bi sexual partners

[dibbspixie]

Just wondered how many bisexuals also have bisexual husbands or wifes?

Do bisexuals attract other bisexuals without realising it?


Personally my wife(sriad) and i are both bisexual, but we didnt know that the other was when we first got together.

[Mrs.F]

I think it must just be luck! :) There does seem to be alot of couples on here who are both bisexual, BUT there are also alot on here secretly because they can't tell their spouses. :2cents:

[Tingly_Tickles]

I dunno and have no clue I personally have been with straight girls, bi girls,
bi-curious girls, and gay men only I have yet to attract a bi man, but seeing
that I wanted to be with a woman more than a man it didn't matter to me what
sexual preference they took to.

I honestly like gay men instead of bi men only probably cuz I haven't actually
been with one but who knows I could be wrong I guess.

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[redheadhoneycat]

When my husband and I met we started as just friends and quickly became best friends and still are 13 years later. Very soon after we met I tiold him I was I was bi....and he laughed and said he knew that.He picks up on that easily.He did not tell me though until recently. It was never anything we talked about even though we have gay friends. It was weird though we watched Broke Back Mountain (I had never seen male gay porn before that point) and when they made out he could tell I became arroused.Then a male friend that lives a few states away told me about an oral experience he had and I told my husband about it and he could see that it turned me on and that I had ordered some gay and bi porn. Then he told me that he had an oral experience in college and would love to play again. So we are both bi and I think it is great. It is a huge turn on for me and I am so glad he told me :) :bipride:

[elian]

I dunno dibbspixie, I would hope so but to be honest I get tired of dwelling on this issue .. and I do that a lot while I'm seeking a partner. It gets tiresome being alone sometimes but I don't want to make the mistake of getting married to a STRAIGHT person and then realizing that's not who I want to be with.

I think one way to get around this is mentioning in ads and such that you are bi up front - that way the people who aren't interested need not apply.

Although I'd imagine that if I fell in love THAT hard with someone "out of the blue" then maybe orientation wouldn't matter as much to me as the person's other qualities.

I swear, I think too much - just need to go out and LIVE my life..

[PolyLoveTriad]

My husband and I are both Bi, we didnt know until we had been dating for a while and the first night living together we told each other about being Bi.

I think Im incredibly lucky to have been so perfectly matched :)

[Johnny Reb]

My g/f and I are both bi of course. When we met, she only considered herself lesbian, but that changed when she entered into a relationship with a guy. She and I became good friends. At that time she considered herself straight, and I considered myself straight (but knew I was bi in the back of my mind), but I had no feelings for her beyond friendship.

We start dating, and talking marriage. During that time I came to understand and accept that I am bi. I do not tell her, but planned on it. Meanwhile she also accepts she is bi. Today we both know of each other's orientation, and will likely get married.

[DiamondDog]

Yes.

I'm convinced that bisexuals can tell who is bisexual and who isn't.

Call it telepathy, bidar, gaydar, or whatever you want but it does exist at least in me.

I've had other friends who met in crowded gay clubs and they both turned out to be bi.

I've also been able to easily tell if someone is bi or not based on seeing their picture and I've been able to tell who is and who isn't in crowded hetero and queer bars.

It seems random but there's no way that it is since I've been able to tell who is and who isn't tons of times.

People also read me as being bisexual but I don't really care about that.

[Hornycouple8]

it´s realy true, I saw that many people who are bi also come together with people who are bi, too. It must have something to do with the attitude towards some points of life, that makes people feel sympathy for each other.

In my case I did not know my husbend was bi. He himself didn´t know. And I married him without knowledge of that just falling in love with him. But he knew about my bi-ness and accepted it. But we are living in a very open kind of relation from the very beginning and it didn´t change, since we´ve married.
And we used to have some hot partys with other people, when my hubby first got to know about his bi-part within. Maybe it came, because the couple we met both was completely bi and the other guy really seduced my hubby.

But we both didn´t regret anything and to see my husbends face, when he tasted the other men´s cum the very first time was really great and hot and I even love him more from this moment on.

[SexyTanBiBoy]

Yes.

I'm convinced that bisexuals can tell who is bisexual and who isn't.




I tend to agree. I can usually tell. while I have been with completely gay guy, I find it far more arousing and provacative to be with a bi guy or couple. As for my partner(s). All have known, or do know. Those that are comfortable with it are still around. Those that weren't are long gone. If they can't deal with it, they're not worth having around.

[pasco_lol_cpl]

AndYouMake3, your situation some what mimics ours in that we had dated for ages before we finally came out to each other. It was exciting to know that luck (or my gaydar that seems to work only on women) had brought us both together.

[Not2str8]

When I came out to my wife, some five years ago, her reaction was somewhat short of the total acceptance I had hoped for. It nearly broke us up. But after realizing that I was still the same person I'd always been (albeit with one major difference), she began to realize that my bisexuality was no threat to her or our relationship. She is still the focal point of my life. After a year or so, one day she came to me and said, "guess what....me too." She now credits me with giving her the courage to look at herself honestly and to realize her own bisexuality. (You could have knocked me over with a feather.) We have progressed to the point that just last weekend we had our first MMF threesome, with full participation on her part. I believe she enjoyed it every bit as much as I did. Life takes some strange and often wonderful turns sometimes, but I could never have hoped for what has happened to us. We are closer now than we have ever been......and the journey continues.

[innaminka]

My wonderful, gorgeous, loving husband is as str8 as a Roan Road.
My bi-sex is the one aspect of our lives together he has no grasp of.
He has accepted it - not really embraced it - and provided I don't bring it into our home, he is more than reconciled to the fact that that occasionally I act upon it.

When we met and married, i thought I was a wonderful hetero gal who just happened to have a real appraciation of the female form.
My coming out came later.

[anne27]

My hubby and I ahve been together longer than some of the folks on this board have been on the planet. We neither one totally realized and accepted our bisexuality until we were in our thirties. I'm 42 and he's 43 now and our life together is a very good one. We share so much and are very supportive of one another's sexuality.
I do think that perhaps the little spark that makes us bi is part of the attaction. That openness to try new things and experience life to the fullest is an incredible attribute, in my opinion.