What do you do?

[Fuzzled_one]

When you get mixed signals from a person who you've just told that you're bisexual, and they say its something they cant relate too, yet they say and do things which make you think they are, or at least curious?

Eg:The chic i fancy, well she says its something she cant relate too, yet she looks at me in a different way, says certain things, cant understand it...what do ya do? :(

[Gracy]

You do your best at being patient with them?

[Fuzzled_one]

Is that the best thing to do? I mean i dont know if this crush will go away, im holding onto false hope at the moment, yet i do want to be patient incase there is something she waiting for...?

[jem_is_bi]

I suggest you wait a few weeks so she can think about her feelings about you and her own true desires. Then ask if she has a BETTER understanding of your sexual identity and if she can she relate to it now, even if only a little bit more, than when you first revealed yourself to her. While she may not be completely comfortable with a same sex relationship in the very near future (like now), if she has similar feelings to yours, she will probably admit her view is more understanding and accepting of you.
The key thing to monitor is that positive change in her views occurs at an acceptable rate. Otherwise, I recommend you be just a friend to her and find another to satisfy your emotional/sexual needs.

JEM