View Full Version : Any permanent threesome situations?
BiGirl87
Jun 8, 2007, 2:17 PM
Hi there! Im new to the forums. Trying to find more people like myself, and getting advice on various things.
I have been bisexual my whole life, but fighting it due to standards enforced by society, embarassment, etc. etc. In high school and college, I had a couple of different girl/girl experiences, and dated a girl for about a year that I fell deeply in love with, but we split up when I got married the first time, and my husband was not ok with it.
I am now re-married to a wonderful man, who is very open and accepting of my bi-sexuality. I have gotten to be friends with my first girlfriend again, and we are just as much in love and happy together as we were the first time. My husband and I and her now have a relationship, and we're thinking about her moving in with us.
Has anyone had this kind of relationship? Curious to find more people that are doing or have done this.
TheThreeOfUs
Jun 8, 2007, 6:03 PM
Yes! And its awsome :) As long as your hubby and your gf get along well and theres no jealousy issues youll do fine. Everyone has disagreements now and then, you just work them out like you do in any marraige or relationship to make it work. I wish you all the luck and happiness you can handle!
*pan*
Jun 8, 2007, 8:08 PM
hi kind of, were in a threesome me and two woman , they are getting very close and good friends and it's working out perfect, had a little trouble with jealousy at first but that bridge has been crossed and is behind us now. we've been together now for 1 1/2 years and things just keep getting better. we all contribute so we're actually living better then if we we're seperate. i am bisexual and they both accept me for what i am, and say they wish they met a bisexual guy years ago lol.
:three: :flag4:
deletetacount123
Jun 9, 2007, 10:26 AM
I think it can work if all 3 of you work on it.....
Make sure there is TONS of communications.... yes, its natural for everyone get jealous a little, so everyone should be able to talk about whats bothering them so it can be worked out so everyones happy.
It also takes a lot of trust :) And comfort levels too :)
But remember commuication is the important factor in ANY KIND OF RELATIONSHIP :)
Tasha
hizzy
Jun 11, 2007, 3:02 AM
You're the best baby!
I can't wait to move in!!
I know we'll all be really happy together
:female: :male: :female:
And thanks to everyone who replies!
Your comments are SO welcome
welickit
Jun 11, 2007, 12:01 PM
Give it a try and see where it goes. We had an ongoing relationship for several years but all living together wasn't right for us. At mid-life you tend to have formed habits, likes and dislikes that aren't always good for that type arrangement. In our case it is two men and one woman. We all get along great both in and out of the bedroom but full time 24/7 just isn't right for us. We discussed it and all decided it just wasn't for us. We wish you the best of luck.
TheThreeOfUs
Jun 11, 2007, 12:33 PM
You're the best baby!
I can't wait to move in!!
I know we'll all be really happy together
:female: :male: :female:
And thanks to everyone who replies!
Your comments are SO welcome
Awwwww thats so sweet!!!! :) Hope it works out as wonderful as we have!!
mouse46
Jun 11, 2007, 3:07 PM
:bibounce: Hi, I'm currently not in one now as yet! But a few years ago my hubby and I were in a relationship with another woman for 4 years living together. We had kids and the 24/7 did finally take its toll on the relationship. It was wonderful at the beginning, but as time went by jealousy stepped in, ending everything. Its hard to keep things from getting that way where love is concerned and children as well. There comes along alot of pressure and unnecessary and sometimes thoughtless arguements.But life goes on and new relationships come and go.Finding a new love to interest both is always exciting along the path. Good luck to those who have found that someone to share all the things life has to offer. :2cents: Thanks Micky