3way you pay

[dafydd]

Even though I am bi male, i can't think of anything worse than a MMF 3way.
Discuss... :bipride:

[Skater Boy]

Even though I am bi male, i can't think of anything worse than a MMF 3way.
Discuss... :bipride:

Well, I've never actually HAD one in real life, but I DO like the idea of it, and have fantasized about it plenty of times. Not saying I prefer it to FFM or even FFFM (or even FFFFFM, lol), but I certainly wouldn't mind trying it one day.

Ps: I think "MFM" would be better than MMF though.

[dafydd]

I find the idea repellent, skin crawling, toe curling etc etc. blah blah

[Skater Boy]

I find the idea repellent, skin crawling, toe curling etc etc. blah blah

Hmm, so you can "go with girls" and "go with guys", but NOT BOTH at the same time? I have to admit, the MFM scenario is most interesting from a "voyeuristic" perspective to me. But I would still have no qualms about giving it a go in person...

[dafydd]

I think it's more to do with the fact that i don't like sharing....
And also i guess in a 3some someone ALWAYS loses out.
But I would MUCH prefer a FFM 3some than a MMF.

[welickit]

You have a great deal to learn. Someday you will grow up and it will all make sense. Good luck.

[Mozlie]

I love the idea of every way and any how!! ;)

[DiamondDog]

I think it's more to do with the fact that i don't like sharing....
And also i guess in a 3some someone ALWAYS loses out.
But I would MUCH prefer a FFM 3some than a MMF.

That's cool we're all different.

Personally for me the idea of a FFM 3 way or sex with two women at the same time is something that I don't have any desire at all to do.

Too much pussy, an overload of feminine energy, and I don't deal/interact with women that well, and their bodies are alien to me because I don't have a vagina/clitoris. I'm not female so I don't know a woman's body or how to please another woman sexually as well as another woman does.

Watching two women have sex does nothing for me and it's not something I want, seek out to see, or seek out to have a Male/female/female 3 way.

Plus even if I'm just watching porn I NEED some cock!

I was deleting old porn files I'd downloaded of hetero porn on my hard drive last night and some of the movies were FFM 3 ways and I remember downloading them just to see the man's cock or his hot body.

I'd rather have balance by being with two men in a MMM 3 way, or in a MMF 3 way with both genders.

I do fantasise/enjoy MMM 3 ways and I've never had a male/male/female 3 way but it is at the top of my list and I REALLY want to have one or a lot!

[Sefrin]

While I have never had one the idea of it really turns me on. I would guess that there has to be good communication and everyone has to make an effort to make sure all three have fun and dont feel hurt. I also like the idea of MMF with the Female being in charge kind of like a director, much less chance of hurt fellings then I think.

[onewhocares]

My dear young man, you do not know what you are missing. I am the lucky lady who has been the F in the MFM. For me....it was and is amazing. I have the attention of two men and I get to share them. It is never all about me. I love just watching them too.

As was stated earlier...as you age perhaps your taste will change. Never say never.

Belle

[captslaprock]

Belle i am with you 100%
a 3 some is without a doubt to me the best sex you can have
just as long as the 2 people of the same sex are comfortable
they don't have to be bi ....just aware with 3 bodies in bed, touching going to happen & don't freak out
just relax & go with the flow
it's awesome :bigrin:

[spartca]

You have a great deal to learn. Someday you will grow up and it will all make sense. Good luck.

ROFL! :rolleyes:

I guess that means more couples for us welickit. Apparently experience triumphs over youth again. :tong:

[TaylorMade]

daf. . .

no one can make you like it. If it isn't your thing, let it go as "not your thing". I find trying to probe WHY something isn't your thing can be a futile quest that ends up pissing off all the people that DO like it, or an eye opening experience that makes you change your mind.

*Taylor*

[arana]

daf. . .

no one can make you like it. If it isn't your thing, let it go as "not your thing". I find trying to probe WHY something isn't your thing can be a futile quest that ends up pissing off all the people that DO like it, or an eye opening experience that makes you change your mind.

*Taylor*
Quite true, who knows why anyone likes one thing over another. Personal preferences is what makes the world go around. It would be pretty boring if everyone liked everything the same and did nothing different.

[DiamondDog]

daf. . .

no one can make you like it. If it isn't your thing, let it go as "not your thing". I find trying to probe WHY something isn't your thing can be a futile quest that ends up pissing off all the people that DO like it, or an eye opening experience that makes you change your mind.

*Taylor*

Very true Taylor.

I don't see why some people are telling dafydd that he SHOULD like something he has no desire to do sexually. Or why they're flaming/chiding him telling him that he's going to like it with age/as he gets older, or that he's immature for not wanting to do a 3 way with a man and a woman.

We all have our own personal likes and dislikes and we shouldn't assume that other people's are or should be the same as our own.

I have vanilla friends that don't get my interest in bondage and SM and I don't understand their mindset of not being exploratory when it comes to sex, or even at least trying bondage or SM just once before saying OK well it's not for me.

I know bisexuals and people of all sexual orientations that have no desire to have a 3 way of any type at all, as they'd rather just concentrate on one partner, and one partner only. Some people have tried 3 ways and don't like them at all, or find them to be very overrated.

Also, if you've ever actually had a 3 way with a couple of any sort, they don't always go as balanced and as smoothly as everyone plans on, or assumes that a 3 way should be.

This is only for a night of sex too. 3 way open relationships where one enters into a relationship with another established couple who wants an open relationship can cause people a lot more frustrations, jealousy, hurt people, break up a relationship, are a lot more work than a relationship between two people, and are a whole other can of worms.

I've had friends that were in them but swear that they'll never enter into one again with an established couple, and that the years they spent with a couple should have been spent dating others and focusing on a relationship with one other person only.

Often times someone either feels weird, gets hurt, things get rather awkward between people, or feels left out (but doesn't say anything), or they become a voyuer on the sidelines and just watch their partner with another person and don't have sex at all.

I have friends that enjoy 3 ways but simply refuse to have them with a couple at all because to them it's too weird, they wind up feeling left out, wind up feeling awkward, and there's an uneven structure of power since they are with people who are in an established relationship.

[ghytifrdnr]

I think it's more to do with the fact that i don't like sharing....
And also i guess in a 3some someone ALWAYS loses out.

In a 3some someone MIGHT SOMETIMES lose out, but if it's always for you, you might want to re-examine your practices. ;)

[FalconAngel]

I think it's more to do with the fact that i don't like sharing....
And also i guess in a 3some someone ALWAYS loses out.
But I would MUCH prefer a FFM 3some than a MMF.

Actually, if you do it right, then no one loses out in any 3way. We've done a few MMF's and we always make sure that everyone is taken care of and happy by the end of it all.

Someone only loses out if someone is selfish and uncaring of the needs of the other people in the MMF.

[12voltman59]

My dear young man, you do not know what you are missing. I am the lucky lady who has been the F in the MFM. For me....it was and is amazing. I have the attention of two men and I get to share them. It is never all about me. I love just watching them too.

As was stated earlier...as you age perhaps your taste will change. Never say never.

Belle

I have not had such an experience as yet--maybe one of these days--and as Belle said--never say never---hell--I never thought I would ever be doing anything like being on a web site like this and have now done some actual things I never thought I would do and find that I enjoy them immensely!!!!--so like the lady says---"Never Say Never!!!!" :tong: :tongue: ;) :bigrin: :eek: :rolleyes: :cool: :cool: :rotate: :rotate: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :yikes2: :yikes2:

[DiamondDog]

That's true that you should "never say never" but some people know themselves well enough to know that they don't want to do certain things sexually.

Like for example I know that while I enjoy giving women oral sex I would not do it if it's that "time of the month". While I don't have vaginal sex with women all that often (last time was 5-6 years ago) the same goes for using toys on a woman or doing anything sexual when a woman is having her period.

The same goes for rimming a dirty hole, felching/creampies/barebacking, SM that involves bloodplay/cutting/needles, SM that invovles leaving permanent marks, branding, scat, roman showers, anything sexual involving kids/animals, sex/bondage/SM that involves verbal discipline (someone calling me their bitch, slut, whore, cocksucker, their faggot, or other degrading things during sex), and while I don't find it completely disgusting the idea of reciving oral sex from a woman makes me go limp and is something that I don't want to do.

Gaurenteed some of these are heavy/extreme but these are examples of things that I don't want to do when it comes to sex.

IMO people shouldn't be chastized, blackmailed/made to feel bad for not wanting to do something, or forced into doing things that they don't want to do if it's for sex or anything at all.

Anyway, 3 ways aren't for everyone, as lots of things aren't.
I personally have no desire to go to a gangbang, or have a 3 way with two women but everyone's different.

I would NOT reccomend a couple having one where one partner is OK with it and the other partner gets jealous easily or wants a closed/exclusive relationship and is only having the 3 way and having an open relationship not because they want to but because they are doing it in hopes of keeping their relationship with their partner strong and alive, when if they think that an open relationship will bring them closer it will probably drive them apart.

[cliffml]

I can understand your feelings on this. For me when i'm with a woman I just want to be with her. In the same token when i'm with a man that's all I want. I find the sex to be more intense when it's just with one person.

[diamond_tether]

We enjoy MMFs. No one loses out when we play because we keep an actively integrated situation going at all times. Everyone is either touching someone or being touched - often both at the same time. Occasionally someone is just sitting back and watching, but that's because they chose to - either as a break or to indulge in some voyeurism.

It really isn't for everyone and some people much prefer the one-on-one encounter. But, we have that with each other whenever we want it. We enjoy being able to branch out of that from time to time.

[TaylorMade]

We enjoy MMFs. No one loses out when we play because we keep an actively integrated situation going at all times. Everyone is either touching someone or being touched - often both at the same time. Occasionally someone is just sitting back and watching, but that's because they chose to - either as a break or to indulge in some voyeurism.

It really isn't for everyone and some people much prefer the one-on-one encounter. But, we have that with each other whenever we want it. We enjoy being able to branch out of that from time to time.


Oooo! Ooooh! Ooooh! And communication/negotiation of terms beforehand makes for a smoother "game". :)

*Taylor*

[Doggie_Wood]

Although I have not had a MMF threesome, I have had some MFM threesomes where it was all about two men for a woman (no MM sexual contact involved). And I have also had some FFM threesomes, where it seemed like it was still all about the women (scratches head) :confused: . Oh well, the main thing is that all involved had fun, especially the women :rolleyes: .
Daf - just go with the flow of what turns you on and what you are most comfortable with doing.
But at the same time, don't be critical of those who do enjoy the contact and pleasures of both sexes.

:doggie:

[getsum83]

:cool: to each his own I guess. Im a bi curious guy and am having trouble finding a cpl. to try it with. so , ..dont do it if u wont like it. your loss...... :)

[billy_campbell]

So show me the loser in either of these pictures. Me thinks everyone is having a great time.

[innaminka]

Quite true, who knows why anyone likes one thing over another. Personal preferences is what makes the world go around. It would be pretty boring if everyone liked everything the same and did nothing different.

Beautifully put without any denigration of the writer.

Vive la difference.

BTW, 3-somes of either :male: :female: :male: or :female: :male: :female: combination are not in my repetoire. Not for me. But for those who participate - Go for it!

(actualy, :female: :female: :female: 3'somes are actually fantastic!)

[DiamondDog]

So show me the loser in either of these pictures. Me thinks everyone is having a great time.

LOL I don't think you can really tell by porn with paid actors what a 3 way is REALLY like in reality, in general, or for all of the participants. :)

[deremarc]

My boyfriend has trouble admitting he is bi, although he has had sex with men. He completely negatively flipped out when I said I would love to experience it with him.

Finally, in a moment of honesty (few and far between on this subject) he said that he didn't want me to "see" him "do that". Also, for him, mm sex and fm sex are two very different things, and when he wants a man (which is not very often) ALL he wants is a man.

Bummer for me, since the idea now turns me on (in the beginning it sure as heck didn't!).

Ah, well, such is life!

[hairless]

I'm very bi curious and have'nt done it with another guy yet. But I just luv the idea of a MMF. I think a woman would luv the attention of two guys. Even though I can'nt interest my wfe into trying it go figure. Anyway two guys and a gal makes me real horny.

[biwords]

LOL I don't think you can really tell by porn with paid actors what a 3 way is REALLY like in reality, in general, or for all of the participants. :)

My first thought exactly on seeing that1

[billy_campbell]

LOL I don't think you can really tell by porn with paid actors what a 3 way is REALLY like in reality, in general, or for all of the participants. :)

I agree with you about the actors, just a job for them. My point was as a bisexual man if I was involved in a MMF like in the pictures I would be turned on regardless of which male I was in the picture. If I was either guy why would I feel like a loser? Just remember all those lessons your mother taught you about sharing your toys and everything will work out. :three: :2cents:

[DiamondDog]

I agree with you about the actors, just a job for them. My point was as a bisexual man if I was involved in a MMF like in the pictures I would be turned on regardless of which male I was in the picture. If I was either guy why would I feel like a loser? Just remember all those lessons your mother taught you about sharing your toys and everything will work out. :three: :2cents:

People feel left out during 3 ways for a huge variety of reasons some of which I've covered in previous posts on this thread.

During a 3 way things can get a bit awkward especially if it's the first time for such a thing or if someone has an expectation for a certain sex act and it doesn't happen, or when one is dealing with people who have a relationship.

Or if two couples are having sex together things can get REALLY awkward and weird.

I don't share people or have sex with one partner of a couple and not both at the same time. I also don't consider people to be "toys" that are to be used for sex, or just have 3 ways with people who I don't know too well at all as friends or who I'm not introduced to by friends of mine.

Such as people who are being split apart or fighting in their relationship, like a major fight and they think that having a 3 way will bring them back together again. Or people who I don't really know at all, or who I only know casually from the bar scene who just suddenly pop the question suddenly out of nowhere. I also refuse to have 3 ways with people who I think are VERY promiscuious or who I think have HIV or another STD but lie about it or don't know that they have one. Also people who use drugs like meth, coke, heroin, are out of the question too.

[CountryLover]

I had my one and only MMF in May 2005. owowowow owowoo....I STILL break into a sweat and get horny all over again remembering it! It was awesome wonderful :) :)

I've had several very successful FMF with my girlfriend and her husband. When I first met them, I interviewed them very carefully. I wanted to make sure it wasn't "all about him"...that she really did want my presence. I needed to make sure they had a strong solid marriage, and that I wasn't being used to try to patch things up, or some such nonsense.

So long as the lovers involved all make sure to include each other, there's no need for anyone to be left out. Her hubby sat back once in a while because he wanted to observe and enjoy, then he'd jump back in for more fun. Usually what worked best was for two of us to 'gang' up the third and drive him/her into throes of ecstacy before moving on to the next person.

I'm with you DiamondDog. I don't like to think of people as toys or mere sex objects. I want to make love with my friends, express my delight in their own special being - and you can't do that with strangers.

Regarding differences - I'm really plain vanilla. The idea of me participating in bondage gives me hives because I'm very claustrophobic and the idea of tying me down, being restrained makes me berzerk! However, when I mention to friends who know me well that I'm "vanilla, not kinky at all"...they always go into fits of hysterical laughter.

:tong: I'm sure I don't know what that's all about!

[NakedInSeattle]

Whether you call it MFM or MMF or FMM (I think it has to do with who is getting the most attention), we love it. At one time in the evening, one may be getting most of the attention and at another, it is one of the others. We all get sucked and we all (those that want it) get fucked. You can't get any better than that. It is the ultimate pleasure. It makes us ask the question, "why isn't everybody bi-sexual?"

[damit1963]

Okay call me naive, but what's the difference between MMF and MFM?

[DiamondDog]

Okay call me naive, but what's the difference between MMF and MFM?
Men having sex with each other.

The pics that Billy_Campbell posted are of MMF 3 ways.

MFM 3 ways are the type of 3 ways that you see in heterosexual porn and my friend and I consider them to be a type of heterosexual sex since the men don't have sex with each other like in a MMF 3 way.

Am I the only person here that's posted about MMM 3 ways? Or who has done them?

[damit1963]

Men having sex with each other.

The pics that Billy_Campbell posted are of MMF 3 ways.

MFM 3 ways are the type of 3 ways that you see in heterosexual porn and my friend and I consider them to be a type of heterosexual sex since the men don't have sex with each other like in a MMF 3 way.

Am I the only person here that's posted about MMM 3 ways? Or who has done them?
Thanks. That's pretty much what I thought.

[TheThreeOfUs]

Even though I am bi male, i can't think of anything worse than a MMF 3way.
Discuss... :bipride:

There is nothing hotter than a MMF 3way, not even a FFM 3 way can top that one!

[Mrs.F]

Am I the only person here that's posted about MMM 3 ways? Or who has done them?[/QUOTE]



My friend from this site "jo69guy" has had a MMM. He is bi and is in a relationship with a gay man. He said he enjoyed it but really wants to have a MMF. :drool:

[DiamondDog]

My friend from this site "jo69guy" has had a MMM. He is bi and is in a relationship with a gay man. He said he enjoyed it but really wants to have a MMF. :drool:

OK, I was talking more about people who posted on this thread or who post here on this site regularly. I don't know who jo69guy is.

It just seems like everyone posts about MMF 3 ways or FFM 3 ways and there's nothing wrong with liking one, both, or neither.

A bi friend of mine who doesn't post on this site told me about how he had sex with 5 men at the same time! HOT!

Anyway I don't get why lots of men here don't seem to have sex or relationships with gay men or gay couples? :paw:

[Mrs.F]

[QUOTE=DiamondDog]OK, I was talking more about people who posted on this thread or who post here on this site regularly. I don't know who jo69guy is.


Sorry.....I just read your post asking if others had, had a MMM. I thought of him and thought I would mention it. I'll let him know so he can maybe mention it himself. :2cents:

[Trinity-Fl]

Well, excuse the fuck outta me! Having lived the MFM life style for over 30 years I thought I'd heard the last gay guy say something like that.

But... I'm amazed again.

I'd say redo your scale and make it an "8."

CC

[bottomguy]

hmm..i had a threesome with my ex-girlfriend and a friend.unfortunatly he wasnt into men,but i must admit if he was i would loved it to give him oral.to bad!!!!sure would like to do it again with the right people!!!!!

[DiamondDog]

Well, excuse the fuck outta me! Having lived the MFM life style for over 30 years I thought I'd heard the last gay guy say something like that.

But... I'm amazed again.

I'd say redo your scale and make it an "8."

CC

QFT.

We all have our own likes and dislikes.

Who cares if someone else's aren't like yours?

What's wrong with personally not wanting to do a 3 way with two men; but only wanting to do one with two women? Or not even wanting to do a 3 way at all?

Why does it matter to you if someone is completely homosexual, or if they are bi but lean a bit more towards their own gender?

Also since when is being bisexual a "lifestyle"?

[jo69guy]

I have done the MMM thing, it was fun, but I think I would prefer an MMF, or FFM. My ex=wife used to watch me with a guy, but she didn't participate. We would go home after, and have FM sex alone afterword..... :2cents:

[DiamondDog]

I have done the MMM thing, it was fun, but I think I would prefer an MMF, or FFM. My ex=wife used to watch me with a guy, but she didn't participate. We would go home after, and have FM sex alone afterword..... :2cents:

I'd also like to try a MMF 3 way.

I don't really have an interest in a FFM 3 way.

I don't seek such things out, and I don't really seek out sex with women even if I am sexually attracted to them and I've been romantically attracted to some in the past.

But having a MMM 3 way, like the first one was one of my most intense, enjoyable, fun (at times, like when we did bondage with me as the sub), and most powerful sexual experiences I've ever had!

I've had two and the 2nd one was very enjoyable like the first one was.

I'd like to have another MMM 3 way; but I'm picky about who I do such things with and I get to know the people as friends first or I'm usually introduced to friends of friends and get to know them really well before doing anything like I'll get to know them as people, find out their sexual habits, ask them about safer sex/disease status, and things like this before doing anything for the most part.

Also if the people (no matter what their gender) thinks that a 3 way will solve their problems or bring them closer with their spouse/partner when their relationship is doomed to fail I won't do anything since that's the last thing that they should be doing. I'm not a homewrecker or someone who breaks people up. Also, since they are a couple I will have sex with both or at least have both people present.

[dafydd]

But at the same time, don't be critical of those who do enjoy the contact and pleasures of both sexes.

:doggie:

Thanks for your comment, but i don't think i was being critical of others. Just saying a MMF was not my bag. However, I really dig the thought of a FFM. I think I have trouble sharing the male flag, i mean i want to plant it myself. Claim my territory...sniff sniff, yapp yapp. I'm such an idiot.

d :tong:

[dickhand]

I have had the opportunity to do MMF . We all enjoyed it very much . The lady involved said that she had been in the situation with both men being straight and much prefered bi guys . We bi guys are comfortable about being touched by another guy or getting there cum on each other and so forth . Straight guys can be really hinky about that kind of thing making it an uncomfortable encounter .

[arana]

Thanks for your comment, but i don't think i was being critical of others. Just saying a MMF was not my bag. However, I really dig the thought of a FFM. I think I have trouble sharing the male flag, i mean i want to plant it myself. Claim my territory...sniff sniff, yapp yapp. I'm such an idiot.

d :tong:
I understand your feelings towards not being into 3 somes and all but why the double standards? If you're with 2 straight women, that means you get all the attention and that's kind of selfish and not fair to them. If you are with 2 bi women, you still risk the chance that your woman could leave you for the other woman, just as with a male. Women can sniff out and claim territory as good as any man could. just my :2cents:

[DerekInNYC]

Although I have yet to enjoy this, I would love to have my first time with a bi-male to be in the middle of a fantasy between him and his female other. Helping to fill the void in their fantasy would be great, I think so.

[CountryLover]

My one time was actually a MFM with a couple straight guys. However, I must say they were completely comfortable with each other, no flinching if there was accidental/incidental touching. We all had a marvelous time :bigrin:

My dearest fantasy is a MMF with my husband (he knows this). It will probably remain a fantasy that we enjoy sharing during play times. :tong:

[dafydd]

I understand your feelings towards not being into 3 somes and all but why the double standards? If you're with 2 straight women, that means you get all the attention and that's kind of selfish and not fair to them. If you are with 2 bi women, you still risk the chance that your woman could leave you for the other woman, just as with a male. Women can sniff out and claim territory as good as any man could. just my :2cents:

I don't think it's double standards, just a preference. Why is it selfish to want all the attention in a one off threeway? It's a fantasy. It's not like I would do it everyday. I've often also got off on just totally pleasuring someone else ..... besides yet again, don't misunderstand me...I think it's more about wanting to occupy the male space then being afraid of a bi woman losing interest in me. :bigrin:

[dafydd]

Well, excuse the fuck outta me! Having lived the MFM life style for over 30 years I thought I'd heard the last gay guy say something like that.

But... I'm amazed again.

I'd say redo your scale and make it an "8."

CC

I don't understand this comment. How does saying you're not into MFM 3ways make you more gay? Unless this was directed at someone else.

[rissababynta]

personally, i don't enjoy the idea of being in a threesome. i don't find it disgusting or anything. i actually find that it is my favorite kind of porn to watch! but it's just not for me...especially with another woman. i would be a lot more open to a mmf or a mfm. i would prefer to be with a woman solo. but in the end, i prefer being with my hubby solo as well so 3somes do not appeal to me as a part of my sex life whatsoever.


and i have gotten about 20 minutes of sleep and i am just rambling on and on now so i'm done :tong:

[dundeebi_guy]

Am I the only person here that's posted about MMM 3 ways? Or who has done them?
Nope, I've had the pleaure of MMM threeways, albeit a long time ago now. Definately a lot of fun.

Still haven't had MMF, but would love to if my wife was ever so inclined.

[guycurious]

My wife and I have only had the pleasure of a MMF once. Everyone had a great time, no one was left out. It was both MMF and MFM, the best of both worlds if you ask me.

I would LOVE to try a MMM, MMMM, MMMF, MFF but trying to find a decent bi male is hard enough let alone two or even a bi female.

I waited 35 years to explore my bi side. I'm making up for lost time :bigrin:

We would love to find a married, w/ kids, bi-couple who is interested in monogamy so that we could try some things w/out worrying about diseases. I would love to be able to give a BJ to completion and I'm curious about what it feels like to have some orgasm inside me. But it today's world I hold little hope we will find what we desire.

But the search continues......

[subobj]

MMF is definitely at the top of my fantasy list. I'm just now discovering my bi side, so, though, so it hasn't happened yet. Hopefully someday . . .