being very bi?

[DiamondDog]

Just curious is anyone else here very bi (that's how a friend described me) to the point that when they masturbate and have sex dreams that they'll wind up thinking about both genders even if they don't want to?

Or they'll be having sex with one gender and think about the opposite gender of their partner?

I read an article in Advocate magazine about a woman that is like this:


But when I am with a woman I fantasize about having sex with a man, and when I am with a man I fantasize about women; this is my body’s way of creating balance.

Anyone else here like this?

I'm either like this in that I'm equally attracted or I'm so into men that I don't want anything to do with women at all.

[Azrael]

Oh my yes. My impulses confuse the bejesus out of me.

[12voltman59]

I am pretty much this way too-I never know from one time to the next which way my fantasies will go--now instead of trying to fight them or make a value judgment about them--I just go with the flow!!!!!!!! GRooovvvyy maaannnn!!!!!

[dans94]

Great question, I never thought about it. Usually, mostly, I'm so focused on the particular body part that that's all that's on my mind. I might lean more to the gay side though because sometimes when with my wife I think about 'that certain part of the male anatomy'. :bigrin: Especially when I'm sucking on her clit.

[Abbey Road]

I`m glad I`m not the only one who does that! I seem to do it all the time. I find it sooooooooo enjoyable.

:bibounce: :paw:

[DiamondDog]

I`m glad I`m not the only one who does that! I seem to do it all the time. I find it sooooooooo enjoyable.

:bibounce: :paw:

Just curious whose post were you agreeing with mine or Dans94's?

[ohbimale]

I can relate to this. When I am with a woman I fantasize about men. When I am with a man I think about women. Lately I have been dreaming about both sexes. During the day I admit to thinking about men more than women. And sometimes when I am with a man I think about how it would feel to be with two or more men.

[Tingly_Tickles]

hhmm can't say that I've ever thought about it myself I mainly think of my wife
but when I see a damn hot guy yea I think about him for a bit then go about
my day.
Only time I think that I've thought about being with a guy while with my wife
is when she grabs for the strap-on.

[scubaman]

Think of my wife unless she is describing what she would like to see when watching me have sex with another guy. That is hot!

[afterdark75]

i would say I am very bi, I get plenty of both and love both but have to admit I love feeling a cock near me in me or in my lips. It makes me so horny to know I am gonna get it.

[jb1rd900]

I would have to that I am very bi. I actually had a mixed gender dream last night and damn was it hot!

[the mage]

I'm very actively Bi and I guess a bit different from previous posters.
I'm in a LTR with a fine babe and when I'm playing with her I very rarely fantasize about men. When I masturbate and watch porn I think about being done by men. I crave the feel of cock as it is a different thing than play with a woman, so I go get it. Fortunately my Lady understands and I'm allowed.
I never play with other women unless my Lady is there and playing along, that would be cheating. I play with men separately.

[Remetan]

I like both, but go through phases on the whole which one I am attracted to more. Mostly it is equal attraction. Sometimes it's men. Sometimes it's women.

[b1s3xu4l]

Oh yes! It is hard to live in a binary world where you constantly have to limit yourself. It drives me crazy. Gives me unsettling dreams, as well as very vivid fantasies. If I had both dick and pussy fairly regularly, I'd be so much more relaxed about everything.

Still, it has taken me some time to realize this about myself and not just write it off to random thoughts. One of my first sexual thoughts was at camp, though, when I was an early teen; one of the guides was a few years older, had some indian or hispanic ancestry, and such glowing skin. I caught myself staring at his ass in the shower. It was soo well formed. And I had this feeling of desire that was completely dissassociated with gender. I just wanted.

[Abbey Road]

Just curious whose post were you agreeing with mine or Dans94's?
I`m agreeing with your post. I often wondered if anyone else did the same. The first few times I thought like that I was wondering why I was thinking like that. Now I just enjoy it.

Abbey Road. :bibounce: :paw: