Very pissed.

[FerSureMaybe]

Subject: "Vergin" :confused: Vergin? What's that?

"You are really on the wrong site, folks come here to share thier sex
life with other people. Try Myspace or something else that's for little
girls who don't get it."


:mad: :soapbox: :banghead: :disgust:

Someone sent me this tonight in an e-mail. I'd like to point out that this person has never fucking spoken to me in their lives. And I'm really fucking pissed off about it.


Let me just say. This is a bisexual community site, not a bisexual "let's get rid of people just because their "vergins" and don't appreciate when horny likely heterosexual guys ask them if they've ever had hot steamy sex with another woman in a really annoying way, so they make a note that it's none of those people's business in their profile" site. I've never once asked anyone not to talk about their sex lives, nor would I.

So yea. At least talk to me before you send me messages asking me to leave, especially when I've never spoken to you, so could in no way be bothering you.

Oh, and, I have a myspace :) . Thanks.


Sorry, to the people that I love and care about on here, about this rediculous rant. But, I'm :mad:

[Da Doctor]

sorry to hear that kiddo . It is sad that there are people like that still.

[FerSureMaybe]

sorry to hear that kiddo . It is sad that there are people like that still.


Thanks. Seriously, because I'm a virgin? What stupid reason is that. Just because I don't want to be a doormat for STDs and teen pregnancy, because even if you're as careful as humanly possible, it can still happen... And because I want to save it for someone worthy? Eh, whatever. :rolleyes:

[DiamondDog]

Yeah some people are just dickwads.

Ignore them as they just want attention from you and writing a nasty reply or whatever just gives them that power over you.

I had one really old guy from my area send me a nasty PM about how based on my profile he can somehow tell that I'm "really gay" and that I should just come out now.

Whatever. I'm queer and yeah I probably do get more attracted/infatuated about men and I do happen to have/want more sex/relationships with men than women; but he shouldn't act like he knows me better than I know myself.

At least I don't bareback (unprotected anal sex) like this guy who sent me the nasty PM does, and let people fist me without latex gloves, like he does. :rolleyes:

This is all going by his personal pics that he posted where he is shown having cum come out of his ass and being fisted by someone without the woman/man wearing a glove, and he's wearing neon pink dayglo briefs and trying to be younger than he is.

[FerSureMaybe]

This is all going by his personal pics that he posted where he is shown having cum come out of his ass and being fisted by someone without the woman/man wearing a glove, and he's wearing neon pink dayglo briefs and trying to be younger than he is.


lol. :tongue:

[vittoria]

Yeah some people are just dickwads.

Ignore them as they just want attention from you and writing a nasty reply or whatever just gives them that power over you.

.


i happen to agree verily with my "bowie-esque" named friend here...

number one...
he (or she) needs to learn how to spell if they want to have a valid point while insulting someone
but that is irrelevant

this is a community where the bisexual and the bicurious should be able to go and exchange ideas, gripes, hell maybe even phone numbers a, make friends, etc...

the is absolutely NO REASON why some "amazing random act of human" ( to be polite) should have to single you out for judgement just because youre young, or whtever life choices, based on WISDOM, you chose to make...

sounds like someone has an internal issue with their OWN ants and didnt like the fact that whatever you said didnt fit THEIR personal agenda...

these ppl who were 50-60 left me a message talking about how they disapproved of my profile because it specifically said that i dont like cyberfreax and ppl the SAME AGE AS MY PARENTS trying t o message me about sex, trying to get in my pants, etc...if i dont like that its MY BUSINESS... apparently those ppl were pissed cause they didnt have a chance

so F@#k 'em

[FerSureMaybe]

i happen to agree...
so F@#k 'em



Thanks, Vit. <3

[biwords]

Sorry you had to put up with such crap, Fer! The author of that PM is the one who doesn't 'get it'.

[FerSureMaybe]

Sorry you had to put up with such crap, Fer! The author of that PM is the one who doesn't 'get it'.


Thank you, and don't apologize. You're not an asshole. <3

[Skater Boy]

Don't let 'em get to ya! Like you said, the only prizes for being slutty are STDs, and you don't have to have had sex to know your sexuality well. And I'd like to think that EVERYONE is welcome on this site.

[Azrael]

Screw them. That is all.

[arana]

these ppl who were 50-60 left me a message talking about how they disapproved of my profile because it specifically said that i dont like cyberfreax and ppl the SAME AGE AS MY PARENTS trying t o message me about sex, trying to get in my pants, etc...if i dont like that its MY BUSINESS... apparently those ppl were pissed cause they didnt have a chance

so F@#k 'em

Agreed Vitt, everyone has their own personal preferences. You don't tell them what or who to enjoy why should they tell you. Nothing wrong with older, younger, whatever if the two are consenting adults but don't give someone grief if that's not their cup of tea.

Fer if you want to to wait for the right person, more power to you. Anyone that tells you that you don't belong here because of it is the one that needs to get a clue. Sexual stories is NOT all people come here for. Support, friendships and so on are also part of it. You have never stopped anyone from doing or saying what they wanted...maybe an odd comment here and there. :tong: This person must have a thing for you and if you didn't let them pm you in chat at some point they got offended and sent you this message.

[Enoll]

I always thought this little community was more about sexuality than sex lives. If I'm right in thinking there's a difference.

[meteast chick]

I for one have never thought of this site being all about sex. In chat do we kid around about sex? Sure. Do we talk about movies? Yeah. Do we quote Shakespeare? On occasion. Do we sing songs for no particular reason? OH HELL YEAH!!! AND...do we hug and kiss our friends when they come in and sometimes for no particular reason and or reasons that are completely NON sexual? DAMN STRAIGHT!

I suppose this time I'm glad thatn a**hole's remark didn't get you down, and that you spoke up. I've had the chance to see you in chat and you seem just find and dandy. So you're young. Big deal. I'm not ageist. I think there are just people in here that like to see what rise they can get out of other people. Drew has created a site that is like my 2nd family and I'm not about to let some wayward hack try to destroy that unity.

Luv and kisses,
xoxoxoxoxoxox
meteast

[GreenEyedLady(GEL)]

Don't take it to personal sweets , I got an email from someone here it said I didnt know this was a site for Dogs. lol Im not sure if he honestly felt my looks are much like a dog or if he was talking about mr weener man's picture. Reguardless , when i went to reply to badbob's email it came back to me. Some people are just simplely assholes who like to take advantage of certain situations. I'm sure its bound to happen again. Shrug it off sister :)

[Lisa (va)]

OK. We have virgins, bi-virgins, gay, bi, bicurious, straight folks here.
It's really ok to be any one of them, you do not have to live up to the expectations of others, not should others expect you to. Granted you get the strays once in awhile, but ask yourself are they worth getting stressed over? I have a bad habit of saying that bisexuality it not so much the act, but a way of perceiving others as people, not their genitals.

Lisa

hugs n kisses

[TashaSW]

I too got an email from someone who told me I shouldn't be here if I wasn't looking for just sex, cyber, web/phone sex.

True when I FIRST came to the site thats what I thought and wasn't even gonna join.... but I read posts, people post stuff they would talk about every day.... (jobs, feelings, homelife....etc)
So I joined :) Soon I grew to just ignore idiots who think this is a STRICTLY SEX ONLY site.

I like this site cause of how real people are here... they want to be your friend, not someone to have sex with (although its personal choice if the 2 people meet and want to have sex)

For me, I lots of friends here :) thats all I need, I don't think I'll find love on this site and it does seem unlikely but that is ok... the important thing is, I have friends here and thats all I need. :)

So just ignore and block people who email you stupid stuff..... don't say anything, you'll just be giving them reasons to keep upseting you cause THATS what they want... just ignore them and they'll move on.

Tasha

[FerSureMaybe]

This person must have a thing for you and if you didn't let them pm you in chat at some point they got offended and sent you this message.


Nope, this person has never tried to speak to me in their life before that e-mail.

But thanks Arana, and others.

[the mage]

Well I must say that any one coming here for real hook ups is taking a really long shot, for cyber, well thats fine, each to their own, not my thing personally..typing is so mundane.
(...note to self.....I swear I'll get a cam one of these days..then we'll see)
But, to hassle someone for taking, or not taking, part in a given activity on here is just plain dumb.

A community message board like this means many things on different levels to us all, for some sadly it becomes a method of accentuating the size of their asshole :eek:

[Skater Boy]

Besides, I just noticed that you are only 18 years old, so it doesn't surprise me that much that you are still a virgin. I was still a virgin when I was 18 too. Don't sweat it.

[TashaSW]

I was a virgin till I was 22 :) -- By intercourse "quickie" only.

Im STILL a lesbian and oral virgin :)

[Herbwoman39]

I was a virgin til I was 19 and I'm STILL a bi-virgin.

The person who PM'ed you isn't worth your time. Don't sweat it. *Everyone* is welcome here.

[TashaSW]

I was a virgin til I was 19 and I'm STILL a bi-virgin.

The person who PM'ed you isn't worth your time. Don't sweat it. *Everyone* is welcome here.

Ummm not "everyone" is welcome here Herbie.... those that enjoy sex with animals OR kiddie porn are NOT WELCOME.

(except Chook and his Chicken)

Tasha

[FerSureMaybe]

Ha. Chook and his chicken are always welcome. :tongue:

[BiDanielle]

Gee, in England "pissed" means horny. Are you really very pissed?



Subject: "Vergin" :confused: Vergin? What's that?

"You are really on the wrong site, folks come here to share thier sex
life with other people. Try Myspace or something else that's for little
girls who don't get it."


:mad: :soapbox: :banghead: :disgust:

Someone sent me this tonight in an e-mail. I'd like to point out that this person has never fucking spoken to me in their lives. And I'm really fucking pissed off about it.


Let me just say. This is a bisexual community site, not a bisexual "let's get rid of people just because their "vergins" and don't appreciate when horny likely heterosexual guys ask them if they've ever had hot steamy sex with another woman in a really annoying way, so they make a note that it's none of those people's business in their profile" site. I've never once asked anyone not to talk about their sex lives, nor would I.

So yea. At least talk to me before you send me messages asking me to leave, especially when I've never spoken to you, so could in no way be bothering you.

Oh, and, I have a myspace :) . Thanks.


Sorry, to the people that I love and care about on here, about this rediculous rant. But, I'm :mad:

[darkeyes]

Gee, in England "pissed" means horny. Are you really very pissed?
It dus?? Jeez..an me jus thought it meant bein outa me skull or ragin mad or havin wee.... mazin wot me learns every day.... :tong:

[darkeyes]

Ha. Chook and his chicken are always welcome. :tongue:
yea jus as long as e keeps it in is trousers Fer..tee hee :bigrin:

[spartca]

Maybe he should take his whining to bisexualcomplaints.com? ;)

[canuckotter]

Well, I think it's been thoroughly covered... lol... but yeah, there are tons of people who come to this site for reasons other than sex. Unfortunately, some of those come here to display their idiocy for all the world, but meh. What can you do? Tieing them to a tree, smearing them with peanut butter, and flinging angry chihuahuas at them is illegal... :tongue:

[FerSureMaybe]

Tieing them to a tree, smearing them with peanut butter, and flinging angry chihuahuas at them is illegal... :tongue:
That would be so much fun though... :bigrin:

[Studley2000]

I always thought this little community was more about sexuality than sex lives. If I'm right in thinking there's a difference.
Words of the wise from down under. Well said. :)

[Pensive]

I'm a virgin =D. I guess it has more to do with my upbringing than anything else, but I'm not really ashamed of it, and I'm fine with waiting for sex until I can do so without risk of STDs, unwanted pregnancy, or other upleasant consequences. Seriously, there's lots more to life than sex.