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jo69guy
Apr 14, 2005, 8:35 AM
I myself have had more female than male partners, but am happily living with a gay male. I would call my experience moderate, having had a few one timers with a few guys.

Probably my biggest fantasy is to be having oral sex with a woman, while my parter is doing me from behind. Has anyone done this? I would love to hear about it! :bibounce:

str8biguy38
Apr 14, 2005, 6:34 PM
I haven't had very much until lately. I had a similar Bi experience.

I met some friends for diner and after we ate we went back to their place to play video games. while my buddy and I played the games his wife disappeared up stairs. When she returned she was wearing a long cloth robe but I could tell she had stocking on underneath. My friend and I tired of the games turned the TV on and there was a "Real Sex" episode on. We watched this for about 15 minutes and then his wife said enough of this soft porn and put in a DVD.

It started out with a man and a woman going at it and by the end of the first seen we were all getting a little hot and horny. My Bud had a large bulge in his pants. I had never thought about him in this way but my mind was soon racing about his body. We had showered together after golf and I know he has a real nice 8 ½’ cock and it never looks really soft. Tan and built.

The second seen had another man and woman but she was wearing a strap on. Now keep in mind that my friends do not know I’m Bi-sexual. Watching this woman giving her man a good fucking, got me so hard that I thought I was going split my pants wide open. In the middle of this seen I looked over at my buddy and he had his cock out and was stroking it, I acted surprised. He asked me if I minded and I said no, secretly wishing he wouldn’t stop. When the third seen started it was two men stroking each other and my buddy said that if I needed relief to go ahead and take care of it. Before I could say any thing his wife got up and came over to were I was sitting and started taking my pants off and playing with my cock. This really felt good as she used her finger nails to lightly stroke and scratch my balls. I lay back and close my eyes to enjoy this treatment. As I lay there I feel a warm breath around my cock, just before it is sucked in a nice warm mouth. I open my eyes expecting his wife and to my wonderful surprise it was him giving me the best blow job I have ever had. As I get close to cuming he stops and his wife stands up and removes her robe.

As I gaze up at her nice round firm bests, I completely miss the 8” black strap on she is wearing. My buddy has made his way to all fours with his ass staring at me. His wife rubs some lotion on my cock and tells me to start fucking him in the ass and I eagerly do so. She then rubs some lotion on her strap on and then my tight ass, this makes me pick up the pace on my buddy. I then feel the head of her man made cock pushing on my ass when I back stroke. She never thrusts on me, she just eases closer to me and lets me determine how deep and how fast. Before I knew it I was thrusting him as hard as I could and pushing back on her even harder. We go at this for what seems like a long time when it was really only about 15 minutes before we all climaxed together. After about a 30 minute rest and cold drink we switched positions and went at it again and again.

Things went so well I have rented a room from them and the three of us have sex 4 to 5 nights a week. It would be seven but she has to work late two nights a week. My buddy and I have found ways to entertain ourselves and things are just humping right along. I don’t know how much this qualifies for experience but It’s a learning curve that you’ll love to be on!!!!

biluvdove
Apr 14, 2005, 7:03 PM
Wow, is all I can say! Ok, that was an expereince. Not much to answer your posted question but dreamingof that day. ;)

Snafu
Apr 14, 2005, 8:45 PM
I was going to answer the original question, but after the first reply I can't remember what the question was!

Now I have to go.............ummmm...

................turn on the air conditioning. ;)

Brian
Apr 14, 2005, 9:20 PM
I was going to answer the original question, but after the first reply I can't remember what the question was!

Now I have to go.............ummmm...

................turn on the air conditioning. ;)LMAO!

:bipride:

- Drew :paw:

spamer-man
Apr 14, 2005, 11:20 PM
well i myself am some what new to the hole "BI" scene i was straight all my life yet have never a single experians with a woman (yet), then i realized i was bi and met a great man and have only had experiance with him (so far) but in the next 15 mounths i am thinking that will majorly change on both side.

bigballsbiguy
Apr 16, 2005, 1:48 AM
Very little. I've jacked a couple of guys and had oral with a couple of more. I love oral and my biggest fantasy is to be with a married bi couple and go down on both of them. Licking them from stem to stern so to speak. mmmmm

tscraver
Apr 16, 2005, 12:23 PM
my ultimate fantasy of having oral with a man and a woman finally came true recently. OOh how I enjoyed feeling her mouth on my cock as I sucked him lightly . I have had more female partners but lately my luck has reverted and I find it's sometimes easier to find a guy to play with. Have been with this couple I mentioned while I was partly dressed as a crossdrsser. the man initaited the contact and the wife wanted to see us in action so to speak. have played with and sucked a few cocks in the past fews years. very little pussy available

Brian
Apr 16, 2005, 12:30 PM
I wonder how many bi folks are "late bloomers" like me - what I mean is most of my same-sex experiences happened after I turned 30. And the vast majority of them are in the last 4 years alone (I am now 39).

bigballsbiguy
Apr 16, 2005, 12:42 PM
With me it was one experience when I was young and then starting again in my late thirties. I've heard this is common.

seniorguy
Apr 16, 2005, 12:48 PM
actually none except for 3way sex with a M/F couple which included M/M interaction directed by her.

foreverbisexy
Apr 16, 2005, 10:50 PM
Hey all,

Ok, maybe being a female, I shouldn't be responding to this LOL but what the heck why not...

I think it is easier for woman to "find" someone, I started having experiences as a teen, but you know what has changed for me? Is I am starting to think of NOT dating straight men... because all they "understand" about the "BI" thing is "threesome" or "talk to me about it" LOL same with the woman... I either find Gay or Straight "curious" ones.... So I decided when I date someone again Male or female, I think they are going to be BI like myself so I don't have to explain myself and vice versa with them, they just "get it" (and dating another BI would mean I don't have to "choose" which one I like at the time so to speak....) does that make sense? Anyone else feel that way?

And after reading that AWESOME story ... man oh man (no pun intended) that just reaffirms it for me! ;)

jo69guy
Apr 18, 2005, 11:29 AM
Thanks to all who have replied, and keep those stories coming! :flag4: :flag3:

biboyfriend?
Apr 18, 2005, 7:02 PM
The more I read all your stories the more I am wanting to start experimenting with my sexuality again. And I know that I have a bi boyfriend I hope I can open up to him about my fantisies.
Funny, I had my one an only 3some when I was in my twenties. now Im 31 and devorced and I want to explore my sexuallity again!
Ive been down on a woman while getting it from behind from my exhusband and that was my one experience.
Me and my husband were very experimental with our sex life. We did it all. I mean all! I did him with a strap on, he did me with several dildos and himself. Hes dressed up for me and I for him. But we only talked fantisies when it can to letting someone else in. And it was always his fantisy about seeing another big black cock doing me while he watched!
I told you had experiences!!!
Love,
The experienced girlfriend with a bi boyfriend who doesnt wanna come out to me! (yet) ;)

Splenda
Apr 23, 2005, 11:48 AM
I've only had mouth watering pussy so far. I've licked it 'til they've screamed themselves hoarse and have pounded it 'til they've blacked-out before, but haven't yet found a great couple or available guy to pound my ass 'til my brain was blowing out of my ears! A [very] few guys have desperately wanted to, but I'm the ol' fashioned type that would like some type of "chemistry" with 'em, anyone know what I mean? I'd personally like to emotionally "click" with someone before I start swallowing or bending over. I'm not talking necessarily about life-long companionship, but about a certain personality magic that I've experienced once or twice that never really went anywhere either into my pants or into theirs or anywhere else...

Brenda2005
Apr 23, 2005, 12:37 PM
I've had a lot of bisexual experiences..i've been with a lot of females, no 3somes though..i don't do those..i like to have a woman all to myself..lol..i'm going thru a dry spell now though

Tom41bimwm
Apr 23, 2005, 1:22 PM
I've had seven bi experiences...first when i was 20. I have mostly been the one who gave oral sex. I've j/o with all of those guys. Mostly with guys of color, but have no preferences. All of them were fine.

Sparks
Apr 24, 2005, 8:21 AM
I experimented as most kids did growing up. But I'm a late bloomer too with most of my experience after 30 with the greater precentage being in the last few years. I'm 49 now.

BiMOhio
Apr 25, 2005, 1:39 AM
My first sexual experiance was with another guy at age 12. We got naked together and only touched each other. I have been heterosexual since that time with several partners {although I have been propositioned by guys on several occassions but did not respond due to social pressures}. My sister in law, who is several years younger than I mentioned that two of her male friends had sex together. The thought of this excited me and I became very bicurious. I was always attracted to guys (especially in speedos) but dismissed these feelings to " wishing I had a body like that". As I became more aware of my true feelings I wanted to explore my sexuality more. With the aid of my computer and this web site I was able to find another male to try this new experiance. We had oral sex and J/o together and I became very aware of my homosexuality. I am also a nudist and went to a nude gay swim party. I met another male and he j/o me in the pool while a few other guys were in the pool also; it was real HOT. I am married and love my wife and family very much. I really enjoy sex and love being with my wife but sex with a guy can be very hot with no emotional ties. As far as threesomes or mmf I am not so sure because emotions and jealousy can become a real problem. One example would be: what if a married couple have another male come (no puns intended) into their relationship and he has sex with the wife. The wife really enjoys sex with the other guy. The husband may develop the feeling of not being sure he can "please his wife" as much as he wants too. Although she may be perfectly happy with his love making; the husband may always trying to "compete in his mind" with the other male. The moment of sex in a mmf situation is probably very hot and exciting at the sexual moment and im sure many would like to try it, but be aware of the emotional feelings after the sexual feelings are finished.

supair
Apr 25, 2005, 7:59 AM
First experience was as a teenager with an older couple, hooked ever since. While most of my experience is hetero, have done mm, mmf, mmmmf. Am very oral and enjoy pleasing both.

BIGIRLONLINE
Apr 28, 2005, 2:27 PM
As a married bi-female I have had more experiences with couples and single women with my husband than with girls by myself. All of which I like. I would like meet other bi-females who are interested in friendship and fun but find it hard to meet them out in the open. How do bi-woman pick each other up?

sesquipedalis
Apr 28, 2005, 2:52 PM
Alas, my experience is only with toys.

I turned down an opportunity to meet a really hot couple this weekend and fuck each other's brains out, because there was a girl back at school who I really liked and wanted to ask out, and I figured that was more important at the time. She said no, so now I'm really kicking myself.

Soon, though! Soon I'll finally satisfy my fantasy...I fully intend to make up for lost time and go at it for as long as it takes to try just about every position imaginable for two guys and a girl...mmm...

If you guys want an erotic story I can write what happens after I get around to it. :p

mike9753
Apr 28, 2005, 3:10 PM
I went to a gay bath back in the 60's - before HIV/AIDS. Did not know what it was before I went in, but learned very quickly. Got groped in the whirlpool - groped back and felt my first cock other than my own. Tried the steamroom next - it was dark, excpt for the outside light shining thru the steam room door. I could see three levels of steps, with a guy on the top step getting blown and the guy blowing him was getting his ass rimmd at the same time. He in turn was getting fucked. As I watched, a guy in the darker corner of the steamroom began to blow me and caress my balls. I didn't want to cum yet so I pushed him away and went down on him. He was soft and did not get hard, so I stopped after a while and left.

I met a guy in the hall who took me to a large room with mats - we sat down together and began to play with each others cocks. I looked around and there were pairs and 3somes all around fucking and sucking. We got into a 69 and blew each other. Then I left - felt very remorseful and waited 15 years until I tried something with another guy again. In between I got married had kids and got divorced.

I had a great time in that bath house and over the years have come to terms with the fact that I like sex with men, but I love sex with my female partner better. I love women and for me that makes sex even better when I have sex with the woman I love. I don't love men, so the sex is a pure expression of my lust. Sometimes I need that.

delpark
Apr 29, 2005, 4:42 PM
When I reached puberty, a friend in the neighborhood introduced me to blow jobs and masturbation. :) We would suck each other and jerk each other off. That went on for a summer and we drifted apart. I wish we had stayed close. I love the feel of having another man's cock in my hand. Over the intervening years I have had some brief encounters. The older I get, the stronger the urge for gay sex becomes.

I was once in a threesome, with a man and wife. My hand brushed the husband's cock and it felt good. Not knowing how he would respond, I refrained from pursuing sex with him and focused on his wife. I kick my self in the butt for not exploring his boundary.

I've suggested to my wife that another man in bed would be fun, but she has said she was not interested, one man was enough.

I wish my gaydar/bidar was functioning. :flag4:

kenny
Apr 30, 2005, 2:02 AM
I recently had an experience that I think will be enjoyable to hear.
My ex girlfriend and I had a great sex life. She knew I was bi and always wanted to see me with another man. We could never come up with the right guy so it remained a fantasy. After we broke up she met another guy and they would call me so I could listen to them having sex. They wanted me to come over but I could not because of my kids. This went on for a couple of months until I finally had an opportunity. I was housesitting for a friend and called her. I told her to come over with her BF. When they arrived we had some drinks, then she said,"let's go upstairs". When we got to the bedroom, we all got naked, him sucking her tits and me going down on her. then he laid down and I started sucking him with her watching. It was such a turn on. He had never been with a guy, but was very receptive. While I was sucking him, I asked her to join me, so we took turns. I still fantasize about this. When she fell asleep he and I went to the backyard and were talking for a while. I asked him if he wanted me to suck him and he said no. Then about 5 minutes later he asked if I would. He was on a patio swing so I knelt down in front of him and started going down. Then he said ,"lets go inside". On the couch inside we got into a 69 till we both came. After she woke up he denied to her that anything happened, but I know different!!!

kenny
Apr 30, 2005, 2:10 AM
I recently had an experience that I think will be enjoyable to hear.
My ex girlfriend and I had a great sex life. She knew I was bi and always wanted to see me with another man. We could never come up with the right guy so it remained a fantasy. After we broke up she met another guy and they would call me so I could listen to them having sex. They wanted me to come over but I could not because of my kids. This went on for a couple of months until I finally had an opportunity. I was housesitting for a friend and called her. I told her to come over with her BF. When they arrived we had some drinks, then she said,"let's go upstairs". When we got to the bedroom, we all got naked, him sucking her tits and me going down on her. then he laid down and I started sucking him with her watching. It was such a turn on. He had never been with a guy, but was very receptive. While I was sucking him, I asked her to join me, so we took turns. I still fantasize about this. When she fell asleep he and I went to the backyard and were talking for a while. I asked him if he wanted me to suck him and he said no. Then about 5 minutes later he asked if I would. He was on a patio swing so I knelt down in front of him and started going down. Then he said ,"lets go inside". On the couch inside we got into a 69 till we both came. After she woke up he denied to her that anything happened, but I know different!!!

Ratchick
Apr 30, 2005, 1:23 PM
I wonder how many bi folks are "late bloomers" like me - what I mean is most of my same-sex experiences happened after I turned 30. And the vast majority of them are in the last 4 years alone (I am now 39).
Drew-
When I was in college I dated a couple of women, but didnt ever get to the point where I had full-on sex with them. Then I met my now, EX-Husband, so that ended any Bi experience I coudl have while with him. When I was 29 I left him and thus started to really "Bloom". I was 31 before I had my first full-on Bisexual experience. I am a late bloomer too. I know a lot fo my bisexual freinds are "late bloomers", as being Bisexual they tried to have hetero realtionships for a while.
That's just me.
I haven't had a lot fo experience....But thats just because I am so damn Shy.
RC :flag4:

bixbi
Apr 30, 2005, 11:35 PM
I had my first bisexual experience in junior high when a friend and I fooled around on the football field at night. I was definitely the aggressor as I kissed him and then opened his pants. I loved the fact that in spite of his passivity his cock was really hard when I began to touch it and he came right away when I began to suck him.

Most of my subsequent experience has been pretty random. Got picked hitchhiking and the guy really like me so he took me home with him and gave me a great blowjob. Also have had oral sex with guys I've met in bars and once got blown by an older man in a peep show booth. After I came, he spit my jis into the corner like he had phlegm. For some reason his nonchalance was a turn on.

Almost all of my experience has been hetero, aside from these random events. My girlfriend really wants to watch me kiss and have oral or j/o with another guy while she watches but it is pretty hard to find anyone to do that with. Likewise, I really want to see her with a woman but that seems to be equally difficult.

SpicyMeatBall.JS
May 6, 2005, 10:36 PM
I have had mote female lovers than male, I don't know why, I guess I just enjoy being intimate with women more than men, but I still love me man, and still want him more than anything. I think guys when I was younger turned me off cause sex was a conquest for them, but I found that girls and women just liked doing it for those why are involved. :tongue:

Heartless01
May 9, 2005, 5:50 AM
My awareness of my bisexuality became apparent to me while in high school. I was not in the least in doubt about it.

My best friend at the time and I were secretly "together" and no one was the wiser ... or so I believe. I was as mad for her as any teen could be for another person.

I have only had a few bisexual experiences after that. I chalk that up to an absolute need to at least be able to speak more than a few sentences to someone.

So, early acceptance....but still a late bloomer.

Curious2knowmore
May 9, 2005, 3:35 PM
I have only had the short lived childsplay experience in my early years of learning about sex. Mostly touching, j/o and brief oral but never had the nerve to go all the way. I have only had str8 sex ever since and never really thought about being with another man. For the past 10 years and with the increase and ease of getting sexual content from the web, I have noticed for that some reason I have always been intrigued by Bj’s and down the hatch come shots and facials. Not so much for seeing the women giving and receiving but more for the cocks and come. When I ran across a few gay and bi sites I became more aware of how I felt when looking at the str8 BJ photos. I would often wonder what it would be like to be in her place and feel him in my mouth and coming on my tongue or down my throat. Then I realized that I have deep bi-curious feelings.

I am 37 and have been bi-curious for about 4 year now, so I guess you could say I am a late bloomer too. I married a couple of years ago and revealed my fantasy to my wife after 3 months into it and our marriage ended abruptly. She wanted nothing to do with my fantasy or me after I had revealed it. Now I am dating a woman that is open minded. I have told her about my fantasies as well and she seems to be willing to let me live them out and participate in a 3some if we are able to find the right person. My g/f is Str8 but is willing to let another woman go down on her but is pretty much set against going down on another woman though. Her biggest fantasy is to be with 2 men and if we can find an open minded or bi guy, we could both live out our fantasy

My fantasy is to have another guy or couple over for diner and drinks. After a couple of hours have past, shift the conversation to sex and if it’s with another guy, have my g/f flirt and tease a lot to get things going. If it were with a couple then we would pop a Bi-flick in the DVD and see where it led.

I would like to have my g/f start giving a guy a BJ, share it with me and have me finish it. I want to be fucked in the ass and I want to eat her pussy while she is being fucked and suck his cock when it slips out of her before helping him back into her cunt. Then have a Bi-sandwich with each getting fucked. :rolleyes:

She seems to enjoy the thought of watching me blow another guy and/or getting taken. She wants to watch me give a b/j and see him shoot his load in my mouth or see it dribble down my chin. She also feels I should experience the full extent of giving a b/J from soft to hard to come to soft again. I would also enjoy watching her with another woman and even suggested 3 or more guys for her or us to fulfill her fantasy. Maybe even a bi-orgy with several couples, a few extra guys and lots of toys.

Maybe one day we will get a chance to live out our fantasies. I think we would both have fun with another person or 2 and if we could get a couple to join us we could fulfill all our fantasies in one night. Weather or not we did it again would depend on how much fun we had and if either of us liked and if we enjoyed watching the other getting taken by another person. I’m not sure if I would like to taste someone else’s come but I am willing to too test it out and see. So far, going down on her after intercourse doesn't bother me, so it’s hard to say. I guess you never know until you try. ;)

snarfaloo
May 26, 2005, 9:33 PM
Haven't been able to fulfill my fantasies of being with men and women at the same time, but I have played 1 on 1 with both. Done most "vanilla" stuff with women (kissing, oral, intercourse), but haven't tried anal yet. With guys, I've tried kissing, oral and receiving anal. Also played with a transexual once :bigrin: That was definitely interesting. Still waiting to try the elusive (for me) MMM 3some, bi MMF 3some, MFM 3some, and all bi orgy. :tong: but maybe I'm being too ambitious :cutelaugh

Nic Kers
May 30, 2005, 8:26 PM
My first experience with another guy was when I was around eighteen, I know this sounds silly, but I was a little niave and more or less conned into sleeping in the same bed as this guy I was visiting. All that happened was that he sucked me off, I didn't touch him and I was a little confused... Next one was a threesome with my wife (I got married aged 22) and another guy when I was in my mid twenties, now that was interesting! Then in my early thirties I answered an ad from a guy in a sex magazine and we sucked each other but there wasn't much to it and I didn't really 'fancy' him at all and I think he sensed it despite my efforts - we called it a day and I went home! Several years went by and I always seemed to have a girlfriend (I was now divorced from my marriage of nine years) I am so into women, but over the years from time to time I've had a yearning for some cock in my mouth and to have mine in another guy's. Then about eight years ago I met a woman through the same magazine and she was great fun - we used to meet up every couple of months or so and drink wine and fuck each other silly and have a great time - I could wear my stockings and suspenders as well as my knickers... M,mm! Our sex sessions went on like this for over five years. Then one night she called me up and said she was entertaining another guy and would I like to come along. I think I got a cab all the way across London with a couple of bottles of sparkling wine to add to the evening. He wore stockings and suspenders and knickers too - wow!
Brief, forgive the pun, description. I fucked her with his cock going between her mouth and mine, she sucked me off while I sucked him. She fucked him with a strapon while he sucked me. I sucked him while he was licking her cunt. There were lots of giggles and it was all amazing fun and so, so, so fucking hot! A few weeks went by and we did it again, and a few months later we did it again with a different guy this time and he really was a nice guy. That was over three years ago now, my last bisex experience and definately the best and I do so want some more mmf.....

Nic

Carpdeim1
May 30, 2005, 11:13 PM
My first oral with another male was when I was about 12 years old! My second was when I was about 50. Since then I have had many oral experiences with other men. Oral and anal. Now, at 65, I find that I love sex with men and women about equally. And I mean any kind of sex! But none of it has any emotional attachment - just fun. I still love my wife and prefer sex with her if I have a choice since we have an emotional connection in addition to good sex. She is the world's best at oral sex. QUESTION: Am I out of the "ordinary" or not?

ex trucker
Jun 5, 2005, 2:28 AM
Amazing as it may sound, in all my years on the road and all the time I spent away from home, I never experimented with other men until I hung up trucking for good. I had some chance encounters but very near the end of that career I met a guy through a phone chat line and I have been seeing him off and on for about 18 mos now. He is my age, [45], and gay. While I am a married guy and very happy with my wife and sex life, more on that later, I find sex with a man to be incredibly exciting and a huge turn on knowing this is something just for me alone,for now. I'll call him up on a weekday that I have off and we'll meet at his place and the anticipation has me leaking in my shorts until we are together. We are long past awkward small talk, we get right into it with some hot kissing and rubbing of crotches. We move to his bedroom and we strip, getting into a hot 69, and I just gobble his 7 inch piece of meat like it is the last meal I'll ever have. I firmly believe that only another man truly knows how to suck cock and it is probably my favorite thing to do as I'm not really into anal. We get a a lot of juices flowing when we jack each other off and when we can't stand it any longer, we go downtown with a vengence! He'll ask me to come on his hairy chest so I can run my cock through the cum and then when he is ready to shoot I tell him to stand over me so I can drink him down as he splashes all over my face. There is nothing quite like the taste of another man's cum and I swallow it hungrily. We lay there, exausted, savouring the sweet,salty taste.and revell in the manly contact. and then just like that, we say so long and see each other again whenever, sometimes months apart. Until my wife and I explore possibly the swing scene, my encounters with my buddy will be for me alone. I love sex too much to limit myself to just marital sex and who knows what the future will bring? But I know this much:, after 18 good and happy years, we, and I, are just getting started. We are online for the first time and it is going to open a whole new world for us. But I will keep calling him and possibly making contact with other men from time to time because I like the taste of cum too much!

BiMWM4Cples&men
Jun 5, 2005, 10:51 PM
I have had quite a few experiences since I found out I was bi about 6 years ago. One of my most pleasurable experiences was at a porn shop in Little Rock, I was in a booth, watching porn when this guy came in and watched with me. I asked if he wanted to fuck me and I handed him a condom. He fucked me hard and fast for a few minutes and then stopped. I asked him if he had cum and he said no. So, I removed the condom from his hard cock and took him in my mouth. I sucked him long and slow for some time until he came in my mouth. I enjoyed the taste of his cum and swallowed with pleasure.
Another time, I was in Vegas at a porn theater, getting fucked and sucked by two guys at the same time. It was the most intense orgasm I had ever experienced. I came in this guy's mouth and he swallowed it all. Wonderful.

GeorgeoftheJungle
Aug 31, 2005, 4:33 PM
Never done this before. That is tell of my first bi experience. It was awesome! I was 18 and captain of a BB team. As a result I got to share a bed with the only undesirable kid on the team. Someone everyone thought was "queer". I just figured on a good nights sleep before the game the next evening.
I woke up in the night with him fondling my rock hard cock. It felt good so I let him so it until I shot off all over my stomach. He was sixteen, kind of slight and skinny. He rubbed my cum into my stomach while still stroking my cock which surprisingly stayed hard. He kept rubbing his cock against my leg until I finally figured out he wanted me to do the same to him. I reached for and found the littliest cock I've ever seen. It was only as big around as my finger but about 8 inches long and uncut. What a sight! I stroked him as well as I could with my large hand until he finally came. I was only semi hard by this time so he started playing with me again and I was hard in no time. That was when he blew my mind....and my cock too! I'd had girls suck on me but this guy kissed and licked and nibbled and seemed to love what he was doing. I loved it too! I finally shot off in his mouth. He didn't swallow but wanted to kiss me and share the cum with me. I wouldn't go there. Still don't know if I could kiss a guy. But I did suck his little cock peeling the foreskin back exposing this little shiny head which I had lots of fun with. He came again and I swallowed my first. Like it lots! I went to sleep with him fondling my cock. The next night we repeated after the game which we won by the way.
Then when we got home I called his parents ranch and he was "home alone" and invited me out. The parents were gone for the day. We stripped and had more damned fun than we should have been allowed.
Then that was it until I recently married the love of my life. She encouraged me to explore my bisexuality which we did. Sucked some cocks then decided to try bicouples. Have enjoyed three. One guy was shaved and had the stamina of a rock. I could suck on him for days and it seemed like I did a couple of times.
Now the wife has gained weight and isn't all that interested. I still am! And find it difficult to find a married bi guy who wants to play for the pleasure in my area. Miss it quite a bit. Oh...if you access my profile it says I'm TG. I'm not. Don't know how to change that though.

Buck Naked
Aug 31, 2005, 8:35 PM
OK, here's my sordid details, limited as they are:

My first male/male experience was when I was about 8 to 10 years old and one of the neighborhood kids and I would lock ourselves in the detached garage, get naked, and play with each others cocks for what seemed like hours on end. We never brought each other to climax but it was sure fun. It seemed like it would take additional hours for our cocks to relax after those sessions.

When I was about 15 I went camping with a bunch of friends. We had been able to sneak some booze on the trip with us and once the camp site was set up proceeded to get pretty drunk. There were four of us in the tent and the first two passed out leaving me and another guy to continue drinking. We started talking about sex and then next thing we knew we were groping each others hard cocks through our pants. He pulled my pants down and started masturbating me until I thought I would explode. Then he pulled his pants down and tried to force my cock into his ass. Since we were totally inexperienced, we had no conception of lube and there was no penetration. We ended up masturbating each other until we both came. Right after coming we both felt guilty and never spoke of it again.

From age 17 on I was almost always dating women.

The next time I was with a man was when I was 25. I had moved in to a house with a hot tub with a guy. One night we got drunk when he confessed to being bisexual. I told him my experiences with men and the next thing I knew he was giving me the best blow job I had ever had before or since. We repeated this a couple of other times but I was never able to reciprocate.

I haven’t been with a man since but those times have fueled many a masturbation session for me in all these years. Now I’m married and the likelihood of a repeat of these fun times is pretty limited.

djb1981
Sep 1, 2005, 6:07 AM
Despite prefering women to men I actually lost my virginity to a guy, my best friend. He's bi snd during a late night drinking session had told me and some other friends how erotic sex with another guy was for him. I stayed at his place that night, and all I could think of was how nice it would be creep into his bed and take his cock into my mouth...but I didn't. Sigh. Months passed when suddenly it was his turn to stay at my place. He had earlier accepted a proposal from another guy but then decided not to travel half way across the city just because he was horny. i was checking my e-mail when, lo and behold, in came a message from bisexual.com. He asked if I was going to delete the "spam", and I explained that I was looking to meet someone to explore my sexuality with. He said that he would be happy to help if I wanted him to....you guess were this is leading :tong: He was still horny as so we agreed to "expore" that very night. He went to have a shower and I stripped off, nervous but with the biggest hard on of my life. He popped his head around the corner and said that i might as well join him. It's a shame but he was too embaressed to have his friend suck him off, which is all I wanted to do when I first saw his beautiful purple cock, but he let me take him from behind...and that was my first time ever. i have done much more since with both male and female partners, but he still won't let me blow him. Oh well. Still, it has been easier to find make partners, I guess they're more "upfront" about what they want...total tally, three girls and three guys, bit never more than one at a time....any offers? ;)

jo69guy
Sep 1, 2005, 8:39 AM
My first sexual experience was in jr. high, with a friend. It started out with us wrestling on a bed, and when he pinned me, he started to hump me. Over time, we got more intimate, and progressed from j/o each other to eventually oral and anal.

I remember the first time I shot into his mouth, and thought I had died and gone to heaven. Later I allowed him to cum in my mouth, and hated it at first! I ran to the toilet to spit it out. Now, I enjoy a hot load, anytime!

Apleasureseeker
Dec 9, 2005, 2:11 AM
Despite a little experience when I was younger, I wad heterosexual (dunno, maybr still am..) until I was in my thirties. I think a lot of guys don't open up to the possibilities until they get past their girl crazy years, or at least get enough experience to open up to new things. I've always been a bit of a hedonist & like to try things & test my limits, so I'm opening up to bisex now. I don't think one or two early experiences automatically 'make' you anything, and I'mconcerned about young kids who are too fast to take on sexual personae because of fassion or peer pressure.

Anyway, I had a lot of opportunitie to fool around with other boys & sometimes did, but it didn't do anything for me. I was mad about girls! Around college, or maybe after, I was at a party (sex party) with a girlfriend. we'd fucked for a while & were sitting o the floor watching another couple go at it. She was hot & came fast, but I was fascinated watching his body work as he fucked. He was thin & wirry, & the muscles of his back & legs fascinated me. I really wanted to see him come. After he built up a sweat & the gal was yelping & flopping around, He finally butrried his dick way into the gal's cunt & started ejaculating--his whole body locked up on the first explosion, & I couldn't take my eyes off his ass & back, Then he started working hard & grunting ...I felt a tickle on my cock. My girl was grinning at me & running a nail up & down my cockshaft. "You liked watching him--your cock is giving you away.." What could i say, she was right.

Since I've explored peepshows a little bit. I'm not yet comfortable going one-on-one alone with a man, although I've done MMFs and that's fantastic, but awkward sometimes. Ladies, you know nearly every single bi male wants a woman to share the experience, bsuchy women are really hard to find!

Ooohiknow
Dec 9, 2005, 12:56 PM
Still waiting for mine....hope it's as great as some of yours sound ;)

kerryj
Dec 12, 2005, 8:33 PM
Oh man, I have so many stories, but they all happened back in the late 70's and early 80's, so I'm not sure anyone here is really interested in that kind of stuff. Once the HIV deal hit, I figured that I had pushed my luck far enough-it was time to quit. I had never come across an STD with all my playing, and I figured I was long overdue. I tried sucking cocks covered with a condom, and it just wasn't the same for me-kind of like sucking on a latex glove. What else is there-give someone a handjob? Pretty lame after what I'd been through. I pretty much gave up the lifestyle and became monogamous and that was the end of my wild days.

With that said, let me explore a little bit into my bisexual past. After a really bad first marriage, I went kind of crazy after meeting a girl who knew my best friend. We hit it off right away, and I found that she really loved sex. We literally had sex everywhere, even in public. She eventually quit her job as a secretary and went to work in an adult bookstore that featured nude dancers-the money was just too good to resist. She fit right in and began dancing every night. I would go to see her at work in the evenings and found that the bookstore also had some x-rated video booths. I had never seen them before-never been in one. Imagine my shock when I discovered that some of the booths had holes cut in the walls and that there were guys in the next booth who actually wanted to suck your cock right thru the holes. It took me a while to try it, but on one particularly horny night, I gave in to the temptation and received the best blow job that I had ever experienced. Sorry Ladies, no one can suck a cock like a guy can-it just makes sense. Who knows how to please a guy better than another guy? Anyway, to make a long story short, I went on a sexual frenzy and wanted to try everything-including giving someone a blow job, just to see what it was all about. The experience was life changing. I became addicted to cock and spent the next two years visiting adult bookstores several times a week on my way home from work.

I may get the logistics out of sequence here, but it was a long time ago and some of the details are vague. Others are like it happened yesterday- please forgive me. Anyway, at some point during this period in my life, my first dancer dumped me and I started dating one of her friends, who was also a nude dancer in this bookstore. We eventually moved in together and began our life of sexual debauchery. You see, she was also bisexual, and as it turned out, most of the girls she worked with were bisexual. How great is that? I can't even begin to tell you how many fmf threesomes I had the pleasure to experience during this time in my life. It seemed that she was always bringing one of her fellow dancers home for a threesome. I was on total sexual overload between my visits to the bookstores during the week and all our wild threesome parties on the weekends. I was a lot younger then and had conditioned myself to keep up. I found that I was a very oral person and loved eating pussy and sucking cock. As you can imagine, with all that practice, I became darn good at it and the girls would usually come back for more-we became very popular with the dancers. Plus my new girlfriend also loved eating pussy, so we would pretty much leave them in a limp puddle by the time we were finished.

We tried everything sexual that we could find. We were living in NJ at the time. She did some freelance topless work on the side to make extra money. One of her regular gigs was at a swingers club in NJ called the Five Acre Farm. What a wild place that was. They usually didn't allow single guys in except on special occasions, but I became friends with the manager and he let me play there while my girlfriend was working. We had threesomes, foursomes, orgies, you name it. Girls, guys in a big pile. Everywhere you looked there was sexual activity of some sort going on. Don't forget, this was before all the problems with disease. The top floor was the big orgy room where pretty much anything went on. I especially remember one evening when the club booked a group of young male dancers to entertain the ladies visiting the club. My girlfriend started hitting on this real good looking black dancer and we ended up in one of the rooms with him for several hours after they were done working. He was very bisexual, it was great. I know it sounds corny, but I can still picture the muscles in his ass cheeks flexing as he pounded my girlfriend into the mattress. I was rubbing his ass and playing with his balls. I actually felt them draw up just before he came. That was the making of my very first cream pie, although back in those days, we didn't know what it was called. I could write an entire lengthy story about that night and the things the three of us did together.

As strange as it may seem, dancer #2 and I actually ended up getting married, and we gave up the lifestyle for a while. Eventually we got very horny and missed the activity, so we joined a local swingers club. We became very good friends with one couple in the group and pretty much stayed and played with them until we divorced several years later. That was the end of my swinging lifestyle forever. I've been with the same person for 19 years now and am very happy.

So, to answer your question, as to how much bisexual experience have I had-well, it's been a lot. Sorry for such a lengthy answer.

I really love this forum and the people here. I finally found a place where I can speak my mind. Thanks for letting me ramble on and on. Lots of great memories.

kerry

12voltman59
Dec 13, 2005, 12:36 AM
Kerry--you sound like a very interesting person--at least you have had some very interesting and great experiences. One thing is for sure--after reading your story--I know one thing--I have lived a very sheltered life..LOL

Since this the subject of this thread is "how much bisexual experience have you had?"

My bisexual experience is really extremely limited--when I was a very young boy--a neighbor boy and I got together a number of times to "play around," as well called it.

We were both pre-pubesent and as actor Tim Allen said about his experience as a little boy--"we only had little mushrooms then so we could'nt really do anything."

I then had an experience as a teenager--my first sexual experience in which I came with another person--was with another guy. We were both 15.

I had not yet "gone all the way" with a girl at that point and I was more than ready to have sex. It simply happened that it was with another guy.

I won't bore you with all the details but the boy that I had the experience with was the son of one of my father's customers who was almost exactly, to within days of myself, the same age.

Our families had dinner together and I got invited to sleep over at his house. During the course of that evening--he and I wound up doing some mutual masturbation and things went even farther. He gave me a blowjob and I gave him one.

I have to say, I enjoyed getting my first one and I enjoyed giving one--it was something I would not do again until many years later.

I had wanted to get back together with my buddy and we had planned for him to come down to visit me in Savannah. I wanted to take him out to one of the islands off the coast in my boat. We planned for him to come, but he never got the chance. I don't know how it came about, but he had a motorcyle--something I don't think a 16-year old should have--at least not on the road--he had a an accident and was killed.

My next experience came a few years back---at another web chatting site--now gone--I had met another guy and we made arrangements to meet.

He came down from Michigan to see me. Things did not go so well at our meet--looking back on it--we rushed things and did not have a clear sense of what we were looking for. I did give him head--it was good for what it was, but since he came so fast, I hardly had a chance to enjoy it and things went sour from there---so that attempt at meeting another guy was a bust.

I kinda put the desires back into the bottle for a time--but they do keep coming up.

For those who do wonder--I have never married. I came close a few times, but didn't do it. One of them would have been a mistake-the other--I think it would have worked out--she was a wonderful lady. The only thing that stopped us--she was about ten years or so older than me and she had been married a few times already. That was not a problem, her hold up was that "I have already had my children and if we got married you would want at least one."

As it has happened, at least to my knowledge (LOL), I have not yet had any kids and while I have had some fun relationships in the subsequent years---I have not yet found that "special someone."

As I said in another post today--I do not know where my explorations of my bisexual side will take me---I do know one thing--that in future relationships with women and certainly with someone I would marry--she will have to be bisexual as well or at least be very understanding and nonjudgmental about the issue.

Even if I never have a relationship with another guy--bisexuality is certainly a part of my makeup and cannot be denied.

I do feel for those who this discovery has caused such anquish for both them, their spouses and loved ones.

It is my hope, that as a species--we don't blow up, pollute or otherwise destroy this little rock zipping around in space or nature herself doesn't take us out in one of a myriad ways that have been documented in the media of late- a list that includes asteroids, major seismic activity, out-of-control viruses or whatever----that we will come to a time where it doesn't matter what type of plumbing system our lovers have--it simply matters that we have loved each other.

Sounds corny and idealistic I know--but call me a cornball or a dreamer--I don't care---I will wear those labels just like I will wear the label "bisexual" even though at this point I am not ready to come "out" about it--and not that I have too...

Sorry if I rambled too but I had to lay it out there....

69Steve
Dec 13, 2005, 8:11 AM
Not enough! I started by letting complete strangers blow me in public toilets has a lad & had one or two botched attempts at being humped & it hurt like hell. Got to ride some arse around about the same time then kept away from it for 20years until I answered a personal add from someone wanting a submissive inexperienced male…he’s showed me what my pussy can do! We are still working on several things relating to more that two people which we nearly pulled off this year but the guy got cold feet just has we got him on the spit roast but he watched me taking it has he dressed to leave & very shortly after that I missed a prearranged meeting with someone who wanted it has much has me! I thinks the experience is there, I just need more of it in size & numbers….PLEASE!

timepga50
Dec 13, 2005, 10:04 AM
I am 49 and have'nt had a bi sexual experience in some time.Most of my experiences occurred when I was in my twenties and thrites.Though I had done some sex play with my male friends when i was young(11,12) I did'nt have my first real man to man experience until I was in my early twenties.I was seduced by a gay co-worker of mine.He had been trying to get me for a while.We worked with a kitchen staff at one of the office buildings of a major corparation. The building was brand new and most of the offices on the upper floors were unoccuppied.One day during a break,he suggested we sneak up to the fifth floor,which was empty at the time.We found an empty office and closed the door.He opened my pants and started to suck my dick.My wife had given me head a few times,but it ws nothing like this! I came in less than a minute.After that time,we would get together where we could,in an empty office,in the men employee's locker room after work.The first few times he sucked me,but I soon started sucking his dick too.That's when I realized I really,really,REALLy liked having sex with men.When a man sucks your dick,you can close your eyes and pretend it's not really a man.But when you got a dick in your mouth and you Like it.WELL...that's a different story. :bigrin: I would have random experiences at the rate of two a year.Getting sucked off or sucking in booth at an Porn store.Going the gay bar when the wife was out of town.I never had a steady relationship with one guy never really wanted one.Since I turned 40,i've only had two or three experiences in the last 9 years. My marriage is kinda rocky right now.If it does'nt survive,I almost afraid of how I might behave.Because I've never stopped thinking and fantasizing about sucking dick and getting my ass fucked
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Chief8_2
Dec 14, 2005, 4:55 AM
Hey all,

Ok, maybe being a female, I shouldn't be responding to this LOL but what the heck why not...

I think it is easier for woman to "find" someone, I started having experiences as a teen, but you know what has changed for me? Is I am starting to think of NOT dating straight men... because all they "understand" about the "BI" thing is "threesome" or "talk to me about it" LOL same with the woman... I either find Gay or Straight "curious" ones.... So I decided when I date someone again Male or female, I think they are going to be BI like myself so I don't have to explain myself and vice versa with them, they just "get it" (and dating another BI would mean I don't have to "choose" which one I like at the time so to speak....) does that make sense? Anyone else feel that way?
And after reading that AWESOME story ... man oh man (no pun intended) that just reaffirms it for me! ;)
I feel exactly the same as you. I am married to a straight woman that would never understand me even if I tried to explain it to her. I love her and want to keep her but if I ever find myself in the dateing game again they'll be no more straights or gays for me.

Chief8_2
Dec 14, 2005, 5:12 AM
My first oral with another male was when I was about 12 years old! My second was when I was about 50. Since then I have had many oral experiences with other men. Oral and anal. Now, at 65, I find that I love sex with men and women about equally. And I mean any kind of sex! But none of it has any emotional attachment - just fun. I still love my wife and prefer sex with her if I have a choice since we have an emotional connection in addition to good sex. She is the world's best at oral sex. QUESTION: Am I out of the "ordinary" or not?
Nope, you sound very much like me. :bigrin:

Chief8_2
Dec 14, 2005, 5:23 AM
Kerry--you sound like a very interesting person--at least you have had some very interesting and great experiences. One thing is for sure--after reading your story--I know one thing--I have lived a very sheltered life..LOL

Since this the subject of this thread is "how much bisexual experience have you had?"

My bisexual experience is really extremely limited--when I was a very young boy--a neighbor boy and I got together a number of times to "play around," as well called it.

We were both pre-pubesent and as actor Tim Allen said about his experience as a little boy--"we only had little mushrooms then so we could'nt really do anything."

I then had an experience as a teenager--my first sexual experience in which I came with another person--was with another guy. We were both 15.

I had not yet "gone all the way" with a girl at that point and I was more than ready to have sex. It simply happened that it was with another guy.

I won't bore you with all the details but the boy that I had the experience with was the son of one of my father's customers who was almost exactly, to within days of myself, the same age.

Our families had dinner together and I got invited to sleep over at his house. During the course of that evening--he and I wound up doing some mutual masturbation and things went even farther. He gave me a blowjob and I gave him one.

I have to say, I enjoyed getting my first one and I enjoyed giving one--it was something I would not do again until many years later.

I had wanted to get back together with my buddy and we had planned for him to come down to visit me in Savannah. I wanted to take him out to one of the islands off the coast in my boat. We planned for him to come, but he never got the chance. I don't know how it came about, but he had a motorcyle--something I don't think a 16-year old should have--at least not on the road--he had a an accident and was killed.

My next experience came a few years back---at another web chatting site--now gone--I had met another guy and we made arrangements to meet.

He came down from Michigan to see me. Things did not go so well at our meet--looking back on it--we rushed things and did not have a clear sense of what we were looking for. I did give him head--it was good for what it was, but since he came so fast, I hardly had a chance to enjoy it and things went sour from there---so that attempt at meeting another guy was a bust.

I kinda put the desires back into the bottle for a time--but they do keep coming up.

For those who do wonder--I have never married. I came close a few times, but didn't do it. One of them would have been a mistake-the other--I think it would have worked out--she was a wonderful lady. The only thing that stopped us--she was about ten years or so older than me and she had been married a few times already. That was not a problem, her hold up was that "I have already had my children and if we got married you would want at least one."

As it has happened, at least to my knowledge (LOL), I have not yet had any kids and while I have had some fun relationships in the subsequent years---I have not yet found that "special someone."

As I said in another post today--I do not know where my explorations of my bisexual side will take me---I do know one thing--that in future relationships with women and certainly with someone I would marry--she will have to be bisexual as well or at least be very understanding and nonjudgmental about the issue.

Even if I never have a relationship with another guy--bisexuality is certainly a part of my makeup and cannot be denied.

I do feel for those who this discovery has caused such anquish for both them, their spouses and loved ones.

It is my hope, that as a species--we don't blow up, pollute or otherwise destroy this little rock zipping around in space or nature herself doesn't take us out in one of a myriad ways that have been documented in the media of late- a list that includes asteroids, major seismic activity, out-of-control viruses or whatever----that we will come to a time where it doesn't matter what type of plumbing system our lovers have--it simply matters that we have loved each other.

Sounds corny and idealistic I know--but call me a cornball or a dreamer--I don't care---I will wear those labels just like I will wear the label "bisexual" even though at this point I am not ready to come "out" about it--and not that I have too...

Sorry if I rambled too but I had to lay it out there....
very well put. It's amazing how many like minded persons I see on this site. I'm glad I found this place and you all are so open. :)

OralBradley
Dec 15, 2005, 2:14 PM
:flag4: :male: At almost 77, I have had much experience with both men and women. I find that I like oral much better than anal and enjoy sucking a cock or licking a pussy equally we..
The firest real sexual experience that I remember was being called into a stall in a men's bathroom when I was 13. After that I was picked up regularly by guys for sex in movie, parks, cares, and even an occasional apartment.
When I went into the Army at 17, I found that I "shouldn't" do that and started looking for women for sex. The only ones available were prostitutes, but a couple of years later I met a woman who actually fucked for free. We got married and were miserable for 22 years. She did, however, teach me the joy of licking pussy. Unfortunately she had a hang-up that the only way she "should" have an orgasm was via penile thrusting. The overall experience left me virtually impotent.
Eventually we divorced, and I started visiting the gay baths in Palo Alto and SF. At first I just got BJs, but soon tried sucking one myself and found that I could give a man pleasure with my mouth. I spent at least a night a month at a gay bathhouse sucking the hours away.
During the same period I belonged to a new-age type group that held touchy-feely get-to-know-yourself sessions and monthly pot-luck suppers with open bedrooms after. At these I learned that I could pleasure a woman with my tongue and was even in considerable demand at the parties.
Eventually, I met my present wife at a weekend party at a rented beach-house. We got married and were members of Mensa SEXYG for a while. She was aware of my bisexuality (and at times enjoyed a woman partner at parties), and we actually looked for a man to fill a menage-a-troix. Alas, nothing ever came of this.
Older now, and aware of the risk of disease, I am now monogamous, but long for the tase and feel of a cock in my mouth.

Metaluna
Mar 19, 2006, 10:32 PM
I have been with a male/ female couple, a male/male couple twice. I been with a few single men.2 two male/male experiences were pretty intense, and I had my mouth and ass reamed intensely by big cocks, and it was a very fulfilling experience,but it also made me nervous a bit,but I have since gotten over it, when I look back at it it was pretty fun. I also had my throat fucked for hours by an 11 inch cock which exploded all over my face, I was nervous at first about that also, but when I look back it was a great time. If you meet the right people you will have nothing to worry about.

huneypot
Mar 20, 2006, 3:02 AM
loads n loads of both
but still not enough
lol
:bigrin:

Chief8_2
Mar 20, 2006, 5:26 AM
Hey all,

Ok, maybe being a female, I shouldn't be responding to this LOL but what the heck why not...

I think it is easier for woman to "find" someone, I started having experiences as a teen, but you know what has changed for me? Is I am starting to think of NOT dating straight men... because all they "understand" about the "BI" thing is "threesome" or "talk to me about it" LOL same with the woman... I either find Gay or Straight "curious" ones.... So I decided when I date someone again Male or female, I think they are going to be BI like myself so I don't have to explain myself and vice versa with them, they just "get it" (and dating another BI would mean I don't have to "choose" which one I like at the time so to speak....) does that make sense? Anyone else feel that way?
I feel that way too. I'm married to a straight lady but if I had it to do over again I would only date or marry bi men or women.
And after reading that AWESOME story ... man oh man (no pun intended) that just reaffirms it for me! ;)
:flag1:

Tx46M
Mar 20, 2006, 8:25 AM
When I was about 30 a girlfriend confided to me she would love a g2g experience and wanted badly to see 2 guys get it on. Prior to that I never even thought about it. My ex-wife was bi and let me share a few experiences with her & her gf and she also had a strong desire to see & participate with me in an m2m experience. Had my first and only mm in last year. I enjoyed it for the moment, romantically I am absolutely straight but might enjoy an mm or mfm adventure if the circumstances were and I had a female significant other. Lately I doubt I will ever do "it" again as an mm thing. Lately I think since that curiousity has been fulfilled I am cool if it never happens again, and I am not going out looking for "it."
:male: :2cents:

smokey
Mar 20, 2006, 11:49 AM
At 50 with almost 35 years of sexual experince behind me (or in my behind as was often the case :bigrin: ) I can say I have probably screwed a small village's worth of people, male and female...2 or 300 or more, definately not less thats for sure. Lets just say vasaline should probably send me the industral size jar and some company stock as a thank you. :bigrin:

open2both
Mar 20, 2006, 3:33 PM
The first half of my life was about 90% hetero but recently it's flopped the other way. I love women tremendously but sometimes they can go loooong periods without "giving it up" and with other men...no problem. Adding to the problem, I'm one of those overly honest guys and I'm upfront about being bisexual and feel it's not fair to SURPRISE the girl later in the relationship but sadly 99% of the "normal" girls are replused and that's the end of that.
Should I not divulge my orientation so soon or ...?
I'd like some opinions.
Thanks.
D.

smokey
Mar 20, 2006, 3:52 PM
The first half of my life was about 90% hetero but recently it's flopped the other way. I love women tremendously but sometimes they can go loooong periods without "giving it up" and with other men...no problem. Adding to the problem, I'm one of those overly honest guys and I'm upfront about being bisexual and feel it's not fair to SURPRISE the girl later in the relationship but sadly 99% of the "normal" girls are replused and that's the end of that.
Should I not divulge my orientation so soon or ...?
I'd like some opinions.
Thanks.
D.

I tell my lovers of both sexes that I am bisexual at some point early on in our relationship, it varies with the person but I always tell them...I also make sure that they understand, as long as I am with somebody i.e. them, I don't cheat, with members of either sex, now should we break up then all bets are off. Once I do that the ball is in their court. If they don't like it and leave, I am sorry but that is their problem, should they stay, they will find that I have been as honest as I could be. Of course I don't divulge the number of partners I have had, thats none of their business...but I always tell them my STD status which is and has always been negative...either I have been very lucky or the Gods smile on me for some reason....I assume both.

Driver 8
Mar 20, 2006, 4:13 PM
I tell my lovers of both sexes that I am bisexual at some point early on in our relationship, it varies with the person but I always tell them...I also make sure that they understand, as long as I am with somebody i.e. them, I don't cheat, with members of either sex, now should we break up then all bets are off. Once I do that the ball is in their court. If they don't like it and leave, I am sorry but that is their problem, should they stay, they will find that I have been as honest as I could be.
I agree, smokey - all too often I hear bisexuals say "I can't possibly tell my partners, they wouldn't understand." Frightening as it is, and painful as rejection is, I still think we're better off to divulge early. (My rule is before sex.) As you said, they might walk out without giving you a chance ... but isn't that better with ending up in a relationship with someone who wouldn't want to be with you if they really knew you?

smokey
Mar 20, 2006, 5:50 PM
I agree, smokey - all too often I hear bisexuals say "I can't possibly tell my partners, they wouldn't understand." Frightening as it is, and painful as rejection is, I still think we're better off to divulge early. (My rule is before sex.) As you said, they might walk out without giving you a chance ... but isn't that better with ending up in a relationship with someone who wouldn't want to be with you if they really knew you?

my rule is after sex...there's more of a chance they'll stay around for more :bigrin:

mro30
Mar 20, 2006, 10:17 PM
I have not had any experiences, other than my wife and her strap-on. But waiting patiently for the first. :bigrin:

CountryLover
Mar 20, 2006, 10:44 PM
I've been in 3 f/f relationships since I turned 40. There have been a number of short term or one night stands in between.

It's been a journey of learning experiences. Not to take away from our gay/lesbian friends, but I've learned that I am happiest in a relationship with another bi woman, preferably someone who is happily married to an understanding husband.

:bibounce: I've also learned that I have my own version of monogamy - I'm monogamous within the gender. Now that I have my sweet lady, other women are nice to look at, but don't tempt me at all. When I find my life partner, he can count on the same loyalty and devotion.

As for as experiences go, mmmmm :bigrin: I've had some lovely ones. My current girlfriend is married to a great guy and we have had a number of delightful threesomes. She and I have built a very dear friendship that's definitely going to be long term.

Before meeting her in June, a guy I've dated a bit called me and invited me up to his place in the country - his best friend was in town. I still get dizzy remembering THAT night :tong:

I'm hoping to find my life partner in a bi man. As someone mentioned earlier, I want someone who understands from the beginning. All relationships I begin now, start with the open knowledge that I am bisexual, and I do have a female lover who is part of my life.

coknballiker
Mar 20, 2006, 11:45 PM
I have had experiences since I was around 10 but only intermittently. I have been with a couple which was great but never had a man in my ass while licking a pussy. That would be good. However, anytime I have a cock in my ass is great! I would even more like fucking my gf's ass while a guy fucks mine! I would be so in heaven in that position.

wasa_250
Mar 21, 2006, 12:22 AM
My first experience with a guy was when in junior high. A few buddies and I would do the classic circle jerk. We would race to see who could cum first. We then realized the goal should be to last longest. So we tried that, but some complained some guys weren't stroking fast or hard enough. So we started jerking each other. We would sit facing each other, sort of straddling each other, and jerk each other.

One night my buddy and I were drinking and we decide the jerk each other. But he couldn't get it up, and just lied back . I tried to get him hard, when I joked that I could fuck him in the ass from this position. I was surprised when I heard “OK”.I asked if he was sure and grabbed the vasoline. Lubed up and slide it in. Having fucked a few virgin asses since then I realize he must used a plug or something because well it was tight , I did get in fairly easy. I came pretty quick. Then was a little worried he was going to want to fuck me since he was now hard as a rock. So I did what I considered the lesser of two evils and sucked him off. And to my surprise I liked it . I really liked it. We only did it a few more times before he moved away

I had a few more experiences in my early 20's including taking in the ass for the first time. But since then it has been almost all women. And I am really starting to crave cock.

random_chrissi
Mar 21, 2006, 4:51 AM
i have always been attracted to girls since i can remember. my first kiss was when i was 9 with my best friend in her backyard. i have had lots of boyfriends that really don't understand what being bi means to me and my current bf has had 3some on the brain ever since i came out to him. (which will prolly never happen) i have also on the other hand had a handful of great girlfriends that i am still in touch with. girls are just more fun and can satisfy me better...prolly because they know how to please themselves...lol...i am more into guys though even though i will always LOVE girls...lol

Tx46M
Mar 21, 2006, 8:50 AM
I wonder how many bi folks are "late bloomers" like me - what I mean is most of my same-sex experiences happened after I turned 30. And the vast majority of them are in the last 4 years alone (I am now 39).

I had 1 mm exp last year, been "curious" since a girlfriend I was dating when I was about 30 suggested she would love a g2g experience and REALLY love to see 2 guys get it on. My ex-wife was bi and let me share a few experiences with her & her gf and she also had a strong desire to see & participate with me in an m2m experience. Had my first (and only) mm in July 2005. Now I am content to be straight and really have no desire to do the MM thing again.

:2cents:

rumple4skin
Mar 21, 2006, 9:20 AM
I have not had "alot" of partners by some standards but more than others I guess. I was a late bloomer - no doubt. I knew I liked both genders from an early age. Had a bad experience with an older guy when I was 18. Then nothing till I was 31 which was when I accepted that I am bi. Since then I have had more male "lovers" then female. Most of them were more than one night stands. I do find it easier to "play" with guys since most of the women I come in contact with want a relationship in exchange for sex. I tend to be very upfront about what I am looking for. I have only had about 10 playmates and enjoyed all of them except for 1 :)

bts68
Sep 29, 2012, 12:15 PM
I have 28yrs experience in bisexual i have done m/m/m 3x iv done m/m/f 3x iv done m/f/f 3x and of them were great ty.

ErosUrge
Sep 30, 2012, 9:24 AM
I've been bi my entire life....

Magic2Release
Sep 30, 2012, 11:42 AM
Ha - I was a late bloomer..... I used to play with my ass in my late teens and got picked up, and a great bj by a gay male in college, but nothing much until a bout two years ago.... Since then my love for having my ass (and mouth) full of cock has really grown.... I still try to restricte the number of friends and am pretty choosey, but I would have to say abotu 12-15 partners ... A couple of these were couples - both m/f and m/m and I definitely love the addtional attention and demands... lol

darkeyes
Sep 30, 2012, 1:04 PM
.. and so the lil dyke does luff the stirring;)... sed it 1ce before somewhere... so many of these experiences may be because u are a bisexual but whether they are bisexual experiences is at least arguable.. if screwing or having some kind of other sexual activity with a person of the opposite gender is a heterosexual experience then being naughty girl or boy with some1 of the same gender is a homosexual experience is it not? Unless there are at least 3 peeps of 2 different genders involved and all having fun playing with each other's bits dare I suggest that unless u have ever done such a thing then many of u have never had a bisexual experience... and if u have.. but have also had lots of 1 2 1 rumpy with lots of peeps of ur own gender... then if I may be so bold as to suggest u have had a lot fewer bisexual experiences than u believed..:tongue:. I know.. Im just a little smart arse... hope I'm not the bearer of sad tidings and that I've ruined many of ur illusions but what matters is not what u call it.. but that u had fun and enjoyed it...:impleased..

Don't mind me.. I do these things from time to time and some peeps get rite worked up bout it:eek2:.. am just havin' lil fun...:kiss:

NCbigirl
Sep 30, 2012, 1:12 PM
I've had a few bi experiences. I didn't act on my bi feelings until early 30's, but I had crushes on gilrs in school ever since like 5th grade. Anyways, I'll never forget my first time with my first gf. We liked each other and had been talking for a while, but this night we were at a party and we all know, alcohol makes us even hornier than we already are. Keep in mind, up to this point, I was a virgin to girl/girl sex. I was nervous, sure, but also overcome with anticipation. When she asked if I wanted to get somewhere private, it was like my feet couldn't move fast enough to get to my room with her. Once alone, we slowly undressed each other, and I remember getting so soaked while sucking her nipples. I wasn't 100% sure what she liked or wanted from me, but I just went for it. I had always fantacized about giving oral to another woman, so i just did what I had dreamed of...I threw her back on my bed and ate that girl till she was gushing. That was when I knew for sure what I'd been feeling was real..I was truly bi. That was the best damn sex I'd ever had, and oral from another woman is still my favorite thing!! Damn I'm getting wet just tllakign about it.

Magic2Release
Sep 30, 2012, 1:16 PM
Ooh I definitely would agree that bisexual experiences should include both sexes plus me.... that said... there is nothing that would convince me that sex with just one would be enough.... even if I needed to switch between M and F partners just to fullfil it ......

And ya - i do luv a smart pert ass.... and getting rite worked up, worked over etc. ;-)

darkeyes
Sep 30, 2012, 1:19 PM
Ooh I definitely would agree that bisexual experiences should include both sexes plus me.... that said... there is nothing that would convince me that sex with just one would be enough.... even if I needed to switch between M and F partners just to fullfil it ......

And ya - i do luv a smart pert ass.... and getting rite worked up, worked over etc. ;-)
I have 1 of those .. but boys don't get to touch.. *laffs*:impleased

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letsplaytoday
Sep 30, 2012, 5:33 PM
Now that I think about it I guess my first bi sexual experience was when I was about 11 years old I had a friend that was younger and we playing in a large cardboard box in the back yard and all I remember is he was sucking my dick I didn’t return the favor. Around the age of 14 I can remember lying in bed next to a friend that had spent the night at my house and after we woke up he said to me to pull my pajamas down then he proceed to try to have anal sex but we were both to inexperienced so nothing happened. Around the age of 17 I received oral and anal sex from a boy, but I didn’t return favor. It was not until I was over 50 years old that I had my first true bisexual experience and realized how much I had missed throughout my life.

68tallguy
Sep 30, 2012, 9:04 PM
A few years ago I was friends with a couple that I didn't know was bisexual. I had fantasized about it but it never went further than that. We had talked about a 3 way in the past and they had asked if I was up for it. We were all comfortable together so I said yes. I went over one night for drinks with the intention that we were going to have a 3 way. We started making out on the couch and then took it to the bedroom. Once there my friends wife was between us and took her top off. We both licked and sucked her boobs while she took our cocks out. We all got naked and were kneeling on the bed. I would kiss her as he licked her boobs and then she made a 'joke' about a 3 way kiss. I'm open minded so I was fine with it. We were tickling each others tongues and it was more of a turn on that I thought it would be. While we were doing this he reached down and took my cock in his hand. I felt a sudden rush of excitement. This was new and I had fantasized about it. They pushed me down onto my back and they both went down on me. It was amazing!! Then she started riding me as he brought his cock up to my mouth. I started stroking him. It was the first time I had ever touched another man. I was feeling a rush of excitement again as his wife watched this. I took him in my mouth and sucked him slowly as his wife kept riding me. We alternated positions and it was an amazing night. We hooked up a couple times after that but then they had to move so we eventually lost touch. It was such an amazing experience. I can't wait to find another couple to do that with again.

luvtocum
Oct 1, 2012, 6:29 AM
I guess i'm fortunate that for the last few yrs i have had this couple that i'm involved with. He is a truck driver and she a nurse. To many times as he travels, she has his permission to have me service her. When he comes home he calls me and all 3 of us enjoy some awesome sex. She is a heavy squirter and when he pulls his cock out he has me suck off the pussy juice, that is incredible. I often eat her wet sloppy pussy as he slowly fucks my man pussy. The feeling of his 8 in cock cumming in me is a feeling like no other. I enjoy my encounters with them, it just feels so natural with them. The other day as she was working the 7 to 3 shift, he called and asked if i could help him install a counter top, when i showed up we quickly got to work and had everything done and cleaned up. After sitting and having a cold beer, he suggested we retire to the hot tub. We got naked and entered the tub to soak away our aches and pains, well before long he was sucking me slowly and as i was getting worked up in walks his wife and after a nod of encouragement she was naked and joined us. Before long she was all wet and turned on as she and i share sucked Chucks cock. She siad the counter looked wonderful and wanted to reward us. What happend next blows my mind, she had another woman come over for a 4some. That was so intense and both of them really enjoyed watching Chuck and I suck each other and after Chuck filled my willing mouth with his big load our new friend wanted it so i kissed her and gave her his load. She must have been really horned up becuase she then swallowed my cock and milked every drop of my cum. Well after 2 hours of soaking, and some recoop time we all retired to the bedroom for the next 3 hours it was total bliss.

fpb09
Oct 1, 2012, 7:41 AM
Late to the fun, but I've done oral & lucky to have a couple,it was a blast ! LOOKING FORWARD TO KEEP DOING IT & LEARNING MORE AS WELL!

michel
Oct 1, 2012, 11:48 AM
I've been married for 42 years and I've been dating men for over 30 years. Three long-term relationships with men included.

wln1595
Oct 1, 2012, 8:24 PM
So well said, that is exactly how i feel

...over the years have come to terms with the fact that I like sex with men, but I love sex with my female partner better. I love women and for me that makes sex even better when I have sex with the woman I love. I don't love men, so the sex is a pure expression of my lust. Sometimes I need that.