientation is a "lifestyle" and how either one could be equated with a "lifestyle" since everyone's totally different and as many homo/bisexual people will tell you how many feel that besides their sexuality they don't feel that they have anything in common with other homosexual and bisexual people.

Jesus tittyfucking Christ, sometimes you don't know when to stop, do you?

They're SWINGERS who happen to be bisexual. They were throwing a SWINGER party.

*Taylor*

[DiamondDog]

Jesus tittyfucking Christ, sometimes you don't know when to stop, do you?

They're SWINGERS who happen to be bisexual. They were throwing a SWINGER party.

*Taylor*

I was replying to Dafydd's post about the word lifestyle and how it's used in the US and viewed with negativity when it's used to describe queer people's sexuality or gender.

What is the swinger lifestyle anyway?

A sex party with lots cocaine or meth? A key party like in the movie 'The Ice Storm'? A party where there are men and women there and the women can have sex with each other all they want, but the men can't? A wife swapping party?

[TaylorMade]

I was replying to Dafydd's post about the word lifestyle and how it's used in the US and viewed with negativity when it's used to describe queer people's sexuality or gender.

What is the swinger lifestyle anyway?

A sex party with lots cocaine or meth? A key party like in the movie 'The Ice Storm'? A party where there are men and women there and the women can have sex with each other all they want, but the men can't? A wife swapping party?

Hey, DD, here's an idea --

How about asking them (oh wait, you and others chased them away!), instead of going off and using stereotypes...We hate that crap when it's done to us, but it always amazes me when we don't hesitate a MOMENT to do it to others.

*Taylor*

[jem_is_bi]

If you do not want to go to a party because it is not your type of party, be happy that the host is willing to take the time and effort to provide you the opportunity to participate.
Why heap abuse on them?

All they did was try and be nice and invite everybody to come to their home and have a good time. I feel bad for the abuse they have endured. I read their profile; they only want to share what gives them joy with the rest of us.

I hope the party goes well so they can forget this ungrateful treatment. Why not be polite to nice people?

JEM

[dragontiger]

I was replying to Dafydd's post about the word lifestyle and how it's used in the US and viewed with negativity when it's used to describe queer people's sexuality or gender.

What is the swinger lifestyle anyway?

A sex party with lots cocaine or meth? A key party like in the movie 'The Ice Storm'? A party where there are men and women there and the women can have sex with each other all they want, but the men can't? A wife swapping party?

OK wow are you really that anel in live that you do not know what a swinger is damn boy you need to get out more lets see you can sit there in your little office bed room liveing room what ever it is your in and slam us down becuse of a word lifestyle that is used in more ways than we will all ever know and you do not even know what a Swinger is i Find that down right fucking odd any Below is the Definition of a swinger

a. A person who actively seeks excitement and moves with the latest trends.
b. A person who engages freely in promiscuous sex.
c. A member of a couple, especially a married couple, who exchanges sexual partners. :three: :banghead: :banghead:

[TaylorMade]

Thanks for sticking around. :)

*Taylor*

[anne27]

What Taylor said.

You'll find that like everywhere else, we have a certain amount of closed minded people. But, all in all, I think we have a wonderful group of people here. Hope you overlook the less than friendly welcome from some of them. :rolleyes:

[The Cheshire Cat]

What Taylor and Anne Said-Ditto. :bigrin:

[dragontiger]

It takes alot more than this to stear me away Tiger on the other hand has had more than she wants from here so know all the ones that are stupid have to deal with me lol and i can get Pretty mean at times But any way are party has like 25 people showing up so far so those that made this post a Bitch out section and not a party invite its still here and it will be for some time to come OH and wate we will be haveing a nother party and yes I Will post it here to have a nice day XXO Dragon :three:

[dafydd]

I was replying to Dafydd's post about the word lifestyle and how it's used in the US and viewed with negativity when it's used to describe queer people's sexuality or gender.

What is the swinger lifestyle anyway?

A sex party with lots cocaine or meth? A key party like in the movie 'The Ice Storm'? A party where there are men and women there and the women can have sex with each other all they want, but the men can't? A wife swapping party?


In the UK, there is a certain 'gay clone' lifestyle. Pretty boys, goto gym, take steriods, pump up, buy same clothes, get drunk on Friday, take e and K on Sat, party party, shirts off, circuits etc. sipping coffee on old compton st on Wed. talk about sex sex sex, who's cute who's not etc. Eat in gay restaurants, drink in gay bars, read gay magazines, have hair cut by gay hairdresser. happens every weekend, every week: lifestyle.

Wow if I had the body i'd do it too! :)

Here's one straight lifestyles e.g. the lad, who gets drunk every weekend, reads Loaded and Nuts, get the beers in lads, football maniac etc.

Sexual orientation e.g. who you get it up, who you fall in love with, whether you find the male/female form aesthetically pleasing is different.

Sexual orientation is about who you are. Living a lifestyle is about what you do.
D

[dafydd]

Jesus tittyfucking Christ, sometimes you don't know when to stop, do you?

They're SWINGERS who happen to be bisexual. They were throwing a SWINGER party.

*Taylor*

Made me guffaw. "tittyfucking Christ" :)

d

[dragontiger]

In the UK, there is a certain 'gay clone' lifestyle. Pretty boys, goto gym, take steriods, pump up, buy same clothes, get drunk on Friday, take e and K on Sat, party party, shirts off, circuits etc. sipping coffee on old compton st on Wed. talk about sex sex sex, who's cute who's not etc. Eat in gay restaurants, drink in gay bars, read gay magazines, have hair cut by gay hairdresser. happens every weekend, every week: lifestyle.

Wow if I had the body i'd do it too! :)

Here's one straight lifestyles e.g. the lad, who gets drunk every weekend, reads Loaded and Nuts, get the beers in lads, football maniac etc.

Sexual orientation e.g. who you get it up, who you fall in love with, whether you find the male/female form aesthetically pleasing is different.

Sexual orientation is about who you are. Living a lifestyle is about what you do.
D
I resent that remark about a man being gay has a hairdresser I am a hair stylest and iam far from GAY Bi yes GAY no i like to suck a little cock here and there BUT I LOVE MY PUSSY so your whole thing about a lifestyle FUCKING DROP IT ALL READY OK DAMN ITS PARTY IN VITE NOT A GOD DAME FUCKING DEPATE on what is the meaning of a lifestyle bi gay les stright swingers what ever ita GOD DAMN CHIOCE!!!!

[dafydd]

I resent that remark about a man being gay has a hairdresser I am a hair stylest and iam far from GAY Bi yes GAY no i like to suck a little cock here and there BUT I LOVE MY PUSSY so your whole thing about a lifestyle FUCKING DROP IT ALL READY OK DAMN ITS PARTY IN VITE NOT A GOD DAME FUCKING DEPATE on what is the meaning of a lifestyle bi gay les stright swingers what ever ita GOD DAMN CHIOCE!!!!

I was not talking about all hairdressers, neither was I talking about all gay men, I was talking about certain gay men who will only get their hair cut by a gay hairdresser.
Now it all sounds absurd.
Unfortunately, the nature of the bisexual.com forum is that general topics which are started, quickly spiral into discussions about the nature of human sexuality and the many permutations of desire. This is great! (IMOH)
I was one of the first champions of the original poster, so I'm not sure what your issue is. I enjoy talking about this kind of stuff, because a) I don't know what's going on myself, b) I'm feeling my way in the dark with my own bisexuality and c) I appreciate others' point of view.
Yes it gets a bit heated, but I never take offense, nor do I intend to cause any.
Why don't you just roll with it? I'm on your side.

D
:bibounce:

[dragontiger]

I was not talking about all hairdressers, neither was I talking about all gay men, I was talking about certain gay men who will only get their hair cut by a gay hairdresser.
Now it all sounds absurd.
Unfortunately, the nature of the bisexual.com forum is that general topics which are started, quickly spiral into discussions about the nature of human sexuality and the many permutations of desire. This is great! (IMOH)
I was one of the first champions of the original poster, so I'm not sure what your issue is. I enjoy talking about this kind of stuff, because a) I don't know what's going on myself, b) I'm feeling my way in the dark with my own bisexuality and c) I appreciate others' point of view.
Yes it gets a bit heated, but I never take offense, nor do I intend to cause any.
Why don't you just roll with it? I'm on your side.

D
:bibounce:
you have a strange way of makeing your point :bibounce:

[mrsgreywolf1960]

Wow, I guess all I have to add is.....If you can't stand the heat, don't tickle the dragon!!!
Good luck at your party!!!!

[dafydd]

you have a strange way of makeing your point :bibounce:

jeez I was sticking up for you.
did you not read the history of my posts on your topic?

crickey

d.

[TaylorMade]

Made me guffaw. "tittyfucking Christ" :)

d


It's not even in my usual roster of obsenties either.

*Taylor*