Spicing up your life

[arana]

The spices for cooking question made me wonder what else people do to spice up their life and make it more eventful.
What do you do to spice things up between you and your partner? Do you have a special technique that never fails?

Just Curious :rolleyes:

[Michael623]

I like to "spice" up my sex life by trying to stimulate my partner to reach down into the deepest parts of their sexuality and bring up those things that excite them to most. That is what I want sexually.

[m.in.heels&hose]

Great topic arana

around the house , things are never boring (i told gina that when we got married) but to spice up the love life, it never fails when i play with her nipples! (this is a direct line to her "happy button")

and whipped cream and playing hide the cherry is always a good one too


:2cents: m.in.heels&hose :cool:

[SweetAmy]

Seeing that is impossaible to get with a bi female. I resort to watching downloaded clips off of the internet or renting dvd's :(

[gina42]

great subject arana...
i do a few things that drives MIHH into being a horny toad,hehehe....

if we are going out for the nite i will dress up nice,i wear a tight top,most of the time it will be a sheer one with no bra and a nice skirt(always short)with garder and stockings and leave the panties off and a nice pair of shoes...
or
we can be anywhere,the store,walking,fishing in his boat, :bigrin: :tongue: ect and up comes my top and i flash him my boobs..there not small and still perkey for 42,lol and yes i have been caught bye other before and i dont care it just turns hubby on all the more..

[csrakate]

My hubby and I have many things that spice up our life but some I would prefer to keep between the two of us for obvious reasons. But one thing we do like to do is to go into a crowded bar/restaurant and act like we are meeting for the first time. The biggest kick is noticing the faces of those around us who are obviously eavesdropping!! The more they notice, the more we play it up. And since we are both very good at being dramatic, we can play this scenario to the hilt!!! And of course, I come off looking like a very easy mark!!

Once we get home, we get very familiar with one another once more....can be fun and I would highly recommend it!!

[wanderingrichard]

gee lets see; frank, open verbal comminucation, " c'mere baby lets get nekkid' has helped a few times, cuddlin on the couch just teasing each other with little tickles and nips here and there, also being very vocal in the throes of passion, just letting it out verbally has really helped with one or two partners. urging my playmate on, such as "yeah , c'mon, get that" really worked..

last g/f, we used to watch the people around us, "hey look at that one" " no thats not my speed" type thing , pick attractive or interesting people as fantasy playmates for each other...read xandria or adam and eve catalogs together, cruise places like lovers package, castles mega stores online or in person for toys, or even people watch there [ we were actually approcahed by one couple in a castles, which lead to a several month mutual exploration of each other..]

meeting a gay friend one time time at applebees, we sat side by side in a booth and held hands over drinks.. the wait staff pretty much freaked, but sex that night..whoa!

over a bottle or two of good wine, just me and my partner or in a very small intimate group, open frank discussion of what you like and dislike, what new things do you want to try etc...putting on a low budget porno, turning the sound off and everyone "critiquing' the story or the physical acts [ which can be truly hilarious with the right people present] sharing erotic books and stories... holding hands just walking thru the area around pike place market at the ren- and -alt-faires, going to alternative bars where you are less likely to be out of place and mingling, [and by the way, any alcohol is drunk in the privacy of home, ] a little bit of dress up role playing, emailing erotic stories to my partners when they are down in the dumps...

well you get the picture

[arana]

was going through some of my old threads and thought I'd bump a few up to see what the newbies had to say.

[wanderingrichard]

gee, arana, talk about bringing back old memories.!!!!........and yes, i still do those things, just now with different partners