confused2
May 18, 2007, 10:32 PM
You all that have ever replied to my confusing threads have or tried to tell me I need to figure out what I want and deal with it or she's palying games or report what's happening at work to higher authority or figure out my feelings for her or move on to better things and stop letting her pull my chain. WELL ALL OF THE ABOVE IS RIGHT AND YOU'VE ALL BEEN RIGHT!!!! It's just taken me longer to realize what's happening and to know what I have to do to let go and today I figured out more: She graves attention and sometimes has to be the center of attention if not she does or saids something to get it. She cares about me and this male student and wants attention from both of us eventhough she is married, whatever she does or saids she does so no one can repeat or does or saids it to the point you have to read in between the lines to know what she is talking about. She likes me a lot but because she has this thing about allowing people close to her she keeps me at a distance but the male student she allows him to tell her what he wants to do to her sexually and laughs about it, I wish she would realize it, it does not look good for her to be doing that and maybe oneday and I hope it does not happen this student is going to be so high that he will not care what he is doing or saying towards her and because she has been encouraginit by laughing with him about it he thinks it's okay and when she saids no to him, he just might want to do something else to her which I do care does not happen to her. It's not jealousy, I DON'T WANT HER HURT OVER THIS SILLY MESS but I've said what I feel about this, now it's all up to her to deal with it. THANKS SO MUCH TO EVERYONE AGAIN, SORRY IT TOOK ME SO LONG TO REALIZE WHAT TO DO AND WHAT WAS HAPPENING.I KNOW IT'S BEEN ANNOYING WITH MANY POSTINGS BUT YOU JUST LISTENING AND GVIING ME YOUR OPINIONS AND ADVICES HAS HELPED SO MUCH!!!!!! THANK YOU ALL AGAIN FOR HAVING PATIENCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :female: