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Trojanwarrior83
Jun 7, 2007, 4:45 AM
Hi everyone, I'm new here and I'm was wondering if anybody could offer me some advice on this little situation I'm (sorta) in. :tong:

A few weeks ago, I'm about to take my parents to the airport, when my neighbor comes over to talk to me. Now before i continue lemme just give you a trip down memory lane...

Ive only spoken to her (my neighbor) a few times, we've made small talk, talk about general things, and then usually we would be like "see ya later". There would be some occasional compliments she would throw my way that kinda came out of the blue, like "oh you have such nice teeth...I'm so jealous". But i usually brushed it off because i didn't think it meant anything. Now i tell ya, shes pretty hot. Id be lying to you if i said i wasn't thinking of somehow trying to get her into a 3some with me and my gf. but anyway on to the story...

so she comes over as I'm loading my parents bags onto the car when she asks me: "hey listen i was wondering, i baked some cookies. Do you wanna come over later and have some?". my response: "uuuuuuhm...yeah just give me 30 min"

now this totally caught me off guard cause she has never asked me to come over or hang out or nothing. Now my first question is...did she really want me to come over for just cookies? or did she want the cookies to lead to something else?

Now the other day, she calls me completely out of the blue to ask me how I'm doing cause she hasn't seen me in awhile. We made some small talk and that was pretty much it. But once again, I was completely like "Whaaa?". When it comes to these little things, I'm not always on alert. But I'm hoping there might be possibility that she may be bi.

And now question 2: lets just say she did wanna do more than just cookies. what would be a good non offensive/non perverted way to find out if shes bi or not (without pissing her off of course) and possibly enticing her into the idea of a 3some with my gf?

SexyTanBiBoy
Jun 7, 2007, 1:14 PM
It sounds like she is already paving a road so to speak. Try being open, honest, and real! There are far to many fakes in this lifestyle. Sounds like she knows what she wants, see where it goes. Basically, it's nothing ventured, nothing gained.

DiamondDog
Jun 7, 2007, 2:08 PM
What if she's just being nice and this isn't an invitation for sex at all?

I sometimes kinda get annoyed how people think that if you're just being friendly/corteous/nice to them that it automatically means that you want them sexually. LOL real life isn't porn/fantasy. hehehehe

I'm not talking about you Trojanwarrior, but just how people in general seem to think this.

Anyway even if she IS bi what if she's not into 3 ways or having sex with more than 1 partner?

I mean personally, I do happen to sometimes be into all male 3 ways (if I am compatible with a couple and we're all attracted to each other and good friends and we communicate a lot) and I'd be open to having a male/male/female 3 way.

But I get annoyed when male couples just ask me out of nowhere for a 3 way with them, when they never give me any hints that they're into having 3 ways/group sex or that they even have an open relationship, or that they're both even interested in having sex with me!

What's all this about a "lifestyle"? I hate that word being used for my sexuality, and I hope that it gets banished from describing queer people and queer sex.

It's not like I want a Male/male/female 3 way, a book of Anais Nin's erotic fiction, and an REM CD. Or an all male 3 way, a book of Allen Ginsberg's poetry, and the newest Scissor Sisters CD! LOL

welickit
Jun 7, 2007, 2:30 PM
To be honest we both think you are on a fantasy trip and you are reading something into her signals that she is NOT sending. What does your girlfriend think? Or is she being kept in the dark? Based on your very limited profile and your first day posting we would bet you are very young, inexperienced and living in your own little world. No offense intended but you send off the signals, we just pick them up on this end.

chook
Jun 7, 2007, 3:49 PM
If what you say is true?????..................What the hell are you waiting for..... a hand written invitation!!!!!!! :rolleyes:


Cheers Chook :bigrin:

arana
Jun 7, 2007, 4:26 PM
Does she know you have a gf? Have you given her any encouragement that shows her you might be interested? You don't give much detail on your own relationship other than you want a 3some with this woman so it's hard to tell if maybe she might think you would just dump your gf for her.

DiamondDog
Jun 7, 2007, 9:41 PM
If what you say is true?????..................What the hell are you waiting for..... a hand written invitation!!!!!!! :rolleyes:

Cheers Chook :bigrin:

LMAO Some of you guys read WAY too much into things and seem to have watched too much porn and read too many erotic stories/Penthouse fiction written by men. LOL

Just go ahead and tell her "hey babe, wanna fuck? Wanna have a 3 way with me and my girlfriend? You're bi or if you're not now you will be after you're with my girlfriend since ALL women want other women, they just don't know it!" see how far that gets you. :P

BreeIsMe
Jun 7, 2007, 9:53 PM
Hey, Trojan
It sounds like you have a potential friend. I agree that it may not be sexual at all but just being friendly neighbors. THe best advice as always is just be honest. Find out about her and talk about yourself. If things go beyond that you will know...

Bree

Azrael
Jun 8, 2007, 2:30 PM
LMAO Some of you guys read WAY too much into things and seem to have watched too much porn and read too many erotic stories/Penthouse fiction written by men. LOL

Just go ahead and tell her "hey babe, wanna fuck? Wanna have a 3 way with me and my girlfriend? You're bi or if you're not now you will be after you're with my girlfriend since ALL women want other women, they just don't know it!" see how far that gets you. :P
Brilliant as usual :bigrin: