Swingers.... question

[Lorcan]

Ive hear the terms "hard swap" and "soft swap".. what do they mean? just curious.

[TaylorMade]

I think it's the same delination as used in porn. . .

Hard - - penetration included.

Soft- - penetration NOT included.

*Taylor*

[billy_campbell]

Common Types of Swinger Lifestyle :

Soft swinging – This is involves in watching another couple during sexual relations. It may also include foreplay with other partners, sometimes including oral sex, but no vaginal penetration will takes places. Soft swinging can add spice to a couple’s relationship and allowing them to have fun without the risk of jealously. Many couples start off with soft swinging as this is a good way to explore a swinger's life style.

Closed swinging – This is where partner swap, but have sexual intercourse in separate rooms. Closed swinging allows couples and individual for a more intimate experience. Many people feel this allows them more freedom to explore with fewer interruptions of their enjoyment.

Open swinging – This kind of swinging allows partners to swap and have sexual intercourse in the same room, or bed. This includes orgies and it is great for exhibitionist and voyeurs, who can show off or just enjoy watching their partner play. Many swingers find open swinging allows for total release of their sexual desires and fantasies. An open swinging is successful when all members in the group demonstrate no jealousy.

HARD CORE
A swing party or swing engagement where sexual interaction is assumed and expected.
HARD SWINGING
(see HARD CORE)

SOFT SWINGING
A swinging party where sexual activity is available, but is not required, or expected. Also used to describe swapping up to but not including intercourse. (Also see Hardcore)