View Full Version : any girls have the hots for gay men?
confusedandcute
Oct 8, 2005, 2:29 PM
I find that I'm extremely attracted to gay men, the more fem ones. Does anyone else feel this way? Is it their fashion sense or just their feminity that turns me on? What does this say about me?
nubiwoman
Oct 8, 2005, 5:27 PM
Yup me too confused :bigrin:
I guess i just see it as part of my being bisexual.. I am drawn towards men who are also aware of their attraction to their own gender...
:2cents: julie xx
delylab
Oct 9, 2005, 2:23 PM
i always LOVED gay men more than straight men, they are more fun to talk to, they sometimes dress better. i find myself liking drag queens or other cross dressers the most. They are the coolest-its like having a new female friend. it's great, but i can't say i am sexually excited by it.
:female: beth
fhgeo8
Oct 9, 2005, 7:12 PM
I feel the same way. Its kindof annoying sometimes because I have a lot of friends who are gay men, and the ones I'm closest friends with a lot of peolple who don't know about them or me think we are "together". But, anyways, I feel very comfortable around them, they help me with clothes while I help them fixing their car ;) The stress of having to worry about a relationship is taken off and you are allowed to just be yourself because you know that there is no way they are interrested in you... but it gets really complicated if you develop feelings for them. What do you do if you have romantic feelings towards a gay man and you are a bi woman? You can't really talk to them because it then strains the friendship. Any ideas???